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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!
Q. I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and ...
A. 21 July 2009: why not try talking to your ex find out how things are with her tell her you've changed and want to give you guys a go.
but if she's moved on you do have to respect that and leave her be i mean if she's actually with someone you can't do anyt... (read in full...)
It bothers me that she's slept with so many people. I value sex, and she has just been giving it away
Q. my girlfriend is 19 and so am i. She has had sex with seven different guys, including me, while i've only had sex with her. Ever since she told me about that, i haven't had the same respect for her and i feel like i cant see her the same way. a lot ...
A. 21 July 2009: Hun different people see it different ways.
i am like you i am waiting i guess for someone special but whether or not they've done it shouldn't let it bother you.
i mean she may regret it and feel it's more special with you then believer her.
i'... (read in full...)
I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 21 July 2009: best of luck to you :)
hope it all works out for ya!
x ilovebowsandcherries x... (read in full...)
We're going to be roommates, and I'm attracted to him! Should I say something now or when we are sharing a roof?
Q. So I recently started working for a new company. About 2 months after being there, I started inquiring to some of my coworkers that I was tired of living alone and was possibly looking to get a roommate or find a new place with roommates. I was ...
A. 21 July 2009: i'd perhaps say something before you guys move in i mean if you find out he doesn't like you and feels maybe you should find somewhere else then you'll not be homeless and still have a roof over your head whereas if you tell him and you are moved in ... (read in full...)
Is friends with benefits more emotional than a relationship?
Q. Friends with benefits people say its less emotional but surely its more? because if you've been friends with them for some time then you would care for them a lot, probably more than a new boyfriend so if you lose them then not only do you los...
A. 20 July 2009: friends with benefits is anything BUT attachment of a relationship just two friends fooling around not hurting either one as you're not together so basically when he/she can't get off with a girl or guy they want then they got there friends with ... (read in full...)
He replied "maybe you do love me more" when I said "I love you more". What does this mean?
Q. hi there, I am a little confused and I hope you can help me clarify this situation with your responses. Here goes, my boyfirend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now, we are both in our early 30's. He has never had a proper girlf...
A. 20 July 2009: well seems to me like he's saying he does love you but you obviously love him more because you are more into the relationship than maybe he is.
maybe as you've said he's "chilled" out so he says that you love him more because he knows you're more... (read in full...)
I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!
Q. My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x...
A. 20 July 2009: well why not talk to your boyfriend let him know how you feel i understand what you mean i am self concious about my body too.
but jus talk to him let him know what's going on in your head and tell him that you want to lose your virginity to him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been calling me horrible names but always claims he is joking after!
Q. my boyfriend and i have a very close relationship we've been on and off but recently he's been calling me a bitch a slag and a c**t wen i say thats rude he always replies with im jokin but is he really joking but i love him so much i could never ...
A. 20 July 2009: i don't think he is joking if he truly loved you he wouldn't call you these names.
i mean why not talk to him find out why he really says these things?
i mean even as a joke it's hurtful
he shouldn't say these kind of things to a girl he's mean... (read in full...)
What does my lover mean when he says he wants to rape me?
Q. My lover keeps telling me he wants to rape me and i'm not sure what he means by this ,why say something like that when we have good sex anyway,does it mean he want's to play act with me and if so and i went along with it what if he lost control and ...
A. 20 July 2009: um!
that's a bit freaky that your lover wants to rape you and keeps asking you if he can.
i mean you're right to be a bit afraid there i mean what if he does get out of control.
i think he'd enjoy the control over you, forcing you to do stuff may... (read in full...)
I want her to realise that what she is doing is hurting me!
Q. My girlfriend and I are now on our third month, and was going strong until around the last weeks of June I'm having doubts with our relationship and started fighting her about why she still goes out with her ex who gave her so much pain and so much ...
A. 20 July 2009: to be honest she probably does realise what it's doing to you but she won't stop because she's enjoying the attention from her ex and other guys who hit on her and the cause of you getting jealous and wanting her to stay away from these guys.
y... (read in full...)
Should I contact his new girlfriend and tell her what he is doing?
Q. Dear Cupid, My ex has recently started to text me again, he was been makin small conversation at first, then he asked was i still with my new boyfriend, Even though i said yes, he asked me to come over to his cause he had a free house only to 'h...
A. 20 July 2009: i don't think you should text his ex at all she'll get the wrong idea and it could come crashing down onto you and end up making you the bad guy.
i mean who will she believe her current boyfriend? or his Ex?
she'll just see you as being jealou... (read in full...)
I have a gut instinct that my husband is cheating on me!
