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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Should I try to go back with her? Or just move on?
Q. This is going to be really difficult to explain to me, but hopefully people will get something out of it. So I was in a great relationship, my first serious girlfriend. We met in my college sophomore year, were together for several months, ...
A. 16 September 2009: well done really proud of you :)
chin up and best of luck for the future!... (read in full...)
Falling for my friend...
Q. I think I'm falling for my friend but do not know how he feels about me. I dreamt about him last night, it seemed so vivid, should I tell him about my dream or would that be too forward? Also should I tell him how I feel about him, how would guys ...
A. 24 April 2009: only one thing you can do ask him straight out.
if he doesn't don't matter as you guys can still be friends.
is there any signs that he does like you?
message me or something.
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Did I do something wrong by sending him this email?
Q. There´s a guy I´ve been having an email friendship for a long time. We are long distance and he is in the military. We are friends and like to exchange jokes, thoughts, and check on each other pretty often. I send him an email b/c I regularly visi...
A. 24 April 2009: maybe he feels that you are getting a bit too close for comfort perhaps he feels you are wanting something else in return from him. just leave it cool for a while and see what happens see if he gets back to you. don't send him an email or any... (read in full...)
The thought of sex really worries me now because I was scared to say no to my former boyfriends! Please advise.
Q. Okay so i am not a virgin. I lost my viginity at 13 (young i know). I have had sexual partners and i felt alot of pressure when it came to sex. My first sexual partner wasn't my B/F he was just a friend. We was going to have sex but i said no an...
A. 24 April 2009: yeah hun probably i mean you were pretty much raped like! he forced you to do stuff you didn't want too! and so did the other guy! you are clearly going to be scared about how they will react especially if they get angry like. just stay ... (read in full...)
My son is breaking my heart!
Q. My son just turned 21, and simply has no time for me. Or should I say it is a real effort for him to go anywhere with me. This saddens me so deeply. I did the stupid thing and gave him everything not only money but so much love. His friends ...
A. 23 April 2009: look i am a 20 year old girl and i can sorta see the situation.
he knows your too easy on him he NEEDS a tough hand he NEEDS you to say NO when he asks for things and the reason for girlfriends is his way of saying like your not letting him spre... (read in full...)
Does he like me back? Or are we just friends?
Q. I like one guy who is also my friend.. I even told him that I like him. He put me in confusion saying that "I can't discuss this thing right now.." and at that time he was confused too.. but still he didn't give any answer. Does that means he...
A. 23 April 2009: hmm that is confusing. maybe he does like you but he doesn;t want to ruin the friendship so by calling you and saying he misses you is a way of letting you know he likes you but then by saying he can't discuss it means he doesn't want to make... (read in full...)
Do women like sensitive guys?
Q. hey there, i need to know you girls opinion....folks around me told me that i am sensitive, do women like sensitive guys?...
A. 23 April 2009: yeah some girls do like sensitive guys but no OVERLY sensitive girls like to feel protected as well though so like macho guys. but girls like guys they can run too when they are crying and have cuddles and stuff. ... (read in full...)
The girl with "chubby cheeks!"
Q. Hola, I was just wondering why people (mostly guys) perceive me as a "cute" person and compare me to a baby or something. Whenever I smile I get these huge cheeks suddenly appearing from nowhere and it really annoys me. I get people poking them all ...
A. 22 April 2009: hun thasa good thing!!!
its not chubby cheeks just got really good cheek bones!!
honestly LOADS of people will be jealous of them!!!
guys probably find you cute i used to get my cheeks poked lol!
just go with it :P
it'sa great thing.... (read in full...)
Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...
A. 22 April 2009: thats fair enough but like what you need to think about ho would you cope with a child? could you and your boyfriend pull together and give love and support? and how would you guys do financially. i mean if you feel you guys can cope then... (read in full...)
How do I win her back when she is going through such a hard time at the moment?
Q. I was seeing this girl called Emma we get on good together we argued once but it was my fault as I was tired and angry as my baby died that week one yr ago and I said sorry, we have split up 4 times with the first time was a month and 2 weeks ago as ...
A. 22 April 2009: wow that sounds like a hell of a rollar coaster.
hun stop thinking of it as winning her bck as being her friend and being there for her making her realise in a sense what a great caring friend and boyfriend you are and can be.
at the moment... (read in full...)
