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... Send *ountry Woman a private message | | | *ountry Woman's profile:OK, I wanted to just let everyone know that for now I will not be on the site as I have realised that I need to take some time out for both my own sake and also for my family. I will not delete myself from this site as I totally believe in it whole heartedly as the thanks over the years that I have received from people I have tried to advise has been amazing and given me so much in return. This site helped me get through the loss of my dad in 2007 and I think I hid my grief a lot then but now I need to find my place in my life and need to dedicate all my energy on that goal and also supporting my family as well. Don't ever be afraid to talk to the wonderful aunts and uncles on this site and remember that if Andrew had never started this site so many people would have never had the fantastic advice and help that they needed so much. I will return you can bank on it OK.
A bit about me now I think, hi everyone as it suggests I am a Country Loving woman who has grown up in the countryside and feel very at home in lovely wide open spaces and birds singing in the morning. I am 44 years old and I lived in a semi rural area for over 19 years, my relationship with my long term partner of almost 20 years ended in June 2005.
I still consider my ex as my best friend, we have good and bad days like most people but I try to stay as amicable as possible for my daughter's sake and my own, sometimes things have not always been great during our break up but life goes on.
Even though I am not in a relationship right now, hopefully 2010 may be the year that I can start to dip my toe in the water again on the relationship side of things. Just need the body to wow now, that may take a little longer unfortunately!!! lol
I think that at 44 years of age I have lived a bit and had all sorts of things happen to me so I can only say from my own personal point of view and would never qualify myself as anything other than a helper hopefully.
My motivation in life is seeing my daughter smile and laugh and just being a mum makes me get out of bed every day. I listen to my friends and have some of these since primary school. I like to think that I am a good friend and if I can help someone I will.
I think if someone needs professional help then they should try and get it and I will advise that if it appears that way.
I do believe that life is for the living and we only get one chance of actually enjoying it as too much time is spent on the trivial things of life but after my dad got bowel cancer in 2000 your life takes on a totally different perspective. My dad passed away in Feb 2007 and so I have had personal close bereavement not so long ago and even though people tell you to get on with your life, the reality of it all is not always so clear cut. Although I had to take some time out from this site for me to help my mum and sister I am back to talk any time or try and help. It helps me too if I hear that some of my advice has helped someone deal with a difficult time in their lives as well.
I hope that my advice which is from my personal life experiences help some people and I welcome any response from anyone I try to help.
I hope in some small way I can at least help take away some confusion or hurt from those who are suffering with break ups or all sorts of other problems.
I am not a doom and gloom sort of person and most days have a smile on my face, I totally understand about money worries and the seriousness of how far that can go, even the possibility of repossession, so even if your worries are not relationship based just send me a note and I will see if I can help in any way OK.
Take care and bfn.
Country Woman
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How long does it usually take women to stop holding grudges and hate and to communicate what is missing? Will it be easier to separate for now?
Q. I'm in the military and been married for just over 12 years and have a 4 year old son. We met in college over 20 years ago, but didn't get married until I joined the military 13 years ago. Our marriage has had ups and downs before and...
A. 6 May 2008: Personally I must say that I wouldn't leave it months before you write to your wife about how you feel.
What she needs right now is reassurance and help and if she actually admits that she needs help that is the biggest hurdle. Believe me I went t... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.
Q. My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd ...
A. 22 March 2008: Go for it girl, you have all the right intentions so the rest is really up to him.
Look I just don't want you to stay in something if you feel you are getting nothing in return that's all.
Right now time will tell and if you are not asking t... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.
Q. My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd ...
A. 20 March 2008: Well it seems to me that he is just not noticing you enough and a little jealous or something when you go out as he just doesn't talk to you the next day, very strange a little like he is punishing you for going out. He can't have it both ways.
... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.
Q. My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd ...
A. 19 March 2008: Sweetheart if you work for him, how often do you see him is it every day?
Working and living with a partner can really change the way your life is? Believe me I know.
If you are spending your days and nights together when is their time for y... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.
