What is going on with this friend? I'm confused...
Q. I became friends with a guy through a good friend. Eventually, this guy friend would call his brother on 3-way and we would occassionally talk to one another. And sometimes we would all hang-out, my female friend, me and the two guys. Well, eve...
A. 15 May 2008: sounds to me you should leave well alone and get on with youre life and forget about this whole mess, i can see youre confusion and it does sound really strange..best thing is to walk away from this more important things in life than having to deal ... (read in full...)
My period is late and I haven't had sex. Could I have a tumor?
Q. Ok well my last period was March 17-24 witch is my normal cycle I havent had sex I am still young but I watched a tv show and a girl have a brain tumor and missed her periods well now it is May 1st and I still didnt get my April period tumors dont...
A. 30 April 2008: ok one of the biggest reasons people can miss a period is stress / worry or overweight..if you are worried about it get it checked out by your doctor. i used to go 2 months without periods was just because i was iregular.. all people are different, ... (read in full...)
My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 30 April 2008: sweetie he seems really insecure, sometimes you can reassure someone till their blue in the face and they wont change so its 50% 50%. and it is improper of him to say such things about your private life and that he should have more respect for ... (read in full...)
Confused about sex and sexuality. Help please!
Q. basically Im with a guy attracted to him, hot body, LOVE HIM makes me feel good, emotioanl connection, physical as well but never orgasmed with him, i watched a girl strip and O'd by masturbation...wats up with that? but then I experimented with a ...
A. 24 April 2008: well theirs one of a few things to think about in this scenario..one you may have fantasy about women and that can be mixed up with reality and by the looks of it in youre mind in reality its not what you want but by challenging youreself about it ... (read in full...)
I would like to know him better, but how?
Q. Hi there everyone! So, i have two problems: a) I'm feeling quite lonely lately. I'm not those kind of girls who wants to have lots of boyfriends or who is always thinking about men and sex. But the fact is: i feel quite lonely lately. I know...
A. 23 April 2008: hi their, i know exactly how you feel for about two years i had split from my ex and now and again u feel the urge to be with someone ie a partner to share youre evenings with or just sitting by the fire having a laugh.. well sometimes things happen ... (read in full...)
Girls, what would you not like/tolerate in a partner, generally speaking?
Q. All right, so most guys already know what it is women want in a guy, smart, handsome, confident, etc. But a question I don't ever see asked that I think would help out my situation as well as some others is, what don't women want in a guy, what a...
A. 27 August 2007: well i can be sarcastic and funny and loving at the same time so i dont think that is youre problem and also every women is different in what they want in a guy/ for me, reasonable apperance(as looks is not everything), good teeth, caring romantic, ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and want to ask out a 17 year old boy, is there anything wrong with this?
Q. I'm a 21 year old female and have a crush on a 17 year old boy. He acts very mature for his age and he has made it quite clear that he wants to hook up with me. Is there a problem with going for him?...
A. 27 August 2007: i very much agree with daniel i dont for see a problem with the age gap as long as anything you want to do with him is legal ie drinking alcohol check that neither of you are doing nothing ilegal then it will be all fine hope you both have a happy ... (read in full...)
What would be the definition of being addicted to porn websites?
Q. What would be the definition of being addicted to porn websites? For instance, when a guy looks at porn once every night, does that mean he is addicted? Or if a guy looks at it every other night does that mean he is addicted? I just don't know how ...
A. 22 August 2007: an addiction to me would be that you would need to watch it everday and you think about it everyday..once a week or maybe twice a week to me would not be an addiction providing youre not thinking about it all the time, quite alot of people think ... (read in full...)
Is big best, if so why?
Q. hi i am a male and not well endowed is big best if so why ...
A. 22 August 2007: no big isnt always best although some like it large and some like it small differs from women to women really so dont be to worried or down about this not all men are large hope this helps A xx... (read in full...)
Anybody got any ideas on how I can improve myself so girls don't use me?
Q. Hi, basically, I don't know what to do with myself, the past few years I've used MSN as a way to get to know girls, girls that I went to school with etc, but I always seemed to be the guy they loved to talk to, but would always go out and get with ...
A. 22 August 2007: i think youre looking to hard possibly, youre doing right being a guy who listen, wish most ment ive dated would of lol..and the trouble part dont fight unless self defence, youre still young hey im 21 and not got a bf so dont worry just yet..try to ... (read in full...)
I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."
Q. I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."...
A. 22 August 2007: well / i am in love with you --thats declaring their love for you and
i love you -- is stating that they love you to remind you and so that you know they love you some people need their partners to say i love you and others just say it or some dont... (read in full...)
