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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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I don't have any faith or confidence in myself since the breakup
Q. Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me some good advice, I really appreciate it. Im sorry for the length, I just want to make sure you understand my situation. I am now in my second year of college and just getting over alot of really h...
A. 14 August 2009: aw hun i'm really made up for you :)
well done!!! for going out there and doing what you wanted!!
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Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 5 June 2009: well if you feel you cannot trust him then i think you have your answer right there.
i mean you know his past and if you and him should get together can you honestly say you'll not be worrying about whom he is with and what he is doing...... (read in full...)
Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 4 June 2009: nooo i don't think so hun!! i mean otherwise that's way crossing the line. but it's up to you! i mean start to date him for a bit and see how it goes. if you feel he has changed then go for it but if you querie things then talk to him... (read in full...)
Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 4 June 2009: well don't get into anything too deep just yet.
believe as he says.
he clearly likes you and stuff and he obviously doesn't see you as just an "ordinary" girl.
just give him a chance but at the moment date him! don't get in too deep just yet... (read in full...)
He cheated, we got engaged. Then I cheated but he doesn't know!
Q. I need help, i am 22 years old and i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend/fiance since highschool (6 yrs) he was my first everything. I was so in love with him, I thought we'd be together forever, but the last few months have been rocky for ...
A. 3 June 2009: clearly you guys went through a tough patch but he's showed willingness and dedication to you to proove that you guys can do it and to proove how sorry he is and how much he does actually love you.
if you were unsure at first you should of discu... (read in full...)
Her family doesn't like me. She's avoiding me. Do I break up with her?
Q. Hi,i'm 22 of age i being in the r/ship 2 and half years after 1 and half years we had sex and to find out she was a virgin after talkin about it to have sex in our r/ship we had it ones.After that all changed our r/ship,she came busy with r/ship,no ...
A. 3 June 2009: yeah break up with her.
i mean she clearly doesn't know what she wants she's listening to her parents advice saying to leave you alone when she should just listen to her heart and what's right in her mind not theres.
i mean so what if they don... (read in full...)
I think I want to lose my V-card to him
Q. im 15 yrs old and thers his boy that i have known for like almost a yr now and he just turnt 16 and i really really like him and i know he likes me to because he has told me many times. he knows that i am a virgin and he has told me that he isnt ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hun he's just trying to use you and get you in the sack.
he is telling you that he won't leave you but he will!
hell i am like 20 and i'm still a virgin!
and to be honest i am really proud of that!
you really shouldn't rush into this.
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Why do all the girls cheat on me?
Q. So I just found out my girlfriend is cheating on me. This has become a pattern. Every girlfriend I've ever had ended up sleeping with someone else. Right now I'm finding it difficult to trust women. My best friend says I need to go out and be a ...
A. 2 June 2009: Hun i am a girl and trust me i wouldn't cheat
i hate girls who cheat why can't they be happy with the one they're already with?
it's stupid!
they complain when guys cheat but when it's themits a different story.!!
anyways if you want a n... (read in full...)
What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?
Q. My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...
A. 2 June 2009: alot of girls are self concious about there belows so this could very well be the reason.
she may think you won't enjoy it.
maybe she does feel she smells down there and you won't like it.
but alot of girls are pretty self concious abo... (read in full...)
Made an off-color joke about her mom's cancer, apologized many times, she is unresponsive, should I move on or is there more I could do?
Q. Hi thanks in advance for your advice. My brothers girlfriend has a female friend who I have met a couple of times and she apparently likes me. Well this weekend she had planned to come over and stay with me at my house at uni for the sat and Sunday ...
A. 2 June 2009: i mean ok it was a joke i've had people slip up and saythings about when my mum was ill and has now died rest her soul
sometimes i do laugh but it does get me thinking and it does hurt me but i laugh to stop crying.
she clearly knows you were j... (read in full...)
Talking to a girl I like for weeks, but we've run out of things to say! What can we do?
Q. Hi, I've been talking to a girl for a little while over MSN. We've gotten closer over the past few days, and we've arranged to meet in a week or so. Trouble is, we seem to be at a point where we can't think of anything to talk about. It's like we've ...
A. 2 June 2009: talk about anything!
anything random or whatever!
talk about things you like!
find out what things she likes?
ask her about what films she likes ask her questions.
you'll find something to talk about don't worry.
talk about your ho... (read in full...)
Could someone interpret hand holding body language?
Q. When a guy holds your hand, does it mean he likes you? Or does it matter on what type of hand holding it is? Like if it is just a palm to palm or resting his hand....is that a big difference to intertwining your fingers and playing with your hands? ...
A. 2 June 2009: yeah hun if it's a guy means he likes you and wants to be with you.
he's letting you know he likes you and wants a relationship with you.
he clearly cares for you :)
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Molested as a child and she is not open about sex, strain on relationship, any advice is appreciated?
