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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 17 June 2009: perhaps he's hiding something from you...
you need to talk to him about this because i think what your sister said MAY have actually affected him and perhaps he's cheated? i mean your sister told him you were going to kill yourself because you coul... (read in full...)
My ex might want me back, but what about my boyfriend?
Q. Ok so.. I'm currently in a relationship and have been for 9months, and still feel like I haven't fallen inlove with him or strong feelings for him, in a way I feel I'm being unfair to him because I dont feel the same way as he feels about me. My e...
A. 17 June 2009: maybe this feeling for him you don't understand is there for him is actually the love you do have for him. i don't think he's just telling you he loves you not after 9 months i think he knows it's you he wants and it's you he's going to keep hence ... (read in full...)
I'm in one big lonely mess...
Q. I'm in one big lonely mess and it is getting me so down I spend nearly every night crying. I used to have a really close circle of friends, and even though we went our separate ways after school, we still kept in touch and went out together at the ...
A. 17 June 2009: hun i work with people of different ages im the youngest here at the firm i work at.
i'm 20 they're all like late 20's 30's etc... the only person close to my age is 23 year old and i don't always hang out with them but i organise something if i do... (read in full...)
Insecure myself, and unsure how to deal with a b/f who's into gay porn
Q. Dear Cupid, I’ve got a lot on my mind, so I'm just going to spew words all over the page…. I am in love with being in love; I will do anything to make the person I love happy. I’ve had many relationships but I’ve only had 2 serious relation...
A. 16 June 2009: hun you clearly spend alot of time trying to keep your relationships perfect but honey no-one has a perfect relationship i mean so he watches gay porn and tranny porn this doesn't mean he's gay. i mean some girls get more turned on by lesbian porn ... (read in full...)
What should I write in my crushes year book?
Q. okay, so my crush gave me her yearbook to sign, and i'm thinking now could be the chance to let her know how i feel, but what should i write? any ideas? ...
A. 16 June 2009: tell her how you feel otherwise you'll never know whether or not she feels the same way back :) or say to keep in touch put your number in there. :)
hope this helps. x x x ... (read in full...)
What made her feelings about me change?
Q. I been praying to God that I find that girl that is right for me. And on my friends last day of school, he wanted me to come with him to his school, but as much as i didnt want to go i still went, so when we made our first attempt to go into the ...
A. 16 June 2009: maybe she feels you guys rushed into this too fast? i mean you never know she may just want to get to know you better as friends before actually getting into a relationship. or maybe she found someone else she likes and doesn't know how to tell you. ... (read in full...)
My ex might want me back, but what about my boyfriend?
Q. Ok so.. I'm currently in a relationship and have been for 9months, and still feel like I haven't fallen inlove with him or strong feelings for him, in a way I feel I'm being unfair to him because I dont feel the same way as he feels about me. My e...
A. 16 June 2009: well the way i see it is you and your ex broke up for a reason that reason will always be there and will always come up during arguments. you guys will get back together and forget why you broke up but then when you argue or whatever that reason ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a 15 year old boy...is this wrong?
Q. I'm very confused about something but I'm scared that if I tell someone they'll think a lot less of me, so I'm seeking advice online. I've realized I've developed feelings for a 15 year old child. 3 years ago when I was 18, there was a 15 year boy...
A. 16 June 2009: i don't think it's wrong i mean it's not that much of an age gap i mean i find young lads attractive although i don't fancy them. i mean you keep referring to this 15 year old as a child? why do you do that? why not young lad or something. i th... (read in full...)
What did his early-morning texts mean?
Q. There is a guy at work who I am attracted to. We have a great friendship, a mutual connection, and really enjoy each others company. We've drunkenly hooked up once in the past, but it hasn't happened since. He's asked me to take a class with him, ...
A. 16 June 2009: i don't think it's a bootycall he may have just wanted to text you see how you are or be random as your texts clearly are. 4:45am he probably just meant he's sorry if he had woken you should you have been drifting or anything. i think he likes you ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin out without ruining our relationship?
Q. i have an eye for my cousin who i have been attracted to for 2 years. she is beautiful and i am 1 year older than her. I dont see her often because she lives 4 hours from me. how do i ask her out without making a fool of myself and ruining our ...
