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Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.

i am currently single.

i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.

so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)

i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.

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If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.

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I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend whom I left.

Q.   Hello. I left my ex-boyfriend in early August last year. He hadnt spoke to me much the last month we were together...I feel stupid for leaving him too. I left because i didnt feel loved anymore. Now i feel like i need to be loved and that im needy...

A.   30 July 2009: congratulations hun :) best of luck. x ilovebowsandcherries x... (read in full...)

I know what is right, but I'm still confused on what to do

Q.   So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends ...

A.   13 July 2009: well why are you confused on what to do? do you have feelings for this guy? because you say you love your soldier guy and i'm not saying you don't but shouldn't that be your answer? you love him not this other guy. you said in your question "i... (read in full...)

I feel he has ruined my life, my parents kicked me out, he dropped ne but keeps calling me, how can I get rid of him forever??

Q.   okay so im sorry for the poinless detail here, but i just cant understand whats going on anymore, im a total mess and im so confused! back in september 08, i met a guy, i was out in town one night (not out drinking or anything, just generally out) ...

A.   13 July 2009: Hun he's used you i know you've been blinded by love and he's 21 he's a guy most guys don't mature until later on in life girls are more matured than guys. he's always going to have a hold on you and you need to get past this i know it's hard i mean... (read in full...)

My b/f keeps asking me for anal sex, I don't know what to do or how it's done?

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend keeps asking me to have anal sex with him. I have never taken it up the butt and am not sure if it will hurt or what i am supposed to do. Can you help me?...

A.   13 July 2009: i have heard it does hurt from some girls i know who've done it and they don't recommend it. but as sammi says you can use a lube to make it easier for you. if you don't want to do it just tell your boyfriend you don't want too if he loves you he'l... (read in full...)

When does puberty start?

Q.   hey ppl. okay so what i really wanna know is when/what age the body starts developing/puberty, and when does penis size start to increase????...

A.   13 July 2009: it can start at any age from now really 13-15 onwards depends how early or late you develope there is no given time not all guys and girls start the same times. you could be early and be going through it now. but you could be late a starter.... (read in full...)

I'm concerned about the porn I found on his computer!

Q.   So recently I was on my boyfriend's computer and saw that he had google searched and dowloaded a porn video. The name sounded weird to me so I looked it up later and it turns out it was from a porn site where men have sex with women while they're ...

A.   13 July 2009: he may like the idea of a girl being unresponsive towards it because he feels in control and he can do whatever he likes to that girl as easy access. it's just a fantasy i am sure he would never really do something like that. i'm sure he knows it... (read in full...)

Girlfriend was raped when she was a child, and does not like me to hold or touch her, what can I do to change this?

Q.   My girlfriend was raped when she was a kid, and now it affects her. She hates been touched in any form. I really like to hold her but she nevers allow me to hold her. What should i do?...

A.   13 July 2009: just tell her constantly you care about her and stuff i mean if she's still like this then maybe she should get counselling to help through this traumatic time help her over come her fears. it's understandable the way she'll be feeling because she'... (read in full...)

Is he gay?

Q.   Ok, So I was In my senior year of high school,and I met a dude. First, it started off as friends...me being gay and attracted to him I told him I was gay. He told me he didnt really care his exact words were, "Im Open Minded that stuff doesnt really ...

A.   10 July 2009: i think he is gay but he's not really out of the closet yet due to people being anti gay or his family disowning him and finding it hard to come to terms with. he clearly likes you wanting you to give him a blow job and stuff. i mean he's texting... (read in full...)

Why is he so mean to me when we've broken up?

Q.   Hi, me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago, I'm feeling really down and depressed, because we ended up in ugly terms, he was so mean and rude to me, telling me things like these: - I don't wanna talk to you, whats the part you dont get? -...

A.   10 July 2009: sweety he's mean because he's a t*** he treats you like crap swearing at you for what? the fact you wanted to talk to him! he's not worth your time don't add his friend if you think it's a bit dodgey i mean chances are he's trying to find out info... (read in full...)

I love him, do we keep the baby even tho we're 900 miles apart?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago because he couldnt decided if he wanted to be with me or be single. I let him make the choice after being with him for 2 years making sure he knew I tried and it was his decision. We promised to remain ...

A.   10 July 2009: well sweety if you have the financial ability to keep it and support it and yourself then go for it but you don't want to be a single parent maybe talk to your ex and find out his oppions on the matter maybe he would like to be a father to the ... (read in full...)

My Ex wants to still have Sex when his new Girlfriend is pregnant!

Q.   I was with my ex for 5 years he cheated on me 3 times but I love him and still ended up back with him. We got married last year and I got pregnant. He left me for other women when I was 2 months prego. He told me thay it was a mistake to leave me ...

