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| | *lovebowsandcherries's profile:Hi i'm 20 years old i live in the united kingdom. i'm straight.
i am currently single.
i love giving advice to people and trying to make a difference in peoples lives i've helped alot of people before on a website similar to this. i also go on some of my past experience in life and hope to make other peoples lives different i also want to make the realise and hope they don't make the same mistakes i did.
so if anyone needs any help just pop me a message or something. :)
i'm a friendly person i'm a good friend loyal and i am generally lovely :) i also have facebook.
i love listening to music and i love driving it's great!!! hanging out with my friends is the best!
i love random things i love pointless drives.
If you need any advice give me a shout :) i'm easy to talk too :) and very understanding.
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Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?
Q. So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each ...
A. 16 April 2009: yeah i understand what you mean i mean he's probably just letting you know he does want to make things work and go back to the way they were and he's just letting you know he is still thinking of you and he still cares alot for you and appreciates ... (read in full...)
Single forever?
Q. Hi everyone sometimes I feel like I'm going to be single forever!!! I'm 28 and just broke up with my girlfriend 8 months ago...(long story)...since then I've become so depressed...now I'm very cautious about my relationships and have some kind o...
A. 14 April 2009: look you need to stop looking at being alone as being dead that;s why you won't get anywhere. just chill out have some fun. you won't be alone forever! just you and your ex weren't meant to be but you will find the one you are meant to be wi... (read in full...)
My mum is having an internet affair
Q. Ive just found out that my mum is having a internet affair and all the while my father has been in a retirement home very sick I caught her talking to a guy on the phone all i know is he is an American guy what am i to do. I know I will not tell dad ...
A. 14 April 2009: Maybe this isn't an affair perhaps this is a cry for help. she's probably missing your father and just looking to find some comfort and talking to this guy makes her forget her troubles and makes her feel special, you must understand that it's ... (read in full...)
Ok for me to make the first move? Or wait for him?
Q. I've started messaging a guy online that I used to work with but he moved to a different branch and he's really nice. is it ok for me to make the first move or should I wait for him? He's said its nice to be talking again...is this a good sign?...
A. 14 April 2009: yeah it's a good sign he's clearly missed talking to you
but i'd wait a bit keep talking to him and see if any more signs appear.
i mean you never know he may make the first move.
but i'd wait a while before thinking of making moves atm.
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Why do her moods change so much?
Q. hi theres a girl that i like, and she really changes her moods with me and i don't understand it like. sometimes she'll be all lush and sweet to me then the next thing it's like she don't give a shit i don't know where i stand like is thi...
A. 14 April 2009: haha i am like that too but sometimes i don't even realise i am doing it like i think ia am just my normal self but apparently i change like without knowing. perhaps she has something troubling her? maybe something is going on at home and s... (read in full...)
From Prince Charming to abuser
Q. My husband is one minute abusive and the next acting like the victim. Yesterday he screamed at me because I had cut the grass on the front lawn too short! All the while he was sat with his feet up in the back garden. Later in the afternoon he s...
A. 14 April 2009: yeah good for you!!
stand your ground!!
any if you ever need help
well we're all here for that :)
let us know how it all goes!!
best of luck.
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We're constantly on and off! Should I just leave him alone?
Q. i went out for my 18th bday bak in january 2008, i decided to go out in a town which i never been to for a change. and met this really hot guy and we swapped numbers, he made the 1st move might i add! we got to texting the next day and he picked me ...
A. 14 April 2009: yeah i think he is using you hun he's keeping you as his sort of play toy so that when a relationship goes down the pan he's always got you to fullfil his needs and i know you said you rarely have sex but he's having everything with you without the ... (read in full...)
He controls my life and pisses me off yet I still feel I need him.
Q. Big problem here, really need some help now. I have been with my partner for over a year now. We started off so happy and I fell for him instantly! For the first 6 months it was pure bliss, we was in love and everybody thought we was brilliant...
A. 14 April 2009: hun! you don't feel you need him at all you're too scared to leave him that's why you go back you're so scared that you think he will come after you. and you probably don't want him to be with anyone else because the way he is towards you and yo... (read in full...)
From Prince Charming to abuser
Q. My husband is one minute abusive and the next acting like the victim. Yesterday he screamed at me because I had cut the grass on the front lawn too short! All the while he was sat with his feet up in the back garden. Later in the afternoon he s...
