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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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I'm not fond of ruining relationships, but she is amazing...what should we do?
Q. I've been talking to this girl I work with a lot lately and we've really hit it off. I get along with her better than I get along with my best friend. Well, I'm really into her and I just recently found out she feels the same. But here's the catch: ...
A. 23 June 2009: well first of all it's in her court. you cannot do anything because she's with someone and as you've said someone you get along with whose not a bad guy, i mean she needs to know what it is she wants whether it's you or the guy she is with. if it is ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hasn't told her kids about our relationship, it's bothering me!
Q. Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now. We had a long distance relationship and we finally met this past January. She lives in another country, and we have talk about a future together. I love her very much, but it bothers me to kn...
A. 23 June 2009: i understand you're eager but her children i am guessing are pretty young so it'll be a bit of a shock to them i know you say 2 years but when your small it's not really that much time i mean they're dad isn't at home with them anymore it's going to ... (read in full...)
When would it be right for me to tell him I love him?
Q. I have found the one! I'm madly in love with him! I've known him since high school. We've been best friends for 6 years. Then dated for 2 and a half years. But for the past 6 months he has been stressed out. (Not by me- with work and family) ...
A. 23 June 2009: whenever you feel the time is right.
i mean who knows he may be feeling the same as you thinking "i want to tell her i love her but don't want to jynx it or anything" when you feel you think it's time to say it then say it to him.
if you feel tha... (read in full...)
I'm 13, he's 14 and I want to take things alot slower!
Q. I've been chatting to my mates old boy mate online for a while now, we've met a few times but the last time we met he suggested we went back to his to watch a few movies. I wasn't alone it was me and my mate with him and his mate. When we got to his ...
A. 22 June 2009: just tell him look i'm not ready for this kind of thing i really like you and want to be with you and if you want to be with me then take it slower.
but to me seems like he just wants you for one thing hun. i mean he's already fingered you with... (read in full...)
Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?
Q. I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite ...
A. 22 June 2009: perhaps it's because you have more feelings for the woman you're cheatuing on her with and you find the whole secretative thing between you and her exciting so it gets you more worked up.
where as with your wife you're not on edge and intense thin... (read in full...)
Did one little argument bring about the end of our relationship?
Q. dear cupid i have a problem. what does it mean when he wants to end everything because "i cant get close to anyone in a relationship because i find one little thing that drives me crazy and i completely explode i really am probably the worst ...
A. 22 June 2009: maybe he's already found someone else and isn't sure how to tell you?
perhaps he doesn't want to be tied down anymore he probably wants the single life.
i mean he may not like a habbit of yours and that he is really that petty that it get's to... (read in full...)
What should I tell him to do when he's in the shower?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to text him things to do while hes in the shower to get him hard. i dont know wat to say. does anyone know wat i should tell him to do? he likes them really detailed!...
A. 22 June 2009: just talk dirty tell him to imagine you're there doing stuff to him to get him hard.
just tell him to imagine you're there doing stuff and then just say in detail what you're doing.
message me you need help on what to say.
x x x x good lu... (read in full...)
How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts?
Q. I guess my question is this: How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts? I'm feeling really confused. Sometimes I get this feeling that I'm just with my boyfriend because it's comfortable. Sometimes I thin...
A. 22 June 2009: if you're this unhappy and feel he is holding you back then please get out now!!
i mean he clearly expected you to give up all of your dreams and ambitions and why should you have!!
any relationship you BOTH make commitments! or you both let eac... (read in full...)
Does my older brothers friend like me?
Q. ok, so my brother has the 2 friends that are absolutly like my brothers. but one of them is really hot. so yesterday we were hanging out and my bro had to leave so my bro's friend and i were hanging out for a little. and we talked about "how not to ...
A. 22 June 2009: well you yourself have even said that he is like a brother to you and maybe he does see you like a little sister.
see if anything else unusual happens i mean he may like you but he could be like you and see you as a little sister and trying t... (read in full...)
