He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: you need to talk to him on the phone when he calls you and ask if you can meet up and get it sorted out because if its not going to work then your best going your seperate ways, or trying to fix whatever the problem is aphex... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: you can wait a day or two but in the end your only preventing knowing the truth for yourself...so ide doo it sooner than later aphex... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: call him and talk about it, see what he has to explain about the situation, and take it from their u need to talk about this. aphex... (read in full...)
How to pleasure him without intercourse?
Q. I want to give my boyfriend some sexual pleasure without having intercourse. However, I'm not sure what he'd like. Any ideas?...
A. 25 May 2008: q1605 you seem to have alot of hostility, this is about helping people, you can say you dont like the subject but atleast give a decent answer.... (read in full...)
How to pleasure him without intercourse?
Q. I want to give my boyfriend some sexual pleasure without having intercourse. However, I'm not sure what he'd like. Any ideas?...
A. 24 May 2008: q1605 hate to tell you but in some countrys sex is allowed over the age of 16. and to answer your question best bet is to ask him as he is really the only one who knows what he likes, other than that mouth and hand combination gives a bit more than ... (read in full...)
I split up with my first love because she moved away to uni, it's been 2 months and I can't stop crying.
Q. hey guys. basically i split up with my first love because she moved away to uni and it has been over 2 months now and i still cant stop crying. she was the one good thing in my life and now i've been left to try and rebuild myself. i gave up most of ...
A. 24 May 2008: time is the greastest healer, you have to give your heart sometime to deal with this. i remember i cried for 1 month when no one was their even though it was me who split with him. one day you will meet the girl of your dreams and you will be so ... (read in full...)
Should I get my lip pierced?
Q. Okay so this has nothing to do with AR but I really need help. On June 2nd, my grade is going to Quebec and in the information packet it said in the province of Quebec, minors can legally get tattoos and piercings with out their parents permission. ...
A. 24 May 2008: your best bet hun is to wait till your 18 thats what i did and i still wanted my tongue pierced so i got it done, i also then got two tatoos as well..my mum ddnt want me having any of them but because i was 18 she said well its your choice and if ... (read in full...)
I split up with my first love because she moved away to uni, it's been 2 months and I can't stop crying.
Q. hey guys. basically i split up with my first love because she moved away to uni and it has been over 2 months now and i still cant stop crying. she was the one good thing in my life and now i've been left to try and rebuild myself. i gave up most of ...
A. 24 May 2008: you did right giving up contact with her. that means you now have time to yourself to get yourself sorted out..its never easy seperating from anyone, atleast of all your first love..but when it happened to me you just have to pick yourself up and ... (read in full...)
Just wanted a third party's opinion to see if I was overreacting or not. Thanks!
Q. Ok, my boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex girlfriends, mostly from another state, but I'm insecure about that and he knows this. I've been trying to be more understanding, but I'm beginning to think that my jealousy isn't that strange. One ...
A. 24 May 2008: theirs nothing wrong with him texting an ex and he hasnt seen her for 12 years. i know when i split up with my ex i used to talk to him alot once things had settled i value his opinion on matters and he knows me so well we live far apart and dont ... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?
Q. Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this...
A. 24 May 2008: age is just a number, and those people have no right to call you a perv or any other name for that. just because their is an age gap means nothing. look back through history people married all ages and had several wifes may i add..so dont let them ... (read in full...)
Help, I do not want to be part of a love triangle!
Q. I need urgent help on this question....There is this lad and he has a girlfriend how is also a friend of mine, but lately he has been flirting with me loads and some of my friends have commented and said oh I think he fancies you and im like how can ...
A. 24 May 2008: ok well you could have a few options . ignore it. or tell him that your friends and that sometimes you feel hes acting towards u a little unappropiate. or talk to him that your friends have mentioned this and you were wondering if it was true and if ... (read in full...)
Do you think, he ever loved me, or was it all it was just sex?
Q. I need it to placed it again, i am still confused I am 22 year old, who had or have a relationship with a 42 year old man, and a 5 months baby boy. Since we started he has been lying and cheating on me, but i always forgive him, i feel that i can'...
A. 24 May 2008: okay hun i see your situation and when your inlove were always blind to see what people are really doing and if we werent in love we would be like theirs no way in hell i would be treated like that, but you need to realise that unless he wants to ... (read in full...)
