Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...
A. 9 August 2008: some guys like porn in their routine some can get addicted but just because he has you doesnt mean to say your not enough just he has an interest in that sort of thing. the sleeping pills could be having an effect on his system making it harder for ... (read in full...)
Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...
A. 2 August 2008: gecko got a point although i say talk to him about it maybe their is a reason, dont be harsh about it be sensitive about it say that you enjoy it but it hurts your feelings that he doesnt do it with you than give you what you want and not himself ... (read in full...)
Will having sex with my new man hurt?
Q. I have been seeing my new man for a while now and im ready to have sex with him but im worried that it will hurt. I have only ever slept with one other man and he was much smaller in the trousers department than my new man. my old bf was about...
A. 2 August 2008: hehehe uncle phil :P.. average is between 5-6 inches . so hes a little bigger than average. i wouldnt be worried at all its always intimadating when you get more than you thought you bargained for, but talk to your partner when your having ... (read in full...)
Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?
Q. Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...
A. 2 August 2008: i had my first kiss and boyfriend when i was 12 lasted for a year aphex xx... (read in full...)
Miserable with my husband, should I have an affair?
Q. I am thinking of having an affair out of frustration and low self-esteem. My husband and I have not had any sexual encounters for eight years because he feels I am too aggressive and direct in general. He views me as a huge source of pressure and ...
A. 2 August 2008: well having an affair is only going to hurt the both of you. and the fact its wrong..get marriage councelling if not then you shouldnt be married if your contemplating infidelity..dont lower yourself because your unhappy..if things are not working ... (read in full...)
He's going through depression, what can I do to cheer him up?
Q. I am currently in a situation where by the guy I am dating is going through depression. I try not to speak much about our relationship as we have also been having a bit of issues. Could you please advise me as to what else I could talk to him abou...
A. 2 August 2008: when you are depressed its easy to get carried with tide. and you push people away mostly the ones who care the most.. i know i have been depressed myself once or twice.. but i always had loving family and friends to help me back on my feet when i ... (read in full...)
2 Questions...Girl on top?...Height of pleasure?
Q. I've been having sex with my boyfriend for around 6 months now but i have never been on top he really wants me to but once up there i dont know what to do and just end up rolling over and carrying on with him on top help its getting embarras...
A. 2 August 2008: just relax and dont stress out its ment to be an enjoyable experience..heres a website that give explanation and what other peoples views are on the subject http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml .. and i would say your not the only one who ... (read in full...)
Blood in my poo, what do I do?
Q. okay look this is ganna sound really really nasty but i need help and i figured yall are the people to ask!! now my ass has been killin me.and i was spossed to be starin my priod yesturday but its late (as usual) so i aint worried bout it but the ...
A. 2 August 2008: hun i no this is really embaressing for you and you wish for it to disapear but you need to go see a gp their could be a problem with your rectum and it needs checking out tell your mum about this so that they can check it out so that you know whats ... (read in full...)
If I go on the pill and then off it, does that not lower the chances of conceiving?
Q. Recently lost my virginity, been doing it alot since. Only been using condoms, i know that they are not 100% reliable though i really can't afford to fall pregnant. I'm not worried about STI because me and my boyfriend have never had any previous ...
A. 1 August 2008: alot of people concieve differently. once you are on the pill say maybe for 3 years its still possible to get pregnant in the first year of being off them although it could take up to a year..and i bet it will be a while before you have a stable ... (read in full...)
Which method is best for removing hair on my upper lip?
Q. Hey, Im a girl and I have hair that grows above my top lip and its horrible. (I don't like referring to it as a "tash" because that just makes it sound worse, lol). I hate it so so much. It makes me feel ugly and manly. Im afraid to look at any l...
A. 1 August 2008: well alot of people vote for bleaching the hairs as blondes have hairs their too just with them being blonde its hard to see. if not then im sure you can get self waxing for that in a chemist though waxing can leave you with spots..so ide say go for ... (read in full...)
I am still bleeding since my period has stopped - am I still protected during sex? (I am taking anticonceptives)
Q. I have been taking the pill for 2 weeks now and finished my period about 1 and half weeks ago. However i am still bleeding a bit and its been going on since my period has stopped. Is this normal? Will i still be protected when having sex? When will ...
