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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 19 March 2009: hun i wouldn't go down this road to be honest it'll cause too much hassel yeah she probably does seem mature but she's only 14 she's too young for love she has her whole life ahead of her she's only just in year 9 not even close to her GCSE's she ... (read in full...)
How can I change him? or am I over-reacting.
Q. Hello, I am 23yrs old and have been married for nearly 2 years. I moved away from my home town 5 years ago and met my husband soon after. He is a lovely man, but i never imagined my life to be like this. I love him very much, he is my strength. ...
A. 19 March 2009: hun get out there make some friends ask some people you work with to go out with you for some drinks tell your husband to stop being soo boring and working all the time and losen up! or organize a little meal for some work mates of yours and have... (read in full...)
I feel so down and sad and confused please help me.
Q. Hi, I'm so confused and dont know what to do at the moment. I met a Swedish girl 4 months ago when I was visiting my parents in Malaysia, I'm based in the UK, now I'm still in Malaysia, on working holiday thing. I met J on the beach, she was supp...
A. 19 March 2009: hun! i'd leave her be don't text her or call her she made her choice she went back to her ex. like you say she enjoys the attention from you and everything maybe she is only being the way she is to keep you interested but then when you say your fee... (read in full...)
I feel so unworthy and pathetic. What should I do?
Q. Currently all my friends have boyfriends and I've never had a boyfriend and desperately wanted to have one. Now I've become so down on the fact that it will never happen I've given up caring and looking for that special someone. Does this mean...
A. 19 March 2009: first of all don't feel unworthy and pathetic just not all the time guys tell you they like you soemtimes you got to tell them first or let them know how you feel because sometimes guys are afraid of telling girls how they feel and are scared of the ... (read in full...)
Angry with girlfriend
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for quite sometime. i was happy her at the begining bt for the past few weeks i dont feel like loving her anymore. she flirt with other guys, having bets with other guy that if they gt the thing, she will give them a ...
A. 19 March 2009: well she does seem like she's making you jealous but if it bothers you that much then just stay friends i mean you're 13-15 you got your whole life ahead of you there will be plenty more girls, so if she flirts with other guys to make you jealous ... (read in full...)
I am afraid of meeting him in person
Q. There's this guy I met on the internet. It was kind of a dating site. He is a sweetheart but I am afraid of meeting him in person. I am afraid because my parents are racists and I know they would not be happy with me dating him. He told me he wa...
A. 19 March 2009: yeah i agree with the person below it's alright your not dating him yet and who knows maybe when you meet you guys won't even feel any spark.
to be honest it's up to you who you can and cannot date not your parents you're an adult now and know what... (read in full...)
A month after the break up coffee date: First step to winning her back????
Q. So, my girlfriend broke up with me about thirty days ago. After the break things were cool until about a week later when we were hanging out and she was blatantly flirting with another guy. The next morning I explained that I thought it was rude ...
A. 18 March 2009: it does seem like she has moved on flooding her with flowers and cards has probably pushed her away further from you she probably just wants to stay your friend so she still has someone to talk too.
i wouldn't try anything though as she will pro... (read in full...)
I like the same guy my friend likes... Help!
Q. I have these friends let's call one S and H. S introduced me to her friend who was also friends with H's crush and we all hung out and had fun and I treated him no different from how I treat them... then we hung out again an H told me before that ...
A. 18 March 2009: well if you care for your friends then id leave it and keep the friendship i mean you and this guy can always be friends and maybe they'll find someone else to like and then you can tell them you like him, i would sy talk to them about how you feel ... (read in full...)
Scared of being rejected and his friends don't like me!
Q. I have to warn you this is major complicated, well for me it is... When I first met this guy he annoyed me so much. Him and his friends drove me crazy but they were all kinda sweet sometimes and they made me laugh when I really needed it... This ...
A. 18 March 2009: Hun guys don't mature for YEARS to come lol! he does like you he is only sweet to you when your alone because his mates aren't there but when he's with his mates he has to pretend he don't like you because his mates will tease him about you and he's... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel like quitting the relationship but I like her as a person
Q. My friend has got a very polite way of humiliating people and I don’t like it, I have spoken to her about this several times but she is a “take it or leave it” kind of a person. She does it to me as well sometimes and it hurts my feelings. But most...
A. 18 March 2009: To be honest it is really up to you i mean you get her sense of humour but as you say your embarressed when she puts other people down who don't understand her sense of humour i mean you shouldn't have to apologize to other people for her b... (read in full...)
What do I do to make him change his mind?
Q. ok... its pretty difficult but i was already pregnant when i first met my fiance. we were together 3 months and he had left for pre deployment training. we had a really good friend and he told me while my fiance was away that he was sleeping with...
A. 18 March 2009: apologies i replied to the wrong thing.
woops!
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Yes or no... Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Hi, I went to a prty a few weeks ago and took my best friend along for some moral support coz I like the guy who's party it was. So she got quite tipsy and was all over him, I just put it down to the drink, but the next week I caught the 2 of them ...
A. 18 March 2009: Well first things first i know how you feel about a mate sorta getting with a guy you like. but anyways the only way you'll find out it just right out and ask him. i mean the worst he can say is no, but at least you'll still have his friendship a... (read in full...)
