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Hi im 25yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK .

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I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

Q.   I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my ...

A.   13 December 2010: generally you go with the flow being a little bit of a big girl my self you always wonder what peoples intentions are but you never find out unless you try. so personally its no different than a large or skinny guy men are all the same its whats ... (read in full...)

How is this possible?

Q.   my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...

A.   12 December 2010: i have to agree just make sure her husband weres protection and is careful or he c ould contract it good luck... (read in full...)

Ladies, I need your female insight on this one!

Q.   Female insight needed please!!! I broke up with my gf (of nearly 3yrs) 5 months ago as I felt I wasn't making her happy and that made me unhappy. Iv'e since done a lot of soul searching but know deep down I still love her. We agreed to me...

A.   11 December 2010: i think your best just telling her it was great seeing her but you shouldnt be meeting behind her bf back. it can lead to a very slippery slope and you said you are in a good place dont ruin it! back of let her enjoy her new relationship and go ... (read in full...)

Wild night with girlfriend only..did it turn me bisexual?

Q.   I'm a straight male in a long term relationship. I have had enough women that I lost count, which I'm torn between "thinking I'm totally boss" and "feeling terrible" about forgetting some of their [past girlfriend's] names. I say this just to ...

A.   10 December 2010: i have to agree with him labels do tend to stir people up. their is no need to be afraid of such things you are who you are. i personally wouldnt cheat on my partner but i would test the water to see what their thoughts on the mater would be. alot ... (read in full...)

Ladies, I need your female insight on this one!

Q.   Female insight needed please!!! I broke up with my gf (of nearly 3yrs) 5 months ago as I felt I wasn't making her happy and that made me unhappy. Iv'e since done a lot of soul searching but know deep down I still love her. We agreed to me...

A.   9 December 2010: Some people manage others don't being friends with their ex. i Generally think its healthy if you leave your past behind you and dont dredge it forward it can weigh you down and give you the wrong feelings and impressions. Always best to give your ... (read in full...)

I like bigger women and am having trouble dealing with it.

Q.   I have a thing for bigger women and i dont know how to deal with it. While Im not into the deal of larger women getting larger or "gaining" and not into the feeding thing, i definitely have an appreciation for plus-sized women, and am unsure if my ...

A.   30 November 2010: look you are the only one who can make you happy not your friends they dont live your life and if they cannot understand what you want that makes you happy then they are not real friends. and if you dont see that being an option out then you are ... (read in full...)

Little guy, big girl need advise on positions

Q.   okay, well my gf is a little taller than i am and she is also a bit heavier than i am and i've come to realize that is beacause of this that we find our self doing the same position in bed over and over. any tips for a better sexlife? I have be...

A.   29 November 2010: here is a good website which shows you position but also advice on what people think so it may give you a general idea of what your looking for either that try some and if they dont work move on hope it helps aphex xx ... (read in full...)

No love for a 22 year old virgin

Q.   Well, basically I'm 22 turning 23 in February and I'm still a virgin and some times it makes me sick to my stomach to think about it, to make it worse my reserve unit is leaving for the middle east soon, so that pretty much means I can count not ...

A.   29 November 2010: well it could be worse you could be a 40 year old virgin. you will meet the right lady at the right time alot of people think its great those who keep their virginity for the right person. just some people dont. its never a good thing when people ... (read in full...)

I need to be able to trust him otherwise I might end up pushing him away.....

Q.   Hey! I have a amazing boyfriend! He really makes me happy! We in a gay relationship now for 1 year and 4months! I met him when he was kind dating my friend! So we started 2 date! I lost my friend cause of this, but it doesn't matter cause I love ...

A.   15 November 2010: you are feeling this way because of what you did to your friend your worried if he is going to do it to you with someone else. you will loose him if you carry on this behaviour. you have to tell yourself he loves you he is with you and if that is ... (read in full...)

I'm single, 20 and want a baby

Q.   i want a baby but am single i am 20 yrs old al my friends have babies and i have always wanted to be a parent young from a very young age what should i do this is gettin me realy down ? ...