A. 1 August 2008: it could be the pill in your system hasnt settled yet but if you are worried go see your gp about this..and i would advise you to still use condoms as well to give you more protections and help against catching diseases aphex xxx... (read in full...)
How can I get a boy to ask me out?
Q. there is this boy that I REALLY REALLY like I've liked him for a while now. I started to like him because I thought he liked me. He was flirting with me and stuff. I see him checking me out and he calls me "baby". When i emailed him he didnt reply. ...
A. 1 August 2008: not to be mean but this is the new age come on girls we wanted fair to be equal so thats means oh yes we have to ask boys out too nowadays..so whats wrong with you asking him he maybe got fed up because he ddnt think your were interested..so why ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want a baby... but why?
Q. i'm 13 and i want to have a baby but i don't feel unloved my mom and my friends would do anything they could to help me why do i still want a baby so badly?...
A. 1 August 2008: its a young kids dream to be a mummy just like their own mum. an to be a good of a mum as their own.but having a child at your age is highly dangerous as your bodie is not developed enough to give it what it needs for a good healthy child.. i would ... (read in full...)
My periods have been regular for more than seven years - until now. What could be causing the difference?
Q. am 17 years old and started my periods when i was 9 and they have been regular but this month my period only lasted 3 days when they usually last for 5 to 6 days there is no chance of me being pregnant i was just wondering is this normal ...
A. 1 August 2008: yeah it should be ok, for a start my periods were clock work then one day i wouldnt have one for two months or four months/ always stressing i was pregnant even though we used pill and condom.. so stresses can contribute to it but i wouldnt ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her to shave down there without her getting mad?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both 15,we've had oral sex together, and she doesnt shave and i want to ask her without her getting mad so how do i?...
A. 31 July 2008: well their are many ways you could ask her but do what makes you feel comfortable..you can ask her but doesnt mean she will do it hope it helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
Can you answer questions about sex?
Q. can you answer quetions about sex?...
A. 31 July 2008: yes, well would be helpful if you asked a question so we could answer aphex xx... (read in full...)
How can I make my first time having sex enjoyable?
Q. Hi DearCupid, I'm 23 and a virgin. Basically, my question is how can I make my first time having sex an enjoyable one, or at least partially enjoyable? You seem to hear that everyone's first time is a disaster, awkward, or embarrassing, so...
A. 31 July 2008: its like anything else like when you start a new job your bound to make a mistake and sex is just like that..heres a web site to give you some clues on how to gear yourself up..http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml... second of all just ... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: seriously hun you need a girl friend that wants and respects you not what she can get from you.. let her go and find a beautful butterfly and no a worm.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: she may really like you. but she doesnt sound a nice person that if you dont buy her a gift she will leave you what !!!! hell half the men out their dont buy gifts or even think of it so she should be lucky she got anything if you want my opinion ... (read in full...)
What does a girl do when she's on top?
Q. I don't know what to do when I'm on top!! help! ...
A. 30 July 2008: heres a website that gives you advice on how to do positions correctly although to know whats good for you and your partner communication http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Irregular period question...
Q. Is it normal for there to not really be any pattern to the times when u get your period? Because I really can't find anything that's close to a pattern and I don't want anything to be wrong with me. I've never done ANYTHING that would cause my ...
A. 30 July 2008: when i was young till i started the implannon my period was all over the globe ddnt stop me worrying if their was something wrong so i went to the doctor just to get checked out and it turns out its just irregular and heavy periods when they do come ... (read in full...)
Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??
Q. I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...
A. 29 July 2008: i agree with ANON lil harsh but it seems he was after one thing, and obviously he maybe thought you knew that women are ment to be mind readers so i have learned..dont waste your time of day hun their is someone much better out their than this waste ... (read in full...)
Are there any tips for using vibrators?
Q. I know this sounds a little, um, weird to say, but, I cannot orgasm when I use my vibrator. I start getting pleasure, but then it fades away, and I can barely feel anything. On top of that I find it quite painful when I insert it--I can never find...