My fiance just dumped me! I'm lost and need advice.
Q. The reason I'm in this beacuse my fiance for 6 years just dumped me I'm so lost. I move out the but still talk to him ...
A. 22 June 2009: hun you've lost someone you thought you were going to be with for a very long time life infact and it will be harder to move on if you're not going to cut the contact with him as well. it's nice i know to keep talking to him but it'll keep giving ... (read in full...)
Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave
Q. Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to...
A. 22 June 2009: well she clearly has issues of something going on!
i mean she's accusing you of lying something there triggers her violence clearly!
perhaps going to couples counselling will help her figure out what is actually making her violent time bomb exp... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mates don't make any effort.
Q. I feel very frustrated cos I cant seem to feel accepted by my boyfriend's mates. He has one group of mates and goes drinking with them most weekends. I go along lots but usually they are too drunk by the time I get there and barely acknowledge me. I ...
A. 19 June 2009: i guess this upsets you this much because you do actually want to hang around with your boyfriend with his mates too.
i mean it'd be nice to do that and they accept you.
they're just probably being selfish and immature and won't give you the time... (read in full...)
Does he want me back? Please help...
Q. After a year of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me. I tried to get him back in the first few weeks. Then I completely backed off. Slowly I started hearing from him. maybe once a week. then twice a week. now, we talk about 5x a week. We both ...
A. 19 June 2009: i think he does still have feelings for you i mean you slowly backed off and he obviously wanted the attention from you and clearly he misses you so yeah i would say he does still have feelings for you.
i mean you guys are now texting eachother 5x a... (read in full...)
What does my lover mean by these words?
Q. I would like some help please, I am having an affair with a married man and have been for many years. So please no "you shouldn't be doing this" comments thanks. We have a strange relationship and neither of us can say goodbye to it but it has me w...
A. 19 June 2009: in other words he's saying he wants to just think of you just sleeping with him and no-one else he wants to be in cotnrol of what you're doing and who you're with and he likes to think it's just him you'll be sleeping with and if he gets told you're ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to keep this baby or not... any advice gratefully received.
Q. hiya, right ok on the 24th of april this year i had a miscarriage afterward we used condoms as a form of protection (I'm virtually married and we are very happy and have two children already). On the 6th of may we had sex but the condom broke, I ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hun if you don't want to have another baby then don't i mean why not speak to you doctor about what has happened perhaps they can do another test on you just to be sure.
your partner seems lovely he wants to stick by you and if you are happy enou... (read in full...)
We broke up and I'm so lost! Help!
Q. So about a week and a half ago my girl friend of 3 yr decided she wants space and needs time to think about what she want. she said it was a break/break up. she says she dosnt know if she still wants to be with me and she dosnt know how long it will ...
A. 19 June 2009: any idea why she broke up with you?
i mean maybe she is having doubts about her feelings for you.
all you can really do is wait until she gets hold of you.
that's all i can really suggest hun.
you just have to leave her be and have her space u... (read in full...)
I just feel like there is someone else out there for me
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. we recently got "engaged" on christmas eve of last year. i'm gonne start off by saying we're both not perfect in anyway shape or form. when we first got together she instantly told me about ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hun this relationship died along time ago!! you should of just left it when the first break up happened. i mean you just need to say to her look we argue too much for my liking and i want to be in a comfortable relationship where we don't argue o... (read in full...)
I'd like to know how he feels but don't want to be pushy
Q. I initiated contact with a guy online and we've so far exchanged lenghty messages. I must admit that I have been driving the conversation a bit more than him by asking questions about which we both then talk. He does ask things but isn't very ...
A. 19 June 2009: Hun i know what you mean he does seem like he's just not looking to meet you.
just say to him that you are interested in meeting up with him and stuff seeing how things go and see if he responds?
if he does want too then GREAT! if not then just say... (read in full...)
