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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Free shot: What's wrong with me? Am I a dirty secret?
Q. We met, talked, fell in love - (happens when you're not looking for love). I was 39 (divorced, kids not with me) she was 23. I lived on the other side of the country. Long distance was a pain, but we made it work and saw each other as often as ...
A. 1 July 2009: hmm i don't think you're her dirty secret not at all but maybe she feels people will judge her too much because you've had a previous marriage and have kids somewhere.
she's probably afraid her parents will banned her from seeing you and her frie... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he added me on Facebook? I thought he liked me!
Q. hi everyone! i recently came back from vacation and during my stay at one of the places,where I stayed at my aunt's place,i met this guy.we were neighbours and at the get together my aunt kept for my welcome,he came and throughout the party,he...
A. 1 July 2009: yeah definately if you know his name i mean maybe he forgot yours or misplaced it?
definately add him though :)... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he added me on Facebook? I thought he liked me!
Q. hi everyone! i recently came back from vacation and during my stay at one of the places,where I stayed at my aunt's place,i met this guy.we were neighbours and at the get together my aunt kept for my welcome,he came and throughout the party,he...
A. 30 June 2009: well perhaps ring your aunty and ask her if she's seen him maybe he went away on holidays and has not yet returned?
ring your aunty and see if she's seen him about or ask her for his name?
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Did my boyfriend dump me as he was scared of commitment?
Q. Did my bf dump me as he was scared of commitment? We'd been together for nearly 3 years and in that time things were mostly great but every now and then he'd bottle it and question whether or not we wanted the same thing. I wanted the wedding, the ...
A. 29 June 2009: i think you're right i think he got so scared that he was getting so indeep with you and that he knew what it was you wanted from the relationship and perhaps he wasn't as certain as you are about what he wanted or wants in life.
he probably... (read in full...)
Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...
A. 29 June 2009: you should totally confront him!
this girl shouldn't be contacting him and he CERTAINLY shouldn't be contacting back he is committed to you.
i mean if she's text him saying i miss i need you blah blah
chances are she's just sent that to him and h... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he added me on Facebook? I thought he liked me!
Q. hi everyone! i recently came back from vacation and during my stay at one of the places,where I stayed at my aunt's place,i met this guy.we were neighbours and at the get together my aunt kept for my welcome,he came and throughout the party,he...
A. 29 June 2009: hun maybe he's been quite busy lately and hasn't had the chance or perhaps his internet has gone down.
don't think he doesn't like you as he clearly does just give him some time and stuff he'll get to it.
before you even realise it he'll... (read in full...)
He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!
Q. My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts ...
A. 29 June 2009: hell no hun!
this isn't normal when a guy is with a girl in the relationship he shouldn't be talking dirty with other girls.
you need to lay down the line here and make sure he knows who is boss.
he shouldn't be doing that kind of thing at all... (read in full...)
She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!
Q. I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...
A. 29 June 2009: well she shouldn't tell you she has an admirer at work because that there will obviously make you jealous and then for her to tell you that if you keep pushing her away she'll be pushed into his arms?
that's not on.
look this feeling is eating yo... (read in full...)
How do you stay happy after a breakup?
Q. What are some ways to keep yourself happy and going, after breaking up with somebody? I'm afraid of my future with my boyfriend and I'm afraid that if we do call it quits I will become depressed again. As we broke up before about four months ago,...
A. 29 June 2009: hun life goes on.
you shouldn't curl yourself up in a ball and hide away from the world! no no no you need to get out there hold your head up high and think fine! i'll go out there be myself and see what happens. go out with your friends drin... (read in full...)
Drunked one night stand!
Q. I had a so called "One Night Stand" a week ago, we did not have sex, but it got really intimate. He was really drunk and I had drank three beers which was my limit. I was worried about this guy because he did not have a ride home so I gave him a ...
A. 29 June 2009: hey talk to him find out what the hell went on that night.
tell him you want to know what went on and you're right in not getting your hopes up , but talk to him and find out otherwise you'll never know what could be.
if you feel he is a jer... (read in full...)
Turned on by a video of women..what does that mean?
Q. yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something new so he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on ...
A. 29 June 2009: i don't think you are bi hun i get turned on by girl on girl action.
i think it's just different because i wonder what it would be like to be with a girl you probably are curious too.
doesn't make you any less straight just for thinking tha... (read in full...)
Controlling psycho mom!
