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*olakid
writes:i like himi really like my best mate and we do nearlly everything together.he is there when i need him, he likes the same music as me and will go out of his way to help mei really realy like him and eveyone is saying we ae going out, which we are not, and i think that we would make a great couple, but he fancies one of the grls in our class. and i am not very attractive and i think he just wants to be mates but he flurts with me to .what should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): hmm dont put yourself down, but if you and him start going out and if you break up would it ruin your frindship would you rather have him as a friend or nothing ? or ask him if he likes you like that hope i helped x
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reader, colakid +, writes (2 April 2009):
colakid is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really lke him but i don't want to ruin what we have got already
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reader, yiddy09 +, writes (2 April 2009):
I have the same problem.I've known my best mate for 3 years and really like him too. I've told him and he didnt really say much.Nothing happened.Most people will say read the signs blah blah blah but truth be told theres only one thing to do. Tell him.Yes it may make your friendship a little akward at first and yes your friendship may disspear but ask your self would you rather leave and watch him go out with some one else? I know it would break my heart if my best friend did. After i told my best friend ( i did it on MSN/IM so there wouldnt be any akward silences to sit through lol), and he said he didnt feel the same, i just phoned a girl friend had a whine and a moan, and text him saying i meant it but im not going to let it ruin our friendship and we bin the same :DGood Luck!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Sweetie dont ever put your self down!! Everyone is attractive in on way or another.You need to tell him how you feel and you never know he might only say he likes the other girl to see how you will react. If he flurts wiv u then he may feel the same way about you as u do him, ur never going to know if you dont tell him how you feel.Hope that helps you and if it doesnt work out theres pleanty more fish in the sea and your only young so theres loads of time for boys.Good luck and take care x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (2 April 2009):
 well best thing is either ask him if he likes you or ask someone else to ask him and if not then just be grateful you guys are friends hun sometimes it's better to be friends with a guy rather than nothing at all.i mean can you imagine if you guys went out but things didn't work out?things may get awkward with you and maybe you wouldn't want to be his friend because of hurt.it's up to you hun if you really like him and want a chance then find out if he likes you.if not then just leave it a while as friends sometimes can develope into something more.just don't rush things hun you're still young and there maybe other guys :)Pop me a message if you need anymore help.
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