A. 16 June 2009: hun you're too young and like it's not legal it's like insest because you are family. you guys are related. your family certainly won't approve. and do you know if she feels the same? she may just see you as her cousin nothing more. she probably ... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed we met on a dating website
Q. Me and my bf met through an internet dating website. I am dreading all the questions that will come from my friends and family when they ask "how did you two meet?". I feel a bit embarrased that thats how we met. People often associate sleezy people ...
A. 16 June 2009: Hun you just say yeah we met on a dating site. nothing to be embarressed about i mean your parents can't judge you you're 20 years old it's your life and you live it how you want too now. you're an adult you can make your own choices. i mean i ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and sister got into a fight...how to fix this?
Q. I went to my sister's fiancé's birthday with my girlfriend of 4 years. My sister and girlfriend don't get along that well for reason, They fight until me or her fiance break it up. My sister can't have any kids because she had a eating disorder in ...
A. 16 June 2009: why don't you try talking to your sister and girlfriend separately perhaps is safer and find out why they have such issues with eachother?
maybe if you find out why they are being like they are towards eachother then you can perhaps sit them in ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to say I love you to her because I'm afraid she'll end things
Q. hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into. i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i...
A. 16 June 2009: if she is cheating on her boyfriend with you....
then i don't think she actually wants a relationship with you.
i think she is just having you as her "fun" partner so to speak.
she just sleeps with you when her boyfriend is busy or he's not ... (read in full...)
Why do you think he wants to buy me this expensive gift after only being together for two weeks?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for 2 weeks. Im 20 years old and he is 25. The other day he offered to buy me a really expensive gift- which is about AUS$4000!! That is alot for any gift, even if we had been dating logner, I would still think that ...
A. 15 June 2009: ah right i get you.
just sit with him and talk to him make sure he knows that he doesn't have to buy you all these expensive things to show he loves you.
i mean clearly you're not all about the money.
just talk to him about it and just as... (read in full...)
Ex sent sweet texts until the end and then got rather nasty..whats it about?
Q. I broke up with my partner over 2 months ago and we haven't spoken until Saturday. I miss him alot. I was out Saturday night and made a studid drunken call to him. We spoke for a minute and he was angry and he hung up on me. I text him yesterday ...
A. 15 June 2009: he is trying to get you out of his life.
he clearly doesn't want to make ago of things with you that's why he said "enjoy life goodbye"
i've done that to an ex where i've felt jealous and just said it to stop him calling me or texting me.
i... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my past has made me bitter and harsh
Q. Hi I started seeing a girl in summer of 07 and we split up last year. We experienced a lot together including our first time etc and we really loved each other. Eventually it all seemed to go horribly wrong because her friends pressured her into not...
A. 15 June 2009: perhaps going to see a counsellor would help you over come this anger you feel towards this other girl.
i mean you don't want too push away the best thing in your life since this other girl who clearly has ruined you.
perhaps speak to someone... (read in full...)
LDR girlfriend and now theres another girl in the picture
Q. Alright so um im just confused about something. I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. It's been long distance relationship and I know most of you would give me reasons as to why they never work out but my story is a little ...
A. 15 June 2009: hun i think you need to let the LDR one go shes obviously gone distant with you maybe she's found someone else and doesn't know how to tell you.
but this girl is alot closer to your home and your already seeing her.
so you are cheating.
jus... (read in full...)
Why is it wrong for a man to feel bad about a woman's past?
Q. Why should a man not care about his woman's sexual past? I don't see anything unreasonable with this. I don't see how many women can understand this from their points of view because let's face it most of the physical activity comes from the m...
A. 15 June 2009: Army Medic is right the past does help people learn and become a stronger more independant person and become someone they thought they never could be.
why would you feel the need to compete?
i am sure the woman whom you'd be with wouldn't ex... (read in full...)
Why do you think he wants to buy me this expensive gift after only being together for two weeks?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for 2 weeks. Im 20 years old and he is 25. The other day he offered to buy me a really expensive gift- which is about AUS$4000!! That is alot for any gift, even if we had been dating logner, I would still think that ...
A. 15 June 2009: perhaps he has really strong feelings for you.
i mean it is a bit extreme like $4000 woah!!!
maybe he feels that girls like really expensive gifts....
i don't know after two weeks you are right seems a bit extreme.
perhaps say to him look... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on my bf with this one guy, why?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a great relationship, we both treat each other very well. Except I sometimes cheat on him with one guy. I don't know why. This other guy doesn't treat me nearly as well as my boyfriend, ...