Q. Seeking advice on my controling mother. I am 26yr old college graduate with a full time job and my mother still feels the need to run my life. All be the fact she and my step father helped pay for college and other financials during my growing up my ...
A. 29 June 2009: well seems to me like your mum wil never let go that you're still her little boy.
no-one or anything will ever change that or take that away from her.
i mean no girl in her eyes will ever be good enough for you this is probably why she is having a... (read in full...)
Her ex is around a little too much!
Q. This is my problem. Me and My Girlfriend have been together since early april, we 'paused' our relationship until may 2nd because she was having problems with an ex of hers. He keeps luring her into his car and kissing her, grabbing her ass...
A. 26 June 2009: then she is obviously still scared to leave him and not be his friend maybe she feels he'll do something drastic if she cuts all contact with him.
i mean he's clearly no good for her at all and obviously you won't hit her but she probably thou... (read in full...)
Why am I afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?
Q. Why am i afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?? I'm 22 and have a big problem.. i only seem to be able to have sex and not worry about performance or anything when its a prostitute that i don't know...but when the oportuni...
A. 26 June 2009: the reason for that is because with a prostitue you know you won't care what they think right?
i mean some girl from the street never will see again right?
she isn't going to care about whether or not you get an erection she gets paid for what she... (read in full...)
Her ex is around a little too much!
Q. This is my problem. Me and My Girlfriend have been together since early april, we 'paused' our relationship until may 2nd because she was having problems with an ex of hers. He keeps luring her into his car and kissing her, grabbing her ass...
A. 26 June 2009: hunm you can't you'll just have to trust her and if you can't because you feel she's got too strong feelings for him and him for her then you'll just have to let that relationship go, it's not worth you worrying over thinking is she with him?
i... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to go away? He keeps texting me!
Q. Please help. My xbf is still txting me after I have ask him to have NO contact with me. He has sent question marks ??? and comments. They are not really threatening but I dont know what to do. I dont want to change my number or not have txt bec...
A. 25 June 2009: he doesn't want you to be move on from him he can but you're not allowed he still sees you as his! threaten him with the police tell him if he don't leave you alone you'll get the police involved for harrassment... and if that don't work get his ... (read in full...)
I walked away but did I do the right thing? He keeps begging me to come back...
Q. I need some advice. I recently left my fiance of 3yrs and called off our wedding that was in 2months. I have posted other questions regarding the breakup however I need some help with this one. My ex keeps calling and begging for me to come back and ...
A. 25 June 2009: no not at all he's just being this mean because he is hurting at the fact he thought he would actually be with you and settle down with you.
i've had an ex tell me to kill myself because i made him "angry" it's because they're not getting what they... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm pushing him away but I'm not!!!
Q. Me and my friend haven't been getting along for quite a long time now. Its mainly due to the fact that she puts me down a lot. I'm not exactly one of the most confident of people but she really makes me feel horrible. A couple of days ago we had our ...
A. 25 June 2009: sweety get out of there. he clearly wants your friend not you i mean he never said anything nice about you and there was TWO prom queens there not just the one. and as for her well she's obviously jealous of you because you are equally as pretty as ... (read in full...)
Not very talkative with others. Do I come across as boring?
Q. I have had confidence all my life. I've never really been able to build a relationship with anyone. From my point of veiw, I've always felt that people have just put me down, including teachers. I went to a religious primary school, and a lot of the ...
A. 25 June 2009: so why not try making a conversation with some people in your art class?
i mean you say you don't talk much so you talk a little perhaps you talking to someone making a conversation can help you over come all these fear and depression you've got ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me in all this big mess?
Q. My boyfriend just jumped me for my best friend. He says she led him on and that he loves her buh he also loves me. He said he can not lie about it and hurt me any more than he already has and that he'd rather be honest wit me :( She told him s...
A. 25 June 2009: hun as much as you and your friend hate her ex he's right your ex is only coming back because your best friend blew him off because she wouldn't do that to you.
and you should definately not go out with her ex it's the same thing you shouldn't go o... (read in full...)
My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!
Q. Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, an...
A. 24 June 2009: hun she's as you said in shock with the whole thing the man she was living with or is living with and in love with her done stuff to her young daughter!!! she just needs time and space to herself to figure out what to do and figure out why he did ... (read in full...)
Is he insecure or just nasty?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race child...
A. 24 June 2009: eugh hon he's just plain nasty!! he's a spiteful bloke who has to put women down to make himself feel more in control and feel better about himself!
size 16! that is NOT fat at all you don't need to lose weight at all 16 isn't that big! trust me t... (read in full...)
