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At 27, I like girls but I'm also scared of them

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Question - (1 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *7andcounting writes:

i am 27 and i am a virgin, this is not a religon thing its a scared thing, in fact i have never even kissed a girl. i dont know why i like girls alot but im afraid of the reaction im gonna get. i have good looks and a great job and have probably upset a lot of girls by not even making a move, in fact a friend told me that 1 girl complained to her that i blew a golden opp. i just need to get over this problem and finally seal the deal,any advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

I'm 21 and I think this will be me at 27..:(

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2009):

All I can do here is kick you up the arse.

GET THE HELL ON WITH IT!!!

If the situation is right and she is throwing out signs that she wants to be kissed then stop being a little boy! Be a man and do it.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

dude live for the moment, there are so many people in the world like you, but why do you look at is as something bad? just because society says so? No way man... You are unique... This is just a sign to say that you are pure and have not found the right woman.. Dont stress over things you cannot control.

GOODLUCK

mike

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

i am girl of 28 yaers old and i have the same problem as you.but guys hate me is the only difference

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun i am 20 not been kissed by a guy or slept with one!

i am pretty much scared too i am scared of the relationship and where it'll lead too!

all you need to do is just think! life is too short and just go for it!

let yourself go! see what happens!

you could b like me tryin to wait for mr right but your case mrs right.

but it won't happen over night you have to find alot of like mrs on the way and if they don't work so what!

it'll make you a stronger person and you'll get there you have to kiss alot of frogs before you find the princess!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntwell get into a relationship first, start by being friends and ask her out on a date. dont be scared of rejection, its a natural thing and everyone goes through it. when you have been dating a while and its time to seal the deal then just remain calm! dont tell her that its your first time unless she brings it up and in that case dont lie, telling her that you havent done it before could take the pressure off both of you! just communicate with your girlfriend.xx

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