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36-40,
*storeyfire
writes:Hi, I really like this guy I met in college and I was trying to flirt with him at our end of year party because he seemed interested too but we didn't hook up in any way and now the semesters nearly over and I'm afraid I had my chance with him and wasted it. I'm so upset, I'm not a very confident person when it comes to talking to guys and a good few other girls were flirting with him too. However I sometimes catch him looking at me in college, he always smiles when we talk and he specifically asked me if I was going to the party. I don't know what to do, maybe I have read too much into it but there seems to be a slight attraction on his part anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): arg..same thing happened and is happening with me..i like him loooads, and have done for ages,we always catch each others eyes..my friend told him i liked him (I know its so high school, but i cant flirt lol) and well, he hasnt acted on it..i sometimes get a smidgen of hope that he STILL might like me..arg..i hate men!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Same thing happened to me with a girl in First Year of college. I was crazy about her and I got the impression she liked me too. Sadly, I never made a move and there came a day when the opportunity was no more. That's almost six years ago and I still regret not making a move to this very day.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (24 March 2009):
 just grab the chance hun!
it's now or never!
who knows when you'l see him again
if your shy then email him or text him and ask him like just say your interested in him and wonders how he feels or something.
the worst he can say is no
at least you'll have tried and will know the answer rather than never knowing that something could of been.
Honestly hun just bite the bullet and put it right out there just say like you've had feelings for him.
Hope it works out for you hun,.
i'm not confident either if you need anymore help let me know :)
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reader, guppypig  +, writes (24 March 2009):
Guys are not girls. Unless he gets married, there is no such thing as "wasting a chance" with a man.
Seducing a woman is continuous process, and if you mess up at any stage, you're effectively frozen out.
Men are different. If you are remotely within a man's league, he will not pass up the chance to get laid.
Don't worry.
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