Q. I've been dating my gf for 6 months and she told me about her childhood molestation 2 months into our relationship. She's very shy about sex and would not let me do oral on her...so I've not pushed her and gave her as much time as she needs. I'm not ...
A. 2 June 2009: but surely if you really love her and care for her you can see what's shes been through and still going through. it's going to be hard for her to open to anyone really she's obviously had a traumatic time. i mean perhaps you sit her down an... (read in full...)
I want him to know this is a bad idea
Q. I'm worried about my friend because his foreign exchange girlfriend is coming back for the summer. She was sent back home for bad behavior, being disrespectful to her host family, and smoking. He claims to be in love with her but this really upsets ...
A. 2 June 2009: Hun are you worried about this girl coming back because you have feelings for your friend?
i mean yeah ok she smokes and he dips and stuff but isn't it his life?
obviously you care alot about him but you need to let him learn from his own mis... (read in full...)
Shy and long distance, why should I do?
Q. I recently met the oldest son of a family friend. We've seen one another only twice (different schools) but I have heard many things about him from his brothers and it seems like we'd be compatible. We've texted several times and it's going well, ...
A. 2 June 2009: ask him to hang out when he comes back you know go to the cinemas or get somethig to eat?
something so you can be alone together give you guys a chance to talk and stuff.
i mean if he's shy you just ask him or tell him you like him and would li... (read in full...)
Wife threw me out after an argument without letting me explain!
Q. My sister decided to divorce her husband (for personal reasons and she wanted call the place at my house (her idea) cause she doesn't him to know yet. After my sister left my wife (of to months) hit redial (she has a friend that lives in a few ...
A. 2 June 2009: get your sister to explain to her that it was her call not yours.
get her to listen to you and your sister i mean if it was your sisters call get your sister around there to explain to her that she was the one who made the call and not you.
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I can't stop staring at other girl's bodies!
Q. This is really embarrassing. Ok here goes. I think I might be a Bisexual. I mean I really like guys and that'll never change (in fact I'm kind of in love with this guy, and I think he likes me too) But here's the thing. I get turned on by girls....
A. 1 June 2009: hun all people go through these things.
i mean alot of girls get turned on by other girls
doesn't nesscessarily make them bi sexual just fantasy i suppose.
i mean if you really think you are isn't there one true friend you know you can ... (read in full...)
Every time I ask a girl out I just freeze!
Q. i'm 18 and single because every time i ask a girl out i just freeze, she then asks if i'm ok, so i lie to her and say "i'm fine, just forget it" and walk off, i feel like such a failure and it's tearing me apart on the inside, how can i be more ...
A. 1 June 2009: just think of it as being friends not asking out.
just got up say hello ask how they are and gradually it'll come out.
i mean if the girls are approachable.
don't beat yourself up about it.
you're just a little shy and probably afraid o... (read in full...)
I need to lose weight and I know it would help my self confidence
Q. I'm 16 and i have VERY low self-esteem. I was bullied through my first two years of secondary school. I'm now in 4th year and i have met a new bunch of people who are great! But the one thing that bothers me is that they are all really fit and ...
A. 1 June 2009: if you've tried things and they have still not worked try speaking to your doctor about anything they can provide you?
may he can give you a little calorie thing so you can only eat a certain amount a day or something or give you some food ide... (read in full...)
I don't have any faith or confidence in myself since the breakup
Q. Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me some good advice, I really appreciate it. Im sorry for the length, I just want to make sure you understand my situation. I am now in my second year of college and just getting over alot of really h...
A. 1 June 2009: well you've clearly been through alot with this other guy.
i mean i woudln't go back to him even if he did come back to you because he had his chance now it's time for someone elses and you've taken so long and so much hard work to get over him... (read in full...)
Tell her nicely to back off or just give it to her straight?
Q. this is more a question for girls, but if one of your friends was flirting with your bf and tried to get into his bed with him, would you tell her nicely to back off or just give it to her straight? a friend of mine has recently done this and i was ...
A. 1 June 2009: i was going to say what sort of friend is that?
not a friend at all.
good to get rid of her.
i mean you trust you're boyfriend right?
well at least he kicked her out and shows he respects you.
as for her well she needs to get herself he... (read in full...)
If it hadn't been for the alcohol, it never would have happened!
Q. I am completely and utterly in love with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years who is also my best friend. Three nights ago however, I got very, very drunk on a night out with a friend, so drunk that I can't remember the majority (apart from little f...
A. 1 June 2009: you definately need to tell him i mean you'll make yourself ill if you don't tell him.
i mean he'll be really p****d off of course i mean who wouldn't but if you try and explain what had happend maybe he'll come around to it i mean if he complete... (read in full...)
