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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 June 2009: ok well if you want to stay with your ex and get counselling then go for it. but if you feel counselling won't help you with the feelings you have for your ex and also this new lady then end it all together and go with your new lady. i mean ... (read in full...)
Am I too short, as a male?
Q. I went on two really great dates recently with a girl I met at my college through a friend. It seemed as those we connected in every way. After the second date things seemed to fizzle out. I wonder why until a friend on mine told me that he had ran ...
A. 16 April 2009: nooo not at all!! she's clearly just being picky alot of girls like really tall guys! i'm not too sure why but that doesn't mean you won't find anyone not all girls are that picky. but if you guys got on so well she shouldn't of blown you o... (read in full...)
People feel bad after swallow my semen. Why?
Q. Hi...I have a curious question and i really dont know how or where start to search about it..the problem is: Everybody man/woman who swallow my cum/sperm/semen or when I blow inside tha anus(anal sex without condom) feels bad after a few ...
A. 16 April 2009: hey, perhaps go to the doctor and explain what's happening maybe there is an infection or something. but definitely get it checked out you could be spreading something around. let me know how you get on :) ... (read in full...)
How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?
Q. okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky pers...
A. 16 April 2009: hun having a guy alot older than you can lead to complications people will talk about him and you saying he's only after one thing and the guy may not be that comfortable with a girl so young. they probably look for girls around there own age i ... (read in full...)
I feel really bad and guilty for not being there for her.
Q. Ok, I am 16 years old and I have dated this girl on and off for about 6 years I love her with all of my heart. About 6 months ago she told me that she was raped and I just comforted her for awhile, later she came out and told me who did it. It was ...
A. 16 April 2009: aww hun! your a really genuine guy! you shouldn't feel things like that thinking "why wasn't i there to help?" you weren't to know! the fact you're here now with her to make her realise that not all guys are b******s you comforted her tha... (read in full...)
Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?
Q. So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each ...
A. 16 April 2009: yeah i understand what you mean i mean he's probably just letting you know he does want to make things work and go back to the way they were and he's just letting you know he is still thinking of you and he still cares alot for you and appreciates ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?
Q. I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...
A. 16 April 2009: well done on you hun! glad to see you shifted him :) you can move on with your life and concentrate on you! and everything you need. and you'll find the man of your dreams like i wish you all the very best in life :) i really do. xXx ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?
Q. I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...
A. 15 April 2009: hun it's going to be tough but honestly talk to your doctor about seeking the help you need to get yourself back on your feet you don't need this guy
he's horrible to you!
and you do deserve sympathy because he's trying to control you and ... (read in full...)
Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...
A. 15 April 2009: yeah just give him some time and space i mean at least you'll still hopefully be friends :)
hope your ok hun.
like i said if you need anything don't hesitate to message me :)
best of luck in your future.
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How do you help someone who has just been diagnosed as HIV+ adjust?
Q. My best mate J has always been there for me. For over ten years he has helped me as best he could, and I have helped him as best I can. For over a year J has been dating a wonderful person, M. M is HIV+. J knew the risks of this, J has dated a HI...
A. 15 April 2009: no all you can really do for your friend is not neglect him just treat him as normal let him know you are there for him no matter what the outcome
just let him know he has all the support he will need and can get from you :)
just don't si... (read in full...)
Showing some scary symptoms....what is happening to me?
Q. hi. i now this is nothing to do with the subject but im very frightend and i need some quick advice. im 17 and im having these strange symptoms. * Cant Breath. * Blurry Vision. * My hands feel huge. * My head feels huge. * My Left Arm is w...
A. 15 April 2009: you need to get yourself to a doctor!
and pronto by the sounds of it
perhaps talk to your mum or dad or another family member about what's going on perhaps you need to go to the hospital?
just tell someone before something else occurs.
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My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?
Q. I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...
A. 15 April 2009: hun don't do what you want him to do
do what you want to do!
you're your own person!
no-one can change you
and no-one SHOULD change you
people should just love you for whom you are not what they want you to be!
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Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...
A. 15 April 2009: yeah i see what you mean you will probbly miss him and probably wnat to cry because he's said he doesn't want to know you and you probably feel like because your mum has gione and now he has that you have no-one i mean you can have a fling i suppose ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?