Q. hi cupids i am in a dilemma i think my husband cheating just a gut instinct so far an there a few signs he mite be like diet an exercise when i ask he says doing 4 my health he works a lot also i dont no any of is work mates he aint based anywhere ...
A. 20 July 2009: go with your gut instinct confront him about it.
tell him you want to know what's really going on.
although just because he's dieting he maybe actually doing it to keep in shape.
local number could be ANYONE.
the fact he lied about it doesn'... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't like me looking at my cell phone
Q. My girlfriend gets aggresive if i look in my mobile phone. If we argue she accuses me of hiding things from her. I have told her to look through it if thats what she thinks. She never does but continues to accuse again and again. I now discover that ...
A. 20 July 2009: woah! she's like obviously guilty of something because she's reversing everything on you.
she's hiding something from you but won't show it because she wants YOU to look the bad guy so she's using all this technique against you.
it's like a revers... (read in full...)
Do you know what love is?
Q. Hi this isn't really a help question more i want peoples opinions on what they think the definition of love is? my definition is someone you love and care for is always there for no matter the circumstances someone you can never stop thinking ab...
A. 17 July 2009: thanks guys :)
just a random thing i know lol just wanted to know peoples oppinions :)
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I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!
Q. I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex ...
A. 17 July 2009: why is it that AFTER you found out about the three some she had you wanted to get back with her? i read through and you didn't mention you wanted to get back with her before?
and what does it matter you slept with two girls she slept with two guys... (read in full...)
The girl of my dreams is walking in and out of my life
Q. Hi, (Sorry for such a long message) I have a situation that I never thought I'd be in and was just wondering what other people's perspectives are. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl form Hong Kong (we've been dating on and off for m...
A. 17 July 2009: Hun it's tough it's a long distance relationship with a very big distance going on.
the thing is i agree with anon she's not that in to you.
i mean why would she not put you as a relationship on her status?
if she's that into you she would want t... (read in full...)
I don't love him
Q. help! okay so I just started dating this guy i met on facebook and he told me that he really love me, but i just realized i dont love him back. what should i do? I want to break up with him but I dont know how to cause I dont want to hurt him. He'...
A. 17 July 2009: well you say you've just realised you don't love him back due to feelings for your ex maybe this is a sign to show that you've not yet moved on from your ex maybe you need to tell him that.
but don't let this relationship go just because you "fee... (read in full...)
We need each other, but our parents are morbidly trying to separate us
Q. I need Help..I dont want to be criticized i just want help.I just had a miscarriage(i was 5 weeks preg) im 15 years old my boyfriend is almost 17.My parents went completely crazy on me even tho they knew i was not a virgin when i got with him. my ...
A. 17 July 2009: first of all sorry to hear you lost your baby hun :( that's going to be tough.
i mean your mum and dad shouldn't be the way they are they can't stop you having a life! it's unfair! i mean of course you're going to need your boyfriend now more than... (read in full...)
I am insecure and paranoid that she would leave me for someone better
Q. hi, recently my girlfriend and i have been talkin and i learned she was still physically attracted 2 him..as he is her usuall type...tall head full of hair 6 pack etc....while i am short around 5 6 and built but stocky ...i am kind of feeling a ...
A. 17 July 2009: first of all by him i think you mean an ex right?
well really she shouldn't be with you no offence if she's still into her ex because obviously it's causing you paranoia that she'll leave you.
but if she's saying she loves you and everything e... (read in full...)
Is he just using me and I should end this?
Q. I met this guy a month in a half ago, and we have been hanging out since then. At first it was a really nice date, we did things together and then at the end we made out. We have been going to this park and hooking up, and he told me he liked me. So ...
A. 17 July 2009: best of luck hun! and good for you!!!
keep us updated :)
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Mixed signals from my guy friend!
Q. this guy is sending mixed signals. he says we are friends but he said that i am hot and for a while he was begging me for normal pics of myself to look at, he says he has a big secret he wants to tell me that i would like but he won't tell me yet, ...
A. 16 July 2009: i think he does like you hun i think he likes you more than a friend but because maybe you've not shown any signal as to whether you feel more than friends with him he says just as friends so you don't feel maybe feaked out that he likes you.
i... (read in full...)
I'm a girl having dreams about having a penis
Q. I'm a sixteen year old girl and I'm bisexual. I find myself sexually attracted to both girls and guys, and I have for a long time. I've been having strange dreams for a few years, in which I have a penis. I never even thought about something as ...
A. 16 July 2009: Hey hun i've had these dreams so many that i've had a penis!
it's weird freaks me out!
i think with me it maybe because i'd love to be a boy for the day and have a penis lol!
sounds strange i know but i think it would be pretty cool!
maybe... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and it makes me feel insecure about my own body!