A.   10 July 2009: i don't think he ever really loved you i don't think he actually knows the meaning of love! you've got a child with him he used you because he still sees you as his property! he called you up because he found out you got guy friends... so what? h... (read in full...)

I want her to desire me again!

Q.   ok so my wife and i are 20 and our son will be 1 on july 12th we got married march 27, 2008. we have always had a very intimate relationship. but within the past 5 months she just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. i have asked her why she ...

A.   10 July 2009: well she probably wants to go out with her friends now because she's still young she's 20 i'm 20 and i'm not a go out person but depends on the people you go with. she's got a child she's tied down she's gonig to want to get out there now she's been... (read in full...)

How can I make my wife feel valued?

Q.   My wife said she doesn't feel important to me what do I do? Right now she said she needs a break what are some things I can do to make her feel special and to show how much I really love her?...

A.   10 July 2009: if she wants a break arrange a little spar day at a fancy hotel for her pampering and being wined and dined then stay in the hotel for the night just relax away from the home. girls like being pampered :) she could get a massage to help dest... (read in full...)

Worried all I'll be able to think about during sex is getting pregnant

Q.   Okay so I have been talking to this guy for a year and we just started dating about 2 and a half months ago. I'm pretty sure I love him ha, actually I do love him. He means the world to me, well he's ready to have sex and I am too I'm pretty sure. ...

A.   10 July 2009: well first off you're underage to be doing this. second off you must make sure you take all precautions aka you take the pill he uses condoms and stuff. if you're not ready then don't do it. i mean it sounds to me like you're not that ready for it... (read in full...)

Can I ask her out or is she 'off-limits'?

Q.   Hi, I asked not too long ago about a good gift for a female co-worker for her b-day. Well I got something for her, and she really liked it. Like her expression showed it the whole day. A few days ago, I heard some bad news that implied she was ...

A.   9 July 2009: good luck to you sweety hope it works out for the best! let us know how you get on!! (Y) keep us updated!... (read in full...)

He used to call me everynight but not anymore...

Q.   So, a while ago, I would say around the beginning of April, I met this amazing guy. At the time, I thought he was just a guy trying to "get some" so I didn't pay any mind to him. But then I really started talking to him and getting to know him, and ...

A.   9 July 2009: maybe he's found someone else and is ignoring you and avoiding you until you actually get the message sad but true it does happen. that's why he gives one word answers why he makes up an excuse on the phone to go he's probably found someone ... (read in full...)

How can I help my best friend?

Q.   Ok my Best friend in the whole wide world i knew her since 2nd grade she is 2 months odlder than me and he is into drugs and sex she has pretty big boobs(double d) and that is why alot of the guys she dates (wich most of them are 17-20)like her and ...

A.   9 July 2009: hun if you're concerned tell her parents what she is doing this isn't normal for a 13 year old she's illegal for all of that! you've tried to help her in your best ways and maybe it's time to bring in the parents its there child they need to get h... (read in full...)

Any advice for dealing with depression and anxiety?

Q.   I'm a bit complicated, I think. I am seeing a psychiatrist, but he is four hours away (I was living in a different state when I first started seeing him). He diagnosed me with depression and anxiety. My mom has both so I suppose there's a link? ...

A.   9 July 2009: hun i understand how you're feeling i'm 20 been through some stuff in my life. i think maybe a therapist would be a better option for you i am not a therapist myself no but i think maybe talking over these things outloud to someone else may help... (read in full...)

I'm looking for something different but I don't want to hurt her

Q.   Hello guys, This is my situation. I have a girlfriend, we are currently on our 10th month this month. Everything seems to be in great shape. I know I love her, but not sexually, intimately or passionately. I don't know how, but I know I wan...

A.   9 July 2009: mmm..... not really. maybe on the phone? that way she can hear you and hear what you have to say rather than writting? ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend whom I left.

Q.   Hello. I left my ex-boyfriend in early August last year. He hadnt spoke to me much the last month we were together...I feel stupid for leaving him too. I left because i didnt feel loved anymore. Now i feel like i need to be loved and that im needy...

A.   9 July 2009: hun why do you want him back? you're 13-15 you got your life ahead of you. it's not love i mean he doesn't even like you anymore he's a moron obviously! you just miss the fact of having someone to love you but we all get like that at some point i... (read in full...)

Basically, he's Indian and I'm Black and he's afraid of how we look together

Q.   I would really like your help, sorry about it being so long. Okay so there's this guy who I had 2 classes with last year, we never really spoke to each other, and he was just another class mate. In late April of 2008, I would notice that he would ...

A.   9 July 2009: to be honest i'm not sure he's THAT into you. i mean you spilled your heart to him and he said "okay well thanks have a nice day"? if he liked you he'd at least stick around or tell you he feels the same. but as he said to your friend in the c... (read in full...)