He says "the devil made him do it"
Q. i work full time and I really don't get see to my boyfriend (of 2 years) very often. When I went to a birthday party with him on my very few day offs. Well he said needed make a phone call which took half an hour. I got worried and looking for him. ...
A. 19 June 2009: hun get rid of him! "the devil made him do it" that's the most pathetic excuse i've ever heard!!!
he should of known better!! you just need to leave him i mean you can't spend your relationship thinking "whose he with? where is he?" and if he come... (read in full...)
How do you know if your boyfriend slept with your roomate?
Q. i have lived with my boyfriend for almost 5 mouths now, and i have been getting this werid feeling that they have slept together. i asked my boyfriend if anything had happen with the two of them but he seid no, "why would i want to sleep with her." ...
A. 19 June 2009: why not try talking to the both of them together? if you feel something did happen then talk to them together and just say like it's not fair on you and want to know the truth!! say it's tearing you up and you need to know. i personally th... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can make my period come early?
Q. i still havn't come on my period yet and im due soon but problem is on the 26th imgoing away for my big walk which is over 3 days with school. it would be the worse thing if i came on for it. does anyone know any ways of making it come early? ...
A. 18 June 2009: i don't think there is hun.
just going to have to wait and see when it comes sorry.
don't let it ruin your walk though :)
x x x... (read in full...)
She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure
Q. Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...
A. 18 June 2009: talk to her tell her how it's making you feel.
or better yet end it with her! she clearly isn't committed to you. i mean she's on these sites pretending to be single saying you're not her boyfriend because you don't act like it why put up with all ... (read in full...)
Online guy seems great, but can I trust him?
Q. Ok well, there is this guy i met on the internet he's 19 and well im 14...and...when i first met him he lied to me about his appearence sending me a false picture (i found that out on google images)so i caught him and he said that everytime he would ...
A. 18 June 2009: Hun i wouldn't trust him i mean he's already send you false pictures.
you don't know what else he could be lying about. i mean have you ACTUALLY seen him on web cam or spoke on the phone? to prove that he is 19 and not like 50?
does he REALLY h... (read in full...)
Why do I get embarrassed talkiing about my boyfriend?
Q. Hi - to anyone who feels the same... I love my boyfriend to bits - when we are alone or around people that I trust I can talk about him freely. However, whenever I am around workmates or certain people I know, I "freak out" incase they might as...
A. 18 June 2009: maybe with the people at work you feel you need to have a more successful boyfriend i'm not saying he isn't but what i mean is maybe they're a bit sort of "upper" class so you speak.
maybe you feel they won't approve in some ways of what he does... (read in full...)
She got mad when I tried to touch her breasts during sex...what's going on?
Q. My girlfriend (who was a virgin before I met her) and me had sex for the time first. Well it was great when I'd to take off her bra she slap my hand away and she got really mad at me because she doesn't like when I touch her breasts. Then I talked ...
A. 18 June 2009: well you shouldn't pressure her at all maybe that's why she doesn't like you doing that.
also she maybe a bit concious about her boobs and is afraid of what you'll think of them maybe she finds them ugly or something and thinks you'll feel the same... (read in full...)
Guy friend told me he was going to get me a boyfriend!
Q. my guy friend recently told me "im gonna get you a boyfriend, who do you like?" how do i take that? does he think im lonely, unstable or something. i then told him i didnt want one. and he insisted that hed find someone for me? does HE like me? by ...
A. 18 June 2009: i don't think he likes you in that way hun i think he just feels you would like a boyfriend someone to perhaps make you happy and give you cuddles and stuff.
he's just looking out for you trying to make you happy and maybe he feels he's doing righ... (read in full...)
I can't believe we are over for the 3rd time!
Q. My girlfriend and i were together for 2 and a half years, we then broke up for about 8mnths, she thencame back to me saying that she wanted me back only to leave agagin and start seeing some other guy. I finished it saying there will never be ...