Q. i just turned 17 and im a cup A :( i have a boyfriend. he is my first ever boyfriend and i am also his first. last month i told him my bra size. he told me it's fine and he doesnt mind small breasts as long as there's something to touch. lat...
A. 16 July 2009: just sit with him and say that when he makes these types of comments about other girls on porn video's it makes you feel small and you feel insecure about your body i am sure he doesn't do it intentionally.
just tell him how insecure you feel abo... (read in full...)
Should I have a relationship with the boy I have been raising even though he is another man's son?
Q. I have been married for ten years. We have two sons. My wife recently told me she was having an affair with a coworker for five of those years. According to her, that man is the father of our youngest. Supposedly she broke it off six months ago ...
A. 16 July 2009: well fair enough speak to your wife and tell her you feel he should know who he is real dad is and get to know him but does that mean you'll stop being a dad to him?
i mean you're all he's known would you really not want to be there for him know... (read in full...)
I compare all the guys I date to a man who I cant even be with!
Q. I seem to be comparing the guys I date to one guy who is very special to me, but for various reasons I can't be with. He's a great guy and we stay in close email contact and sometimes meet up. To me he is perfect (apart from being over 1000 km away ...
A. 16 July 2009: i think because you and him share such a connection and such a bond together you feel you will be with him one day!
you won't let another guy even come close just incase by the time you are with another guy he's ready to be with you and it's not ... (read in full...)
Plus size woman finding it hard to feel comfortable with my new man!
Q. Hello everyone! I am a plus size women and i am finding it very hard to find a man that loves me the way i am and wants me for more than sex. Anyhow i have met a guy and he likes me alot and now im very insecure of my body in front of him. Please ...
A. 16 July 2009: well what do you like wearing that makes yourself feel sexy inside?
whatever you feel more sexy in wear it and let him know how sexy you feel in it!
then he'll get that vibe from you and just love it!
guys perfer bigger girls/women they like so... (read in full...)
We are only dating and never have serious moments together, but I know I should tell him about my mother passing away
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He's attractive, very funny, and he has made me happy. I love being around him and the other night when he was very drunk he asked me why I liked him and that he wanted to start treating me like a ...
A. 16 July 2009: i think you should tell him i mean this may bring you closer together and more on a relationship level.
so what you're only dating you guys have a close bond together he always asks about your mum so maybe you should just tell him.
it's more dif... (read in full...)
Wife feels ignored, cause of my business
Q. My wife has been really piss at me for not paying enough attention to her due to my job, I've insanely with business trips, meetings etc so I haven't been blowing off her a lot lately. I missed her birthday and our anniversary (they're quite close ...
A. 16 July 2009: Listen to her man! you missed the anniversary not only that her birthday as well and you forgot a present! even a card wouldn't have gone a miss provided you know the ACTUAL date of the anniversary and her birthday.
i don't see you saying you apol... (read in full...)
Should I wait, or should I forget him?
Q. this guy i started seeing like a weeek before summer has gotten a job and he plays baseball we were perfect for the first few weeks of summer but hes stopped calling/texting me if i wanna talk to him i have to call and text but hes usually wo...
A. 16 July 2009: play it cool don't you do all the chasing let him come to you.
leave it for a while and see what happens if he contacts you then great. but leave it for a while don't be too eager about this just play it cool leave it for a while don't text or call... (read in full...)
Is he just using me and I should end this?
Q. I met this guy a month in a half ago, and we have been hanging out since then. At first it was a really nice date, we did things together and then at the end we made out. We have been going to this park and hooking up, and he told me he liked me. So ...
A. 16 July 2009: DEFINATELY end it!!!
he is using you he gets jealous with you around other guys because he thinks "no!! i saw her first she's mine i have sex with her when i want"
he's afraid that if you get with another guy that's it he can't just call you up t... (read in full...)
I am no longer attracted to my husband because he's not asian
Q. Within the past few months I have developed a preference towards Asian men only. It started when I began listening to Korean boy bands and watching Korean dramas. I have always been interested in asian cultures and I have always been attracted to ...
A. 16 July 2009: perhaps going to a marriage counsellor find out why you are so obsessed with Asian men.
if you want to save your marriage then i do suggest the counselling sessions but if you are no longer in love with your husband due to your obsession then mayb... (read in full...)
Should I keep my promise to see my ex again?
Q. When we broke up, I promised my ex that we would meet up a year later for coffee or something. It was a long way away (I figured time would be the best thing) and she really make me promise. Well a year is coming up and I was planning on keep...