Long distance woes and the meaning of love

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months. We met in college, both first years, and we were in a relationship pretty quickly. She's my first girlfriend, and I'm her second boyfriend. We are really compatible, as we have the same se...

A.   9 July 2009: well i don't think it's love because if you're in a long distance relationship and you LOVE eachother then it wouldn't matter how far apart you guys are because you'd always have them in your heart. now this relationship seems to become more of a fr... (read in full...)

I'm scared but I want to give myself to him

Q.   Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and I've kept him waiting sexually this long, hes starting to anxious but he says he'll wait as long as I need. I know he really cares for me and would wait but part of me too is getting ...

A.   9 July 2009: well first off you just do it when you feel its right and technically you're underage so are breaking the law you're 13-15 you are to be 16 to be legal age to do this sort of stuff. if you want to wait until you're more comfortable with yourself... (read in full...)

Can I ask her out or is she 'off-limits'?

Q.   Hi, I asked not too long ago about a good gift for a female co-worker for her b-day. Well I got something for her, and she really liked it. Like her expression showed it the whole day. A few days ago, I heard some bad news that implied she was ...

A.   9 July 2009: but if she's seeing someone that means they are not nesscessarily together right? i mean when people say i'm seeing this guy or im seeing this girl it means they do EVERYTHING relationship wise but without the actual committment so you can tech... (read in full...)

I dream about kissing a girl which end up getting food in my mouth

Q.   everytime i have a dream that involves me kissing a girl, i kiss her and then i end up getting a bunch of material like food from her mouth into mine. why is that? i've never kissed a girl (unfortunately) if that matters. any thoughts or similar ...

A.   9 July 2009: maybe it's your concious telling you that you're afraid in some ways to kiss a girl. perhaps you'll be afraid if you mess it up or you'll not like the way she kisses. it's definately to do with you not kissing a girl and maybe feeling you're n... (read in full...)

I feel so guilty, but should I be?!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing. Lately, we have been arguing infront of all of our friends. This is very unusual for us, because usually if we have something to say to one another - we take it somewhere else, but lately I have been blow...

A.   9 July 2009: no you should not feel guilty! he won't let you sit near a guy because he's getting high and it's paranoia his uncontrollable mind takes over and he get's highly paranoid. if this is occuring you want to get out of there you shouldn't ha... (read in full...)

Her stories aren't adding up and I think there's alot going on that I don't know about

Q.   Hi I am in a 3 month relationship that was going good till a few weeks ago. Recently my girl has stopped anwering calls and texts. She does get back to me after awhile but its weird. She was supposed to work one day and she left my house for ...

A.   9 July 2009: well it does all sound dodgey. you've not accused her of cheating yet she denies it? i think it's safe to say that she is otherwise she wouldn't just blurt it out without having that on her mind. my best friend (a guy) he was with a girl and she... (read in full...)

44 year old virgin and not sure what to do

Q.   I think that to be honest I may have more than one question in this subject but my main one is how to make love. I am a 44 yr old virgin and a girl of 28 (woman) has come into my life it was love on first sight sort of thing. But im very inexperi...

A.   9 July 2009: ah fair enough you won't i'm sure she'll be quite pleased to know you're a virgin shows respect of yourself :) that you've waited for the right one :) best of luck x ... (read in full...)

He's playing favourites but I don't think its intentional?

Q.   I have two best friends, a boy and a girl. We're all inseparable however there are a few problems. The girl, I have no problem connecting with and she has none with me. The boy, however, mostly doesnt open up to me, but he will to her. He also tells ...

A.   9 July 2009: yeah there are somethings guys can't talk to guys about maybe he does want too but he doesn't want to make you feel awkward and because she's a girl girls are easier to talk and you both confide in her so seems that he talks more to her but he ... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??

Q.   Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webc...

A.   8 July 2009: i wouldn't go there i mean you've shown your parts on cam? that's odd for a 19 year old! i';m 20 and i wouldn't do that with a 16 year old it's the same age difference between you and her as it would be me and one of my friends brothers or cousi... (read in full...)

I'm looking for something different but I don't want to hurt her

Q.   Hello guys, This is my situation. I have a girlfriend, we are currently on our 10th month this month. Everything seems to be in great shape. I know I love her, but not sexually, intimately or passionately. I don't know how, but I know I wan...

A.   8 July 2009: i know it's hard but you need to do what is best. all i can suggest is that you sit down with her and tell her face to face. don't do it over the phone or text or anything she'll hate you if you do that at least face to face it's more personal... (read in full...)

Is she only with me because he didn't want her back?

Q.   Hi, I've been seeing someone for the past 6 months and everything has been going great. I've liked her for 3 years and when we finally got together I was elated. She used to be dating someone else before me who didnt treasure her and used ...