This is the first time I've ever felt attached to anyone, but he wont call or talk?
Q. This boy had been my friends' friend for a few months and i would always see him around. But after an event where he was one of my friend's dates, he just started being around all the time. he would im, text, call all the time to go have lunch, to ...
A. 24 May 2008: what pepper said is about right call him ask him if he fancies meeting up. talk to him. with friends you have a fine line, so if ure not sure he likes you more than friends tread carefully, so i would try and meet up with him and see how it goes see ... (read in full...)
We haven't talked on line for months, I'm wondering what happened, and if I should just call him!
Q. so about ten months ago i met this guy online. Its not creepy and he's not a pervert. Im 16 and he's 18. We became really good friends and called and talked all the time. He lives on the east coast and i live in utah. Around christmas he started ...
A. 24 May 2008: well in my opinion their is one of three things you could do..call him and if he asks why you called just say he ddnt reply online and you were worried that something may of happened, he cannot blame you for caring. or second or let him go, or he ... (read in full...)
He said he liked me, then broke it off... please help!
Q. Hi its me again i know i go on about this i forgot to say an extra detail the bloke said to me on the first night, that he really liked me that i was his girl now and he didnt want me going out with any other men. THEN 2 DAYS LATER...
A. 24 May 2008: it sounds like he was playing games with you. and that he wanted to have control.. so my opinion is that your better off without him and could do with someone much better so cheer up and put it behind you :)aphex... (read in full...)
Is this my period?
Q. I have been having a small white dicharge for some time now, and then just recently a brown/black substance came. I think its my period but im not sure, its not runny or gooey just kind of inbetween, i havnt spoke to my mum about it, I dont really ...
A. 23 May 2008: ok i would say yes it could be the start of your period but to put your mind at rest go see you gp and dont be embaressed as they get things like this asked all the time hope this helps aphex
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He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: i only hope it helps your situation as i know how a situation like that can be like aphex *hug*... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: i can see your confusion its a odd predicament your in..maybe hes not coping well with you not being in the house, hes maybe jealous that u moved out for other reason other than you want to do it properly, maybe hes become insecure..you have to ask ... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 23 May 2008: its not good hunnie in most countrys its bad..watching it and doing it is just as bad as each other i would contact youre gp about this and talk to him about how you feel about this no one is judging you they just want to help.. aphex
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Why won't he call me, we were so close, its been a month!?
Q. Hi I posted my scenario earlier. I recently met a guy about 3 months ago, and we started dating. We got extremely serious within a week, we started living together, eating together, sleeping together, going to school together, going to his friends ...
A. 23 May 2008: you can live on hope but depends how long ure going to wait and let life pass you by, is their no way of getting in touch with him ?.. and in my opinion that he could of atleast phoned once or sent a txt its not time consuming. also maybe things are ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: ok youre not mental and he has some serious issues whether hes insecure or not..you need to get this sorted out obviously their is something bothering him and instead of talking about it hes going off the handle and you dont need to be getting the ... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: you need to put a bit more detail into your replys as its a little hard to understand what it means bit more indepth please or maybes its just me and im confused..aphex... (read in full...)
If he had no feelings for me, why cry? Men don't usually cry......do they?
Q. Ok, so this may be kinda long but i just need some advice. My boyfriend and i have been on an off for almost 3 years now. At least once every year, he dumps me saying he has lost his feelings for me. Of course i am heartbroken an try to go...
A. 22 May 2008: u need to have a talk with him about this, and say why is it before we have broken up and got back together i know you have feelings for me. so why have you broken up with me ? is it commitment to the relationship? you need to discuss this and see ... (read in full...)
Time has healed my wounds to certain extent, but as of yet, it hasn't brought a new girl to me! I hate being single!
Q. I've had a big kick backwards as far as moving on from my ex is concerned, tonight. I'd had a good evening, came up onto the computer where I got an e-mail from the site "Friends Reunited". I decided since I hadn't checked it in about a year to ...
A. 22 May 2008: youll always remember your first love it will never disepear but in time it wont bother you..you need to get yourself out their and apply to things more, do new hobbies meet new people. but dont go rushing into a relationship as that wont help the ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he may propose? Or is this his way of fantasising?
Q. Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are both madly in love with eachother, and we are expecting our first child! We have lived together since the day we started dating practically! We have just been inseperable! He h...