Q. My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd ...
A. 19 March 2008: This is a hard one to answer as you haven't said how long you have been together and more importantly if anything else is going on in your lives right now.
Has he had problems in his home life or do you live together?
Has he had any changes ... (read in full...)
When to have sex with a new partner? Do you wait until marriage?
Q. Hi. I know it depends on a lot of factors, but can someone give some sort of a general timeline on the appropriate time to wait before having sex with a new partner? I was in a long term relationship for several years all of which I thought we ...
A. 19 March 2008: I don't think anyone can say when the right time is as it is down to the two of you.
No you don't want to jump in bed on the first date and on the other hand you don't want to make the guy think you are not at all interested.
It is a very ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him how "insensitive" he is?
Q. Sometimes my boyfriend can be, in my opinion, very insensitive about my feelings. When i try to organize something fun and he sees a negative side about the idea he will voice his opinion without giving thought that i may have put alot of effort ...
A. 19 March 2008: Have to say that in my opinion you are trying to bend over backwards and if is that ungrateful and unfeeling why are you with him?
If you are the person who is always trying to organise things then what is HE actually contributing to the relation... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had sex with a "guy" when we broke up and now wants to get back together...
Q. So my boyfriend of three years recently broke up with me, and then had sex with one of his best (gay male) friends. He came back to me, saying that he didn't enjoy it and that he only wants to be with me. He told me that he never really wan...
A. 16 March 2008: Sweetheart your ex has finished with you and then has sex with a gay friend and yes it could have been experimenting. He now says you are the best thing since sliced bread, hmmmm strange that he didn't realise that before he broke up with you.
... (read in full...)
19 and I want a baby...what will my parents say after I had an abortion last year?
Q. Hi,my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. Around this time last year I fell pregnant and had an abortion. I have regretted this ever since. We have now decided to have a baby, we will be 20 when it is born. I want this baby but im ...
A. 15 March 2008: I know you desperately want this baby and guilt is playing a huge part in replacing the baby you aborted.
Yes you are an age when the decision is yours but a 2 year relationship is not something that I would say is so sound. Are you going to... (read in full...)
I'm scared that if I marry her and have a baby it will be like I have two babies to take care of, what do I do??
Q. Hi I'm ready to settle down in my life and get married. I have been seeing this girl she's a little younger than me six years. She's beautiful and sweet but very shy. I'm more of the outgoing type. She loves kids and would do anything I ask of her. ...
A. 15 March 2008: My god marry her or move on, that is quite drastic, how long have you been with this girl btw?
The word LOVE never seems to come into your text at all and that is the main basis for anyone wanting to marry someone surely.
So this girl loves ... (read in full...)
How long does it usually take women to stop holding grudges and hate and to communicate what is missing? Will it be easier to separate for now?
Q. I'm in the military and been married for just over 12 years and have a 4 year old son. We met in college over 20 years ago, but didn't get married until I joined the military 13 years ago. Our marriage has had ups and downs before and...
A. 15 March 2008: I think the fact that your wife is spending time with her
parents and your son will probably bring her back into the real world right now and I think that is so important.
When we are around our own families we tend to talk about everything a... (read in full...)
How long does it usually take women to stop holding grudges and hate and to communicate what is missing? Will it be easier to separate for now?
Q. I'm in the military and been married for just over 12 years and have a 4 year old son. We met in college over 20 years ago, but didn't get married until I joined the military 13 years ago. Our marriage has had ups and downs before and...
A. 13 March 2008: Hmmm seems to me that your wife found her solace in the internet and friendships she has gained there, yes it is very easy to lose sight of everything else around you and yes it can become an addiction.
Your son is young and perhaps your wife ask... (read in full...)
He reeled me back in, I've lost my best friend and family and now I don't want our child growing up around this??
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years; we met in a chat room online. We were both married at the time he was seeing lots of other women didnt realise how much until now 24 in the first year we were together and i was one of them. I divorced...
A. 12 March 2008: Sweetheart a leopard never changes it spots, this man is a control freak and although he could see or speak to other women you weren't meant to be around other men, very one sider I'm afraid.