What is bothering him?
Q. I got married 3 years ago and my husband is a very lovable person. We have an almost 2 year old daughter and she loves her daddy very much just like i do, he is the love of my life. hard working man. The only thing is that he gets hurt right away h ...
A. 1 June 2009: perhaps he is too proud to admit something is wrong maybe like some people he fels it's his problem and he will solve it in his own way. i mean you can try talking to him but don't force him to tell you just let him know that you're there for... (read in full...)
Why would a man suddenly go off sex?
Q. What are the reasons ,when a man suddenly don't want sex anymore,and cools off completly? Please tell me all the different options.thanks...
A. 1 June 2009: Maybe he is cheating on you? that's why he says he's gone off it because he's getting it from someone else? just a possibility. Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to talk to my son about his choice of a partner
Q. My 16-year-old son is gay, he came out to me about a month ago. He's about to finish school in a month anyway and is doing well in his studies. I'm not shocked - it's an alternative lifestyle choice and if it suits him I'm happy with it. My husb...
A. 29 May 2009: This is just a built up fantasy this guy clearly just wants to have his cake and eat it too!
it's not fair on your son because he's having this fairy tale world built up for him and it's not even going to happen for him because it's all a lie!
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I'm not happy with his past and thinking of leaving
Q. Do i stay with my boyfriend or leave. my partner is 43 and im 24 and we have just had our first baby together. he has been married before and has 2 children with his ex wife and he also has another child with another women. This women keeps comi...
A. 29 May 2009: hun this isn't up to you this is down to him.
don't leave him because of this.
you need to tell him or get him to get a restraining order or something.
because i mean she can't keep doing this to you both when you've got a child now as well ... (read in full...)
Should we stay together?
Q. me and my boyfriend have only been together for about half a year, but already i feel like a boring old couple i see on tv and think.... how unlucky. as he is hardly ever home because he has a job on the other side of wales by his dad i never know ...
A. 28 May 2009: hun!
get out of that relationship now!
seriously!
he doesn't love you enough when you said he stares at other girls.
you put yourself down because that is how he makes you feel!!
he may not say it no but it's how you feel and feel what ... (read in full...)
Is it worth it?
Q. hi everyone Three years ago my life fell to pieces. My grandparents, who played a very big part in my upbringing both died within 6 months of each other. My alcoholic abusive partner of 9 years went a step too far, finally admitting cheati...
A. 28 May 2009: hun you've clearly been through a traumatic time in your life and he's obviously noticed that and he knows you are vulnerable that's why he's doing it!
he knows you are fragile after your last break up and the loss of family so you are still gr... (read in full...)
I am in love with my friends wife
Q. I have a big question/issue. Myself and one of my friends met this girl at the same time and where I am a shy and reserved guy he is not and he hit it off with her right away. Well since then we have all been friends and I was developing a crush ...
A. 28 May 2009: Hun at the moment you can't really do anything at the moment because she is married whether or not she is happy.
i mean if she is that unhappy then why doesn't she leave him?
i mean you say he's really mean to her and stuff but if she's still w... (read in full...)
Am I overweight for my age?
Q. This isn't really a relationship question but this is the only place I can turn to, to get some advice. Idk what all information you need to tell me what I need to know but I'll just tell you everything about my body. I'm 13 years old, about 5'2, my ...
A. 28 May 2009: yeah course you are that's fine you're still young and growing into your body hun.
trust me you're still a puppy and got puppy fat nothing to worry about you're just still growing into your own body and mind.
honestly you shouldn't worry ... (read in full...)
Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?
Q. I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms. My question is to all the girls and i want a com...
A. 28 May 2009: hun don't do it for girls do it for you.
i mean don't try and get a "great" figure because you want girls to look at you.
if you're not happy with what you look like then sure do something but don't do it for a silly reason because of girls... (read in full...)
Teenage gossip politics all directed at me
Q. about two months ago, one of my friends had given me one of her friends (*Paula*) facebook password- i wasnt sure why, but i never checked her facebook because i was never that interested in what she did on it. however, having said that- i wen...
A. 28 May 2009: aw hun ignore her seriously she's just being b*tchy because you got the guy that she wants.
just leave it for now i mean just carry on as normal with your friend whom gave you the password at least she is looking out for you and continue making t... (read in full...)
Sister rivalry!
Q. I am the younger sister (19) and I am finding it really hard to live/get alone with my sister at the moment. There seems to be a tense horrible rivalry and jealousy between us. She has admitted that she has always between jealous of me, ever sinc...
A. 27 May 2009: hun i know exactly what you are going through my sister and i are exactly like that!
though i am 20 but still the youngest.
just enjoy it!
don't let her get to you if she does ignore her.
when you go to uni TRUST me things will change!... (read in full...)