I want to know if this was true love or should I close the door and never look back?
Q. My first true love in high school graduated and left to the Army for four years. After years passed I was told by his friends he was living with someone over seas so I started dating. It broke his heart when he returned. I was so ashamed that I ...
A. 22 August 2007: i think you never closed the door that you left open..maybe it wasnt ment to be closed or maybe it was ment to be shut you will know what to do when the time comes youre just questioning if its worng or not.. you cant help who you love, as long as ... (read in full...)
Can I do anything to stop my periods from being so heavy?
Q. Sometimes my period is really heavy it hurts like normal but i keep having to change all the time and i just cant be botherd causre ther toilets at school are wrank. Please help because its annoying me having to keep changing all the time....
A. 17 August 2007: ok well since i was 10 ive had very heavy periods and doubled over in pain most of the time with them and i always wondered what i could do to make them better it wasnt till i was 18 i found out about the rod not just a contraceptive pill thats ... (read in full...)
What does the word 'freak' mean?
Q. what does a FREAK mean? I hear people used this term a lot at school, and saying it to people....
A. 10 August 2007: well in britian it means that youre different from other people little bit like rolling youre eyes into the back of youre head so only white shows people would say thats freaky, although the word freak is use usually a down trodded word like you ... (read in full...)
Depressed because people laugh at me! Any advice?
Q. I don't know the reason for this, but whenever i go out people i don't know just look at me and laugh at me. I don't know what is so funny? i don't dress funny, i dress like any other ordinary people that you see on the streets. i am not taking ...
A. 10 August 2007: i dont think people would laugh at you without a reason or maybe people are laughing at a joke or something an you feel their laughing at you when their not, if you feel really bad about this go see youre doctor, he may be able to help you with this ... (read in full...)
She has got looser, is she cheating?
Q. i suspect that my wife is cheating on me.her vagina has become looser suddenly.it was tighter for more than one year after the birth of our one and only child.is my suspicion right?...
A. 9 August 2007: well sometimes women can become looser due to weight, less use of muscles, and more so after having children..i myself always maintain muscle pulling daily in that region to keep on top of it so that even if i put weight on or off ill stay the same ... (read in full...)
I;m going to uni this fall and can't handle LD relationships! Should I let him go?
Q. I have been living with my boyfriend for 3 months. i think he is the one but i wanna go to uni n this means breaking up. i cant deal with a long distance relationship. help me what do i do?...
A. 9 August 2007: you need to give more information hunnie ie how far do you live a part if you were to go to uni what he does ie can he see you at weekends and vice versa xx... (read in full...)
I'm married and have been seeing a married woman; we know it's wrong but we're not happy in our marriages
Q. I am a 32 year old male and i have been married for seven years and have a son. Like all marriages we have had our ups and downs but i feel that my feelings for my wife are not as strong as they should be. Over the past two years i have developed ...
A. 8 August 2007: then you have to choose to be together and tell youre loved ones or stop seeing each other you cant live lies it will only hurt them more and youreself if you decide to give it up xx A... (read in full...)
While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 6 months. While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about, he then often plays on his guitar and ignores me or goes in a mood and it upsets me. What do I do?...
A. 7 August 2007: their is a thousand and one things to talk about hunnie you just have to pick something you both like or something individual you like, joke be playful..if he plays his guitar listen and say what you feel on his songs hope this helps xx A... (read in full...)
Is there any way for sex not to hurt the first time round?
Q. how do you break yourself in for sex the first time not to hurt?...
A. 7 August 2007: i went horse ridding when i was younger and when i first had sex it was not too bad because it can break youre hymen.although youre too young to be having sex if and when you do the legal age is 16 and youre mentally and physically not ready for ... (read in full...)
He put money in my card, when i had already told him what i wanted.
Q. should i be upset when my fiance ,who was told 3 months ago what i would like, doesn't get me a birthday gift and pops the money inside my card to buy something myself? i'm feeling justified in being incredibly disappointed and upset am i wrong?...
A. 5 August 2007: you being upset about it because you wanted him to buy you something with thought put into it, you didnt want to buy something youreself or you would have already. youre feeling sensitive that he didnt take the time to go get you something with ... (read in full...)
My girfriend is travelling away from me and keeps telling me about men hitting on her; what's her purpose with that?
Q. My girlfriend is out of my state for 6 weeks and will be traveling heavily for a year or more. Only one week into this new job and she is going to bars most nights and telling me about all of the men hiting on her. What is she trying to ...
