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I'm not God, so I don't have all the answers,but trust me I've been there, even though im only 16 I've been through alot in my short life. a few years ago me and my family where homeless for sometime.But and that gave me a window into the world,so I know alot more about the real world than most kids my age. I was raised by a former chemist and a graveyard care taker. so in my family there's never a dull moment.

I live in a fairly big city in the lovly state of washington.

I love learning japanese Im currently taking my 3rd year of japanese.

and Yes I am single, frankly im a bit shy to ask anyone out.

Should I lose my V-card to my cousin?

Q.   the thing is is that i want to have sex ( lose my viginity to ) with my older cousin. he is only older than me by 2 years and we are very close. he shows me love and we kiss and he fingers me and once got close to having sex. i love my cousin ...

A.   21 December 2009: Whoa, whoa, whoa, slow down Im just going to say that I think that is illeagal in most states. And I don't have all of the answers, but you're so young and your hormones are probably through the roof and beyond right now. And trust me I'm your age I ... (read in full...)

My friend was upset over the death of her mom. I tried to comfort her with a joke...and I think I made her feel worse! Help!

Q.   My friend's mom died recently(6days ago)and she been upset lately. The other day she was at my place crying her eyes out. I wasnt really sure how to calm her down so I made a joke thinking that would help. The joke was a bit mean now that I think ...

A.   7 July 2009: Trust me I've been there how I cope with deaths is making jokes about them. I don't know why I do it, it just happens. But maybe try and see her in person, tell her you didn't mean it. And if thats how you cope with deaths or somthing that happend ... (read in full...)

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

Q.   Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become s...

A.   4 July 2009: This is cirtanly a difficult situation. Im kind of going through the same thing,but tell her your feelings, and maybe tell her that you two need a break from eachother. And if she reacts badly just ask her what happend. How did she get that way? It ... (read in full...)

I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed

Q.   ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into ...

A.   4 July 2009: Well, ask her and if she dosn't feel comfortable with it, comfort her tell her that if she dosn't want to she dosn't have to. Trust me, the last thing a girl wants is to be forced into somthing sexual. Because i've been there. ... (read in full...)

How can I get my boyfriend to miss me?

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves me. Actually he is a rude guy but very cute. He is my life and everything. We started our relation in 2007. So its 2 years that we are with each other. At the beginning he used to call me and talk to me ...

A.   4 July 2009: Well, I know it will probably be the hardest thing to do for you. But hun, I think at this point dump his sorry ass. If he can't treat you with respect then he's not worth it and you tell him that.Than and he might relise he missed out on somthing ... (read in full...)

Age gap... can it REALLY work?

Q.   Hello, I met a girl.... I'm not yet emotionally overcommitted but i seek your wisdom.. before i begin to allow those sorts of things to build I'm separated.... and most women ive dated have been my age, almost all of them. I have had a few flings...

A.   4 July 2009: You know my parents are 18 years apart but my mom is not a gold digger when my mom met my dad he had 40$ to his name. My mom found that my dad my have been older but he was more mature than those men the same age as her even though he acted like ... (read in full...)

There are two girls I like: my 'dream girl' and my girlfriend

Q.   I have an interesting question. Well, there was this sexy blonde girl who seems to have taken a like to me and I haven't known her name until yesterday. Here's the weird part about it: I dreamt about her having sex with me, even though I'm happily ...

A.   3 July 2009: To me it sounds like you have a case of puppy love. Every body has wet dreams about a different person they're with,this dosn't mean you love the person just means you had a dream about them. Stay with you're current girlfriend if you truley want to ... (read in full...)

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