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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Worried about oral, impetigo "school sore", pullout method, herpes and pregnancy, help please!!
Q. hey im 16 male and i think i got impetigo, some kind of herpes, not a cold sore. i gave my girlfriend oral for the first time about 5 days ago and again last night. ive recently had this little blister pimple thing im not exactly sure when i got ...
A. 9 June 2009: duude you can't get impetigo down there this isn't from doing oral. calm yourself. it's just an infection in the skin maybe an open pore you don't know it just happens. i've had impetigo it's just an infection it's like a coldsore but not. ... (read in full...)
I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?
Q. Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog ...
A. 8 June 2009: hun don't do that! you want your first kiss to be special right? then just do whatever feels right make him go in to kiss you and just follow i am 20 years old and i still ain't had my first kiss i'm the same as you i'm too shy tbh ... (read in full...)
Still confused..do I give him my virginity?
Q. i have wrote a series of questions about this boy but im still caught up with it :( i am 15 and i like this 16 yr old boy and im still a virgin and he isnt. i have known him for about a year now and i still want to lose my virginity to him...
A. 8 June 2009: it's up to you hun. it's your choice. but you NEED to be careful and MAKE sure you're doing this for you. we can't decide for you or anything but we can help you. your friends are looking out for you. if you feel he is the one the... (read in full...)
I'm scared. Should I have sex with this boy who is asking me? Or is he trying to use me?
Q. i am 15 years old and i need help i really do. when i was 14 i was raped by my ex botfriend and since then i have not been able to be in a stable relationship. its messed up my whole life. theres this boy that i really really like and he keeps ...
A. 8 June 2009: yeah it's because you dented his ego hun.
that's why he's saying sorry and shizzle like that.
he's gutted because he clearly thought you were easy.
and because you've rebelled he doesn't like it
and feels it's a chase now.
BE CAREFUL ... (read in full...)
Worried about oral, impetigo "school sore", pullout method, herpes and pregnancy, help please!!
Q. hey im 16 male and i think i got impetigo, some kind of herpes, not a cold sore. i gave my girlfriend oral for the first time about 5 days ago and again last night. ive recently had this little blister pimple thing im not exactly sure when i got ...
A. 8 June 2009: yeah it sounds like impetigo
but it's an infection in the skin not related to you giving oral
it can start as a spot and maybe if you popped it got infected.
just go to the doctors and tell them you think you've got impetigo and becareful a... (read in full...)
Should I just get it over with?
Q. I’m 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss. All my friends tease me about it and I’m just not that type of girl to go on dates and kiss. Plus I want my first kiss to be special and with someone I really like. And I also am a virgin. Sometimes I ...
A. 8 June 2009: Hunny trust me i am 20 years old i';ve still never been kissed or slept with anyone
most of my mates have and i don't let it bother me
i do sometimes feel pressured not because they say anything but just because...
if they are any true ... (read in full...)
21 and still a virgin!!!
Q. hi.. im 21 years old and im a male virgin. i have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend in my life. ive had no sexual encounters what so ever and recently have been feeling very lonely.. more so than normal. i dont find it difficult to socialise ...
A. 8 June 2009: Hun i am 20 years old and still a virgin or ever been kissed hun.!
i am proud about that as well to be honest because shows i am waiting
and it's really refreshing to see a guy not rushing all these things through as wel...
so good on you!... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend want to add me on her facebook?
Q. I invited my girlfriend to my facebook 3 days ago she still hasn't added me. I noticed after inviting her that her ex is on there. I asked her why she said its nothing. Well she still hasn't accepted me and I told her I'm going to delete ...
A. 8 June 2009: this depends are you guys long distance or are you living close?
if its a long distance one then perhaps she does have messages from boys
perhaps she's flirting with other guys and she doesn't want you to see...
try talking to her about it ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me because he is not over his ex, what do I do?
Q. My close guy friend i knew about a year got out of a year relationship this March. He was upset because he said she was his first love. In late march we started being somewhat affectionate then he said we should stay friends. He changed his mind...
A. 8 June 2009: if he won't talk to you then perhaps he is still lusting for his ex.
maybe he still wants her back... maybe he regrets in someways what he had with you not because it's you because he feels it may have harmed your friendship and maybe he thinks h... (read in full...)
My friend's secret life...
Q. my friend used to be friens with benefits with this 15 yr old and they were having phone sex like everyday and sending tons of dirty pictures i want to tell her mom that she has been doing things but she would get mad ...