How should I act so he won't dislike me?
Q. I started my new relationship with a guy who is 11 years older than me 3 days ago. I am 22 and he is 34. I like him but I think I am also paranoid. The days after we got together, he text me to ask me how I was doing. He didn't come to see me during ...
A. 22 April 2009: hun if you feel this way why not talk to him about it.
let him know how it makes you feel i mean he's not to know unless you just say you want a bit more affection like.
i mean relationships are a two way thing and if it's all one way then may... (read in full...)
Help! I feel I'm really struggling with life...
Q. I'm a 22 year old female, and I'm really struggling with life. Everything seems to be going wrong, one after another. Just when I think things are starting to improve, something else happens. It's just general stuff really, health problems, neighb...
A. 21 April 2009: oh hun! i've been there so many times to be honest it still happens, but i try not to let it get to me! i mean easier said than done i know. but all you need to do is think positive! think forward and think future! you think of ALL the gr... (read in full...)
Should I try and pursue this relationship through University?
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship for almost a year and a half with my girlfriend. We Were/are both in love with each other but a couple months ago we broke up briefly when she was questioning our relationship and kissed another guy due to this. D...
A. 21 April 2009: hun you guys had your time together she ruined that. and you can't trust her as you said he didn't want her so she came to the next best thing she always going to keep you interested in her until she finds somethign else and then when that thing ... (read in full...)
How should I act so he won't dislike me?
Q. I started my new relationship with a guy who is 11 years older than me 3 days ago. I am 22 and he is 34. I like him but I think I am also paranoid. The days after we got together, he text me to ask me how I was doing. He didn't come to see me during ...
A. 21 April 2009: try not to be too paranoid because he will pick up on this and will feel pushed away from you. it's good you guys aren't always in eachothers pockets i mean if you were texting like hours on end it'd get to a point where he will feel sufforcated... (read in full...)
Too much? Or am I not understanding men properly?
Q. (Figured out how to ask questions finally) Ok situation goes: I'm in a realtionship with a really great guy. Very work focused mind, but i understand him and why. But we posed a problem the other day, where i was telling him i loved him, and i a...
A. 20 April 2009: aw hun we all get like that don't worry :)
lol u just want the best like... (read in full...)
Too much? Or am I not understanding men properly?
Q. (Figured out how to ask questions finally) Ok situation goes: I'm in a realtionship with a really great guy. Very work focused mind, but i understand him and why. But we posed a problem the other day, where i was telling him i loved him, and i a...
A. 20 April 2009: he obviously does love you hun. i wouldn#t keep wanting the reassurance as you will anger him and push him away. perhaps that's why he doesn't reply saying he loves you because he feels he doesn't need to keep telling you he probably just wan... (read in full...)
How do I convince my mother that I need to be on birth control pills?
Q. Hi there, I'm fourteen, turning fifteen in about two weeks. Just a few days ago, I sorta got into a relationship with a boy who's very close to my age and in my grade (so age isn't a problem). I say sorta because nothing's official, but we...
A. 20 April 2009: ha-ha you made me laugh then lol saying you're not planning it like next week Tuesday ha-ha anyways back to the question just tell her you are fed up of your periods being so out of sync and you would like a period you can keep an eye on an... (read in full...)
There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can move on
Q. Dear all, For those who think there is no light at the end of the tunnel read this. A year and a half ago i found out my husband of 21 years had been cheating on me not once but several times thoughout our marriage,i found out lots of things i...
A. 20 April 2009: wow!
i am really proud of you!
it's so refreshing to see someone stand up for themselves!
telling him to stop feeling sorry for himself and that he made the choice because you are right he did!
there is no point trying to guilt trip you or ... (read in full...)
I "need" a second lover!
Q. Hi! I've got a family and I like sex very much. I don't know how to do. I would really like a second love. My wife is really fat and things are so difficuclt that I can't enjoy having sex with her any more. I don't want to dump her because we've ...
A. 20 April 2009: shouldn't matter what you think of your wife you shouldn't say things like she is fat! if you don't love her anymore then leave her you clearly don't have any feelings there for her dspite having family do you really want to have your d... (read in full...)
One and a half year, and he still has not proposed to marry me!
Q. dear cupid, i been in relationship wd my bf for one year an a half but he hasnt proposed to marry me yet... he says he loves me and serious about me but he hasnt proposed yet...i tried opening the subject to him...he said to keep things ...