Even his sister calls him a jerk,but I'm confused about what to do!
Q. Hi everyone I just need some advice as im in a tough confusing situation right now. Okay so I posted a lil while ago about my ex that went crazy when he lost his good paying job and left me the same week when I found out I was pregnant. Gave me $ ...
A. 18 March 2009: Sappy girl is right he is the father at the end of the day he has parental rights to see his child but that doesn't mean that you have to be with him for the sake of the child you wouldn't want a horrible atmosphere for your baby to grow up him.
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What do I do to make him change his mind?
Q. ok... its pretty difficult but i was already pregnant when i first met my fiance. we were together 3 months and he had left for pre deployment training. we had a really good friend and he told me while my fiance was away that he was sleeping with...
A. 18 March 2009: To be honest it is really up to you i mean you get her sense of humour but as you say your embarressed when she puts other people down who don't understand her sense of humour i mean you shouldn't have to apologize to other people for her beha... (read in full...)
Is this mean or am Itaking this too hard?
Q. ok so there is this girl, we met about 2 months ago and the way we met i thought we was supposed to be together, we started seeing each other and it was all good. just recently ive started to feel so comfortable in holding her hand and kissing her, ...
A. 17 March 2009: i don't think you loved her maybe it was nice to finally share some decent talk with someone and like feeling comfortable to talk to her about stuff but it was a bit childish for her to get her friend to tell you that she's moved on that is a bit ... (read in full...)
He's already got a g/fbut I like him!
Q. Hi well i am 20 years old and single i've been through alot with guys alot of them treat me badly and tell me things that in the end turn out not to be true. But i work full time at a solicitors office and there is a guy who often comes in he is ou...
A. 17 March 2009: ok thanks for those of you whom were a bit more senseitive! look i didn't say i'm going to get him i ain't that kind. i'm just asking for some advice i'm not going to ask him to dump his girlfriend sheesh!! anyways thanks for your oppi... (read in full...)
Lumps on my neck & tattoo a few months ago..related?
Q. Hello there, Recently I have been noticing little lumps on my neck around the sides, just below my ear and back of nect etc. I've noticed them for about 2 wks now and was getting a bit concerned. Today a big lump come up on my neck and it w...
A. 17 March 2009: heyyy maybe it was an allergic reaction to the ink they used?
if our concerned go to the doctor and check it out could of just been a spot under the skin.
but definately go to the doctors to get it checked out first incase.
hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
Would she get by without me?She's too dependent on me
Q. From the age of 16 my dream was to have a business where I could earn money from my computer and travel the world. No one believed that was realistic but I worked hard over the last 9 years at it and now I am almost in the position to live like ...
A. 17 March 2009: the thing is about her she has become too dependant on you and yeah she is probably still scrapping off you now even though she has a job because maybe she's trying to put money aside for her sons future but you need to tell her to maybe branch out ... (read in full...)
G/f depressed because she's obese
Q. My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can ...
A. 17 March 2009: if she is depressed and thinks she is obese then maybe she should go to the doctor and see if he can provide any slimming pills.
i mean do you think she is obese?
maybe she thinks this because she feels you are thinking this.
try and reassure her... (read in full...)
He's shorter than me!
Q. We like each other very much he worries all the time that i dnt like him cause hes shorter than me... M 5"10 hes 5"8. By him worrying he makes me self conscious about my height. Any idea guys please... And also girls too... Help me...
A. 17 March 2009: if you both love eachother why does height matter?
i'm sure other people don't care about your height difference and im sure he doesn't.
there are lots of different types of couples out there and they all come in different shapes and sizes and be... (read in full...)
She's very stubborn and doesn't know what she wants, meanwhile I am in so much pain!
Q. Hello Everyone. I'm not in a good place right now, and could really do with some help and advice. Basically, I met my girlfriend about one year ago and we fell in love so fast, we were practically inseparable. All was perfect throughout the s...
A. 17 March 2009: wow! that was extremly long! lol but i enjoyed reading it it's really nice you guys were so close. and yeah i know where she is coming from but maybe you being so loving to her and wanting her back is why she is so confused, maybe if you give her ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants sex... how do I make him change?
Q. Just some advice needed really. There's a lad I really like and he likes me, we are very attracted to each other but neither of us are in the right place to have a relationship with each other. We went to Paris a few weeks back with each other ...
A. 17 March 2009: Well they do say the truth comes out when your drunk maybe the reason he has been getting so friendly with you is because he has been trying to get you to get into bed with him. i mean in previous experience i've had alot of rubbish said to me from ... (read in full...)
Abusive Husband, how do I change him?
Q. my husbund is always making nasty comments about me for no reason and then tells me to learn to move on in live if i'm still mad at him 5 minutes later but he never appologises. How can i make him realize what he's doing to me without being ru...
A. 17 March 2009: you can't make him realise he knows what he is doing he is trying to degrade you and put you down make you feel worthless and your not!!! he is just a big bully thinking he has the power!! anything you do tell him will be wrong so what i say is yo... (read in full...)
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