A. 15 June 2009: maybe you like the excitement of this guy it's something different gives you a bit of adrenaline.
but maybe if you keep cheating on your boyfriend you should perhaps end it with him.
it's not really fair on him and especially if this guy is t... (read in full...)
What Now? What Next? Where To?
Q. What Now? What Next? Where To? I've been dating the same guy for over four years now. The problem is I know he is cheating on me with other women. I found about one of these woman about two years ago when I thought I was pregnant and he was nowhe...
A. 15 June 2009: Hun he clearly doesn't care.... not contacting you anymore but he wants you to be exclusive?
why?
so he has the excitement of cheating with another girl so it feels alot hotter with this other woman than it does with you because he feels... (read in full...)
My wife is passive in bed!
Q. My problem is that my wife is passive in bed. She basically likes all kinds of favors and we both have orgasm. Unfortunately her activity is mostly limited to turning to nice position and squeezing her vagina. We had talked about this and she adm...
A. 15 June 2009: why don't you tell her about new ways you would like to try out with her?
or perhaps see a counsellor about these sex things...
maybe they can help her realise you've got needs.
perhaps a marriage counsellor can make her more active towards ... (read in full...)
Mother trying to force her religious views on me and break up my marriage
Q. My mom (she's christen) doesn't like my wife (of 3 years) because she's atheist. My mom has been on my case about it since she read her facebook religious status. She says if I don't find someone who believes god or I'll cut out her will and I'll go ...
A. 15 June 2009: hun i am sorry but you are like between 26-29 she can't choose whom you can and cannot be with anymore.
you are an adult and can choose whom you want to spend your life with.
and so what this girl is Atheist it's her personal view on life and... (read in full...)
Indecent proposal--should I continue the affair?
Q. Ok, here I go. A bit long, but I want you to get the whole picture. I am a successful business woman married to a wonderful man and have 3 beautiful boys. If you "knew" me you could never tell I have a deep dark secret. I have had an affair wi...
A. 15 June 2009: why would you bother going back there?
he has no intentions of leaving his wife clearly!
he keeps telling you what you want to hear and then doing the total opposite.
he wanted YOU to leave your husband but he wouldn't leave his wife?... (read in full...)
I seen my dad having sex with my sister
Q. My dad is screwing my sister. I am 14 and my sister is 15. Lately I have noticed my dad all over her, holding her, rubbing her back, kissing her forehead. The other day I walk into the living room and see my dad laying on top of my sister. My sister ...
A. 15 June 2009: you need to tell your mum or someone you can trust even tell the police what's going on... this isn't right and not normal... hun don't be scared we are all here for you and so will everyone else be! what you seen is very wrong and you're ri... (read in full...)
Is a good idea to sleep with a good friend?
Q. I have had a few boyfriends in my time, but i have never gone 'all the way' with any of them, coz i have never felt like they deserve it. but im now almost 18 and my best guy friend and i have been talking alot. then it ended up with us both ...
A. 15 June 2009: hun don't rush into it. if you want to lose it to someone you truely love and care about like a boyfriend then you do it when the time is right. you don't do it to lose it by the time you're 18 hell i'm 20 i've not lost it yet. i'm waiting f... (read in full...)
If I ask for sex she blows up!
Q. my wife and i have been married for 7 years. things have not been good lately. my wife works nights, and when we get a night togather all i want is to be with her. she acts like she wants nothing to do with me at night. the day time we spend time ...
A. 15 June 2009: maybe she feels that there are other ways you can show you love her rather than always asking her for sex. maybe this is the problem you keep asking her for sex too much, fair enough i know you have needs as does she. but maybe if you back off a ... (read in full...)
How do you know if she's lying or really likes you?
Q. how do you know if a girl really like you for who you are, and how could you tell that's she's lying?...
A. 15 June 2009: if a girl really likes you she'll flirt with you and be all shy around you constantly look at you. try and get your attention. but different people tell lies differently. no-one is the same as telling lies. if you want to know if a girl l... (read in full...)
Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 June 2009: ok well if you want to stay with your ex and get counselling then go for it. but if you feel counselling won't help you with the feelings you have for your ex and also this new lady then end it all together and go with your new lady. i mean ... (read in full...)
Am I too you to propose marriage?
Q. I want to propose to my gf but i think i mite be too young im 19 and my girlfriend is to.i totally love her.I've just got 2 questions to ask. 1.Am I too young to propose? 2.How could I do it ?...
A. 15 June 2009: aaawww yeah that's cute :) very smart and decent of you until you actually decide what to do in the future and get the money to do a great big wedding together :) very sweet. best of luck ... (read in full...)