A. 29 July 2008: ok first one buy vibrator wipes dont want infections.. second buy lubricant good chance it too wide or deep i would buy durex tingle or feel that will heighten it.. get your mind into the zone of being ready to want to use it then when you are go ... (read in full...)
He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?
Q. Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get ...
A. 29 July 2008: here is a website on fellatio (blowjobs) it tells you things you can do to spicen it up http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't know I've never had an orgasm because I fake it!
Q. hi, well,eva since i started having sex,which is a long time now,i ve never had an orgasm,i mean never.am married with two kids and my husband doesnt know cos i fake it!!!i dont want to hurt his feelings!! i do have feelings though when i put my pi...
A. 29 July 2008: well if you tell him now you will break his heart and devastate him so unless you want problems i wouldnt tell him and try and fix the problem..im against lying but in this case you are married and happy just you dont orgasm it would be a shame to ... (read in full...)
We met online, he just told me he loved me, we're going to meet up soon. But will it work?
Q. i met this guy on habbo about 2 and half years ago now. We started speaking on msn then too. Now he's the same age as me. And i have developed strong feeling over the past years or so and the other day he was tipsy and he said 'sorry i'm a little ...
A. 29 July 2008: im in a long distance relationship and i have to travel much further..long distance relationships can work. but you have to work really hard and be committed..its far from easy. but you can do it but be prepared for hard work..if not best to end it ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are ready for sex?
Q. how do you know if your ready for sex???...
A. 29 July 2008: well by the age of you your are a long way off. your body doesnt fully develope till your atleast 16 thats why their is an age limit although since you come from the states the age law maybe higher..when i was 16 i did it with someone i loved and ... (read in full...)
What is sexual contact, and is it illegal to have any sexual contact with someone under 16?
Q. i just wondering if u could help me what is sexual contact??? is it illgal to have any sexual contact with a person who is younger than 16? ...
A. 29 July 2008: yes it is illegal to have sexual intercourse with anyone under the age of 16 in the uk.. here is a web page that will be able to explain it for you http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M5_1_consent.asp .. though hugging and kissing is ok aphex xx... (read in full...)
Knowing she has had one night stands makes me wonder if the rumours about her cheating on me are true...
Q. i have been going out with my g/f for 7 months now. I love her to bits and am thinking of proposing to her. We communicate really well and one day she told me how many one night stands shes had and how many partners she's had. I even know some of ...
A. 29 July 2008: plain and simple your conscious dont trust her and trust me marriage should be the last thing on your mind because if you cannot get over the trust issues you are heading for disaster..you can either believe what she says or dont but in the end its ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make the first move and kiss him? He's too shy so I want to take the initiative here.
Q. My bf and i have been dating for about a week. Im not trying to rush things cuz im not that type of girl but usually in the first few days of dating a guy i always end up kissing them. Now with this new guy he is shy when it comes to physical...
A. 29 July 2008: then take the leap of faith and give him a kiss.. its something that is taken for granted these days.. do it because you want to, and he does to. im sure once you take that leap you will find it quite enjoyable.. aphex xxx... (read in full...)
After a long term relationship, what's an acceptable "moving on" time period?
Q. Just wondering what people's idea's are on an acceptable 'moving on' time period after a long term relationship ends. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 6 weeks ago as I fell out of love with him and now I'm in another relationship already ...
A. 29 July 2008: some people jump from relationships delve themselves than give them time to heal my friend she doesnt have much time in between but thats how things happen some people move on easier or hide their feelings by pushing themselves into something new.. ... (read in full...)
I thought he was straight then we slept together! not sure whats going on now, What do you guys make of it ?
Q. Help!! firstly I feel like a total basket case for writing this but I am really wanting to get over this situation I find myself in. Okay I recently had a big sole searching holiday on my own in Thailand where I done nothing apart from detox an...
A. 29 July 2008: well you said you have stopped speaking to him, so in theory he is out of your life and now she has come back into the equasion it has brought it back, well remove her from the equasion..i think the reason you are holding onto this is you want to ... (read in full...)
My ex and I still like one another, but there are other people in the picture now.