A. 14 April 2009: you definitely need to get yourself and your children out of there. he is playing mind games very nasty mind games as well you definitely need to tell some family or friends about what is going on. i mean look at everything you gave up for hi... (read in full...)
I think he is playing me but all my friends say I am ridiculous
Q. My new love affair has been keeping me excited but I feel it's causing too much stress. I had fun with this guy. We were in a same class 2 years ago but we started talking again a day before valentine's day. As soon as he started talking to me, I ...
A. 14 April 2009: well then you just do whatever you feel is right hun. if you want to stick with this guy then you do that but i mean guys can be quite silly at times and do need to be told that you like them otherwise they just don't know. they need it to be spe... (read in full...)
Do all girls play this game?
Q. there is this girl who loves playing with me,catching my attention,beeing allitile seductive and stuff,but sometimes she suddenly backoff,and continues after a few days as nothing happened and my problem is when she backsoff i keep worrying about wh...
A. 14 April 2009: she is probably playing hard to get wants you to know she likes you but doesn't want to be the one to make the first move she wants you to be the one to ask her out or something. she is just playing it cool and getting you to make the move. ... (read in full...)
Turning 30 and no first kiss, no boyfriend. So sad ...
Q. I am scared of turning 30 and never having no boyfriend ever and never even got my first kiss Am I a joke?...
A. 14 April 2009: noo not at all you're far from a joke! i am 20 and i've never had my first kiss, i sometimes feel the way you do thinking am i lame? am i that much of a loser? but then i think no because i am waiting for that someone special to come along a... (read in full...)
I think he is playing me but all my friends say I am ridiculous
Q. My new love affair has been keeping me excited but I feel it's causing too much stress. I had fun with this guy. We were in a same class 2 years ago but we started talking again a day before valentine's day. As soon as he started talking to me, I ...
A. 14 April 2009: your friends are right he clearly does like you but feels he doesn't need to tell you because he's a guy not all guys like to show there feelings. perhaps if you just sat and talked to him tell him how you felt and that you would like him to expr... (read in full...)
We text 24/7 but never heard his voice or met him. Next step?
Q. there is this guy named "J". He is soooo sweet and nice and i have no problem with him whatsoever. but their is a problem with our relationship. its that i never even heard his voice. he found me on facebook, and we started from there. we talk o...
A. 14 April 2009: Crazy mind is right if you do meet you must make sure there are plenty of people around especially if you don't know him and he is just a random add. as for the callin i understand you'll be nervous but there really is no need to be. are you p... (read in full...)
Is he taking a break for slowly breaking up with me?
Q. So I've been really insecure that my boyfriend hasnt been as interested in me because he hadn't been as affection or wanting to hang out as much. I don't think there is someone else because we work together and are constantly in touch with each ...
A. 14 April 2009: all i can suggest is that you give him the space he needs i mean you said you guys work together and lived together that's a bit much for a one year relationship living together and working together just give him the time and space he needs because ... (read in full...)
How do I choose between my ex and a new guy?
Q. Dear Miss A, It has been over two years since my ex and I have been in a official relationship. We broke up when I left for college but have continued to talk ever since. We got back together while was back in school but broke up shortly beca...
A. 14 April 2009: at the beginning you said when you went about seeing other guy's he'd come back in your life and then you realized you loved him, but why did he always come back in your life when you were finally moving on? because he doesn't want to see you ... (read in full...)
Hidden Love Trouble !! Need all help that is out there
Q. i always talk to this girls at school and i consider her.. just a friend...we went out for lunch a couple of time and talk about stuff the question is how do i let her know that i really want to be more than a friend to her..??????? h...
A. 14 April 2009: well first of all NEVER compare yourself to the ex you just need to show her that you're better than him without telling her let her figure that out for herself. she'll clearly still be upset and hurt by him so best not to bring him up. you j... (read in full...)
We chat online all the time but why doesn't he ask me out?
Q. Please help. I became friends with this guy in facebook, we chatted online every day, we are not completely strangers, more or less have the same circle of friends. We went out once, we had a great time and kissed. For the next three weeks, we ...
A. 14 April 2009: well seems as though things were going to plan until you said you couldn't make it. and then he said things were going wrong at work. perhaps he may feel now you're the one who doesn't want to see him he clearly doesn't want to lose you hence t... (read in full...)
He's asked me out. Should I trust him?
