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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 13 May 2009: take your mum with you for support if you tell him face to face i'd personally be home with your mum call him and tell him over the phone and if he threatens you or anything ring the police PRONTO!
then he won't be able to come near you somethin... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my second cousin... she's getting married but I promised myself I would tell her
Q. I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The...
A. 13 May 2009: why ruin her relationship by teling her? she's pregnant with this mans child getting married to him she obviously loves him. she's not going to suddenly stop the marriage for you. you probably don't even love her that way just loved the fa... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in the army?
Q. well i have a problem is about me and my ex-boyfriend. well he is going to graduate this year and im going into my junior year. nd well he had broken up with me bcuz he had to go to the army nd well i dont know, bcuz we still have feelings but im ...
A. 13 May 2009: hun i had a boyfriend in the army. and i know what you're feeling he recently went to Afgahn and i had no way of contacting him i was constantly wondering how he was! what he was doing. i loved him very much but it did kill me so much not know... (read in full...)
Why does sex hurt the first time?
Q. why does it hurt the first time you have sex? how do you know your ready? how do know when the right time is? how do you know he's ready, and not doing it to make you happy?...
A. 13 May 2009: hun you'll just know when you're ready. but don't rush these things take time to enjoy a relationship and get to know eachother better. boys are always ready!! doesn't always hurt it hurts for girls because we have a hymen which can be brok... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 13 May 2009: get the police involved ring them up and tell them what he's been doing and that you want him out of your life for good. because he's just making you miserable and you're pregnant and not sure what he will do next. because i'm sure even if ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried or go with the flow?
Q. I am Bi and my gf is straight. We have been dating now for some time, and things are going really well. We are both kinky and enjoy the occasional addition of an extra guy. I know you must be thinking so here we go...Well we have had extra guy ...
A. 12 May 2009: hun she clearly loves you
i think she is just loved the fact there was two guys in volved paying her attention and also giving you both attention.
there isn't anything to be worried abou.
she just obviously loves the idea of having two guys ... (read in full...)
Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant
Q. Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...
A. 12 May 2009: hun i think you ar definately pregnant!!
you need to leave this guy he don't know what love it.
and he tricked you to sleep with him because of course you can get pregnant jut after your period!
how would he know he's a guy!!
he was j... (read in full...)
What is wrong with this woman? I think she has a personality disorder!
Q. I just received this email from my gf. We just recently got back together after a week apart. We were texting back and forth on Saturday and she ended up calling at 4am after knocking on my apartment door at 3am. Sunday and Monday night she made ...
A. 8 May 2009: my word1
perhaps she thought she found someone better than you when she realised that she hadn't she wanted to get back with you.
now she's liking someone else and again she's dumping you.
but probably will keep in contact with you to keep... (read in full...)
Am I ever going to find someone that loves me?
Q. Am i ever going to find someone that loves me? I'm 20 and i feel really sad. i have never had a boyfriend. When i was 6-9yo and 13yo i was sexually abused and even though i know it wasn't my fault i kind of have always felt 'dirty' and as if i...
A. 8 May 2009: hun that is rough because you've sexually abused and now you feel that's how you need to get a guy but it's not the way at all and i understand you'll feel dirty hell i would!
but as you've said it's not your fault at all!
you're specia... (read in full...)
I want advice on older women
Q. Hey all I'm 16 almost 17 and I'm talking to this 19 year old... She thinks I'm a bit older - 18. I think she wants a casual relationship thing. I want to know a couple of things: 1. Do other people find that weird? 2. To the women, are you...
A. 8 May 2009: yeah girls do like not really like guys that are like 16 17 we feel its a bit too young sorry.
i'm 20 and i would feel awkward and im sure she would too.
you're just going to have to tell her that you told her you were 18 because you liked her bu... (read in full...)
He seemed interested, but was it just for sex?
Q. Well, my "love life" was normal until my 3 year relationship with my long time boyfriend ended. I didnt think it would be hard to find another good guy, me and my boyfriend had broken up because things just weren't working out.But, he was a good guy ...
A. 8 May 2009: hun he never really liked you.
he was a complete a hole if you ask me.
he has no respect for women thinking he is gods gift when i bet he isn't
he just wanted to use you for his own needs and then dump you like a tissue in the bin.
be... (read in full...)
Twin brothers dilema!!
Q. I am having such a terrible dilemma for the past 4 years.My best friend has two brothers. Twin brothers. One twin was bad, always in trouble and gone. The other was sweet, hard working and funny. One summer me and the good brother started kissen ...