A. 4 August 2007: make you jealous or interested maybe she doesnt feel good enough about herself and she is trying to make you interested xxx... (read in full...)
Should I get my hair done the way I want or listen to my mum?
Q. hi there i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair short like how posh spice had it at the end of 2oo6 i asked my mom last night and she said it would not suite me but i think it will she also said that she doesnt trust the hairdresser and ...
A. 4 August 2007: if i were you ide have some cut off like 3 inches taken off she how you like that and if you do then next time get a little more off you can always take off but not back on again, and just say look mum i no you care and have an opinion but its ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl, said she came on to him and apologised.
Q. Hey, I'd really appreciate some advice. I was going to go out with my boyfriend and some of his mates last night but decided I was too tired so told him I wouldn't be making it. He seemed a bit upset but whatever... This morning I got a text fro...
A. 3 August 2007: i think that it could be one of two things but he might not of told you on one hand because she came onto him and didnt want you to split up with him encase you didnt believe him their are many explantions for this, if you feel unsure ask a friend ... (read in full...)
My older sister calls him a pervert.. but is he really too old for me?
Q. i know age is just a number but i have a quick question is 16 which ill be 17 in a week and hes 20 is that big of a differnce? because my older sister keeps calling him a prevert but her husban is 29 and she is 23 so is she just trien to get him to ...
A. 3 August 2007: unless they have good reason which they should say to you then ide ignore it because their isnt an age gap thats big now if you were 16 and he was 30 then theirs an age gap lol ask them why they think hes too old and bring up that point that you ... (read in full...)
How can I get a girl? I need a girlfriend!
Q. Hi, my name is Daniel, I am 16 and live with my parents in Aberdeen, Scotland. I have no success with girls and it's just not happening for me. I have never had a girl friend, always rejection. I need a girl to love because I feel its my duty get ...
A. 2 August 2007: hey their daniel i live in the north east too..to meet a girl you need to go out their and meet them go out with friends mix with them go to hobbies or clubs and if youre still at school mingle..it isnt youre duty to be with a woman you feel the ... (read in full...)
Well thanks for the advice I got it was great, I would just like a bit more help with the situation.
Q. Hi I wrote up the other day here was my question, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-talk-to-my-daughter-to.html I suggest you read this other wise this question may not make much sense it's not very long so won't take much time. Wel...
A. 2 August 2007: well when i was younger we were told about sex and contraceptives in school but my mum and sisters both talked to me about it.. i know its embarresing for her and you too but approach her when she is in a good mood and say hunnie do you mind if we ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a cross dresser and he's decided he may want to become a woman!
Q. I'm a lady with 3 kids, one is disabled. My partner lives in Guernsey and I'm from Bath and he's a cross dresser and I knew that we have been together for nearly 2 years and recently he's decided he may want to become a woman fully but he's not ...
A. 2 August 2007: hmm well a friend of mine wanted to become a women then me and him met up finally after 2 years of knowing one and another and he realised that he wanted to be a man, some men feel as though they want to be a women but at the end of the day their ... (read in full...)
We want to do more than just make out but we're only 13; what can we do?
Q. my boyfriend and i really like each other and want to do more than kissing and pashing but we ae only 13. what can we do?...
A. 2 August 2007: Dont go to far hunnie youre both very young and underdeveloped at this age wait till your 16 before considering sex, try using ice cubes when you kiss will tingle your tongue xx A... (read in full...)
Older Girls! What do girls think of lumpy cum?
Q. Older girls please! What do girls think about lumpy cum? I think it’s gross and it’s my own “stuff!” There’s always little lumps in my cum and I get so embarrassed about it. Apparently it’s perfectly normal from what I’ve read so I guess there’...
A. 2 August 2007: guess it depends how lumpy it is, try drinking more water in youre diet that might help xx A
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My best mate has cheated on her bf so many times, I feel like I should tell him. Should I?
Q. My best friend of 15 years has been going out with this guy for 2 years almost. In that time she's cheated on him God knows how many times, last time I got her to tell him because I thought it wasn't fair on him and she did, but got mad at me ...
A. 2 August 2007: Its none of you're business although if it was me and my friend had proof he was cheating on me i'd want to know, so i could slap him then walk away lol. I know you're friendship is important but you have to make a decision on telling the truth or ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with wanting a baby at this age?
Q. I'm 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been having sex and i got worried that i was pregnant then i got my period. And now i want to have a baby! Is there something wrong with that? And how would i tell my mum? She would go crazy. I really Luv my bf an...