Should I end this relationship?
Q. I'm dating a guy for the past 3mths and he's a sweetheart, he tells me that he loves me, but he still has his profile on numerous dating websites, I find this disrespectful and I'm seriously thinking of ending this relationship. Can you please ...
A. 24 June 2009: well hun if you find this disrespectful talk to him about it tell him that you think it's very unfair he's still got these profiles up.
you never know he may have actually forgotten he's got them there.
sit with him and tell him that it feels li... (read in full...)
Why is love judged by something other than the heart?
Q. Dear cupid, I met a guy a year ago, kind of a blind date. We hit it off the first time we laid eyes on one another. The thing is, I am black he is white. He comes from an environment that does not believe in interracial relationships. I know he ...
A. 24 June 2009: hun i know you don't want to leave him but i think in some ways i think it maybe best for you.
he clearly has issues with what other people think and he shouldn't he should love you the way you are!
he says he isn't going to care what people t... (read in full...)
How can I trust him when he tells so many lies??
Q. Having trust issues with b/f of 3 yrs. I've caught him in several lies. Small ones, like he rec'd a letter from his sister a few months ago, and I happened upon it one day, so later I asked him casually if he ever heard from her and he said No. ...
A. 24 June 2009: well when guys try to shift the blame you definately know something is going on because they're the ones doing the dirty but they want to make you out to be the bad person.
i've been in a situation where i was accused of cheating by my best fri... (read in full...)
Love hurts , .I can't get over him
Q. i am 15 years old and i had a boyfriend of 9 months its not alot but he was my life we did eerything together we even had sex both our first times. it but i guess the love we had in the beging was just fadding away and he ended it he said it was...
A. 24 June 2009: aww sweety you'll go through things like this! i'm sure it was nothing to do with you! you guys are young anyways you've got all your lives ahead of you and you will definately get someone and i don't doubt for a minute you're not smart and ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with friend before she was "my girlfriend"
Q. I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months, and the relationship has been mostly great. She is athletic, caring, friendly, very attractive and has a great personality. I have a high level of trust in her and I know she thinks I am attractive, ...
A. 24 June 2009: ok she slept with your mate after sleeping with you, more fool her to be honest because he had a girlfriend at the time. i mean you say she's texting single guys but it's all innocent but i think you are paranoid due to possibly the way you met and ... (read in full...)
My life is filled with drama!
Q. please help me i'm confused. when i was 15 i went to a party did things i'm not proud of i got drunk and made out wit a guy i barely met.i honestly remember the whole thing but the next day i lied and said i dont remember anything but i did.he d...
A. 24 June 2009: he probably was just looking to make out with you and that's it but i think he does like you i mean at the concert his mates telling him you were he's obviously told people about you.
just try talking to him get his email address or something and ... (read in full...)
Should I get there first and end it before he does?
Q. I met a guy at uni and become really close to him. we lost touch for a couple of years and recently met up . with a bit of alcohol and the obvious attraction still there, we ended up kissing. a week later caught up again and decided we'd be toget...
A. 24 June 2009: you clearly really like him and i respect him for telling you what he's told you but you just need to say to him how you feel just tell him he's the best thing to happen to you in a long time as well and that you really want to see where it's going ... (read in full...)
He keeps breaking his promises. Should I stop all contact?
Q. Hi my ex broke up with me. He had mentioned to me about being friends. At first I didn't want to , because I was so in love with me and my hurt would start all over again when ever I talked to,but not by the grace of God and advice from you all my ...
A. 24 June 2009: definately hun why should you bother making all this effort with him when he clearly doesn't give any of what he says back to you?
it's totally unfair on you and it's degrading you because you feel you've got a friend when really you've not got anyo... (read in full...)
I don't want to break his heart - what should I do?
Q. I have been talking to this guy I met on the net for the past 2 months. We had really hit it off. We talked forever on the phone and the net. I knew what he looked like and all and I knew he was overweight and I wanted to look past that, also he ...
A. 24 June 2009: hun all you can do is just tell him you just need to tell this guy you're not looking for anything really serious at the moment.
just tell him you thought you were looking for something more but you realise you're still not over your ex and you'... (read in full...)
My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!
Q. Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, an...
A. 24 June 2009: you just need to sit down with her and make sure she knows it's not your fault because it isn't and make sure she knows what kind of evil disgusting "boyfriend" she has hitting on a young girl and doing stuff to her!
making her do stuff real... (read in full...)