A. 8 May 2009: well first of all woah complicated story lol.
but second of all you need to talk to this good brother and find out his true feelings i mean to be honest i reckon he just generally like you he probably brought the other girl to the party to make ... (read in full...)
Pregnant again but the relationship is very rocky at the moment
Q. im a 33 year old woman. 18 months ago i got into a relationship with a 20 year old guy and he moved in with me i know he`s alot younger and i wont lie, it has been hard(even thou i look alot younger than i am) about 9 months ago i found out that...
A. 7 May 2009: hun he is obviously not ready to have a child yet as he clearly is still a child himself.
he isn't matured enough yet to want a child he couldn't handle the responsibility of looking after one that's why he is telling you to get rid of it because ... (read in full...)
We have flirted in the past now he is totally ignoring me!
Q. I need some help. I really like this guy at my school. I’ve liked him for about 4 months now. He has a girlfriend at a different school. We have flirted in the past, and played around joking and stuff. Then randomly one week he just stopped ...
A. 7 May 2009: hmm very odd.
perhaps something is bothering him?
i would say try and talk to him but you aren't getting anywhere there maybe his girlfriends upset him or something and he doesn't want to talk bout it?
i would leave it for a while he will c... (read in full...)
She went back to her ex!
Q. She Went Back to Her Ex When I met Dee, she had been out of an abusive relationship for six months. Her ex is an unemployed alcoholic who used to physically and mentally abuse her. She had to take out a court injunction and seek Police help to prote...
A. 7 May 2009: oh my word!
to be honest hun you are better off out of this.
you gave her the life of luxury and she abused that and kept going back to her ex!
she knew what he was doing before to her why did she think that would change?
it's in his g... (read in full...)
My gay best friend came on to me and I don't know what to do
Q. Hi i have a problem and i dont know what to do... okay basically my bestfriend joey came out to me...he told me that he was gay and was attracted to guys, i was shocked but i didn't really care so as a good friend would do..i reassured him, com...
A. 7 May 2009: hun just talk to him he's your friend right?
you were there for him surely he can be there for you.
just tell him it was a mistake and that you don't want him to play on anything that happend and that your not that way inclined.
may... (read in full...)
Help! I want to have sex with my cousin!
Q. Hey I am 16 years old and I have this cousin that I can't get out of my head! I severely want to have sex with her, it's just I don't know how to ask. I do not see her often, If I'm lucky it's once a year for about a week. What I want in a reply is ...
A. 7 May 2009: you NEED girlfriend NOT your cousin.
that's like insest!
we're not here to help you mess up your family.
you're 16 years old your probably horny just do what normal guys do and play wtih yourself.
don't try coming onto your cousin she'... (read in full...)
How can I get over my crush of three years?
Q. I have a crush on this guy for about 3 years but he has a girlfriend. How can i get over him and how can i get my friends to stop bugging me about it? My friends just tease me like "look who's over there". Please help me get over him and get my ...
A. 7 May 2009: hun it'll be tough as you've liked him for so long.
but just think you can get someone better!
you'll like loads of guys through your life hun and not all them will be as nice as you hoped.
but you'll get there and because you're young you've ... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 7 May 2009: woop woop check this go!
ONLINE PARTYY ON DEAR CUPID TONIGHT"
BE THERE OR DON'T
haha i couldn't think of anything witty.
wooop go Aunts and Uncles!!!
WE ROCK!... (read in full...)
Facebook about to ruin another relationship?
Q. I would really appreciate people's opinions / advice on this particular dilemma...Nothing new, but I'm sure lots of people have had similar experiences. Damn facebook... Me and my girlfriend (both early 30s) have had some problems lately but we ar...
A. 6 May 2009: ahh trust me i've been there and in a way i am not sorry i did what i did because it made me see things differently like all these lies and stuff.
i mean you weren't to know her facebook was currently logged on like.
but i do see your point. ... (read in full...)
She is so withdrawn and it worries me
Q. There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she love...
A. 6 May 2009: why don't you try talking to her when you guys do see eachother ask her what is really bothering her? perhaps she is struggling with some stuff at college but dones'nt want to tell anyone what's wrong because she wants to sort it out herself.... (read in full...)
I'm being blackmailed by an ex who has gotten me in debt!
Q. im being blackmailed by an ex, he has got me 20k in debt and has got cars on finance in my name, now im being threatened by solicitors and courts with legal action as the payments havent been made, when i ask him whats going on he says he will sort ...