Q. me and my ex fella have being good mates since we broke up ! we still love eachother and its so har seeing eachother with different people .. he wants to get back with me and i want to get back with him but him an a girl i no have being getting very ...
A. 29 July 2008: you have to have a talk with him..and if you so bad want to be with each other then why is their another woman in the picture. in my head if he and this woman get together then you are out of the picture and you should also move on..but if you think ... (read in full...)
Not ready for sex and too scared to tell my boyfriend...
Q. im not ready to have sex but my boyfriend is and i don't want to tell him what should i do...
A. 29 July 2008: your only option is to tell him the longer you leave it the more frustrated he will be that you did not tell him..if you are not ready then dont do it. if he loves you he wont preassure or force you to do something you are not ready to do.. hope ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is refusing to give me oral unless I shave, what do I do?
Q. My gf is refusing to give me a blow job unless i start shaving. what should i do? I'm also woried about accidentally cutting myself. Plz help me out....
A. 29 July 2008: yeah you have to be careful you dont cut yourself so best of doing as yos says..well i can see why she wants you to do it because getting hairs in your mouth isnt a happy thought lol aphex xx... (read in full...)
How do I ask her to shave down there without her getting mad?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both 15,we've had oral sex together, and she doesnt shave and i want to ask her without her getting mad so how do i?...
A. 29 July 2008: i agree how bout putting it out their saying you saw something in a article that shaving for both made it more enjoyable.. aphex x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...
A. 29 July 2008: no problem glad to of been some help xx aphex... (read in full...)
Are we safe using pull-out for birth control? Is it normal to have several orgasms in a row?
Q. I have a couple of questions. First and foremost, my fiance and I have only been having sex for a couple of weeks now. We were originally waiting to be married but it randomly kind of happened one night. That aside, he finds it less romantic an...
A. 28 July 2008: oh ps i agree with uncle sneaker not all women can achieve multipul orgasms so we are truly gifted lol.. enjoy it whilst it lasts xx aphex... (read in full...)
Are we safe using pull-out for birth control? Is it normal to have several orgasms in a row?
Q. I have a couple of questions. First and foremost, my fiance and I have only been having sex for a couple of weeks now. We were originally waiting to be married but it randomly kind of happened one night. That aside, he finds it less romantic an...
A. 28 July 2008: no the pull out method is not good the chance are high usually people call them parents..not to blow my head but i can have up to 9 orgasms in less that 10 minutes hehehe dont feel bad its wonderful, i wonder if i could get much more hrm oops anyhoo ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to take a short break before trying to sort out this drama with my friend?
Q. would it be a good idea to take a break from all my friends and boyfriend for 3 days to clear my head cause of all the stress that is going on with me and my friends.. cause my best friend ashley feels that im with my other friend cynthia and my f...
A. 28 July 2008: well in reality if you keep doing what your doing you arnt going to be going far. if you dont deal with things they will stay the same or get worse..so you need to address the problems.. it would seem ashley seems left out let me guess she dont have ... (read in full...)
I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!
Q. My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...
A. 28 July 2008: np just wondered, then maybe he is addicted to porn then or maybe your weight is a serious issue for him.. its his problem not you..but if you want to solve this then maybe see about getting active go to gym see if that helps or straight out ask him ... (read in full...)
What are some ways I can really thrill my boyfriend?
Q. So I told my boyfriend that next time we get togehter I'll make it amazing for him because I made him wait because of my period. What are some things I can do that he'll love?...
A. 28 July 2008: hrm their are lots of things you could do. something romantic. role play. so forth heres a website you could look at for some ideas on foreplay and sex positions http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml .. or get chocolate and lick it off or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...
A. 28 July 2008: it seems you and your partner needs a talk..no communication going on can leave us bewildered to think all sorts but the only way to hit the nail on the head is with a hammer..so in other words go speak to your partner see whats going on in side his ... (read in full...)
I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!
Q. My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...
A. 27 July 2008: he maybe having a hard time getting an erection and is able to do it with porn because he likes it or pretends your in it and hes doing it to you..their is obviously a problem and if you cant talk it out of him then i dont know if you will be able ... (read in full...)
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