A.   2 November 2010: ok first most people think i want a baby before actually thinking about it properly. this day and age its a case of i want so i should get but that is completely wrong. do you have a home of your own ? do you really want a child born without and ... (read in full...)

I feel like I've cheated, but I didn't go on a date with my now girlfriend yet.

Q.   I've met my now girlfriend 6 months ago. We met on a Friday night, out at a bar, after quite a few drinks. We talked, ended up back at a mutual friends house, and kissed goodnight. The next morning we exchanged numbers, exchanged texts the next ...

A.   2 November 2010: i think your taking things out of context. you werent actually going out with her at the time so its in the past ok it was the day before but thats got nothing to do with your now relationship. you just feel bad you ddnt tell her. their is such a ... (read in full...)

How can I repay my mom for her kindness?

Q.   Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...

A.   28 October 2010: its sad things like these happen and i am possitive you are not the only one! i myself got loaned £300 from my mum and paying her off but yes it s horrible having any money over due. I look after her animals for free or take her to garden shops she ... (read in full...)

LDR boyfriend coming to see me and wants me to sleep with him but I don't want to

Q.   I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in India. Now he is coming to visit me in Australia and wants me to stay with him in a hotel. I don't want this coz i dn't want to hurt my parents since we are not married. How do i tell him this? I tried ...

A.   26 October 2010: Hey hunnie, dont let him persuade you! if you do not want to do this then tell him straight look you either stand by me and my value or you are not worth it! Do not back down just because he wants more than you are prepared to give if he really ... (read in full...)

I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

Q.   if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...

A.   25 October 2010: my guess is they were perhaps being polite whilst insulting you, generally wasps do not die and tend to sting predators over and over. so perhaps next time if someone says something you dont understand then ask them to explain and if they dont then ... (read in full...)

When is abortion the best option?

Q.   Maybe all of you can help me with this. Since the moment I learned of what abortion is, I have always thought it a good thing. A woman has choices, she can spare a life from suffering if she feels she is not ready. I thought it better than givi...

A.   19 October 2010: i think abortion is a great thing as you said for all of those reason. but the thing i stand more firm on is if all the people in the world used more common sense and not be so selfish they would not have unwanted pregnancies nor abortion. the world ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my cousin!

Q.   well i dont know what to do im 14 and my cuzin is 15 and well we want to have sex when we txt thats all we talk about and plus we have send each others pic of use naked what do i do do i do it with him or what he dosent have a gurl friend and well ...

A.   26 September 2010: my advice dont do it you will regret it badly look on the site for more similar questions and answers i bet their the same. good luck aphex... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my cousin!

Q.   well i dont know what to do im 14 and my cuzin is 15 and well we want to have sex when we txt thats all we talk about and plus we have send each others pic of use naked what do i do do i do it with him or what he dosent have a gurl friend and well ...

A.   19 September 2010: seriously no. you are closely related which if you get pregnant your child will have a high rate of deformities! its also called incest! do you know about contraception? do you know about contracted diseases not to mention your only 14 which also ... (read in full...)

I'm 24, she's 16. Is it okay to have sex with her?

Q.   I'm in a quandary, I have met a girl via the internet, to have a sexual relationship with her. Originally she said she was 18, it turns out she is only 16, she had sex with an older guy ( i'm 25) and older female. I have never had sex. She wants sex ...

A.   19 September 2010: sex is much better when your in love! and also people are not always as they seem on the internet. really think you should look for love and find someone who is a friend that you share mutual feelings. she has lied about her age what else is she ... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend is so close to another guy, is this normal?

Q.   To cut a long story short, I met my boyfriend he's 23 and I'm 19 end of last year. We were both exchange students and met in another country. We've been going out for seven months now. He's a lovely guy, perfect, I've met his parents everything. He ...

A.   18 September 2010: i think your over reacting about this. perhaps your getting slightly jealous about the attention your boyfriend gets from this male! perhaps they feel like brothers and like to talk alot perhaps they grew up together. if they are in both long ... (read in full...)