A. 5 May 2009: you should still definately go to the police! he's threatening you! he's like committing fraud using your name! without your permission! you NEED to go to the police i know he says these threats but i think he is just bluffing because he thin... (read in full...)
Friends... or is she ignoring me?
Q. Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close mates...
A. 5 May 2009: to be honest i think she's being too wrapped up in herself she said she is giving you the cold sholder utnil you're "over" her but what she is doing is she is she is ignoring you until you get the message. which she still seems to think you like h... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test says negative - is it right?
Q. please ladeis i need help, i had an intercourse with my wife wich lasted long as i usualy dont cum fast,but i lost erection before cumming.. the peoblem is,since then her period has been late now for 12 days we bought a pregnancy test and the...
A. 5 May 2009: perhaps she should go to the doctor to get a clearer pregnancy test?
but bearing in mind womens peridos aren't always as regular as they are meant to be.
some things can stop them occruing there normal cycle.
try not to worry too much but if... (read in full...)
Parenting advice please!
Q. Ok some parenting advice please!!My daughter is 4 1/2years old and currently going to pre school 3 1/2 hours a day(due to start full time in sept). She is a lovely little girl but she has a very short attention span!Her teacher has told us that she ...
A. 1 May 2009: take her to the doctors perhaps she has hearing problems?
or she could just be a rebellious little toddler
try getting counselling?
maybe something is troubling her.
perhaps she doesn't get along with some children at her school.
... (read in full...)
A question about virginity for all the boys out there
Q. This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks....
A. 1 May 2009: hell on!
guys would love that!
but then you could get yourself a name by other girls!
so be careful though and think of all the consequences.
... (read in full...)
Hot supermodel type flirting with my boyfriend so I told her no to friendship!
Q. Three years ago I met a girl through my boyfriend's best buddy. She was really fun and nice. She is a hot supermodel type, and from Europe somewhere. She was very open; willing to do anything sexually, which I learned from her attitude and from ...
A. 1 May 2009: well you said her boyfriend at the time was a married man?
then definately keep your eye on her
i mean she may just want to be friends because she wants a bloke you have.
they seem to want everythign some girls
if they've got a boyfri... (read in full...)
I need a job but I don't want to work because my boyfriend is already giving me everything I need!
Q. i need some advice and no judgement please, my problem is, my boyfriend is taking care of me,very good care. what ever i neeed he provide, he's on the wealthy side, but i need a job, but i don't want to work because he giving me every thing i need ...
A. 1 May 2009: i'd definately get a job i mean what happens if you guys split?
what if he gets fed up of providing for you?
what if he feels you're not making your own money and feels you're just using him for his money.
get a job for now even if it's wor... (read in full...)
I have so messed up the best thing I had in my life
Q. I was married 15years, but known him 20 am now 42. It was a strong relationship and very happy with four boy,s the result . We had up and down's but mainly up,s , he was my best friend .Nearly two year,s has gone by now since we parted because i ...
A. 1 May 2009: hun you are obviously still emotionally scarred by this ex husband.
you're still not ready for that kind of relationship
you say you love marco but you went off with another man because i think you want to hurt him and feel the pain you felt wh... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking out a girl I barely know?
Q. There's this girl at my school, I barely know her and yet I like her. The only things I know are her name and year (She's 2 years younger than me) because we both did an afterschool activity (I think she doesn't do it anymore though). I'm think...
A. 1 May 2009: well don't ask her out just yet i mean you don't know anything about her.
i mean you may get to know her and think why did i rush into this?
take time to get to know her.
ask her if she wants to hang out sometime?
ask for her email and tal... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my 10 year old step-sister
Q. Lately, I have been having really troubling thoughts. I have come to terms with the fact that I have fallen in love with my 10 year old step sister (I'm 18). I just don't know what to do anymore. Before anyone asks or starts accusing, I am n...
A. 30 April 2009: maybe its sisterly and brotherly love but you're reading too much into it.
because you guys have gone through alot together you feel you need to be there for her and protect her and help her.
maybe this isn't love for her in a sick sexual way ... (read in full...)
I hate my sister!
Q. i need help. i think i hate my sister! she always gets me so angry and encourages me to do the wrong things. she dropped out of college, shes failed half of her GCSE's and i know shes on the pill and has a fake ID. shes recenly got cuaght in topshop ...