Stuck in a room, doing absolutely nothing!
Q. I apologize for the long post, but I have a few relationship problems that I am seeking some help with. First of all, I love my girlfriend very much and moved out of my home state to be with her. She is very sweet and compassionate, but she seems ...
A. 27 May 2009: just do it move out if she gets upset well she knows what to do.
she can easily get a job or something.
seems like she just wants to be a lady of leisure but not in her own home.
just move into an appartment with your mate.
i mean sur... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a girl to tell a guy she likes him or to ask him out?
Q. i like this guy named Pedro and I think he likes me also..The problem is that he is shy I noticed that when he talks to me he gets nervous. I know he won't make the first move because he is shy..So I'm thinking about asking him out.OR just telling ...
A. 27 May 2009: no of course it's not wrong to tell a guy you like them or ask them out.
i mean if he's shy then it will be a boost for him to ask you out if he likes you or perhaps tell you he likes you back.
but do make sure he does like you first why not as... (read in full...)
Tradition rips apart mutual love - How to forget this love??
Q. I am in love with my best friend and he loves me unconditionally but I am forbidden to marry outside my own culture/religion (we're both young adults now). He gave up finally after 3years right when I realized I was actually in love. He still cares ...
A. 27 May 2009: why are you forbidden?
you are both young adults why can't you do what you want?
it's your life your happiness.
it's a bit unfair that you've been told you can't be with someone because of a different culture or religion...
to get ov... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for not liking my friend's boyfriend?
Q. Am I wrong for not likeing my friend new boyfriend? We are "were" great friends, until she got this bf. I understand things change once we get bf or gf, but I don't like him. I don't know him or never talked to him but there is something I don't ...
A. 27 May 2009: perhaps that's why you have a bad feeling because you guys have never really talked i mean i am in a similar situation to you but i have actually talked to the guy and gotten to know him and my friend isn't really with him.
but i had a gut inst... (read in full...)
Does he actually care about me if he is ok with me having other boyfriends?
Q. My boyfriend and I don't live in the same city. He says he is completely in love with me, but he doesn't do anything about us moving together to share a relationship. He is actually in the position to do that, to create a circumstance for me moving ...
A. 26 May 2009: seems to me like maybe he already has other girls and is just saying that you can have other boyfriends to make it seem ok that he has other girls on the go.
i'd not bother with him if he is like this in this situation i mean he doesn't seem to ... (read in full...)
Why do men want sex from their girlfriend?
Q. Why men in love want to have sex with their woman? My boyfriend keeps telling that he really wants to make love to me. And that he misses me when we are not together...Its not that he pressures me to have sex with me but he keeps mentioning about ...
A. 26 May 2009: sometimes it helps a man and woman connect further more with eachother get to know eachothers bodies and feel alot closer together and more as one person.
you said he's not pressuring you but he keeps mentioning it to you about his "desire"... (read in full...)
Do opposites really attract?
Q. right i'm 19 years old i'm meeting this girl today after she finishes work. i'm a bit nervous like we are totally different but i am really attracted to her and stuff. she's 20 and really shy she's also nervous about meeting today she's never ...
A. 26 May 2009: definately opposites do attract it's more exciting and fun that way you get to know eachothers likes and dislikes and it's definately more interesting.
she obviously likes you so try not too worry and make her feel relaxed.
you guys sound like y... (read in full...)
Party, boys and fear! Help!
Q. Please help me! So, I have liked this boy for over a year and half. About 6th months ago I admitted it... and now we have become closer and relli good friends. My friend said that he has changed around me recently. So we were all on the bus... an...
A. 26 May 2009: hun don't worry he said he's excited to dance with you for your party then just roll with it hun!
don't let other girls get in your way he said he likes you and if he truely means it he'll stick to it.
:)
you're confident if he don't bo... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: aw hun don't be silly i amsure the pictures were beautiful and he obviously thought you were beautiful to him and probably still does.
and as you say you've sent them now.
but don't feel down about it just learn from it and leave it now for... (read in full...)
Long distance friends, would like to have a more romantic relationship, how do I accomplish this?
Q. Well i have been stuck in the friend category for way too long. I have known this guy for almost three years now and we have continued to treat each other with respect and care. I actually met him in a very casual manner but we did not exchange...
A. 26 May 2009: well you guys have told eachother you love eachother and he feels the same that is a great start from the friend zone.
when texting him ask him next time he is home does he want to go out to the cinemas or something and progress it from there.
... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: the thing is you don't want to flood him with love songs and pictures.
that'll just annoy him and he won't want to talk to you because he will want his space.
all i can suggest if leave him be for a while let him think things over in his head... (read in full...)
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