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My adopted sister & I love each other!

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Question - (20 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i was adopted when i was a teenager. two years later my parents adopted a girl in her teens. we have fallen for eachother and share a very strong relationship. we tell eachother everything, we care for one another, we love each other. She is the only thing i really care about and is the reason why i get out of bed every morning. we still live with our parents. i am about to move out as soon as i finish this semester. we have had sex a few times and have never been closer. we have talked about moving far away and move in together. we have the same last name so people would think we are married. my parents found out about our relationship 6 mounths ago but they never found out how close we really are. we told them that we were just curious/and were expeirementing and we never had sex. we told them we would stop but we cant we love each other. should we stay together and move out and never let our parents find out and if they did risk never seeing them again or stop, get depressed and try to move on and find someone else. i cant see the second on happening but you never know. i am just trying to see if any one agrees with our relationship or not.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun you guys are not related go for it!!!

if you guys really love each other

your parents shouldn't really mind i mean you guys are not even related both adopted like

Best of luck hun

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A male reader, notreallyhere United States +, writes (20 March 2009):

You two aren't blood related... you are adopted, so there is nothing wrong with it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Parents should expect this possibility when they adopt grown up teenagers. It is not possible for a girl to suddenly start thinking of a guy as her brother becoz her parents adopted him. It is possible only if you grow up together. Even unrelated kids who grew up together think of each other as brothers and sisters. So it depends on whether you grew up together or not. Just try to explain your parents. Hope they would understand. Good luck :)

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A female reader, JustPlainTired United States +, writes (20 March 2009):

JustPlainTired agony auntI think you should talk to your parents again and explain to them that you guys are in love and hopefully they will understand. I dont really see an issue because you are not blood related but your parents might see it differently, I think you she just talk to them. It might turn out better then you think. Im assuming that you are an adult, So its time for you to make adult decisions, so stand up to them. Its your life and no one elses. Running away from your issues wont solve anything it just makes things worst. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

go with moving out and getting depressed, its the better option. she is your sister dude by spirit if not by blood.

Star.x.

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