Don't subject your children to this any more, you need... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner I slept with his mate when we were broken up?
Q. Hi, i am a 8 month old pregnant female and with my partner for 3 years now.We have been on and off in the three years.But i have really hurt him throughout the three years.And it is all coming back to me now.Firstly,we got together while i was wait...
A. 12 March 2008: I have to say I completely agree with Paladin, if your so called friend can tell her boyfriend and he wants to tell your partner then you can only hope he doesn't, if it does come out then you can be honest and tell him it happened when you were ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner I slept with his mate when we were broken up?
Q. Hi, i am a 8 month old pregnant female and with my partner for 3 years now.We have been on and off in the three years.But i have really hurt him throughout the three years.And it is all coming back to me now.Firstly,we got together while i was wait...
A. 10 March 2008: Sweetheart you are vunerable right now and you were in a confused state when you slept with his best mate (I do agree with Collaroy though, it does take two to tango and he knew what he was doing as well).
I know what you are thinking, could th... (read in full...)
What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 10 March 2008: Sweetheart clean and fresh always works and smelling nice with a lovely shampoo in your hair and maybe some body mosituriser on your legs as they are the areas that can be stubbly if you shave them and underarms.
NEVER, NEVER shave your pubic ha... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that his ad on a dating site might be a clue that he is not faithful?
Q. i caught my boyfrend who is older then me, (I'm 31 he's 49 ) putting an ad on match.com. I'm not sure what to think of it. i know he does have issues about getting older.( he's ordered wrinkle cream, etc.) I've confronted him about it, and he s...
A. 9 March 2008: I think the only thing you can do now is to ask him outright if he feels that your relationship has gone as far as it can or what does he truly feel for you as you are confused and hurt over all of this?
If he comes back without the answers ... (read in full...)
The thought of commitment scares me, what is it that holds me back?
Q. well i'm 19 years old and i'm really scared of being committed to another person i mean the thought of it scares me..i mean i've been with lots of girls during high school but just made out with them or mess around but i never wanted to settle down ...
A. 9 March 2008: I think any man of your age would feel scared too, committment is something that you need to be ready for and right now it doesn't sound like you want that.
Dating someone is not committment, living with them or getting married is and you are just... (read in full...)
I love this man and it might be hard to let go but if he's not worth the trouble, I wouldn't want to be chasing shadows...
Q. I have been seeing this guy for over 8 months now, his office moved him to my city and we hit it off. He travels a lot because of his job. Early this year, he had to travel for an office retreat but recently, i found pictures of him, his friends ...
A. 9 March 2008: If it was me then I would want to talk to the girl myself to find out from her what the real truth is, if there is nothing to hide then he would let you speak to her even over the phone or even via email or text, if there is more to this than meets ... (read in full...)
My BF is not allowed to stay over but my brother's GF is! What do you think?
Q. can anyone help me, am i being stupid or am i right? last night my mum allowed my sisters boyfriend to stay over and SHARE A BED with her!! she is 13 and he is 17! but not a month ago, she wouldnt let my boyfriend stay over because im 15 an...
A. 9 March 2008: Personally I feel that what your mum is allowing your sister and you to do is really not great.
However, a 13 year old with a 17 year old is not right either as your sister is far too young and do they sleep in the same room and bed?
Your mu... (read in full...)
He is a wonderful man but his preferences in bed confuse me! What shall I do?
Q. Dear Sir/Madam I have been dating a real gentleman for the last three months. Nothing is to much trouble for him and our relationship is growing day by day. He is perfect in almost every way and i have found myself falling in love with him. Now ...
A. 9 March 2008: Oh sweetheart I realise that you have been on your own for some time but that does not mean that you have to stay in a relationship with someone who is asking you to do things you are uncomfortable with.
We all want to be wanted but if the sexu... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that his ad on a dating site might be a clue that he is not faithful?
Q. i caught my boyfrend who is older then me, (I'm 31 he's 49 ) putting an ad on match.com. I'm not sure what to think of it. i know he does have issues about getting older.( he's ordered wrinkle cream, etc.) I've confronted him about it, and he s...