A. 22 May 2008: i think he likes the idea but with the baby on the way i think he wants to focus his concerns more on that to be honest as having a child can be hard work and stressful and it can take up the better part of your life and money, so i dont think he is ... (read in full...)
What's a good gift idea that says thank you, yet keeping it within the whole 'working relationship' boundary?
Q. I need some suggestions, please. I work for an agency and depend on the schedulers to fill my schedule in order to have enough work. There's one scheduler in particular who has been very kind and befriended me since the beginning, she has kept my ...
A. 22 May 2008: well the best thing is not to give her flowers might give off wrong impression so ide get her something to do with cats on it. and when you give it to her just say its my small way of saying thank you for keeping my schedule filled to have enough ... (read in full...)
If he had no feelings for me, why cry? Men don't usually cry......do they?
Q. Ok, so this may be kinda long but i just need some advice. My boyfriend and i have been on an off for almost 3 years now. At least once every year, he dumps me saying he has lost his feelings for me. Of course i am heartbroken an try to go...
A. 22 May 2008: their is obviously something wrong here and the only way to get an answer is out of him im afraid..i think the emotions is set high and that your both feeling the strain. hope this helps aphex... (read in full...)
What are the tell tale signs of pregnancy after the first few weeks?
Q. I've been sleeping with a boy without a condom for a few weeks now, stupid i know but he did tell me he's infertile. He only knows this because he's never got anyone pregnant before, including past girlfriends. He's never used a condom and his girl...
A. 22 May 2008: anywhere after two weeks is a gd time to take a pregnancy test so you can either buy one or go to your gp for free. it doesnt matter what other people do hunnie its what you should of done. take the pill and use protection no matter how infertile ... (read in full...)
This boy slapped my bum, what should I do?
Q. Today i was walking up the stairs in my school when suddenly a boy slapped me on the bum! I turned round to see it was a year seven (i'm in year eight) who also happens to be my cousin's best friend! My cousin is also in year 7, and he is real...
A. 21 May 2008: i think it was just a bit of fun or a dare but if he does it again then tell your cousin what had happened and that your not happy about it..and if ure still worried about it tell an adult that your close to about it hope this helps aphex... (read in full...)
Is every day too much sex?
Q. Hi guys Id just like to know whether its wrong to have sex with your girlfriend each and every day,we are having a long distance relationship and sometimes I don't see her 4 months and when I dont see her I don't think about sex oftenly and I never ...
A. 21 May 2008: no its not wrong at all to be having sex everday some have it more than once in a day..as long as youre both happy having sex then i dont for see a problem with it at all. so be happy enjoy it..oh and as long as youre taking precautions then its all ... (read in full...)
Sex tips please for a first timer.
Q. I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please. We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too. Thanks xxx...
A. 21 May 2008: ok heres a girls view :P ..ok first you both have to be in the mood for it, and why not try some sensual kissing wrist, neck and just a little below the ear are usually good spots to find, why not try some ice cubes or whipped cream..you need to ... (read in full...)
33 weeks pregnant with genital warts and SCARED
Q. I was so excited when I first found out that I was pregnant on Nov. 5 of '07. Me and my boyfriend were just so amazed and happy! During my 1st trimester I had a somewhat normal pregnancy everything except the negative RH factor which in the long ...
A. 21 May 2008: aww sweetheart bless you getting yourself worried about it is only going to make it worse you need to take deep calm breaths and relax..genital warts are more common in people at the ages of 20s its sexually transmitted..In rare cases both adults ... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 21 May 2008: talk to him get him to tell you whats going on because hes giving mixed signals and that u feel hes treating u differently and that you feel like you have been left in the lurch so to speak A xx... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 21 May 2008: i think you should be asking him whats going on and that your confused about it all,, that you feel like things have changed and dont know where things are heading? and you feel you have gotten mixed signals from him and want to know whats the next ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's female friend walked around in a towel in front of him and thinks I over-reacted, what do you think?
Q. While visiting one of my boyfriend’s long time female friends, she decided to take a shower and began walking around in nothing but a towel. At the time, I did not say anything to her but I was very upset and later spoke to him and banned him from...
A. 21 May 2008: maybe she thought she felt comfortable with you and ddnt think she needed to be 100% clothed, me and some of my friends do if were at my house and changing to go out that we are comfortable with our bodies and having a towel covers more than enough ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted a relationship with me, it turned out after we broke up that he already had a girlfriend! Now he wants us to remain friends!