A. 28 April 2009: she is obviously crying out for help or crying out for someone to talk too
she's a size 6!!!
she may just need to talk about problems thats probably why she is doing all these things its a cry for help and she is probably attention seekin... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a great guy but I feel sad. Is that normal?
Q. Hello. I'm a divorced dad with three great kids. Well my oldest is 17 and she has just started dating a 23 year old man. She has known him for a long time and he's ok. The thing is I feel really happy for her but I feel really sad as well and I ...
A. 28 April 2009: you are probably feeling like this because you know she's not a little girl anymore and you now know that she isn't going to rely on you for things she'll rely on her boyfriend a bit more and other things like that.
but not to worry because ... (read in full...)
Will she ever be more than a friend ?
Q. I wonder if there is any hope, or is that shred of hope I am holding onto just me fooling myself. A friend I have known for ten years recently filed for divorce. About five years ago, our relationship became intimate, then I had to move for work...
A. 27 April 2009: to be honest answer to your titled question i don't think she will be more than just a friend. she's said she can't give you a relationship because you are wanting commitment and obviously at this time she can't commit i mean all she really wants... (read in full...)
He believes I deserve better
Q. Hey. Sorry this appears long if your reading this. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and I couldn't ask for more.. I love him dearly. But, recentely 'I' had terrible mood swings because, I was on my period. I felt really horrible b...
A. 27 April 2009: does he understand the womans body? i mean i get really snappy when you know ladies time comes. surely he understand you didn't mean it. but all you can really do is for now be his friend and let him know you're still there for him and you know... (read in full...)
I've been told I'm too shy
Q. Heya everyone, I sorta have a problem. I find it hard (understatement) to find a special someone. Either I ignore the odd girl that has liked me or I fall for someone I get rejected by. I have plenty of friends (that are girls) and most of them ...
A. 27 April 2009: sometimes girls like shy guys to be honest i know i think shy guys are really quite cute. but if you don't want to be shy if you see a girl you like walk up to her talk to her ask for her number or hotmail address or something. i am sure lots of ... (read in full...)
She doesn't call, won't meet. I'm thinking of ending it.
Q. Hi everyone. I met a girl, divorced and 8 years older than me. Our relationship is about a year. Occasionally, we have agitated conversation but we are doing fine. She still keep in touch with her x husband because she has a daughter who is ...
A. 27 April 2009: yeah to be honest she's probably doing that because she wants to keep you there just incase whomever she has obviously got her eye on isn't interested in her so she knows that you're always there to be a back up.
she tells you that you are doub... (read in full...)
How often is there help on here?
Q. How often is there help on here?...
A. 27 April 2009: there is always help on here.
depends the type of question asked and the type of oppinions and help and advice people offer.
... (read in full...)
15 year old virgin
Q. I'm 15 and I've never had sex. I wanna know how to seduce a girl.. I also wanna know how it feels. Helpp!...
A. 27 April 2009: hun you are 15 you're not even legal to have sex.
and what makes you think some girl at 15 wants to have sex?
you're only 15 take your time.
you can spread disease and get a diseas you could get a girl pregnant! i am sure which ever girl you... (read in full...)
I want to leave him for another guy, but I'm afraid of what he'll do
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year. He was nice at first but he had gotten meaner over the months. He makes fun of me, says negative things about me and make me feel bad all the time. I have tried breaking up with him several times. I even ...
A. 27 April 2009: hun why are you taking all this rubbish from this guy?
he's playing you!
he's emotionally blackmailing you to get you to stay with him.
he wouldn't kill himself he hasn't got the balls!!
he's just saying it because he knows it'll tug a... (read in full...)
Does he play with me or what?
Q. i have loved this boy the same age as me, he lives next door and i have loved him from the day i met him. quite recently on msn after playing in my garden with him a my sister he asked me to come outside again. where he asked me if i would ever get...
A. 25 April 2009: hun he is playing you big time! if his girlfriends don't give him what he wants he comes to you it's unfair on you because it's messing with your feelings for him. you could find a better boy than that! he'll just keep you as his bit on ... (read in full...)
Falling for my friend...
Q. I think I'm falling for my friend but do not know how he feels about me. I dreamt about him last night, it seemed so vivid, should I tell him about my dream or would that be too forward? Also should I tell him how I feel about him, how would guys ...
A. 24 April 2009: only one thing you can do ask him straight out.
if he doesn't don't matter as you guys can still be friends.
is there any signs that he does like you?
message me or something.
... (read in full...)
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