A. 16 July 2009: Well if she made you promise and you made that promise then you should really do that.
i mean make sure she knows it's just a friend thing and that there is nothing in it for you like no sort of invitation for her to get back with you.
just ... (read in full...)
Why do I no longer love my wife?
Q. Why do I no longer love my wife? My wife and I have been married for 5 years, we have no children. She is 31 and I am 32. I feel no longer love my wife. She is a wonderful person, the kind that does everything to make you feel better. People ...
A. 16 July 2009: maybe that's why you don't love your wife anymore.
because everyone says how amazing she is how she always makes you feel better and does everything she can to do that.
maybe you miss someone not talking to you for a while.
like if you have an ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my girlfriend? She won't tell me what's wrong!
Q. My GF had on and off mood swings which I can not figure out, sometime when I'm with her shes really hyper and happy and that but when I'm at work and she is at home I call her on the phone and she just goes quiet and doesn't really talk. I sa...
A. 15 July 2009: Hnu i am a girl and i do exactly the same! but i do it because i feel it's my problem i should be able to sort it out by myself so i bottle it up until i get to breaking point probably something i know i shouldn't do but hey! i do it! i like to... (read in full...)
Addiction vs bad habit...what's the difference?
Q. will someone please explain the diffrence between an addiction and a bad habit thanks....
A. 15 July 2009: addiction is something you are addicted too can't get enough of like drugs you can't get enough of them you need more and more. bad habit is something you do but don't realise you do like say picking your nose people do that without realisin... (read in full...)
Big trust issues here! What should I do?
Q. i will try to keep it short thanks to anyone that replies. i was seeing a girl for a few months and she was texting this guy all the time and going out on saturday nights etc with this guy as a part of a group. anyway he told her he liked her and...
A. 15 July 2009: hun she is certainly not worth your time shes texting other guys when you are with her lying to you about where she goes and who she is staying with! i know you love her but come on can you really say she loves you? she's going back and forth her... (read in full...)
I think he's having sex with his daughter!
Q. i am with a man in his late 40's he has a daughter living with him who is 18 i have known this man for 15yrs now and am madly in love with him. I really feel that he is having sex with his daughter and cannot get it out of my head. I have ...
A. 15 July 2009: if you feel this way why not take the daughter aside and speak to her about her. tell her she can tell you anything make sure she trusts you i mean the father IF he is doing this will of course deny it why wouldn't he? you don't mention the sign... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend a whore and slut and she wont forgive me.
Q. Ive been talking to this girl for about 6 months now. Basically to make a long story short, my girlfriend never SLEPT with nobody but she did talk to a BUNCH of guys on myspace while we were going out for about 3 weeks because she was mad at me for ...
A. 15 July 2009: well if shes been raped a couple of times then maybe she does this to make herself feel more in control with a guy after what she's been through. you should not have called her a whore or a slut she probably won't let this go because she probably... (read in full...)
How can I avoid being lonely?
Q. I am wanting to find a women to have a relationship with after being divorced 5 years ago. I have been alone since then and don't even know where to start. I am in my fourties and have only dated one women my ex-wife ever in my entire life. I am ...
A. 15 July 2009: well why not with the friends you have at the moment or work people get a night out going go for a meal with them or something like that.
cinema or something then you see a lady you like go up to her and talk to her just a casual conversation and ... (read in full...)
Me and my friend's gf are falling for each other - what should I do?
Q. ok well i think ive fallen for my good friend's girl. i didnt mean to it just kinda happend. i met her when her, my friend, and a couple others wnt to dinner. he never told me she was his girlfriend rather just some girl he messed with. well we all ...
A. 15 July 2009: well if this guy is such an ass to her she should leave regardless of what he says to her.
i know he guilt trips her but she shouldn't fall for it.
she should truly follow her heart and if that's to you then she should be with you.
i mean you tol... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing denied my facebook friend request!
Q. I've been casually seeing a guy for eight months. We had been friends on myspace (he added me), but I deleted my profile so about a month ago I tried to add him on facebook. He denied my request! He has over 100 friends so clearly he's not that ...
A. 15 July 2009: ahh i had a similar experience went out this guy was all over me i wasn't particularly interested he told me to find him on facebook so i did tried to add him he denied i was like um ok why you deny me he said i like someone else sorry if i led you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 14 July 2009: not at all why should you call for her permission?
its her daughters choice.
just leave it for now and see what happens.
don't try to meddle into the relationship with her mother a the moment.
just give it time and see what happens from the... (read in full...)
I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!
Q. hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...
A. 14 July 2009: i guess the mother is just being protective of her young daughter i mean it's probably nothing against you but things going on nowa days you can't be too sure.
i mean the mum is just going to have to get to know you and get used to the fact you and ... (read in full...)
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