How to get the correct bra size???

Q.   I would like to get advice. pals from india would be able to help appropriately, i believe, for my wife, we don't get bra of right size. her cup size is big while her measurement below breast is less but with most of the brands we get some size (38 ...

A.   15 September 2010: once your over a certain size ie DD or EE the best way to buy is over internet usually because stores do not hold the proper size you need. once you have the actual sizes. go online and find stores that supply these bras. ie here is a brittish ... (read in full...)

Should I give it all up to be with her?

Q.   Simply put, I starting chatting in a forum about a topic unrelated to dating, we talked, there was attraction, 7 months after chatting everyday i fly over there and spent 2.5 weeks with her, everything was magic. Its crunch time now and I have t...

A.   10 September 2010: then why not simply wait longer meet more! too many make hash discions without putting time and effort and when it blows up their like oh were that come from. my advice is spend more time with something before you put your eggs into one basket! ok ... (read in full...)

Why do I enjoy cheating on my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend (23) for 7 months and in the past 2 weeks I've cheated on him 3 times with 2 different people. Once was just kissing, 2nd time was kissing and "touching" and the 3rd time I had sex with someone else... I don't ...

A.   29 August 2010: either stop cheating or tell your partner either way if you continue you will feel worse do it sooner than later. also i hope you were using protection or you could pass stds on to your partner and hell find out anyway... (read in full...)

Guy is so distant towards me since we had sex. Did we have it too soon?

Q.   Hey everyone, Me and my current bf have been going out for about 2 months now, and within the first week we had sex (we had been great friends before that) but ever since that he has been so distant towards me and I don't know what to do!!! I ...

A.   27 August 2010: also a side note i hope you are on the pill or were using a condom if not guess what you could be the next teenage mum thats right no protection equals pregnancy! he maybe wanted more at the time but if you have been dating a short period men dont ... (read in full...)

I've been off the market for awhile and I'm kind of out of the dating scene

Q.   I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life ...

A.   25 August 2010: you live in the uk so i would say try to find someone in your area as long distance are mentally quite hard! also perhaps try some local date sites or even go to family and friend partys they are always places to make new friends ie possibly female ... (read in full...)

Getting a blow job while asleep...

Q.   Hai Everyone out there... Im really curious and excited about getting a blowjob asleep, Me and my GF have discussed it and she really would like to wake me up with a blowjob, but she asked me a question, that "If I give you a blowjob while yo...

A.   18 August 2010: of course you can. and no worrys glad to be of some help ^^... (read in full...)

Getting a blow job while asleep...

Q.   Hai Everyone out there... Im really curious and excited about getting a blowjob asleep, Me and my GF have discussed it and she really would like to wake me up with a blowjob, but she asked me a question, that "If I give you a blowjob while yo...

A.   17 August 2010: yes you can get an erection whilst sleeping. if she rubs it or does something to turn you on whilst your asleep your body will take over and you will wake to find her playing with you! good luck aphex... (read in full...)

Is it worth trying to see if we will get back together? Or should I just move on?

Q.   Hi, I need advice, my ex split up with me in april and we werent talking for a bit, but in late may we started meeting up and spending time together, this was ok but we started spending everyday together just as friends and she would constantly tell ...

A.   16 August 2010: i just answered something similar to the regards of break ups. its always best to keep your distance from months to a year. being friends can mix up what people feel and want also they crave the need for the attention they once had but yet dont want ... (read in full...)

My married man doesn't want to go on holiday together now!

Q.   I have been together with a married man for over 4yrs.We have bad and good times.People have told his wife and always problems but then it sorts out.I love him very very very much.We were to go on holidays but people have again made problems for us ...

A.   15 August 2010: i have to agree with moo! you got your self into a dirty mess their is no solution to your problem other than break up with him and find someone who can love you and do things with you rather than hide from his life. hes treating you like a side ... (read in full...)

We are caught in this distructive relationship!

