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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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If I keep going out with him without feeling a connection, am I leading him on?
Q. I met this man and he is a nice person and I open really slowly so I usually need to spend lots of time with someone before I'm really into that person. He's a nice man, polite and seems to be very into me( calls me often, texts me, keeps asking me ...
A. 3 August 2009: maybe that's why you felt no connection because in the back of your mind somewhere you knew something wasn't right with what he'd told you...
pretty poor that he lied about his age and also is daughters as you said why lie?
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I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 21 July 2009: best of luck to you :)
hope it all works out for ya!
x ilovebowsandcherries x... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing denied my facebook friend request!
Q. I've been casually seeing a guy for eight months. We had been friends on myspace (he added me), but I deleted my profile so about a month ago I tried to add him on facebook. He denied my request! He has over 100 friends so clearly he's not that ...
A. 15 July 2009: ahh i had a similar experience went out this guy was all over me i wasn't particularly interested he told me to find him on facebook so i did tried to add him he denied i was like um ok why you deny me he said i like someone else sorry if i led you ... (read in full...)
He physically hurts me, but I love him
Q. if been with my boyfriend off and on sence 7th grade I'm now n 10th we've gone through so much being together or at least I have he has the rep of a cheater and he's cheated on me more than once well if only proved it once the rest is just rumors he ...
A. 15 July 2009: sweety you are only 13-15!
he shouldn't be doing these things to you grabbing your face choking you?
you're too young to be in something so domestically violent.
how can you love someone who hurts you so bad?
he can't love you if he cheats on you... (read in full...)
He's stopped hitting me, but is this still abuse?
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. When we first got together I got pregnant right away. He slapped me when I was 8 weeks pregnant. I miscarried at 14 weeks. I tried to get away from him but moved back in with him...
A. 15 July 2009: yes it is hun!
you need to get help fast he should NOT be swearing at you infront of your children as you've said your daughter now swears and repeats what he says.
he shouldn't yell at you infront of your children because they will pick that up ... (read in full...)
We've been married 29 years and never fight, Is that common?
Q. me and my husand (mod note: named removed! please do not include full names in your posts) have been married for 23 years and been together for 29 years and i want to know if its common if we never fight i mean we talk about problems but really we ...
A. 15 July 2009: its a good sign shows a good healthy relationship shows you know how to communicate with eachother and sort problems out before they get too far. :)
it's really nice to find a happy couple whom don't fight.
keep it up :)
x ilovebowsandcher... (read in full...)
Premature break up forced by her parents, how do I deal with it?
Q. Hi guys, I'm in a deep situation where me and my gf have been pretty much forced to break up... I need any ADVICE or MOTIVATION to get over this please... I've been thru break ups where the feeling is mutual or one of us does not want to be with one ...
A. 15 July 2009: wow yeah i can see where you are coming from there i mean bringing her ex into the picture.
it's like she's not even bothered by what her parents have done to yours and hers relationship its like she doesn't mind her parents have stepped in and ende... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife let me get her boobs out?
Q. Hi everyone well i am just curious as my wife is very secretive and i am very open minded in all matters i talk openly about everything and what i did before i got married to her. i have come of an age that i love listening to her telling me some ...
A. 14 July 2009: not always i normally remember stuff!
i do well with my drink handle it well so i get really hyper more than drunk and when i was VERY drunk which took me alot bits of the night i didn't remember but a guy kisssing my neck i DEFO remembered!... (read in full...)
He won't go near me now - what can I do about it?
Q. hey i work with this guy he is younger than me the moment i seen him i fell in love we got to be great friends told each other everything he was with sum1 and so was i but we didnt care and took our friendship to the next level, we were with each ...
A. 14 July 2009: there is nothing you can do about it now really you guys made the awful mistake of cheating on people you were with.
and got found out all you can do is respect the wishes that he cannot see you and leave it at that really.
just have to wait and... (read in full...)
Why won't my wife let me get her boobs out?
Q. Hi everyone well i am just curious as my wife is very secretive and i am very open minded in all matters i talk openly about everything and what i did before i got married to her. i have come of an age that i love listening to her telling me some ...
A. 14 July 2009: well for a start why is she letting some guy get her boob out?
but she maybe self concious of her body whilst sober i mean when i drink i am like her i open up HUGELY
become more relaxed maybe thats the case for her.
i mean she may feel conciou... (read in full...)
I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 14 July 2009: not at all why should you call for her permission?
its her daughters choice.
just leave it for now and see what happens.
don't try to meddle into the relationship with her mother a the moment.
just give it time and see what happens from the... (read in full...)
I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 14 July 2009: i guess the mother is just being protective of her young daughter i mean it's probably nothing against you but things going on nowa days you can't be too sure.
i mean the mum is just going to have to get to know you and get used to the fact you and ... (read in full...)