Q. I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...
A. 15 April 2009: aw hun it will at first you've decreased alot but with help from doctors and your family you'll definately get there maybe take time but you will but you need to shift that big amount of weight out your life that so called "boyfriend" of y... (read in full...)
Fallen head over heels for a girl I can never be with!
Q. I don't know where to begin. Im in my 20s and currently studying. I never really had a childhood or even anything during my teens. I've spent my entire life alone and isolated. However rescently my life is beginning to pick up. I made the most am...
A. 15 April 2009: if she just wants to be friends you just need to make yourself realise that's all it will ever be. i mean sometimes friendship developes into something more but that can be years down the line. perhaps talk to her about how your feeling? i... (read in full...)
Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 April 2009: yeah it may have happend about 2 years ago but it's still there you guys broke up for a reason constantly and it's always going to be there. that reason will never change. you're both better off moving on and finding someone else. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?
Q. I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...
A. 15 April 2009: HUN! sriously!! let him leave you no boyfriend should tell you to lose weight i mean!! if he likes you for who you are what does weight matter? he clearly don't love you hun you need to get out that relationship get back on track1 you're n... (read in full...)
Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?
Q. I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...
A. 15 April 2009: look from what i read nothings going to change. she's just saying this to get you back because she doesn't want anyone else to have you she wants you there like to be there for when something goes wrong in her life and she has you to fall back on ... (read in full...)
Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...
A. 15 April 2009: yeah i totally understand that because you still feel its a sin towards your ex. i mean maybe in some senses you are better to be single? possibly as and when something happens you feel its right then go for it. but maybe for the time be... (read in full...)
I thought he likes me, but he keeps mentioning his ex!
Q. Hey there I hope u have a few mins this is quite a long one :-) Me and my boyfriend had quite a turbulent relationship for the last year(i was with him for a year) and we split up about 2 months ago. I got talking to a guy from uni, over the inter...
A. 15 April 2009: omg how random! perhaps he's trying to figure a way to get out of his relationship but i mean he shouldn't have said that he does hope to get back with his ex in the future that;s unfair on you. maybe he feels you want your ex back and he's s... (read in full...)
Was I unreasonable about his cheating?
Q. My bf cheated on me in feb with his ex gf and after alot of tears on both sides i agreed to take him back,On the condition he have NO contact with her.My exact words were "no calls,texts,online talk, Dont talk to her in lessons or anything at scho...
A. 15 April 2009: no not at all! i am quite shocked you took him back to be honest. i mean once a cheater always a cheater. i mean what makes you think he won't do that again? your still young anyways. but i think you did right by it all. i wish... (read in full...)
The popular guy at school actually likes me! But how do I let my other male friend down gently?
Q. I'm 15 and so are 1 and my other male friend. At school me and my friends were playing around and one of my mates pushed me by accident I kind of tripped lol and I fell on this boy call him 1. When I fell on 1 he smiled and gazed into my eyes...
A. 15 April 2009: i think mr popular is into you missy!! alot of popular guys aren't thinking they are all that and that, with your guy mate you need to say to him that you prefer your friendship as just mates and that you don't want to ruin your friendship. ... (read in full...)
How could I have 2 guys walk out on me?
Q. hi,i'm 24 years old, and i am also 24 weeks pregnant.I already have a 4 year old daughter,who's dad has neglected her because i refused to stay in the abusive(physically,verbally, and emotionally) relationship with him. we have been over for about a ...
A. 15 April 2009: but hunn seriously!! don't think like that with the baby it's not his or her fault the guys been a dumbass loser and gone. he's clearly unable to committ. don't blame the child im not saying you are but when you say about giving the baby a... (read in full...)
Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...
A. 15 April 2009: hun i am, really sorry to hear about your mum trust me i've been there. you obviously felt alone and upset after this had happend for obvious reasons and were probably seeking for more comfort than you had expected too maybe you felt your ex was... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex
Q. Im at a crossroads, roughly three months ago my ex girlfriend and I ended our four year relationship. She was also my best friend. I still do not have any idea of where it went south and as much as i tried i never got a real explanation. We kind ...