A. 20 April 2009: perhaps he is the spontaneous and he want to surprise you. he said see what tomorrow brings for the future then maybe he is planning on propsing to you but he's waiting for the right moment. he may want to be super romantic and just do it wh... (read in full...)
I love him so much but what if he's holding me back. Need help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are 17. I go to a private college and he is in state education. We are absolutely crazy about each other, love one another deeply and can't see how we would break up, not in the near future at least! I've always had big id...
A. 20 April 2009: well all i can suggest is that he go see a careers advisor about what he would like to do. i mean i'm still not sure what i want to do in my life i'm 20 and at the moment i currently work in a solicitors i don't mind because at least it gets me... (read in full...)
Should I try to go back with her? Or just move on?
Q. This is going to be really difficult to explain to me, but hopefully people will get something out of it. So I was in a great relationship, my first serious girlfriend. We met in my college sophomore year, were together for several months, ...
A. 20 April 2009: Hun don't go back with her. i am surprised you did to be honest because alot of people would of just upped and left. but you physically still can't trust her so why put yourself through all that when all you can think about is her going off w... (read in full...)
It's all so confusing for me
Q. I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and ...
A. 17 April 2009: noo you're not at fault here not at all. seems like you are the one who makes all the effort and she just comes to you when she needs a friend but when you need someone it's like she doesn't want to know. you are better off with out her i mean ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?
Q. Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...
A. 17 April 2009: yeah duuude totally wrong i mean how can you fake your own death? seriously? you'd have to get like EVERYONE involved in it to go along with it and what if shes you out? don't fake your own death just confront her or something i ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish wanting my cake and to eat it to?
Q. I'm 21 and he's 27. I will be graduating from college next month and my boyfriend revealed to me that he wanted to take me on a special trip to celebrate my graduation the day after my graduation. However, I told him that I would love to go but that...
A. 17 April 2009: god no! he just wants to be able to control what you say and do and THANKFULLY for you, you stand your ground. i am glad you want to go to your friends graduation! good for you for telling him i mean if he can't compromise then there is no hop... (read in full...)
I lost her, Please help
Q. Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...
A. 17 April 2009: hun she don't know what she wants. i'd leave her she's already done damage no going back now she's with this kris thing. you seem a genuine guy but marriage this age? seriously you'd be divorced the next day and a business together? ... (read in full...)
Why do I still love him and want him?
Q. Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...
A. 17 April 2009: thats the problem hun your in love with a side of him that only you saw, you never really knew the other side of him until it was over. people told you and you didn't listen he jus had what he wanted and that was it he cast you aside and will n... (read in full...)
What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??
Q. im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (...
A. 16 April 2009: best of luck to you hun! you're very down to earth and obviously have your future planned for you :) really hope this works out for you you're very wise! ... (read in full...)
What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??
Q. im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (...
A. 16 April 2009: well hun whatever age you feel you can handle the responsibility of taking care of a child and having the time to look after it :) as long as you and your boyfriend can look after him or her and you guys are stable because you don't want h... (read in full...)
My best friend is HIV+ but I don't know how to be close to her now.
Q. hey everyone, so i just need some advice i recently found out one of my closest friend who i knew since we were in kindergarden and now attend to the same college..is HIV positive =[ she was always my best friend and we shared everything and w...
A. 16 April 2009: hun all you can really do is just treat her how you would normally that's all you can be a friend support her and be there for her. your right not to treat her any different she'll feel really upset and down about that you need to just comfort her... (read in full...)
Falling for a guy in the Army- tips on how to make this work?
Q. Okay, i missed my first few classes to do this... so im really hoping i will get some responses and feed back. Here is my story. So my cousin is in the national guard and he went off onto that 16 week training after boot camp. There he met a guy ...
A. 16 April 2009: you must be really sure about this i've had two relationships with army guys both never worked out. army guys can seem like the nicest guys in the world but they can also be the harshest! i'm not sure how it works with you guys but i don't ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?
Q. hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see he...
A. 16 April 2009: hun you may just be going through a stage in life where you are confused as to whether you are straight lesbian or bisexual. alot of people go through it. maybe you find her so special because of how well you guys get on and fair enough you ... (read in full...)
