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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.
Q. i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he ...
A. 12 August 2009: to be honest you're probably not bothered by this because you knew what he was really like and are glad to be rid because he didn't exactly help you when you needed it most and you now know he's out your life for good i don't think you need to worry ... (read in full...)
My BF thinks I'm losing interest cause he never receives my texts
Q. My man for seven years is all of a sudden tripping because he thinks I've been losing focus on our relationship which I'm not he's just mad because every time I send a txt he never receives it but I have proof but he thinks I'm lying what should I ...
A. 30 July 2009: he may just be slightly paranoid.
i know i sometimes get like that, he may be questioning things hence why he's been like that toward you i mean he may have a really pants phone and isn't picking up your messages and then is getting paranoid thin... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend whom I left.
Q. Hello. I left my ex-boyfriend in early August last year. He hadnt spoke to me much the last month we were together...I feel stupid for leaving him too. I left because i didnt feel loved anymore. Now i feel like i need to be loved and that im needy...
A. 30 July 2009: congratulations hun :)
best of luck.
x ilovebowsandcherries x... (read in full...)
My GF was sexually abused and now has no interest in sex
Q. hi i'm 22yrs old. Me and my girl friend(21) were in love for the past 3years.And I just want to get into a sexual relationship with her, the worst part is that her uncle tried to sexually abuse her when she was 17. so she is not much interested in ...
A. 29 July 2009: dude chill out! give her some credit seems to me all you care about is getting yourself satisfied.
this is clearly a traumatic experience for a girl especially from someone whose been related to you.
she's probably feeling it's her fault and feel... (read in full...)
I never see my BF and now my ex is back on the scene
Q. I have no idea if anyone can help me but alright.. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost eight months. and i lived in rochester before i met him, then i moved to my dads, and then we started dating, but then like about 2 months or so i ...
A. 29 July 2009: honey your ex is an a** as you said.
why bother with him?
he doesn't know how to treat a girl.
i mean he's spending his time getting locked up! and your mates are right you're way too good for him hun!
stick with the guy you got it'll be tough b... (read in full...)
My flirting has given a few guys the wrong impression, what do to?
Q. For various reasons, right now I'm very happy being single and dating here and there. But it turns out that me having a boyfriend is the only thing stopping a lot of guys I know from letting their imaginations run wild. As a few of my girlfriends ...
A. 29 July 2009: why don't you just talk to them and say that you don't mean to flirt with them it's just the way you are and you hope you don't give out the wrong impression because you're just being friendly towards them and don't mean to initiate anything further ... (read in full...)
My BF thinks I'm losing interest cause he never receives my texts
Q. My man for seven years is all of a sudden tripping because he thinks I've been losing focus on our relationship which I'm not he's just mad because every time I send a txt he never receives it but I have proof but he thinks I'm lying what should I ...
A. 29 July 2009: well how do you know he's not lying.
how do you know he's just saying he's not got them when really he has?
perhaps next time you're with him text him when you're there discreetly and see if he says oh i got a text or something that way you'll k... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and pregnant..my mom doesn't deserve this big disappointment from me..should I tell her?
Q. I have a very difficult situation...2 months ago my mom finally accepted my boyfriend. I love him. and i;m so sure he's it. I'm 16 years old. My birthday is in two weeks...Anyway it was difficult to get him accepted because I'm the only girl and the ...
A. 29 July 2009: Hun this is going to be difficult because you're basically torn into two. trying to please your mum and also trying to please your boyfried.
now what you BOTH need to think about the responsibility you guys will have i mean your mum will prob... (read in full...)
My husband cannot have children and suggested that I sleep with another man so I will get pregnant!
Q. My husband cannot have children and he has asked me to consider sleeping with another man to have children. Problem is i do not want to sleep with another man just to have children. Plus i feel it will have a bad effect on our relationship. i feel ...
A. 28 July 2009: well as uncle phil said do you just want children or is it both a mutual thing?
if it is a mutual thing then you guys can look at adoption but if it's just one sided and it's your side you may want to have a talk with him and find out how he feel... (read in full...)
Would your ex try and get you into bed even though he's with someone else?
Q. If your ex was in a relationship with someone already who lived in another country who he had spent 2 weeks with and came back and was talking to you, wud he say anything to try and get you into his bed? for example, he said "while I was on my trip ...
A. 28 July 2009: yeah hun he's just trying to get you into bed!
he probably thinks its ok to see this other girl in another country and ask you for sex seeing as you and this other girl are in separate countries do you see?
he thinks he's got one girlfrie... (read in full...)