A. 15 April 2009: my guess is she ended it because she and this "friend" had feelings for eachother and they developed into something more. but your right she should of at least given you an explanation as to why is ended you may as well let go of each and every l... (read in full...)
He says we don't need to constantly have our tongues down each others throats to show affection!
Q. I'm really worried the sparks going from our relationship. Me and my boyfriend never really properly kiss anymore, it's just a few pecks here and there, is this a sign that he's going off me? He said it was because he didn't see the point in ...
A. 15 April 2009: noo don't be silly he's not going off you just feels there are other ways to express how you guys feel about eachother rather than just kissing.
like holding hands and little kisses like you've been doing :)
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Yep, it's true - 30 year old virgin
Q. So guys and gals, I am a 30 year old virgin. I was a late-bloomer, then had a really busy career and moved around a lot and then it turned into this vicious cycle thing where I figured everyone would think I had had sex by then and I didn't want to ...
A. 15 April 2009: so what your a virgin?
some people may find that attractive seems as though you been waiting for the right person.
alot of people are i know i am.
you don't want to pick up random people you want to amke sure your going to get somewhere w... (read in full...)
15 years of marriage, and I feel I need to do something otherwise I am letting my family down and me.
Q. Really need advice from anyone out there. I have been married for nearly 15 years (I'm 36) and have no children. Gradually the bullying and psychological abuse from my husband has increased, or perhaps with knowledge of what it is I have been awar...
A. 15 April 2009: My god! he is a monster! and absolute disgusting horrible man!!! you definately need to get out there! i thought he was doing you a favour when he said he wanted a divorce but then came back to give YOU another chance! pffffffffffft!!! he is ... (read in full...)
How could I have 2 guys walk out on me?
Q. hi,i'm 24 years old, and i am also 24 weeks pregnant.I already have a 4 year old daughter,who's dad has neglected her because i refused to stay in the abusive(physically,verbally, and emotionally) relationship with him. we have been over for about a ...
A. 15 April 2009: well first of all ouch! they are clearly losers you really shouldn't stress it won't be good for your baby, and its not your fault at all!! you defiantely need to tell family and friends so that they can help you through this you won't be alone ... (read in full...)
My ex told my b/f that we had sex. Is my bf mad at me?
Q. i slept with my ex boyfriend last week, and he told my new boyfriend that we slept, i only had sex with him for like 7 minutes. my new boyfriend wont talk to me, keeping tell me to leave him alone...
A. 15 April 2009: well if you slept with the ex when you were with your boyfriend then obviously he won't talk to you you've cheated. but why go back to the past? i mean you and your ex ended for a reason right? so what makes you think that the reason has chan... (read in full...)
How can I know if he is still feeling the same for me?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship for the last four months. After long search and many unsuccessful ones, I believed I have found my compatible match. He is from Italy and I'm from Malaysia. We are both in our early 40s and desire for a serious ...
A. 15 April 2009: the only thing i can suggest is that you ask him what's going on.. i mean perhaps he feels the same as you maybe you ought to tell him how you feel rather than let him guess i mean guys can give up if they feel there is nothing there. perhap... (read in full...)
My best friend is in danger of taking the wrong road. Why?
Q. Ok,So my Best Friend is a guy,we will call him "JT". He is a senior in high school,he has gotton straight A's since he was little. Has a 4.0. He comes from a family of six sisters and two brothers,a mom who constantly works,and a verbally abusive ...
A. 15 April 2009: he definately needs a friend right now he is crying for help. he needs some care and attention i mean his dad obviously doesn't give it to him so he probably thinks that by stealing things he'll get caught and taken to the station and hopefully hi... (read in full...)
I just watched When Harry Met Sally and am now worried about my gf's best friend...
Q. Hello, I just watched the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and am now a little concerned. My gf's best guy friend is someone whom she has been involved with. It ended on a very awkward note for them, but they have remained good friends since. ...
A. 15 April 2009: i do see where you are coming from but i have alot of guy friends i mean in the past i either liked them or they liked me or something but we've stayed friends and i got a best mate whose a guy and i used to like him but i don't no mores! he's too ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals..what do I do?