A. 8 June 2009: hun all you can do is tell her to be so careful.
sending dirty pictures will come back and bite her on the backside.
i mean whose to say this guys not showing everyone!¬
she'll be known as a bike
(easy to ride) and stuff.
you need to ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my ex thinking so awfully of me?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't trust me because I kept my "past" from him when we first started dating and he thinks this past was slutty, although everyone has told me it wasn't (I used to make out with guys at parties, no strings attached, you get the ...
A. 8 June 2009: to be honest your past is your past right...
i mean it's not like you've done anything to him now or given him that idea that you've done something awful to him whilst together....
he in some ways is probably really paranoid by your past which ... (read in full...)
How can he choose a stranger over me so easily (twice!) when we had three years of history together?
Q. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me about six months ago. I didn't know why at that time but I found out later that he left me for some one else - he broke up with me on the day he had some coffee with this girl-- it was just coffee without ...
A. 8 June 2009: Hun he's a guy... most guys do this they get bored of the relationship want to move onto something else new and fresh. and then because that girl didn't want him he came back to you which is totally unfair and messing with your feelings.. but t... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell him I cheated again but the guilt is too much, help!
Q. i've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. i cheated on him once and confessed to him and he wanted to work things out. since then i cheated on him one other time with one of his close friends. things were not good between my boyfriend and i and i ...
A. 8 June 2009: you're just going to have to tell him.
and if he feels the same that you guys will be together for many years to come he'll hopefully want to work on this with you.
help you guys through it
make you a stronger couple together.
but you rea... (read in full...)
Should we be friends with benefits?
Q. im 13 and there is this 16 year old boy that always wants me to send him dirty pictures and try things with him at the movies . me and my friend really like him he always flirts with us at the movies and stuff two days ago he suggested that we shou...
A. 8 June 2009: Hun i'd stay off out of this.
friends with benefits isn't cuddling at the cinema
it's doing dirty stuff at the cinema
he doesn't want a relationship with you or your friend he's just looking for sex to be honest with you.
and you shouldn'... (read in full...)
I regret losing my virginity, had intimate problems and her past is haunting me
Q. hey im 17,male and lost my virginity about a week ago. ive been having trouble getting over my girlfriends past because i had vivid images of her and her ex in my head and she seems tainted somehow. he USED her for many sexual activities i was...
A. 7 June 2009: best of luck to you both :)
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Is it wrong of me not to want to travel to far off Asia for my g/f's brother's wedding?
Q. Is it wrong of me to not want to go to my gf's brothers wedding early next year? He lives and is getting married in far off asia and it would be expensive and something i really just wouldn't want to do. I felt i had a valid point when i told her i ...
A. 5 June 2009: i agree i mean if they pay for the flights fair enough but
if you don't know this guy then it's a bit weird like.
i mean she wants you there as her boyfriend and i know weddings for girls get really emotional and they really want to be with the ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she likes me without telling her I like her?
Q. There this girl at my school we talk sometimes, but we always talk on msn, i really like her and she new it but im not sure if she likes me anymore, how did i find out without asking her, and how do i tell her i have Loving feelings for her, i ...
A. 5 June 2009: just talk to her on msn as you are doing and just find out if there is anyone she is/maybe interested in.
if she says yeah
ask what he is like or something.
take it from there.
see where it goes.
or
you can just straight up ask her if s... (read in full...)
I'm scared. Should I have sex with this boy who is asking me? Or is he trying to use me?
Q. i am 15 years old and i need help i really do. when i was 14 i was raped by my ex botfriend and since then i have not been able to be in a stable relationship. its messed up my whole life. theres this boy that i really really like and he keeps ...
A. 5 June 2009: hun listen to the other people
he is bull s******g you.
that's why he wants to have sex with you why he keeps telling you over and over again he likes you.
and keeps asking you for it.
he would actually have sex with you and leave you ... (read in full...)
I'm worried she thinks I like her...I don't!
Q. okay so here it is, Yesterday was our last day of school, we were all taking photo's and things, and anyway things quietened down, i'll cut to it, me and this girl ended up kissing, i think she's really hot, but i dont fancy her and i think sh...
A. 5 June 2009: why don't you tell her it was a mistake and you just caught up in the moment and you think she's really attractive but you just see her as a friend and that she has a boyfriend.
so nothing could ever happen.
and tbh she should of known better ... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 5 June 2009: of course it will be hun!!
but sometimes you've just got to go through these things in order for them to be right again.
she's obviously not in the right state of mind and she thinks she is doing what's best for her but clearly she's not really... (read in full...)
How can I get to be something my parents can be proud of?