Scared about meeting my guy's friends!
Q. So tomorrow I'll be meeting my boyfriends roomates for the first time. He lives with his best friend of 10 years and his fiance, so it's a little more important than just meeting his friends for the first time, more like family. I'm completely...
A. 23 June 2009: just be yourself hun!
if they don't like you that's there problem!
i know what you mean i am like you i am very gullible and i'm crap at geography so when people ask me stuff i just look thick lol but i don't care because i think meh it's me take ... (read in full...)
I'm a 22 yrs old virgin who has never been kissed!
Q. Some background might help you all understand this predicament I am in. Right now I'm in the toughest place I have ever been, went into the Navy from high school, got out semi-unexpectedly after about 3.5 yrs, no idea what I am going to do with ...
A. 23 June 2009: hi well i'm 20 years old never been kissed and obviously still a V but i'm not too bothered like.
i find it hard to go up to talk to guys i'm shy but alot of girls won't make the first move.
so you waiting for a girl to approach you maybe 50/50 ... (read in full...)
I want him to go down on my more often!
Q. Ok ... here's my deal. I LOVE when my boyfriend goes down on me. I crave it and even daydream about it! The problem is he hardly ever does. He will occasionally but only when he "feels like it" even when I give him oral he hardly ever returns the ...
A. 23 June 2009: hell no your not being selfish he is!
he's getting all the oral when it should be give AND take not give OR take.
tell him how it's making you feel ask him why he doesn't go down on you often enough even when you give him oral first.
this... (read in full...)
I embarassed my gf and now she wont talk to me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years went to a party together. She usually doesn't wear stuff that shows off her body cause she thinks its slutty (she only wears clothes that sre 3 sizes too big or borrows my clothes). Anyway I somehow get her to a tube ...
A. 23 June 2009: leave her be for a bit and do some major grovelling she's obviously pissed at you because you didn't stick up for her you just acted a goof with your mates thinking it was funny and she only wore that for you and you just basically stood there with ... (read in full...)
I feel so stupid, alone and unwanted.! Help me!
Q. I just found out today that a man I have been in love with for the past 3 years was dating another woman while he was flirting and playing around with me. He never promised me anything and we never spoke about monogamy but it was implied that he ...
A. 23 June 2009: aww hun don't feel like that! it's his loss and his fault! he couldn't see the awesome girl that you are and the feelings you had for him then so be it! it's his problem not yours!
this is nothing to do with you!! not your fault in anyway shape or... (read in full...)
I like this guy but don't want to be made fun of because I like him!
Q. Ok...So this is a long dilemma that I have. Right so...I kissed this guy on a night out about 4 months ago. We were friendly, that is that we talked on nights out if we bumped into each other. Anyway that night (that we kissed) we had been flir...
A. 23 June 2009: hun who cares what your friends say!!
i am sure they would want to see you happy! and it's not all about looks!!
i say talk to him and tell him how you feel! so what your friends take the p*** it's your life and your happiness if you like him then... (read in full...)
After 5 years and many hardships, she leaves. What's the best thing to do next?
Q. So after 5 years and many hardships when things go south and she leaves and says theres no changing her mind, you knowing you have said some mean stuff and acted in mean ways whats the best thing to do after shes gone and you desperately want ...
A. 23 June 2009: the best thing you can do is leave her alone.
give her time and space to herself, let her think on things. but i mean after 5 years and she's left maybe it's not meant to be?
just give her time and space to herself for now she'll come back wh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to be single incase someone else comes along
Q. My boyfriend told me today, he wants to be single! We have been on and off for about 9 months now.. We just got back together about three days ago.. he told me that he wants to be alone incase somebody else comes along.. that hes really suppose ...
A. 23 June 2009: hun you're 13-15 you guys shouldn't be settling for eachother now i mean you got so much ahead of you.
he's not the one for you because he wouldn't say something like that to you if he truely loved you.
hun you got your whole life ahead of you... (read in full...)
I'm not fond of ruining relationships, but she is amazing...what should we do?
Q. I've been talking to this girl I work with a lot lately and we've really hit it off. I get along with her better than I get along with my best friend. Well, I'm really into her and I just recently found out she feels the same. But here's the catch: ...
A. 23 June 2009: well first of all it's in her court. you cannot do anything because she's with someone and as you've said someone you get along with whose not a bad guy, i mean she needs to know what it is she wants whether it's you or the guy she is with. if it is ... (read in full...)
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