Are relationships with younger guys doomed from the start?
Q. hey im 28 and i always seem to attract younger guys. i am young looking myself but is it going to work ou with guys that ar 23 cause so far it hasnt. or is it the fact im in love with sumone already that is spoken for but yet i can see it in his ...
A. 14 July 2009: no i reckon you can have a relationship with a younger guy but you do need to be careful because a younger guy can problably mean he's not yet mature enough for you.
i'm not digging at guys just when guys end relationships they get really imma... (read in full...)
I want to be there for him, but I don't know how if he won't tell me what's wrong?
Q. Please help,I don't know what to do. Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up. My bf, ha...
A. 14 July 2009: the only thing you can do hun is let him know you are there for him should he wish to talk to you
don't pressure him into saying what's wrong he'll tell you in his own time.
just make sure he knows you'll be there when he wants to tell you and you'... (read in full...)
Would it make things more complicated if we have sex? Surely there's no harm, right?
Q. Dear Cupid, an ex-girlfriend's mother is currently staying with me. I split up with her daughter years ago and she has since moved to Australia. It wasn't a bad split or anything, we were just young. Her mother and I kept running in to each other ...
A. 14 July 2009: you really need to think carefully about this!
i mean this is your ex's mother!?
your ex may not be with you but i am sure she will be pretty crushed you've gone after her mother!
and fair enough the husband says the marriage is over but still th... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and sex is on my mind! I have so many questions!
Q. I'm 13 years old, and I'm having the urges to have sex. What do I do? I know, I am Way to young. and I want to wait for the right guy, and be a saint. but, The orgasims. It very tempting. And the boys my age, Offer it all the time. Its my ...
A. 14 July 2009: well honey i am 20 years old and still a virgin i get urges when i want to have sex but know this, sex shouldn't be just sex!
sex is so much more than that! i know i keep saying it but it's true it's a major connection between people who love each... (read in full...)
I get really jealous, how do I stop?
Q. I'm a super jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. How do I stop? I'm extremely upset my boyfriend is talking to his ex-girlfriends little sister. We all went to the same high school. It's hurting me....
A. 14 July 2009: i am like you hun!
i get really jealous to be honest!
and eyeswideopen is probably right to do with low self esteem i know i do have low self esteem of myself.
maybe its the same with you but what you should know is that if you trust your boyfrie... (read in full...)
I've never had a problem with moving on from a breakup before, but this time it feels different
Q. Hi All, this is pretty alien to me and the first time i have done this. Basically just over 2 weeks ago myself and my girlfriend split up. Now we were only together for 3 months but in that 3 months apart from during work times etc used to spend all ...
A. 14 July 2009: that indeed could be true she probably wants to see how much you still care about the whole thing.
she's doing it to make you jealous and get a reaction of you!
girls do it.
it's our way of trying to get guys to prove how much we mean to them.
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Whenever I try to tell her how I feel she changes the subject!
Q. So, there's this girl I've been friends with for about six or seven years now and she's starting to drive me a little bit crazy. When we first met, I didn't see her in a romantic way at all, but I always thought she was really nice and ...
A. 14 July 2009: well perhaps next time you tell her or next time you see her say to her if she is not that good with expressing how she feels about you to her face then why not over the email or via text message?
it's unfair because you'll never know how she feel... (read in full...)
We were together for 3 and a half years. Why did he break up with me out of the blue?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me randomly out of the blue 2 days ago. I came home from work and I was going to spend some quality time with him. He made me some tea and took it upstairs, i followed and once i was upstairs he told me he didn't love me ...
A. 14 July 2009: sweety i think it's safe to say he's been cheating on you with that b*tch!
i am sorry but if a cash machine doesn't work the one next to it normally does! you wouldn't go trapesing looking for one!
you'd wait until the next day and go again or... (read in full...)
He said he only stayed with me for six years because he felt obligated to, after everything I had done for him
Q. When I was 19 I fell in love with my best friend and him and I started dating and I lost my virginity to him. He was the first and only guy I had ever fallen in love with. It wasn't an easy journey because he was addicted to meth but I did ...
A. 14 July 2009: aw hun!
of course you will find love again!
the reason why you're probably feeling the way you are towards other guys is because you are afraid.
you're afraid to fall in too deep with them should they build your hopes up to shatter them just li... (read in full...)
I've never had a problem with moving on from a breakup before, but this time it feels different
Q. Hi All, this is pretty alien to me and the first time i have done this. Basically just over 2 weeks ago myself and my girlfriend split up. Now we were only together for 3 months but in that 3 months apart from during work times etc used to spend all ...
A. 14 July 2009: well she is clearly making you jealous by being in your face showing her mates a text from some lad!
she's obviously over the relationship.
i think maybe you thought because you guys had such a great time in the relationship with little if any argu... (read in full...)