Q. A guy said he wanted a relationship with me and was looking at a family and kids etc then somewhere along the line he decided to focus on sex- we never slept together since it felt like he was putting too much pressure. Went like this for a while. ...
A. 21 May 2008: to me it sounds like hes keeping his options open that if it falls through with her hell have you as a back up plan.. or maybe for once hes genuine but hey i think its the other way round. to be honest you said you were happy before so if i was you ... (read in full...)
Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?
Q. im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke ...
A. 21 May 2008: truth hun your better off without him, in time your heart will heal and you will look back and think im glad im not with someone who was seeing girls behind my back..ive had that feeling you think that this is the one and one day you realise you ... (read in full...)
My online girlfriend is starting to ask for things that make me feel uncomfortable!
Q. Ok well I suppose it's like this I began internet dating over a while now and I found a good one I made some friends on it and got to know people well. I met a girl on there and we got to talking and everything was going fine she sent me a photo of ...
A. 21 May 2008: yeah i can see why youre unerved about this, as fiona says she might be testing you or she might just be serious.. my opinion is if in doubt ask. and if you dont like what you hear then you gotta put it straight, ure vunerable so you dont want to be ... (read in full...)
We're both ready for sex, I trust him, so what do I need to know about it? Does it hurt, and if it does, how do I deal with the pain?
Q. Hi Guys (: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years. We're both 15 and considering having sex for the first time. I know what your probably thinking "Just another teenage couple rushing to grow up" but thats not the case....
A. 20 May 2008: what lotus says is pretty much all that can be said about that.. ppl arnt judging you hunnie and saying wait till youre 16 youre too young no one your age will listen and the truth is when i was 15 i had a bf thought he was the one a year later when ... (read in full...)
I'm stringing him along before I end it, is this wrong?
Q. I've figured out I am being strung along and I think I will just string him along. I've stopped the sex and have become unpredictable and unavailable. He doesn't seem to like that much. Am I wrong for doing this for a few weeks before I end it?...
A. 19 May 2008: well honestly in my opinion i know hes hurt and upset you but you dont need to go to his pathetic level your much better than he is and can do so much better..you dont want to make yourself feel lower by going to his standards so ide say break off ... (read in full...)
Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth?
Q. Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth? Has anyone ever gagged on it? How do you get past the taste and texture? I really want to try, but whenever a little gets in, I gag. It's strictly from the above mentioned ...
A. 19 May 2008: well i dont like it too much either on the whole tasting thing, but the biggest thing to do is look at his diet, sometimes things men eat can have an effect on the taste of the semen ie make it taste more acidic or salty heres some tips
1. Cut out ... (read in full...)
Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?
Q. My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...
A. 19 May 2008: in my opinion thats really high, but in the same sense maybe she thought some of them were the one and kept getting it wrong. also sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find youre prince..and her sexual encounters are excatly that in ... (read in full...)
Did he just break my hymen after several months of sex? Is this possible?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. We had sex about 9 months ago i sopose and i never had any bleeding the first time at all (I was a virgin) and a few days ago we had sex and I did have bleeding. That was the first time I have ...
A. 15 May 2008: ok i would say its more likely that you were say for interest a little more rougher than normal and you breached youre hymen a little because the normally if that happens you get a little blood but in a few hrs it stops completely..or its possible ... (read in full...)
Did I allow myself to be put in this situation?
Q. Ok so i was talkin to this guy and we were like almost the same. there was definitley a connection between us. and when we were around each other we got along great. i dont think that their was ever a dull moment. we went out and stuff but we were ...
A. 15 May 2008: you have to do something about it because if you leave it it will go wrong..ide tell him that youre friendship means everything to you and that you ddnt mean things to go the way they did and that you want to be more involved with him again and feel ... (read in full...)
What is going on with this friend? I'm confused...
Q. I became friends with a guy through a good friend. Eventually, this guy friend would call his brother on 3-way and we would occassionally talk to one another. And sometimes we would all hang-out, my female friend, me and the two guys. Well, eve...
A. 15 May 2008: sounds to me you should leave well alone and get on with youre life and forget about this whole mess, i can see youre confusion and it does sound really strange..best thing is to walk away from this more important things in life than having to deal ... (read in full...)
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