How can I move forward with my russian girlfriend... My ex won't stop harassing me!
Q. My ex-partner and I lived together for about 14 months. We had a foster child who I got along with very well and my partner showed signs of jeolousy. My partner began to become a control freak and eventually the foster child escaped. My partner ...
A. 28 July 2009: woow! i'm having a similar problem with an ex not the moving in though and luckily not working in the same place.
just try and get another job even if you don't like it save up for your trip to Russia and when you get there look for a job there and ... (read in full...)
It seems like my boyfriend only wants sex, but I don't. How do I handle this?
Q. Okay I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and I have a boyfriend that keeps asking for sex and Im not ready for that yet...I mean like I'm ready but I just want him to wait...because the longer he wait the better my reputation be at the end.I mean I like ...
A. 28 July 2009: Get rid of him.
you're right he's only in it for the sex and good for you for not giving into him. alot of girls could learn alot from you. you're right you should get to know eachother better first before making that type of committment it's a big ... (read in full...)
Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.
Q. i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he ...
A. 28 July 2009: good for you! glad to see you're going down the right road :) keep me updated on your situation. x ilovebowsandcherries x... (read in full...)
Why does she keep turning me down after claiming that she wants sex with me?
Q. im so confused about this girl im seeing!!! Ive startd seeing a girl the last few weeks that has really fancied me for about 2 years. Anyway the thing is we havent had sex yet but have had plenty of oppertunities to, but she keeps making excuses...
A. 27 July 2009: well you've said it yourself she knew you before as friends right?
she always liked you before she may just be embarressed about how she looks down there and still thinks of you as a friend i mean i know you guys are together but do you see what... (read in full...)
My girlfriends mum tried it on with me! Should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. I'm in a rather uncomfortable situation and I don't have a clue how to handle it at all! It concerns my girlfriend's mother. She's what I can only describe as a "sex pest". I don't know any other way of describing her behaviour. When I first started ...
A. 27 July 2009: you should definately tell her!
you just explain to her what happened keep the texts and picture messages as proof to your girlfriend (not something she'll want to see obviously) but it shall be proof none the less.
you can't continue lik... (read in full...)
How do I explain how I love my boyfriend?
Q. I know this sounds stupid but I don't know how to explain that I love my boyfriend! he has like a hard time feeling loved cuz his mom killed herself and he's just always felt like she didn't care so now he just has a hard time feeling someone ...
A. 27 July 2009: Hun just say what you've written there. you love him because you'd do anything for him you love him because he is your everything. he's the first thing you think of he's the one you care for the most. and just say there are so many ways to desc... (read in full...)
Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??
Q. Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I...
A. 27 July 2009: well as your girl friends say you guys are together just forget about it now. She's not with him she's with you it was a picture try not to let it ruin your relationship with this girl.
i mean the more you think on it the more you'll push her away... (read in full...)
Would a good friend stay? Or leave him alone?
Q. I'm having problems with my married guy friend. I have known him for a really long time, way before he got married or even met his wife. We dated initially but realized we were better off as friends. He recently found out that his wife cheated on ...
A. 27 July 2009: well a good friend would probably stay but if he's saying these types of things then perhaps it's better you leave him be, he needs to make a decision on his own whether he wants to live with his wife and child and try to make things work or whether ... (read in full...)
I want her to notice me
Q. I've been with a friend from new york the past couple of weeks. we have been staying with his dad and his dad is going through a divorce so we have been going to his new girl friend house. his new girlfriend has a daughter that's 15. we have only ...
A. 24 July 2009: why not try talking to her normally? i am guessing you like this girl. but try talking to her find out what she likes and doesn't like get a conversation rolling she'll appreciate the conversation :) don't make corny jokes like your friend alth... (read in full...)
Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.
Q. i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he ...
A. 24 July 2009: i think there is a difference in wanting someone there and needing someone there. needing you NEED them to sit with you and listen to what's going on in your head and wanting someone there is just to be there to hug you and cuddle you until you feel... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on
Q. In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...
A. 24 July 2009: yeah but you don't at the time until you read what people say only then do you think Why didn't i see that before?
it's same with many people you get too blinded by what's happening before you realise what's really happening.
:)
glad i could help... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely
Q. I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...
A. 24 July 2009: not a problem that's what we're here for to help :)
good luck.
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19 and looking to get my tubes tied
Q. I am currently 19 and looking into getting my tubes tied. I know that this is a risky operation and I can blow my chances of ever having children but I am strongly curious about this option. Does anyone know what the chances are of pregnancy after a ...