A. 9 March 2008: Sweetheart normally your gut instincts aren't wrong I'm afraid. If he was happy in his relationship with you he wouldn't be putting his details up on a dating site.
The alarm bells are already ringing for you and that is never a good sign.
... (read in full...)
Currently in a controlling relationship, I am attracted to another but afraid of rejection and remaining alone!
Q. im turning 17 years old next month.. and i been in a relationship for about a year now. he sometimes can be very controling and i want to have fun in my life.. and latey the relationthip has been dull. i kind of like this guy who is a few years ...
A. 9 March 2008: Ask yourself one question though, do you enjoy being in this controlling relationship? If the answer is no then you should end it.
You are still very young and I cannot see for one second why you would end up alone, if you were 40/50 or even 60 ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help or is it just a question of time until I am over my ex husband?
Q. My husband and I split 14 months ago, his choice not mine. I still love him so much and even though he has made it quite clear he is happier without me I cannot let him go and still spend my days thinking about him, who he is with and what I can do ...
A. 9 March 2008: Sweetheart the thing is you never ended it and by the sounds of things he never truly gave you an explanation as to why.
You say he is your ex-husband so I presume you are divorced? Did things come out during the divorce so you had somethin... (read in full...)
He struggles to satisfy me in bed as his back pain is getting worse, what can I do?
Q. I've just divorced and started a relationship with this man. I feel good when I am round him. We have sex three or four times a week. A year on he begins to struggle to satisfy me in bed as his back pain is getting worse. He takes painkiller and ...
A. 8 March 2008: Have you ever got to the route of what is wrong with your man's back as living on pain killers is never the real answer to problems, also having sex 3 - 4 times a week is good for a lot of people I would say.
So be grateful that you get it that ... (read in full...)
Why do the insensitive say they never meant any harm by their actions?
Q. I have a question which has always troubled me. Why is it that people who are insensitive to the feelings of others...we all know them..the womanisers, cheaters etc always say they never meant any harm to anyone when you call them on it. Are they ...
A. 8 March 2008: Personally those people who say they didn't mean any harm are usually so deeply involved with their own feelings that they just never see that others get hurt by their inadequate way of talking to others.
I used to be with someone who was so sarca... (read in full...)
I feel I'm never going to get over this girl if I keep being such good friends with her, as she insisted. What can I do?
Q. I'm in college and I fell in love with a girl on my floor. She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She has a boyfriend though and says that me and her will never happen but she wants us to be friends. I tried telling her that I couldn't be ...
A. 21 November 2007: Sweetheart you are so right about this.
You are bolstering her ego right now and it is tearing you apart. That just isn't fair.
A true friend would never want to see their friend in pain emotionally so you do need to draw back. She has her boyf... (read in full...)
Help me survive a 3yr seperation... or should I just move on?
Q. while I was in the military I started playing world of warcraft. I used it to keep my self entertained and to help me stay out of trouble. While playing the game I met a woman who I instantly clicked with, our discussions and playing time, ...
A. 21 November 2007: Personally sweetheart you have given so much of yourself and as this was your first relationship you are the one who has been learning the lessons of life.
Coming out of the forces must have been a huge culture shock for you and perhaps moving i... (read in full...)
Who do I believe...my bf or my ex best friend?
Q. Ok...I'm super confused! and i have no idea what to do! ok, this is complicated so read it slowly to understand. I'm in love with his guy who also loves me. (or so he says) and I've believe this for 6 yrs but today I have doubts. We haven't bee...
A. 30 October 2007: Listen any time OK.
Glad to hear that you have regained your friend, they are always the ones who stick by you at the end of the day, men come and go eh!.
Take care and keep on smiling. Good for you girl.
BFN
Country Woman... (read in full...)
He asked me to do some work for him, but I forgot, and now he is so angry. I think this is unfair!
Q. Did I do something wrong? Last night my fiance and I talked on the phone and he wanted me to go in to his work for about two hours the next day to help out with some cleaning (he's owns his own business and was out of town). He only asked because he ...