She's too nervous to meet with me. How long should I wait for her?
Q. Hi, I met a girl over the internet, and things have been going really well. We know a lot about each other, we've chatted for hours a day, and talked on the phone together on a few occasions. Last week we arranged to meet up this Thursday. Was re...
A. 15 June 2009: hun this experience she said she has had... if she met with several guys and slept with them all so quickly then why did she do that first time around? shouldn't she have learnt from that first time....? i'm not having a go or calling her anythi... (read in full...)
Isn't it normal for women to like cuddling and kissing?
Q. I'm a very tactile person and I love to show affection with touch, hugging and cuddling, etc. My fiancee doesn't like hugs or cuddles... except as a precursor to making love and only when she initiates it. This leaves me feeling like just a piec...
A. 12 June 2009: not all girls like that sort of stuff. may be she is quite shy about this kind of stuff..... talk to her find out why she's gone a bit cold tell her you want to be cuddling her so you're closer to her. maybe somethings bothering her she d... (read in full...)
I want to have sex and yet am repulsed by it
Q. I've never heard of anybody who has this problem. I am a man in my late 20's, who like most other men is desperate to have sex, yet at the same time I'm repulsed by it. The reason why is because I despise the human race, I view all emotions as ...
A. 12 June 2009: that is rreally odd i don't thinki know anyone who is repulsed by it. but why see it as sex? can't you see it as an act of love? something that two bodies get connected with ? like with someone you really like or even love and it's like y... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 12 June 2009: no don't leave it alone you tell her you never said it and even if you did why isn't she helping you rather than blabbing to people about what you're meant to have said? no very sisterly very un supportive... ... (read in full...)
How to leave my wife for another woman..gracefully?
Q. I met a girl 4 years ago, who I always think of as my 1st true love. We were dating for a year and a half, during which time she broke up with me 3 times (3rd time was the last). She was young, only 18 at the time. She always said she was not ...
A. 12 June 2009: i don't think there is any graceful way to end a relationship for a 1st love.
you just need to tell your wife that you've never really felt the same way after your 1st love and that you've always thought you were destined to be with her.
... (read in full...)
Hubby cheating..I'm cheating..now what?
Q. can somone give me some advice. im 31 and i have been married for the last 5 years. lately my husband doesnt want to have sex with me. i think he has another woman back in his country. last month my husband went back to vietnam. one morning i was ...
A. 12 June 2009: well if you have no real proof about your husband cheating but you are....
then perhaps you should end it.
do you really love your husband?
if so you need to tell him what you've done is a mistake and that you want to make a go of things w... (read in full...)
My friend and I kissed. Does she regret it? What should I do now?
Q. I am a 14 year old female, and am in love with [at least have a huge crush on] one of my friends. She is also 14 and a girl. I'm not sure if she likes me the way i like her. At times I think she does, and at others it seems like she doesn't. About 3 ...
A. 12 June 2009: if you want to know how she feels about the situation then try talking to her about it.
if she's your friend she should understand that you want to talk about what happend and want to know where you stand with her.
talk to her and ask her what... (read in full...)
B/f & anger issues? Is he just a bit off? Or will it get worse?
Q. My b/f has such anger issues - non violent - and it is affecting our relationship. For example, he is so mad at an owner of a restaurant because the owner did not say hello to him at an event. Now he wanted to punch the owner since he felt he was ...
A. 12 June 2009: He definately needs to get help i mean if you want this relationship to work then you are right you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT walk on egg shells around him you should be able to get mad at eachother in a non dramatic way and let it blow over and ... (read in full...)
Should I be playing games with him to make him interested?
Q. Why do guys whom I dont want a relationship with keep pursuing me like they are obsessed? And the one I really love is not? Could it be that I am being to easy with the one I want to be with? Do I need to act more aloof with him? I know some men ...
A. 12 June 2009: well if you like this guy play it cool.
if he does the same with you.
don't act overly interested flirt around a bit with him then play him at his own game.
act like your interested then don't it'll keep him on his toes.
if he texts you... (read in full...)
I'm sore and itchy down below. Could it be a disease?
Q. i've been using my finger to wiggle around down there is it possible that i could have got a disease because it's sore and it itches very bad but when i itch it it hurts or burns...
A. 12 June 2009: could possibly be a yeast infection that's very itchy and burns because you itch alot.
but make an appointment with your doctor to be sure and get it checked out.