A. 1 August 2007: ok first off youre under age and should not be having sex. second you are too young to resposibily take on a child since you are one youre self i dont want to seem mean hunnie but its only the truth their are other children throwing away their lives ... (read in full...)
I'm 20, 4'10in and worried.
Q. I am 20 years old and only 4 ft 10. My mother is 5 ft 3 and my father is 5ft 5. I am really getting worried about my height. I have been to my doctor who says i have nothing to worry about as long as i am healthy. Can any one help me please because ...
A. 1 August 2007: well i was slightly over weight when i was younger and i lost weight and my height shot up, you stop growing when youre 21 roughly so you might get a studden spurt of growth, have you asked youre parents if their is a shortness of height in youre ... (read in full...)
Can i give consent to sex?
Q. ok im 16 and i want to know if i can give consent to have sex?? i live in orgeon....
A. 1 August 2007: no im afraid not the legal age is 18 in orgeon.. here is a website address for you it states in their http://www.actwin.com/eatonohio/gay/consent.htm hope this helps XXX A... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to have phone sex?!
Q. hey ummm my g/f wants to have phone sex. i didnt want to and got realy pissed at her, cuz she said that her friend and her boyfriend probaly done it. but idk how to have phone sex. well i do. but i dont no how to explain to her that i dont want to ...
A. 1 August 2007: yes many young people are having sex but can i mention again like most people on here its illegal to have sex till youre 16 youre not fully devloped yet and less mature, i waited till i was 16 and i wish now i had waited for the right man and the ... (read in full...)
Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any ...
A. 1 August 2007: some people have their periods even when pregnant, some of those signs seem to point towards pregnacie, it could even be a ghost pregnacie but go to youre gp sweetheart and get checked out dont worry im sure everything will be fine hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a virgin to use a sex toy?
Q. Is it ok for me a virgin to use a sex toy or doll or do i need experience with these things ? like with a vibrator i have never put anything inside me like tampons so i am not sure if i should put a vibrator in me . the only person who put something ...
A. 1 August 2007: ok tampons wont break youre hymen it will most likely stretch although if you have a tough hymen you will need to get a small procedure to deal with that. as for the masturbation give youre self clitorus stimulation first that will ease you more to ... (read in full...)
I am not sure how to tell if a girl really has been leaching on to his neck or if his reasons are genuine.
Q. It may be nothing but a few days ago I saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing ...
A. 31 July 2007: sounds a bit funny well the shape of them should give you an idea if their hickies or bruises bruises are sometimes diffo colour too hickies are blood thats brought to the surface under the skin which is slightly different from a bruises as hickies ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt her or is it pleasurable?
Q. i am a 35 year old healthy male. married. having great sex (weekly 5-6 times). my wife screams and shout loudly while she climaxes. after couple of minutes, she become normal and she does not remember that she had screamed. she says, she had ...
A. 30 July 2007: ive seen my self in the throws of passion to moan and sometimes i forget that i have said or moaned loudly and my ex has said hehe you just screamed then of course i go bright red so it maybe she just forgot in the moment of the passion ide say its ... (read in full...)
Is it healthy for us to go out seperately?
Q. my fiance says it is healthy for the both of us to go out alone with our friends.Is that true or not?...
A. 30 July 2007: sometimes going out with a friend from time to time is healthy gets you out of the house gives you both alone time to do what you want to without having to think oh he doesnt like to do this or she doesnt like this but i do and also its nice to see ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared i'll get pregnant.
Q. heLLoo im 14 i really wanna have sex i have these funny feelings in my body when i think about it and i wanna have it but im so scared to get pregnant so can someone please tell me a way that i can guarte not to get pregnant please thank you who evr ...
A. 30 July 2007: hey their sweety everyone wants to have sex when their younger but youre only 14 and sex should be something shared with the right person after the age of 16 dont waste youre virginty, if you have urges then masturbate till youre ready when youre ... (read in full...)
My older sister calls him a pervert.. but is he really too old for me?
Q. i know age is just a number but i have a quick question is 16 which ill be 17 in a week and hes 20 is that big of a differnce? because my older sister keeps calling him a prevert but her husban is 29 and she is 23 so is she just trien to get him to ...
A. 29 July 2007: in my opinion she is not much of a sister if she tries to sleep with youre boyfriend..just because youre 16 and he is 20 does not mean hes a pervert..i was 16 and dated a 21 year old. she could be jealous or just tryin to look out for you in a bad ... (read in full...)
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