Q. I am 19 years old and really miserable. I have been fat most of my life, and I am just sick and tired of it. people tell me all the time that im stunning, but I dont buy it. I am so self conscious that Im terrified to leave the house because i ...
A. 5 June 2009: Hun i know exactly what you mean.
i think i am really fat i've never been called it mind you.
but i can vary is sizes
i'm not just one size as i am sure you're not.
you're parents should be proud of you NO MATTER WHAT!
not all guys ac... (read in full...)
My friends say he might like me. Any suggestions?
Q. So i really really really like this guy more than anyone i've ever liked before i can never stop myself from staring at him, i think about him every single minute of the day and my heart beats 3894723847829374 times a minutes when im near him im ...
A. 5 June 2009: woah lol you counted how many times you heart beats when near him that's good math :P
hun i think it's safe to say he does like you.
he wants to sit next to you in class he clearly wants to get to know more about you.
you may think that bu... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy or just stress?
Q. hi. my name is pamela. i am 24. my question is:i am almost 3 weeks late on my period. i took hpt on sunday then went to the doctor on tuesday both were negative. i have gained quite bit of weight, i eat all the time normally i eat once or twice a ...
A. 5 June 2009: perhaps it is due to stress.
but sometimes over eating maybe caused by hurt or something that has happened and it's a comfort food.
but again stress can do that to you.
you maybe feeling stressed about work children love life anything and i... (read in full...)
I realise after 3 days that I don't like him, when/how to tell him?
Q. Ok... so im with this new guy. his totally sweet and everything we have been together 3day today. The prooblem is, i had feelings for him before we got together but then yesterday i didnt have any, i dont know what to do. I dont want to dump him...
A. 5 June 2009: Hun you need to be honest with this guy. if you really think there is nothing between you then you do have to tell him. rather sooner than later. if later he'll probably feel like you just lead him on and wanted to keep leading him on. ... (read in full...)
Can people find new love while already in a relationship?
Q. do people find new love while already in long-term relationships? i met a girl at a friends house on game night and took a great liking to her over the few times we ran into one another, i'm in a longstanding relationship and am very confused. ...
A. 5 June 2009: yeah it is possible people find new loves whilst in a relationship.
it's just what sometimes happens i mean in some ways it actually shows that maybe the person you're with at the moment isn't the one you really see yourself settling down with.
... (read in full...)
I think she was raped: How can I help her?
Q. I have a delimma. Me and this girl I know have been friends about 8 or 9 years. she and I are best friends,tho we are both in relationships. She came to me the other night with a problem. She was at a bar having a drink and somehow some guy she knew ...
A. 5 June 2009: i think you're right.
but she probably feels really horrible and that it's her fault which it ISN'T
but she will feel like that.
all you can really do for now is be there for her anyway you can.
just be careful with her don't make her talk... (read in full...)
Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 5 June 2009: well if you feel you cannot trust him then i think you have your answer right there.
i mean you know his past and if you and him should get together can you honestly say you'll not be worrying about whom he is with and what he is doing...... (read in full...)
I regret losing my virginity, had intimate problems and her past is haunting me
Q. hey im 17,male and lost my virginity about a week ago. ive been having trouble getting over my girlfriends past because i had vivid images of her and her ex in my head and she seems tainted somehow. he USED her for many sexual activities i was...
A. 5 June 2009: if she treats you like shit you say
"look i care about you and everything but keep treating me like this and i am gone! and i mean it."
you don't deserve to be treated like shit anyways, you're trying your best with her if she can't see that t... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 4 June 2009: she may very well say she is dealing with it but come on that doesn't seem like she is she wants you to think she is so you leave her be. but she isn't she's in denial. she just wants someone to hurt because she's hurt at the loss of her mu... (read in full...)
Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 4 June 2009: nooo i don't think so hun!! i mean otherwise that's way crossing the line. but it's up to you! i mean start to date him for a bit and see how it goes. if you feel he has changed then go for it but if you querie things then talk to him... (read in full...)
He asked about my past, I told the truth and now he's acting differently
Q. I don't know why, but my boyfriend asked me how many guys I had slept with, I believe in honesty so I told him the truth even though I don't understand what the point is, it's him that I want. After I told him he kind of went all silent then said ...
A. 4 June 2009: why don't you try talking to him about it. find out the real truth as to why he is acting funny about it when he is the one whom asked about your past. perhaps he is just a little jealous that you've slept with alot more people and he was hoping... (read in full...)
Why do I question being with him?
Q. Im so confused, im 22 been with my boyfriend 4 years, hes great, always there for me so romantic, loving caring, good job good morals, but ive broken up with him 3 times before as i wanted to play the field as i got with him so young and he was my ...