Q. Okay, I have known this guy for four years now and I would say that we're quite good friends. As time has progressed so has my feelings towards him. I am not sure if he feels the same way. I haven't had intercourse yet because I am only 15 despite ...
A. 14 April 2009: hun he don't want you as a girlfriend he is just using you as and when he wants too
he knows he can and he'll keep coming back and forth to you because he knows you'll do it.
but you need to show him you won't stand for it!
you are better ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about where to work, where to live?
Q. I don't know what to do. I left my last job a few weeks ago to start a job for the summer in wales but, I ended upcoming home again because the manager wasnt very nice. When I got back I thought mayb Id go and live with my brother and try that but, ...
A. 14 April 2009: yeah i know exactly what you mean i want a job that i love and like getting up for everyday. but at the moment i am in a solicitors which i don't like at the moment but its giving me my money and get me stuff so i'm happy for now. until i am sure ... (read in full...)
My sister is obsessed with my boyfriend
Q. i am 20 years old n i am dealing with the sensitive heart of a 17 year old girl to begin with there was this daily saop that used to come on an indian tv show..it was like this huge hit soap ever based on teens life more a like the gossip girl of ...
A. 14 April 2009: oh right. oh dear quite a pickle but i mean surely she's your sister she'll understand? i mean can't you try talking to her a little just try to make her understand how much you guys like eachother? i mean if she's any sort of sister she'... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?
Q. How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you....
A. 14 April 2009: you can't make someone love you.
love just happens.
if she doesn't love you then that's it she doesn't love you.
you can't force anyone to fall in love
love if just something that happens,
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Had an affair..do I stay married and "pretend" to love my husband for our children's sake?
Q. I have been married for 10 years. I am 32. I had an affair with a 49 year old married man. He told me first that he loved me. It lasted 6 months until we got caught (by text). It has been 2 months since and I haven't heard a word from him. I am so ...
A. 14 April 2009: no do not stay with him because of the children it's fair enough you have there interests at heart and are looking to protect them but if you don't love this man then you can't kid yourself and be with him. that's just as bad with the children bei... (read in full...)
My sister is obsessed with my boyfriend
Q. i am 20 years old n i am dealing with the sensitive heart of a 17 year old girl to begin with there was this daily saop that used to come on an indian tv show..it was like this huge hit soap ever based on teens life more a like the gossip girl of ...
A. 14 April 2009: hun its just a teen crush
she'll get over it!!
you and him have clearly hit it off im sure she would be happy enough that you ar with him and he can come to the house she'll move on from this silly crush thing.
honestly it's just an... (read in full...)
Do you think I ever have a chance with her being my real girlfriend?
Q. I feel really guilty. 2 months ago I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who claimed he loved me. The problem was I hadn't seen him for a long long time and I cant fall in love with someone over such a long distance. I really liked him...
A. 14 April 2009: ouch that is harsh!! first of all that guy is probably not whom he said he was asking to marry you move to england and tranfer bank accounts! you were right in saying you can't love someone so far away. and he's just saying these things be... (read in full...)
I am now scared to get hurt.
Q. I have recently started dating a guy that i met a few weeks ago. He is really lovely and is a complete gentlemen who puts a smile on my face. Only i have one problem. at the beginning of the year i had my heart broken by the man i was madly in love ...
A. 14 April 2009: hun what you should do is let the guy know how hurt you were and let him know you're afraid to pull down your barriers until you are totally and utterly sure that you can trust him not to break your heart although you never can really tell whether ... (read in full...)
Single forever?
Q. Hi everyone sometimes I feel like I'm going to be single forever!!! I'm 28 and just broke up with my girlfriend 8 months ago...(long story)...since then I've become so depressed...now I'm very cautious about my relationships and have some kind o...
A. 14 April 2009: look you need to stop looking at being alone as being dead that;s why you won't get anywhere. just chill out have some fun. you won't be alone forever! just you and your ex weren't meant to be but you will find the one you are meant to be wi... (read in full...)
Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?
Q. So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each ...
A. 14 April 2009: all i can suggest is that you give him the space he needs i mean you said you guys work together and lived together that's a bit much for a one year relationship living together and working together just give him the time and space he needs because ... (read in full...)
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