Q. I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot o...
A. 9 April 2009: thing is do you really like him?
if so have a shot with him
but if you say you're not bothered then don't.
i mean he seems pretty genuine as he has asked you out face to face as well!
if you want to go for it then go for it
but if you ... (read in full...)
I've never met him before and he wants me to move in with him but I don't feel ready...
Q. Ok I'm 18 nearly 19 and I am in love with a man who is 30 and I've know for about 7 months. I've never met him but speak to him every day but I am also an addict to heroin or was, I've been clean for about 4 months (but he thinks it's been a lot ...
A. 9 April 2009: first of all congratulations on being clean for four months :)
and sorry to hear about your dad!
if you like him then jjust meet him first who knows you may feel the same but if you feel he is pushing you tell him that it's going too fat and you ... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?
Q. Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my ...
A. 9 April 2009: fair enough then you need to think to yourself can you trust him to not lie? and can you see a future with him? if you do then your parents shall just have to respect your wishes and let you live your life if not then they will be there... (read in full...)
Age and appearance.
Q. Do guys like girls with fat round faces and who are short and heavy because I am short, fat round face and heavy. Up on my 30s and I never had boyfriend, I wouldn't know how to get one. I am sick of liking guys who don't like me. A guy of nice ...
A. 9 April 2009: listen shouldn't be so hard on yourself that's why you're not getting guys or you don't know how to get one. you need to have more faith in yourself!! not all guys want stick thin blondes! alot of guys like curvy girls something they c... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?
Q. Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my ...
A. 9 April 2009: to be honest how do you REALLY know he's changed? i mean you say he has now told you he's going away for Easter and has only known a "week" but how do you know he never knew before that? i mean your parents are only looking out for you they ju... (read in full...)
I sent a fake picture to my boyfriend and now he has cancelled his flights to come and see me!
Q. my boy friend has cancelled his flight today!!! simply because i told him that the picture i sent to him was not of me but belong to someone else,since he wants to meet in person by the weekend, and i have to tell him the truth. he was upset with...
A. 9 April 2009: ohhh dearr!! hun why did you send a fake picture? is there anyway you can like go on webcam and show your real self surely he would just be happy with the way you are you should of just told the truth rather than lie! i'msure he will tal... (read in full...)
I'm really angry, my ex and my best friend are going out 2 days after we broke up!!
Q. i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?...
A. 9 April 2009: to be honest she's not really a true friend is she?
i mean i have a rule if any of my friends went out with a guy and broke up and i liked them or they liked me or both i'd NEVER go there because it's rude on your friends it's like a rule of frien... (read in full...)
Court injunction out on my ex husband?
Q. How do i get a court injunction out on my ex husband? I was beaten for ten years and he has not seen his daughter now for 4 years. He wants to but my daughter does not wish to see him....
A. 9 April 2009: you'll need to go to a solicitor and see if they can do anything to help you.
give them your side of the story and tell them why your daughter does not wish to see him.
surely they'll know something is wrong if your daughter also refuses to see h... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. I love him very much, and I can tell that he loves me. Unfortunately I think he is still in love with his ex. During our first 2 years she was never mentioned, although i knew he had dated he...
A. 9 April 2009: hunny he's obviously still cut up over the way she just left him out of the blue he probably is questioning why she did this and was it something he did?
so maybe when you mention her he's upset because he feels why did it happen when he thou... (read in full...)
Why won't he tell me the truth that he cheated?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend cheated. i confronted him about it, but he denies everything that was said. the sad part is we have kids. why wont he tell me the truth? what is he hidding?...
A. 9 April 2009: ah but how did you find out?
if it is word of mouth then how can you be sure as to proove it to him.
Maybe he's being crafty and knows you have no real evidence therefore he is denying it and will keep denying it until you can actually proove i... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was lovely but now turned abusive. Help!
Q. Hi. I have a massive problem right now, cant sleep at night, cant eat. I don't know what 2 do. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and for the first few months he was so lovely and so good 2 be with. But now I am so scared...
A. 8 April 2009: maybe you don't want him to move on because you're fearing what he may do to the next girl or the next girl after that.
you just need to be so strong in yourself and pick yourself and just say HEY!
no more!
and say you've finally had enough and y... (read in full...)
If he likes me then why does he make fun of me?
Q. i like this guy in my class but his pretty weird but really cute..he always makes fun of me and idk if that means he likes me..today he was like "hey babe" to me i turned red and i was like "im not ur babe"(smiling) then before the class ended,he ...