What is going on between us?
Q. I met this guy ONE WEEK ago, but he has a gf. He's like no one I've met. We can just sit and talk for literally hours, the past week we've texted when we woke up and before we've gone to bed. We hung out almost every day last week, and the 2 days we ...
A. 14 July 2009: well seeing as he's told you he loves his girlfriend i think he just finds you more as a close friend someone he can talk to about this that maybe he can't tell his girlfriend.
he may enjoy your female company but as friends.
he probably feels cl... (read in full...)
Should he have told me we could both see other people?
Q. Would you be concerned if another female called a guy babe? A guy that you've been seeing for nearly 6 months? We aren't committed I guess,we've never really had the talk...we just see each other often and do couples type things together. Even took ...
A. 14 July 2009: well you say you aren't in a relationship as none of you discussed it so in a way you guys are just seeing eachother which is doing EVERYTHING relationship wise without the tag of relationship therefore he can date other women.
on the other hand... (read in full...)
Should a virgins first time be with a virgin?
Q. Hi, this question has been floating around a lot and I wanted to know what your guys opinion is about it. Most people imagine their first time to be special and wonderful, but can it still be special and wonderful if the guy or girl your having...
A. 14 July 2009: hun virgins don't have to have sex with virgins.
it's more about the connection you have with that person whether or not they have already done it with someone else or multiple people doesn't make it any less special.
it's all about the bond you... (read in full...)
Premature break up forced by her parents, how do I deal with it?
Q. Hi guys, I'm in a deep situation where me and my gf have been pretty much forced to break up... I need any ADVICE or MOTIVATION to get over this please... I've been thru break ups where the feeling is mutual or one of us does not want to be with one ...
A. 14 July 2009: to be honest this is absolutely absurd how can a family tell a girl to break up with a guy due to her being sexually active?
and how can the girl take it?
it's upto her she's 20 years old as am i! my dad lets me make my own descisions he knows i ... (read in full...)
What is stopping me from moving on? My jealous ex or my FWB?
Q. I was seeing a guy - sort of like a very close friends with benefits thing - until I moved to a different state a few months ago. We shared an intense connection but it couldn't go anywhere because of me moving and him not being ready for a ...
A. 14 July 2009: i think it could be a mixture of the both.
i mean you are finding it difficult to commit to this guy because you are afraid that he'll end up like your ex which is understandable but you won't know unless you take that chance!
also you are hoping t... (read in full...)
My brother planned a party that I didn't want. He said it was for a joke, but I feel like I was the joke!
Q. This last weekend was my birthday, and few months ago I had mentioned to my older brother that I would like a meal that just included the immediate family (2 sis, 1 other bro, and mom)A year ago my dad passed away 2 days after my birthday so I ...
A. 14 July 2009: aw hun i don't think you were the joke and the reason they never told you was probably because they wanted it to be a surprise and a nice one.
although you told him you didn't want one he probably thought it would be nice to actually really cele... (read in full...)
I'm a 19 year old virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and I am still a virgin. Is this normal? All of my friends have had sex. there is one girl I like but she is 14. Should I wait for her or just go for it?...
A. 14 July 2009: dude it's cool! it's really refreshing to find a 19 year old boy whose still a virgin i mean i am 20 years old and still a virgin.
i wouldn't just go for it with a 14 year old girl because she's underage and you could get into trouble.
eithe... (read in full...)
I think I love my best friend!
Q. Ok to cut to the point... i think im in love with my best friend and dont know what to do about it... ok short(ish) version: it didnt start like that but her mom and dad absolutly adore me and want me to date their daughter and my parents want the ...
A. 13 July 2009: well why not just talk to her the same as you would normally and tell her how you feel i mean she's your best friend you can talk to her about anything right? :)
i mean you'll never know what could of been if you guys don't tell eachother how you ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to put space between us to stop any feelings developing?
Q. Very confused. In a very close friendship with a married man whose marriage has collapsed, or so he tells me. About two weeks ago we met up and discussed feelings for one another. however we decided (mainly his decision) to just try and remain...
A. 13 July 2009: hun as he is a married man this is what he could be doing.
making excuses so you don't feel hurt he probably is creating a space between you so you guys don't "fall" for eachother in some ways.
he's protecting himself without causing the hurt of ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...
A. 13 July 2009: Honey! just tell him otherwise he'll find out from someone else and you may EVEN be pregnant so either way you're going to have to tell him.
just say you were upset because you guys argued! and he wanted to talk to you and you were both drunk and ... (read in full...)
At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!
Q. ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel ...
A. 13 July 2009: he's a young male of course all he wants is sex from you he's young and horny.
i'd leave him he was sweet to begin with because he knew how to get you to go out with him.
if you want respect them respect yourself get out of that relation... (read in full...)