A. 23 July 2009: Hey hun i've just come acros this website and i really strongly recommend that you read up about the tubal ligation operation. they also have the side effects which can occur as well you really need to make sure you know what you are doing and ma... (read in full...)
Aunts and uncles: Do you feel defeated? Your answers seem to reflect this!
Q. A lot of advice I see given here counsels the person to just cut their losses when the going gets even a little rough. Its sad and pathetic. Is everyone on this site defeated in one way or another? It seems that way from some of the topics, and ...
A. 23 July 2009: we just give our honest opinions to people we tell them what we believe is happening and suggest what we think will be best for them to do now.
not all of it is giving up not at all its our points of views that people ask for we just give them the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends mother hates me! What can I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend has been together for 2 yrs and it has been a bumpy road for us but we are managing and still are together, but the problem is his mother, she hates me and he says no she dont but i know because is not possible for somebody to ...
A. 23 July 2009: Why not take her to one side or organize a lunch with her and speak to her about the situation find out what's going on tell your boyfriend you're going to meet her for a lunch or speak to her because it's getting you down.
then have a few word... (read in full...)
Her mom and brothers are against us dating!
Q. i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 13 we are 4 years apart. what makes it worse is my friend little sister her mums took away her phone and made it clear not to try to talk to her daughter again and her bros are pissed off". this might led to fighting....
A. 23 July 2009: i agree with busy 04
it's best you leave the situation you don't want to get into any sort of confrontation with her family. she's still young only 13 she's got her whole life ahead of her and so do you. just leave her be and let her live her life... (read in full...)
Would a song for your personal vows be a good choice?
Q. I have a question. I know its not really pertaining to relationships but I was just wondering do any of you know if it would be ok to use a song for your personal vows?...
A. 23 July 2009: sure why not that's a great idea! so long as it represents exactly what you feel and not just because you like the song as long as it's linked to your feelings :)
hope you have a fabulous wedding day :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x ... (read in full...)
My ex hates me and hurts my feelings, but I really want us to be frineds
Q. What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to ...
A. 23 July 2009: Hun he's probably hurting that you guys aren't together now and you are too and you've offered him the friendship it's there just got to give him time to overcome the break up and sort things out in his head if he takes the offer of friendship then ... (read in full...)
What can I say to my best friend? I don't want her to get hurt anymore by these confusing relationships
Q. my best friend is bi sexual. and she loves another one of my friends and they both like eachother. but the girl she likes has a boyfriend and likes a couple other people. what do i tell my best friend so she wont get hurt anymore?...
A. 23 July 2009: you'll just have to sit her down and tell her that this girl she likes has a boyfriend and that you don't want to see her get hurt and that you're just looking out for her and you're her friend and if she wants to talk you're there for her.
all y... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely
Q. I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...
A. 23 July 2009: Hun if you're not sure then it's not right for you.
don't be afraid of being alone you won't be lonely forever you'll find the one and you'll know when he's the one you just will know. its hard to explain but you'll just know i mean you're doub... (read in full...)
Should we give our child the freedom to choose or enforce one of our religions on our child?
Q. hi, umm so i found out a few weeks ago that me and my husband are going to have a baby, and i'm really excited but the only problem is that he's christian and i'm catholic. were both stressing out because we don't know what to raise our child, ...
A. 23 July 2009: the baby comes out as a person doesn't matter about your religions it doesn't affect the child unless you want your child to be either christian or catholic but you should never force views or religion upon your child you let them decide what they ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on
Q. In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...
A. 23 July 2009: he's a loon. you can't keep your life at a stand still just because of him i know it's difficult because he's attempted suicide or whatever but doesn't that show how petty he is? and how he'll do ANYTHING to get you back or keep you locked down.
j... (read in full...)
She doesn't initiate contact - should I move on?
Q. Since last year, it has becomes long distance relationship. It goes well for the first few months then have a huge fight. Problem rooted from trust issue and we ended up badly. I believe it is both fault. If only I trust her little more and ...
A. 22 July 2009: well if you feel that strongly about it talk to her.
you talk to her first on messenger or call her if she doesn't answer leave an answer phone and ask her to call you back because you need to chat to her and find out what's going on with her.... (read in full...)
I'm a 29 year old virgin that doesn't want to wait anymore
Q. I'm a 29yr old virgin, and while I know that's 'okay', I really would like to have a (few) sexual experience(s) before I turn thirty. (And please don't give me self-esteem advice or wait-for-fate advice. I just really want to try this, in case I ...