A. 22 August 2007: OK the crux of this matter was that you promised to do something and forgot - you are human and speaking till 3am in the morning would mean that you are tired.
I am not saying that this was no blame on your part, you promised to do somethin... (read in full...)
Should I contact my brother after all this time?
Q. Hi. This is a family member problem not a relationship one. I have two brothers who are 4 and 5 years older than me. I don't get on with the elder one. He's very much like how my father used to be when he was younger and still kinda is today: he's ...
A. 22 August 2007: Sweetheart I do appreciate everything you are feeling right now and I understand why you don't want to have contact with your older brother.
This isn't just about losing touch with him, he violated you when you were young and it happened under yo... (read in full...)
We have split up because of my son.
Q. Hi All, New to the site. I have a problem. Basically I love my wife very very much we have been married about 5 years and it is my second marriage. Everything was great until xmas. My first wife threw my eldest son out [aged 14] and I agreed he ...
A. 20 August 2007: Knowing your second wife didn't get on with your son and then agreeing he could come and live with you must have been an enormous slap in the face for her.
There seems to be no talking going on here, your son is at an age where he knows what but... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?
Q. i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...
A. 16 August 2007: Sweetheart, you say the rest of your family are in Mexico, is there not an Auntie or someone who you have ever been close to at all?
Have you ever thought that maybe going to social services or something could be better or getting in with a foster... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?
Q. i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...
A. 13 August 2007: Sweetheart, you cannot be bullied into staying with someone for fear of him hurting you.
Are you living with family right now, tell them the situation if you are and warn the police that your bf seems to get very angry and you are frighten... (read in full...)
I have finally found what has seemed to be the man of my dreams... so why am I so hurt?... I am very ashamed for feeling so sad....
Q. "Oh, What A Tangled Web I Weave!" I have two children 8 and 2 (ex husband) and I am engaged to a father of four other children (two ex wives). He is great with my children but I know he is empty from not being able to see his other children at ...
A. 9 August 2007: Sweetheart you are trying far too hard.
So he is in love with his children, is that so wrong, we condemn men for not being able to show their emotions and when he does you feel that he is showing favouritism. These particular children are at the f... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?
Q. i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...
A. 9 August 2007: How long did you leave it after splitting with your previous bf before starting a new relationship with your current bf?
Who ended the last relationship - you or your ex bf?
If you are not happy then something has to change as it can't go on l... (read in full...)
Just found out I'm pregnant! Will my wedding dress fit? Is it safe to fly?
Q. do you gain any weight in the first weeks of pregnancy? I'm a little worried as I am due to be married in 5 weeks time and have just found out I am pregnant!! My dress is very fitted and I'm starting to get concerned. I dont 'feel' pregnant yet i've...
A. 8 August 2007: Sweetheart have you told your hubby to be btw?
I would go to the doctors first of all and get the right advice.
Normally they say try not to fly in the first few months I think but safe after 3 - well it used to be. I fle at 7 months pregnant ... (read in full...)
I feel really low at this time of year as I have very few mates and very little money and so can't go on holiday.
Q. heeeeeeeeey guys. I feel really low at this time of year as I have very few mates and very little money and so can't go on holiday. I booked a holiday to Ibiza but fell out with my friend so didn't end up going. Now I've seen everyone's pics and ...
A. 5 August 2007: Why so few mates then and why did you fall out with one who was a so called friend?
Do you keep people at arms length for any reason?
Are you lively or very quiet?
Do you show off your body or are you very timid and shy of doing that?
Do... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I love him anymore, so should I leave this guy and try on my own with our little girl?
Q. hi in nov of 2004 my mom set me up with a guy she worked with we hit it off very well had lots of fun by feb 2005 i, oops, got pregnant. his job moved so we did i left my firends behind. my moms job moved too so she stayed with us which sucked. we ...
A. 31 July 2007: OK so after your mum set you up with this guy, you were with him for about 3 months and suddenly you are pregnant!
Wow that is fast in anyone's books. You really didn't know what type of guy he was at this stage so it was a huge committm... (read in full...)