Two guys are chasing me for sex, what should I do?
Q. Well i'm a 14 year old girl, and um Lately i've been gettin alot of attention from the guy's i'm a Virgin and Just got out of a long bad Relationship, I know 2 Guy's That like me right now but They mostly want to have sex, tHat's not the bad Part, ...
A. 13 July 2009: no not at all!
why give them oral!
you're far too young anyways and they are BOTH using you.
you shouldn't lead them on either.
you should wait until you know the time is right rather than sleep with them just because.
sex isn't just sex shoul... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too selfish to tend to my needs!
Q. Hm, where do I begin? I've currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the past six months, we are not in a LDR any longer as he moved back to my hometown. I feel like he is the most selfish boy on the planet yet I instantly can forgive him with...
A. 13 July 2009: well why do you give him money?
you should stop giving him money so he knows he can't keep getting money from you.
perhaps talk to his family tell them how you're feeling maybe they can get some sense into his head.
i mean he's really lazy he won'... (read in full...)
How can I be sure my internet boyfriend loves me?
Q. Well i am dating this guy online.... i'm 14 almost 15 and he's 19. We've been dating for 9 months now. He says he loves me.. I've seen tons of pics and him even on webcam so i know he's not lying... he seems like he's rlly in love... but how can i ...
A. 13 July 2009: sweety you can never be sure if he loves you, he could just be playing you because you're young.
i guess you'll just have to meet up with him and see how things pan out with eachother.
but good on you taking friends with you incase he is some psy... (read in full...)
I think I am in love, am I, and can I make this work despite of the age gap?
Q. hey i need help asap i met this guy and he is perfect i work in theater so i hav alot of gay friends (im bi so is this guy) but all of them think we r perfect and i totally agree i hav had many crushes and not to many boyfriends but not once hav i ...
A. 13 July 2009: it may be able to work but you are only 13 and he's 19 there is a huge age gap and alot of people will have a problem with this.
and you could very well get hurt he's a 19 year old lad and may look for a girl/guy his own age maybe a little youn... (read in full...)
If I keep going out with him without feeling a connection, am I leading him on?
Q. I met this man and he is a nice person and I open really slowly so I usually need to spend lots of time with someone before I'm really into that person. He's a nice man, polite and seems to be very into me( calls me often, texts me, keeps asking me ...
A. 13 July 2009: well you've only been on two dates perhaps go on a few more see if anything progresses i mean he's trying really hard that's really sweet he clearly really likes you and wants you to give him a shot.
so go on a few more dates and see how things prog... (read in full...)
When should I ask my ex to give me another chance?
Q. my ex and i broke up about a month ago, we ended on good terms. we text each other once in a while to see how we're both doing. i want to talk to her face to face but whenever i text her, when she is available she kind of avoids giving me an answer. ...
A. 13 July 2009: well she keeps avoiding the answer maybe thats your answer.
she doesn't want to meet face to face and perhaps she has already moved on but doesn't know how to tell you.
maybe she doesn't want to meet with you to give you another chance because ... (read in full...)
My crush asked me about my trouble but then he didn't say a word, is he just polite and nothing else?
Q. I have a deep problem right now, so I have a long distance friend who is or was at least some kinda of crush, since we keep in touch very often and we are or at least were very fond to each other. Well, he knew I was having this trouble and I di...
A. 13 July 2009: perhaps he does have something troubling him.
but not everyone checks there emails everyday so give him sometime to reply give him a chance to read your email and respond to it.
he may be very busy at the moment or stressed with something that he'... (read in full...)
Love on the rocks, we broke up, should I email her to start anew?
Q. This may sound really stupid to alot of you but here it goes. I met this girl one day for like 1 minute she was a mutal friend of a friend. I felt something the secound I saw her, she admited she did too. Here is where it starts we knew each other ...
A. 13 July 2009: well the thing is that she's clearly not over what happened to her previously.
i think you should take that into consideration and yes admittidly it was a very short time knowing her and getting into something that quickly but i guess when you feel... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm drifting further and further from her
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months now and we talk every single day for a few hours a day. we are really close and say that we love each other every day. she went to a camp last week and wont be back for a few more days. i havent ...
A. 13 July 2009: this could just be because you've not spoken to her for a while maybe that's why you feel you're drifting further away from her.
i am sure it's just because you are missing her once you guys talk again to eachother you'll feel more connected it's... (read in full...)
I know what is right, but I'm still confused on what to do
Q. So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends ...
A. 13 July 2009: well why are you confused on what to do?
do you have feelings for this guy?
because you say you love your soldier guy and i'm not saying you don't but shouldn't that be your answer?
you love him not this other guy.
you said in your question "i... (read in full...)
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