Hope this helps :)
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Our affair has been revealed. Where do we go from here?
Q. I’m having a relationship with a married man for nearly two years now. He’s been married for about 18 years. We are both contract workers and work away from home for months at a time and only get back home one’s every four months. We love each oth...
A. 12 June 2009: ouch...
you'll have to end this relationship he's got some hearts to mend i mean his son finding his dad kissing another woman?
that can't be good.
you'll just have to let him go to sort out what's going to happen now with the family situ... (read in full...)
What's up with them? Why are they ignoring me?
Q. Were friends and his bestfriend and I used to have this weird 'more-than-friends-but-less-than-lovers' thing going on until he(bestfriend) cleared out that he did not like me. Then he (the guy in question; not the 'bestfriend') started complime...
A. 12 June 2009: hun i think the one guy whom you asked to pass a love note onto some other guy is really into you and feels hurt that you were asking him to pass a love note on to some other guy.
whether or not it was for you or a friend he's really into you and ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to say I love you to her because I'm afraid she'll end things
Q. hi im needing help on a situation i have gotten myself into. i have been seing this girl now for a while and we have spent a lot of time together we have both have said we have feeling for each other and both said that its not love, but what i...
A. 12 June 2009: you do need to tell her because how will you know if she never feels the same way back?
if you love her you tell her.
if she ends it then it's her loss at the end of the day.
these are your feelings even if she doesn't feel the same bu... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 12 June 2009: confront your sister ask her why on earth she's being a complete ponce about ita all.
he's your boyfriend and im sure you weren't even dramatic about the whole thing.
talk to you your boyfriend in person and tell him what's going on.
surel... (read in full...)
She's too nervous to meet with me. How long should I wait for her?
Q. Hi, I met a girl over the internet, and things have been going really well. We know a lot about each other, we've chatted for hours a day, and talked on the phone together on a few occasions. Last week we arranged to meet up this Thursday. Was re...
A. 11 June 2009: aww sweety!! you'll get someone you deserve!!
you totally deserve someone really special
and if she's doing this then it's not really fair on you to be honest.
i mean i'm like you i try to find a really decent guy but i don't ever get the... (read in full...)
She's too nervous to meet with me. How long should I wait for her?
Q. Hi, I met a girl over the internet, and things have been going really well. We know a lot about each other, we've chatted for hours a day, and talked on the phone together on a few occasions. Last week we arranged to meet up this Thursday. Was re...
A. 10 June 2009: i just think she's trying to let you down politely she does not want to seem rude or mean.
she wants to let you down gently.
by saying she will meet up and then making an exucse.
to be honest i don't think she has any intention of meeting... (read in full...)
She's too nervous to meet with me. How long should I wait for her?
Q. Hi, I met a girl over the internet, and things have been going really well. We know a lot about each other, we've chatted for hours a day, and talked on the phone together on a few occasions. Last week we arranged to meet up this Thursday. Was re...
A. 10 June 2009: Hun i don't think she does want to meet you. she says she does and its her experience but i think in some ways she is waiting for someone eho lives close by to her to take an interest in her. i was like this with a long distance guy but i k... (read in full...)
Am I too you to propose marriage?
Q. I want to propose to my gf but i think i mite be too young im 19 and my girlfriend is to.i totally love her.I've just got 2 questions to ask. 1.Am I too young to propose? 2.How could I do it ?...
A. 9 June 2009: i guess you aren't young but as Armymedic says
can you really afford it all?
the dress the food the music everything to go with it.
and do you actually have the money to support you both through all of that.
do you both actually have ste... (read in full...)
I'm in one big lonely mess...
Q. I'm in one big lonely mess and it is getting me so down I spend nearly every night crying. I used to have a really close circle of friends, and even though we went our separate ways after school, we still kept in touch and went out together at the ...
A. 9 June 2009: Hun clearly they're being a bit up themselves and not telling you what you've done wrong.
i suggest you go to there house or call them and find out once and for all otherwise you'll never know.
your boyfriend you need to get rid of.
and y... (read in full...)
Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 April 2009: yeah it may have happend about 2 years ago but it's still there you guys broke up for a reason constantly and it's always going to be there. that reason will never change. you're both better off moving on and finding someone else. ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 April 2009: look from what i read nothings going to change. she's just saying this to get you back because she doesn't want anyone else to have you she wants you there like to be there for when something goes wrong in her life and she has you to fall back on ... (read in full...)
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