A. 8 April 2009: hun he's a young lad boy's are all silly it takes years for them to mature! he's probably being like that because his mates are around him and it's not "cool" for guys to like girls at such a young age. but try and get his msn address or aim ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!
Q. my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...
A. 7 April 2009: hun i would defo dump him he's probably asking you not to tell anyone so he can wait until he finds someone better. he's asking you for sexy photo's and things but not showing you any gratitude like he wants these things but doesn't want anyone t... (read in full...)
Should I confront him or just leave it and hope it all works out?
Q. ive been going out with my bf for about 7 months now and i thought things were going really well. Ive met his family, hes met mine and we all get on really well etc. The only thing is we haven't had sex yet. we tried once but i was nervous as it w...
A. 7 April 2009: hun! he doesn't want his ex because you guys have not slept together he probably just remenissing and as you said he even said to her tht he couldn't do that to you. if you don't want him to know you went on his account fine but perhaps you cou... (read in full...)
Why does he do these things to me?
Q. ok, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and i am only 18 we have a WONDERFUL relationship for the most part, when we're together were so happy and are inseparable, until he's with his friends. ill call him and he'll be e...
A. 7 April 2009: wow! that is shocking you really do not deserve this at all! he's going to a boot camp that won't do anything he can tell you as many times as you want to hear it that he has changed this that and the other but the bottom line is he won't have. n... (read in full...)
I'm best friends with my ex's family. This is making it hard for me :-(
Q. Hi, i need help with the ex factor. My ex and i split a year ago. We were together for 6yrs and we had a butiful son together. The break up tore me to pieces bcoz i love this man dearly but it wasn't working as he seemed to want something else...
A. 7 April 2009: first of all i applaud you for being so brave about the whole situation like the way you're handling things! second of all that's fair enough you're going to find it hard to move on but as you say you're all pretty much kept linked together... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 7 April 2009: congratulations!!!
you got a great guy there too hun!
well done for fiding ways to control yourself :)
you should be so very proud!!!
i applaud you!
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We chat online all the time but why doesn't he ask me out?
Q. Please help. I became friends with this guy in facebook, we chatted online every day, we are not completely strangers, more or less have the same circle of friends. We went out once, we had a great time and kissed. For the next three weeks, we ...
A. 5 April 2009: well hun this maybe because he may think you've not like exactly told him you liked him or indicated that you want more with him.
perhaps you just tell him that you would like to meet up again and possibly take things further and just see how it g... (read in full...)
What can I do to make her happy?
Q. I'm just gonna get straight into it. Someone who I have liked for a couple of months now has been going through some really bad times, and I kinda knew half-heartedly about them before but now they seem to be gettng more serious. Her parents ...
A. 5 April 2009: well the only thing you can really do hun is just be there for her wheneve she needs you like just be a friend for now and then if things lead any further great but she obviously needs people to talk to at the moment just try and like go out places ... (read in full...)
What do guys prefer...?
Q. Do guys only go for gorgeous looking girls and not plain looking girls?...
A. 5 April 2009: everyone is different
just be who you are don't change for a guy.
if guys like you for you great
but i wouldn't like make a big effort to impress one guy
just be yourself and i am sure you'll find someone who loves you for you not for wh... (read in full...)
Advice please... Does size matter?
Q. Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2"....
A. 2 April 2009: Some guys prefer girls with some curves they prefer it! They don't like stick thin, not all guys sorry like stick thin, there is everyone for someone :) hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Waiting for the right one
Q. i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...
A. 2 April 2009: awwhun
i am 20 still a virgin!
it's nice to know there are guys who are waiting for the right one.
i'm the same waiting for Mr right i don't want to waste it
i want it to be special
no just some randomer
its not weird it's very f... (read in full...)
I like her but don't want her to feel pressure
Q. Hi, i got girl problems. ther is this girl i really like have dun for a while to be honest, to me she is perfect i know noone is perfect, she's a red head too and got deep blue eyes her eyes literally are amazing they are so pretty and twinkly....
A. 2 April 2009: hmm tricky. well you could always just straight out and tell her just say how you are feeling and just let her know that you don't want her to feel pressured by anything and that if she does want something to happen she knows she has someone ... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: yeah you will push him away with all this pressure of calling and texting him like hundreds of times. just ring him before he goes to work or goes to see clients and say look when you get there just ring me so i know you're ok. or pop me a text ... (read in full...)
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