A. 22 July 2009: if you are that desparate to get laid without a relationship then perhaps you've got a friend you feel comfortable around and would know he would take care in protecting himself from giving you any diseases and make sure it is what you want to do!
i... (read in full...)
She doesn't initiate contact - should I move on?
Q. Since last year, it has becomes long distance relationship. It goes well for the first few months then have a huge fight. Problem rooted from trust issue and we ended up badly. I believe it is both fault. If only I trust her little more and ...
A. 22 July 2009: i think she has moved on or wants to move on i mean she doesn't seem that into you i mean she won't initiate contact with you via instant messenger she won't talk for long or she just won't answer her phone.
you don't deserve that from a girl you ... (read in full...)
Husband told me he is not in love with me anymore
Q. Me and my husband have been married for 4-1/2 years now and for the past three years we have lived in two different states. When we moved the first time he brought a lot of debt with him that I was unaware of and then became quickly aware of. I ...
A. 22 July 2009: well give the counselling ago i mean if it is due to stress of the money situation and the fact you had a little baby in the middle of your financial crisis maybe he can resolve it by going to counselling.
i mean he's obviously wanting to make an e... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose our friendship, but I want to move on
Q. In January me and the father of my 2 kids broke up- we had been together for 7 years. It was a bad relationship- constant fighting, and cheating. In January he left me for another girl- I didnt even put up a fight because I knew there was no point. ...
A. 22 July 2009: woah woah woah!
no he can talk to you about girls and get advice on girls so i think you should have the same right about guys!
i mean he's the one who left you and i am assuming he's the one who cheated on you.
i mean he left you for another girl... (read in full...)
He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday
Q. It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. ...
A. 21 July 2009: not at all i mean you guys planned a trip! and he'll be in AWEFULL pain! he says he won't be he will!
wisdom teeth are a KILLER for pain.
he should of either organized this BEFORE the trip or waited until after i mean surely he can wait until af... (read in full...)
My friends feel more like family than my actual family do
Q. Hello. I would assume its an issue. When I'm around my parents I'm quiet, easily annoyed and angered. I have a step-mother, with her I feel like the 3rd party ya know? I get left out with my family. Cleaning,running errands for my parents and what...
A. 21 July 2009: probably because you feel more connected with these other people probably because you feel they are more caring towards you.
maybe you've got issues with your step mother?
maybe that's why you feel like a third party because perhaps you feel you... (read in full...)
Feeling left out and a little used
Q. Does anyone have any feelings, opinions or advice on this? What would you do in this situation? I have a friend who is a mom of one of my girls' friends. We have gotten to know each other pretty well. We carpool to the kids' sports activitie...
A. 21 July 2009: Not at all but why not ask her if you can come along?
or organize something yourself and invite them along and maybe it can be a vice versa thing.
say you organize something for you all to do and then she does the same but you should really a... (read in full...)
Should I date the best friend of the guy I lost my virginity to?
Q. So I lost my virginity to this guy about two months ago and I have not seen him since that night and he talks shit about me. His best friend has liked me for awhile and I've treated him bad, until recently when I discovered i really like him. We ...
A. 21 July 2009: this seems a bit dodgey to me hun i mean you lost your virginity to his best friend and he's been bad mouthing you he may have told his best friend that you're easy and will sleep with anyone.
if you think he is genuine then go for it but do be care... (read in full...)
Why won't he let this girl go and be with me?
Q. I am 20 years old and just recently, four months ago met a guy at school who is 30 years old. I have never been able to cope with guys my own age cause of maturity. but anyway I met the guy in college and I guess I talked first kinda flirting asking ...
A. 21 July 2009: aww sweety he seems to really like you.
i mean he said he's seeing this girl they're not technically together you you're not doing anything wrong.
seeing just means everything in a relationship without the label of girlfriend/boyfriend.
talk to h... (read in full...)
I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!
Q. I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and ...
A. 21 July 2009: why not try talking to your ex find out how things are with her tell her you've changed and want to give you guys a go.
but if she's moved on you do have to respect that and leave her be i mean if she's actually with someone you can't do anyt... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend whom I left.
Q. Hello. I left my ex-boyfriend in early August last year. He hadnt spoke to me much the last month we were together...I feel stupid for leaving him too. I left because i didnt feel loved anymore. Now i feel like i need to be loved and that im needy...
A. 9 July 2009: hun why do you want him back?
you're 13-15 you got your life ahead of you.
it's not love i mean he doesn't even like you anymore he's a moron obviously!
you just miss the fact of having someone to love you but we all get like that at some point i... (read in full...)
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