A. 18 June 2009: to be honest i don't know why you got back with her... i mean you guys broke up twice before and clearly that reason is always there. going back to an ex should be a no no i know you still loved her and stuff but you guys broke up for a reason ... (read in full...)
I don't let my husband see my breasts because they are too small!
Q. Me and my husband been married for about a month now. We're very happy together but I never let him see my breasts cause I think they'll too small (A cups) and I don't think I ever want him see them. My husband begs me to let see them in dark and Im ...
A. 18 June 2009: Hun he's your husband he loves you and everything little thing about you!
shouldn't matter about your boobs size that's nothing!!
he loves you for the person you are and everything about you that you do. just try to relax with him more hun he'... (read in full...)
How do you know if your boyfriend slept with your roomate?
Q. i have lived with my boyfriend for almost 5 mouths now, and i have been getting this werid feeling that they have slept together. i asked my boyfriend if anything had happen with the two of them but he seid no, "why would i want to sleep with her." ...
A. 18 June 2009: hun i think she just thinks every guy she knows wants her but it's clearly not i mean he clearly wants you! you're clearly alot better than her. they all probably see her as easy and stuff, that's why your boyfriend says why would i want you whe... (read in full...)
Will she ever trust me again?
Q. i dumped my gf cuz i didnt love her ...but deeply cared for her ...it took us 2 months to ease the addiction and we struggled a lot staying away from each other and broke all contacts for 2 months...so after 2 months of going back and forth when we ...
A. 17 June 2009: it is ok to care for your ex but you do have to be so careful with her because if you get too close for comfort she may interprit this for meaning you want to get back with and obviously again cause her heartache.
with her and the way you are cari... (read in full...)
Father of my baby wants nothing to do with me or her
Q. my ex dumped me on news years eve just gone, but on that same day I found out I was pregnant, i told him and he just put the phone down on me. I was pretty devestated. I was 11 weeks pregnant at this point and I wanted to keep my baby, I graduate ...
A. 17 June 2009: maybe his father is just angry and upset about the whole situation and maybe your ex is still in shock over the whole thing. he probably does care but his dad maybe disappointed in him and feels he doesn't need to be tied down with a little baby in ... (read in full...)
Does my neighbour fancy my husband?
Q. i have trouble with my next door neighbour,all of this may sound stupid.i have been with my husband 18 years,we did split but we have been back together 2 years and things are going well apart from one thing,my neighbour. Her husband left her over...
A. 17 June 2009: she may fancy him, but have you ever though maybe she enjoys his company?? enjoys having someone there to talk too and help her through and give a mans point of view about her ex husband... she clearly hangs onto your husband as someone being there ... (read in full...)
Why cant I get over him?
Q. i broke up with him around december and to this day i still think of him all the time. i can't get over him. i cry all the time thinking about what we used to be and what i am now. why cant i get over him. he has a new girlfriend and he's happy. so ...
A. 17 June 2009: you just have to take the pain perhaps organise a get together with your mates go out and have a laugh with them.
that's the only thing you can really do to get over him.
i mean he's moved on now and as you've said he's happy.
so all you can do r... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me near her house? Why?
Q. Hi all, Ive got a small dilema which I hope some of you people can help me with. I still live with my parents (I know im too old but no jokes please lol) and my girlfriend lives with her Dad. My girlfriend only stayes at her dads 3 nights a we...
A. 17 June 2009: maybe although she is still at her dads its still his house if you get me so still his rules in a way. i mean she's his little girl right? so maybe she feels she's still under strict rules and knows her dad doesn't like boys staying over when he's ... (read in full...)
How do you know if your boyfriend slept with your roomate?
Q. i have lived with my boyfriend for almost 5 mouths now, and i have been getting this werid feeling that they have slept together. i asked my boyfriend if anything had happen with the two of them but he seid no, "why would i want to sleep with her." ...