My bf makes me upset when he talks about our relationship, almost 'failing'
Q. Been with my bf for a while now 6-7 months. When he gets depressed I get really upset, like last night he said to me on the phone that everyday he is with me he feels its another one off. I asked him this morning if he is happy and he said he is bu...
A. 16 April 2009: hun! he's playing you!! he's trying to guilt trip you into getting into bed with him! don't fall for it! i've had that he's trying to emotionally blackmail you into sleeping with him and it's not right and not fair on you! i mean once h... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend too young for me, do you think?
Q. I have been dating a much younger girl for 6 months now (im coming on 27,she is 17) She is a great girl,she is understanding and caring. My problem is,she has met most of my family and friends on a number of occasions and each time she will ju...
A. 16 April 2009: to be honest yeah i think you should date someone your own age i mean your alot older than her and she probably feels weird being around your family. i mean she's obviously still going to be shy she's still in school. but she's not grown into ... (read in full...)
I am really baffled by this!
Q. My husband and I have been married a year together for two.. When we got together his oldest daughters were moved out and it was just his son.. Well his oldest daughter was living with her boyfriend and his parents. Neither one of them had a jo...
A. 16 April 2009: im sorry but that girl planned to have a child WITHOUT a job you've done your children raising and why should you have to look after her child? she's the one who wanted it she knew the risks of this when she had no job and everything and c... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair and my husband is bipolar
Q. Before starting, let me state that this is not your "typical" issue - at least I hope other people are not in similar situations. I'm a professional woman in my 40's with 2 grown children and a great career. I've been married for 24 years and it's...
A. 16 April 2009: you clearly are not hapy at all in your marriage and you've seeked comfort in another man whose taking care of you rather than you constantly taking care of him. you've obviously had tough life to lead with this man and perhaps it's time you let ... (read in full...)
Trusting my girlfriend's mates
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now. We had been close before, but it was never 'official'. I love her alot, I put her infront of myself every time I can. The only problem is, im finding it hard to trust her. Its not so much her I don'...
A. 16 April 2009: well if you don't trust her then why are you with her?
you should trust her otherwise there will be no relationship.
why not hang out sometime with her and her mates?
see what they're like maybe if you get to know them you'll realise you'... (read in full...)
Oh my, they like me, and I already have a boyfriend ... what do I do now?
Q. okay, so I have quite i big problem at the moment, but i think that i should explain something first i am a bisexual male, so, i recently found out that this guy i know has a crush on me and so does my bes friend who is a girl, but.... the big ...
A. 16 April 2009: well hun the only thing you can do is stay with your boyfriend i mean do you have any feelings for these other two?
if not i'd just stay with the boyfriend and just tell the others you'd rather not ruin the friendships you have with them i mean b... (read in full...)
15 and never been kissed by a boy!
Q. hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it ...
A. 16 April 2009: hun i am 20 years old i've never had a proper kiss from a lad! no it's not bad shows you are waiting for it to be special with someone that's what i am doing i don't want to go around kissing random people it has NO meaning in it. i want... (read in full...)
How do I show that I love & appreciate him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now.I am a shy person and i cant tell my boyfriend how i feel about him. I really love him so much and im scared that im gonna loose him pls he...
A. 16 April 2009: perhaps write him a little letter and hand it to him but sit with him while he reads it. you can always be there for him when he needs you and cuddle him give him little random kisses. just being together really. i mean if he knows yo... (read in full...)
Is she scared it'll ruin our friendship?
Q. hi, i like my friends cousin i've been talking to him recently and we get on so well i took my friend to his house other day as she wanted to see them and he come over to my car and took my car keys out the ignition and was like Ha you got to co...
A. 16 April 2009: to be honest hun i think she's just looking out for you trying to keep your best interests at heart, she obviously treasures your friendship and doesn't want anything to cause friction should you and her cousin become more than just friends. ... (read in full...)
Am I too short, as a male?
Q. I went on two really great dates recently with a girl I met at my college through a friend. It seemed as those we connected in every way. After the second date things seemed to fizzle out. I wonder why until a friend on mine told me that he had ran ...
A. 16 April 2009: nooo not at all!! she's clearly just being picky alot of girls like really tall guys! i'm not too sure why but that doesn't mean you won't find anyone not all girls are that picky. but if you guys got on so well she shouldn't of blown you o... (read in full...)
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