A. 4 June 2009: hun you only know what you can do. you need to know what is right for you. if you're not happy with him then don't be with him but if you are happy with him and feel that you guys have a great future with him then go for it. but only you ca... (read in full...)
Was it just her fantasy - or something more serious?
Q. Hi I have been married for 7 years adn will do anything for my wife but.... A couple of weeks ago i had a strange feeling something was up with the wife I out of curiosity checked her email and social network site Lo and behold there were c...
A. 4 June 2009: omg! what a horrible person! she shouldn't even want to meet up with him once at all!! she's with you no-one else! she should love you for you!! not tell you she's physically attracted to another guy whom has told her he loves her! t... (read in full...)
I regret losing my virginity, had intimate problems and her past is haunting me
Q. hey im 17,male and lost my virginity about a week ago. ive been having trouble getting over my girlfriends past because i had vivid images of her and her ex in my head and she seems tainted somehow. he USED her for many sexual activities i was...
A. 4 June 2009: Hun you've answered your own question really. if it's lowering your self esteem and making the relationship awkward then you'll just have to end it with her. she's clearly not stable to be in a relationship yet at all with anyone. ... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 4 June 2009: you need to understand after a major loss like a mother in your life it's difficult to get over.
and it does change you.
take me for instance i've been up and down my mum passed away when i was 12.
i become very in myself.
i was extreml... (read in full...)
Do I need help?
Q. hey everyone, im just here to tell how my life is and what i should do. i have low self esteem and i dont really believe in myself sometimes, ive been sexually abused when i was younger by 2 of my friends and i never told anyone, i never had any ...
A. 4 June 2009: aw hun. that's a real touching story. we people on here are here to help people like you. you've just gone through a bad patch and clearly shows you've not had true friends. maybe that's why you have lack of confidence in yourself and l... (read in full...)
Could I maybe pursue him next year when she's gone?
Q. Okay, this is the most teenager girl-ish question ever, but here goes: There's this guy I really really like. He's the funniest person I know and I love talking to him. Whenever I'm with him, I'm happy...he's sort of like the bright spot of my day. ...
A. 4 June 2009: um..
i mean at the end of the day they are in relationship together.
and whether or not they have problems they seem to be happy together.
and still be together.
just see how it goes i mean if they both decide to end it then sure.
b... (read in full...)
Desperate to lose weight and fit in!
Q. i am just desperate to lose weight. I'm not pretty and I don't know why my boyfriend wants to sleep with me (I do too). I have been making myself throw up for a week trying fit in with my friends who are so prettier then me. How can I be to be ...
A. 4 June 2009: Hun just love whom you are!!!
you've got a boyfriend who i hope cares about you and doesn't want you to make yourself sick.
Why do that to yourself?
anyways i'm sure you're pretty and have loads of great qualities about you.
but why tr... (read in full...)
We argue all the time, he makes me cry, how do we make it better?
Q. dear cupid: i have a problem, i want my relationship to work. i dont know what else to do' i hate arguing and it seems like we are always arguing about the littlest and stupidest things, and he makes me cry each time. i just dont know what to ...
A. 4 June 2009: well if you guys argue over every little thing.
then maybe this isn't the person for you.
i mean ok in relationships you do argue but over everylittle thing.
something isn't right there and maybe it's time to leave this relationship and fi... (read in full...)
He does not acknowledge the existence of his ex-girlfriend, any cause for concern?
Q. Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is bitter about his ex-girlfriend? He won't acknowledge her existence. ...
A. 4 June 2009: maybe something really bad happened due to her part and he just wants to forget she ever existed and move on with his life.
move forward with you and be his future rather than think about his past.
she's no longer anythin to him now and she ... (read in full...)
Good friends, but she likes to compete with me, what can I do to help her be a happier person?
Q. My bestfriend and I have been bestfriends for over a year now. When we first became best friends we were both good girls, good grades, inexperienced sexually. We've definitely grown since though. I have a steady, loving boyfriend. She's always ...
A. 4 June 2009: Why don't you try talking to her.
find out why she is acting like this and make sure she knows that she doesn't have to compete with you.
i mean she may be very very jealous of you which from where i am seems that way i mean she clearly isn'... (read in full...)
Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?
Q. I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the firs...
A. 4 June 2009: well don't get into anything too deep just yet.
believe as he says.
he clearly likes you and stuff and he obviously doesn't see you as just an "ordinary" girl.
just give him a chance but at the moment date him! don't get in too deep just yet... (read in full...)
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