A. 17 June 2009: has there been any proof or evidence that has indicated he may have slept with her?
perhaps she's said something to him privately and you find it weird they're talking alone without telling you?
or something...?
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He is paranoid that I might cheat, due to his past experiences
Q. I'm afraid that my boyfriend will get upset with me. You see, I'm Head of the Student's Council of our faculty, and this week we've been celebrating the faculty's anniversary. I had to organize a party for this Friday night, at some local club. I ...
A. 17 June 2009: This has clearly hurt him in the past with these ex girlfriends cheating on him. I mean he's clearly gradually trusting you as he's not going to the party with you i know he keeps saying about who you hang out with and stuff but he'll just have to ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel stuck with him like I'm missing out on things
Q. So im 16 and ive had a boyfriend for a year and 3 months and we're both each others first relationship and hook up, neither of us have been with anyone else. hes always been pretty protective and would get a little mad when i talked to guys around ...
A. 17 June 2009: hun you're going to feel like this you're still so young and you just want to experience having various relationships with other guys.
it's totally natural. i mean you probably feel what if the guy you're with now isn't the one? and he's actu... (read in full...)
Dumped after 4 years, no reason why, and now he's sort of leaving the door open?
Q. I was dumped by my boyfriend after almost 4 years together, and never given a real reason as to why and when I have tried to talk to him he is very cold and distant almost irritated. We met a couple of weeks ago and I said what I needed to say and ...
A. 17 June 2009: Hun it's over basically he doesn't want to start things up again with you. maybe he's found someone else he's really interested in and wants to give that a go i don't know but he doesn't want to try it again with you because he feels you guys had ... (read in full...)
I have a major crush on someone I met only once
Q. i met this guy at my job who i started seeing on a more personaly level. after communicating with him over the phone we hooked up and we became intamate once. he made me feel brand new. when im with other ppl i think about him. now that he has moved ...
A. 17 June 2009: yeah i think you can i mean you slept with him and you obviously must have felt a strong connection with him.
when you text him why not ask him if he wants to come down on a weekend or something hang out chill out or ask him how he feels about you.... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 17 June 2009: perhaps he's hiding something from you...
you need to talk to him about this because i think what your sister said MAY have actually affected him and perhaps he's cheated? i mean your sister told him you were going to kill yourself because you coul... (read in full...)
My ex might want me back, but what about my boyfriend?
Q. Ok so.. I'm currently in a relationship and have been for 9months, and still feel like I haven't fallen inlove with him or strong feelings for him, in a way I feel I'm being unfair to him because I dont feel the same way as he feels about me. My e...
A. 17 June 2009: maybe this feeling for him you don't understand is there for him is actually the love you do have for him. i don't think he's just telling you he loves you not after 9 months i think he knows it's you he wants and it's you he's going to keep hence ... (read in full...)
My ex might want me back, but what about my boyfriend?
Q. Ok so.. I'm currently in a relationship and have been for 9months, and still feel like I haven't fallen inlove with him or strong feelings for him, in a way I feel I'm being unfair to him because I dont feel the same way as he feels about me. My e...
A. 16 June 2009: well the way i see it is you and your ex broke up for a reason that reason will always be there and will always come up during arguments. you guys will get back together and forget why you broke up but then when you argue or whatever that reason ... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 12 June 2009: no don't leave it alone you tell her you never said it and even if you did why isn't she helping you rather than blabbing to people about what you're meant to have said? no very sisterly very un supportive... ... (read in full...)
What should I do if my boyfriend believes my sister and not me?
Q. Okay, I really hope this makes sense because I am still trying to figure out what is going on! So here goes, my boyfriend of 6 months lives with my sister and her husband, where I basically used to live. My brother in law has never liked me and him ...
A. 12 June 2009: confront your sister ask her why on earth she's being a complete ponce about ita all.
he's your boyfriend and im sure you weren't even dramatic about the whole thing.
talk to you your boyfriend in person and tell him what's going on.
surel... (read in full...)
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