A.   8 July 2009: well if you feel this way then why not sit her down and talk to her find out why she is still in contact with him? i mean she may just want to be civil with him rather than have ructions every now and again with him and hatred. she maybe a mellow p... (read in full...)

I'm looking for something different but I don't want to hurt her

Q.   Hello guys, This is my situation. I have a girlfriend, we are currently on our 10th month this month. Everything seems to be in great shape. I know I love her, but not sexually, intimately or passionately. I don't know how, but I know I wan...

A.   8 July 2009: well you definately need to tell her because it is unfair on her i mean she obviously loves you but you may see it in a more of a friend relationship now more than a love. you do need to tell her now it'll be hard obviously because it's your 10th... (read in full...)

He keeps going back and forth should I just give him up?

Q.   well there is this boy/my ex (we we're together for a long time)(10 months) that i realllyyy lovee with all my heart and i dont want to let go of him...but im not sure if i should or shouldn't??...i feel like i already lost him..but i didnt want ...

A.   8 July 2009: hun i think there itself shows it's not true love. he ends it with you and goes back to some other girl? that's not love i don't think he actually loves you at all. you may think you do but i don't think he does for you. if he did feel for you... (read in full...)

Afraid of moving in with boyfriend

Q.   can anyone help me? i'm 19 yrs old and my boyfriend wants me to move in with him and i'm scared to bc i dont know if he will be able to take care of me and the house....

A.   8 July 2009: well if they are your concerns why not talk to him about them, sit with him make sure he knows what he is getting himself in for and can look after you and the house together. it's a big responsibility you guys are taking together so you must make... (read in full...)

He smokes so much pot!

Q.   Ok so here's my problem .. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and 3 months we're very happy with eachother and are definently in love.. But he smokes sooooo much pot.. I do it with him sometimes but its never been a problem for ...

A.   8 July 2009: perhaps talking with him like sitting down together and talking to him about it would get him to realise that he's leaving you behind so to speak. he shouldn't evolve his life around pot and parties he should evolve it around people he loves and ... (read in full...)

He won't leave me alone!

Q.   this guy started calling me,never telling me he was about to get married,tells me later and lets me know he plans on keeping me,if he hears of a gu liking me ,he runs them off, i will not sleep with him. he wil not leave me alone. he tels me all of ...

A.   8 July 2009: woah! i suggest you take this to the police he's stalking you and harrassing you trying to control your life and trapping you into your life. you need to go to the police and tell them what's going on because this isn't right at all! he can't ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant, my fiance cheated and got her pregnant too!

Q.   My fiance cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. I love him a lot.and to make it worse i was already a month pregnant. he swears it wasnt on purpose, he was drunk and that he will do everything to get me back. i dont know if i can trust him agai...

A.   8 July 2009: well you want to do what is best for you. if you feel you can't trust him and you've got a child on the way and feel maybe he won't be there for you as much as you need him to be. you need to do now what is best for you and your child. whether y... (read in full...)

So why isn't he talking to me?

Q.   ok i have been talking about my boy friend jarid and like i said befor that we have a some what long distint reation ship and latly he has not ben awnsering my txt or my calls he has been a little sick but we used to talk every day it has been 3 ...

A.   8 July 2009: hun if you told Jarid you were talking to another guy maybe that;s why he is ignoring you because he's upset and now may think that you are cheating or something. i mean he's been ill so chances are he can't get to the phone and is probably slee... (read in full...)

He's playing favourites but I don't think its intentional?

Q.   I have two best friends, a boy and a girl. We're all inseparable however there are a few problems. The girl, I have no problem connecting with and she has none with me. The boy, however, mostly doesnt open up to me, but he will to her. He also tells ...

A.   8 July 2009: well maybe he is like you and he finds it easier to talk to her. i mean i am sure you tell her things he doesn't know about you. i don't think it's playing favourites i think it's more she understands more and is easier person to talk too. ma... (read in full...)

44 year old virgin and not sure what to do

Q.   I think that to be honest I may have more than one question in this subject but my main one is how to make love. I am a 44 yr old virgin and a girl of 28 (woman) has come into my life it was love on first sight sort of thing. But im very inexperi...

A.   8 July 2009: why would you hurt her? or her feelings? why don't you talk to her about it first and tell her that you're a little scared because you've not done this before and you don't want to mess it up. i'm sure she isn't going to get hurt or upset i am s... (read in full...)

My family doesn't like this guy and are taking bets on me getting pregnant!

Q.   my life sucks i just started daiting this jarid july 1st and his big bro looks out for me so i call him big bro 2 and my whole family hates me and jarid together like my bro said he wants to kill him but i really like this guy and every time i talk ...

A.   7 July 2009: your family shouldn't be making bets on how long it takes you to get pregnant! they should respect you with whom you're with and if he makes you happy then they should be happy. i mean most guys around that age are probably sexually active but they... (read in full...)

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