Should I keep shaving myself like this?
Q. Dear cupid hi im 15 and I have a big problem because it effects my looks alot i love the felling of the razor on my skin ans have bein shaving my vagina since pubity i always shave my legs armpits and that but one day when having a bath i fel...
A. 31 July 2007: I think your obsession with shaving every hair on your body is not the norm here.
You say that you love the feeling of the razor against your skin, that is slightly worrying and I think it would be good to go and talk to your doctor in confiden... (read in full...)
why is my ex still lying to me?
Q. hi i have written quite afew times about my now ex partner and how he has treated me.i.e first he had a "fling" wanted me out of our home; then decided we should make a go of it .. then a few months later, he decided he wanted me out again - so...
A. 31 July 2007: Like you have already said, he is a habitual liar and when someone has been doing it for so long they can't break the habit without getting professional help.
I can't believe you have been the one to walk away from your home but as he bullied ... (read in full...)
I still like my ex-girlfriend, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!
Q. I recently went on a trip with about 30 friends. My last 4 girlfriends were there but i havent spoken to two of them in years, the other one was my best mate but things just didnt work out and we had a messy breakup but the other one I always have ...
A. 28 July 2007: Just be a friend and be supportive and funny and show her the side of you that she has always felt comfortable with.
You don't know how long things will continue with this new bf but if you are in the background who knows.
Just try to be the on... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. ...
A. 28 July 2007: I have to say that Flower Girl does have a point, it was not like you were abusing a trust while you were together, you were on a break. Keep telling yourself that.
Did you know at the time that you were going to get back together again - answer N... (read in full...)
I cheated on my fiance and his sister wants to beat me up!
Q. i have just recently told my fiance that i cheated on him..he told his sister and now she wants to beat me up..shes 10 years older than me and im scared.what do i do?...
A. 28 July 2007: I think first of you are very young to be engaged in the first place so that is a lot of pressure on one so young.
The fact that your fiance has run and told his sister is in one way he feels that he can talk to her and the other it is somethin... (read in full...)
Our life has gotton so routine and boring!
Q. Me and my bf have been together 7 months and im getting a bit bothered by the fact that it has gotten so routine. We do the same thing week in week out and it gets a bit boring because he never does anything spontaneous. Were both 21. I never see ...
A. 27 July 2007: Have you ever actually told your bf what you have said to us on this site?
I know you don't want to hurt his feelings but he does sound like he is old before his time.
Does he have a stressful job that he has to be up for in the mornings?
... (read in full...)
Who do I believe...my bf or my ex best friend?
Q. Ok...I'm super confused! and i have no idea what to do! ok, this is complicated so read it slowly to understand. I'm in love with his guy who also loves me. (or so he says) and I've believe this for 6 yrs but today I have doubts. We haven't bee...
A. 11 June 2007: You have trusted your gut instinct on this and only time will tell if he is telling the truth or not.
Tread carefully with this at the moment as the last thing I would want to see is you getting hurt.
Unfortunately until you have concrete ev... (read in full...)
Who do I believe...my bf or my ex best friend?
Q. Ok...I'm super confused! and i have no idea what to do! ok, this is complicated so read it slowly to understand. I'm in love with his guy who also loves me. (or so he says) and I've believe this for 6 yrs but today I have doubts. We haven't bee...
A. 7 June 2007: If the whole argument centred around your ex bf there is a good chance that this is her way of getting him out of your life but I would do as Chrissy32789 suggests and see if she will make the phone call so you know the complete truth.
I would ta... (read in full...)
Who do I believe...my bf or my ex best friend?
Q. Ok...I'm super confused! and i have no idea what to do! ok, this is complicated so read it slowly to understand. I'm in love with his guy who also loves me. (or so he says) and I've believe this for 6 yrs but today I have doubts. We haven't bee...
A. 7 June 2007: Chrissy 32789 has got a point, that is one way to find out the whole truth.
The other part that I am confused about is you say about your ex best mate, why is she your ex best mate and then you are listening to what she is saying, doesn't totally ... (read in full...)
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