Q.   I''ve posted 2 questions on here already. but i am just confused and in dire need of advice. i am still dealing with this guy going on three years. and i think that we are in love with each other, but we both have explosive tempers, then we "make ...

A.   14 August 2010: well this sentence isnt good for a start. and i am pregnant and he might be the father? is that perhaps why you argue have you cheated on him? if so then he will be angry if he knows about it and is possibly looking for pay back. if you cannot talk ... (read in full...)

Keeping schtum about my pregnancy.

Q.   if i asked my friend on a social networking site not to hint about my pregnancy as not everyone knows nor do i want everyone to know, only a couple of weeks before i pop, do you think i am being reasonable in this request? After all, if things don't ...

A.   14 August 2010: their are lots of people who dont want to jinks things waiting to see if it goes almost full term so i would say no its not unreasonable to ask for it to be kept a secret! i think you just want to be safe and not have more drama to deal with if ... (read in full...)

I just feel I have left it too late due to my super shyness...

Q.   I am 19 comming on 20... and I havn't really had a girl friend, let alone had sex... everybody else seems to have partners. I am too scared to even think about getting a girlfriend, mainly becuse I don't think I look like your average virgin: ...

A.   12 August 2010: aww bless you! your still young i know alot of people at your age who are happy being on their own no strings no stress! although im sure we would all love to have the special someone so when we go to the next place we all have pretty pictures to ... (read in full...)

Can a cheat ever be trusted?

Q.   I suspect I’m setting myself up for something of a beating here, but such is life.... To sum up the situation, some time over the next couple of months I will be leaving my wife. There are numerous good reasons for this, her lack of support,...

A.   10 August 2010: ok all i see was my family this i was right blah blah blah not to be rude but seriously! if you do not want to be the very thing you hate then change it dont go oh well im doomed anyway i may as well act the part! my dad used to drink alot not ... (read in full...)

Older boyfriend's fetish is all he wants to talk about.

Q.   I have just started dating a man who is a lot older than I am (20 years). He has told me that he has a "golden shower" fetish. I'm okay with it, don't understand it, but ok with it. The only thing is now it seems that's the only thing he wants to ...

A.   10 August 2010: ok golden shower basically mean they either want you to pee on them or them to pee on you! just because its his fetish doesnt mean you have to accept it! also if you do it is on your terms! just because he likes it doesnt mean you have to do it all ... (read in full...)

Hate myself for being a virgin at 19

Q.   [OP original title] Well as the title says im a virgin at 19, never had a girlfriend and never even been kissed and i cant stand it. everywhere i go i see couples and all of my friends have had girlfriends and boyfriends a hundred times over, its ...

A.   8 August 2010: you seem like a really nice person! dont loose it to just any old person you will regret it hell i did it with the guy i thought i was gonna marry in the end we broke up after 3 years and i regret it! their is no time when its supposed to happen it ... (read in full...)

Are nipples always this way?

Q.   Soo I have a odd question, is it the case, dark haired girls will have darker nipples (and a darker areola - bit around the nipple) and lighter hair, lighter nipples, I'm curious is that the way?... is it strange that this is the only thing that ...

A.   8 August 2010: every women is different their was this big thing on about porn in the uk in kids what they expect a girl should be like and why too many kids so young want plastic surgery! generally girls who are black haired and dark skinned have the darker hairs ... (read in full...)

We fight every single day!

Q.   My boyf and i has been together for 1year and 4 months now.. We've been quarrelling everyday since then.. I don't know what had happen to him.. He's staying at my house now bcus he has some family problems.. As he has some bad habits which is ...

A.   8 August 2010: he has to grow up sometime. i wish the best for you aphex... (read in full...)

Had an abortion for my health, but I can't stop being depressed.

Q.   just had an abortion not long ago,im so depressed an upset,i wanted to keep it but ended up having an abortion bcus i was ona drip in hospital with SEVERE sickness and nausea,couldnt keep fluids or food in my systm,i have a 3year old boy,and i was ...

A.   6 August 2010: i agree with the other lady. you did nothing wrong you actually saved a child of missery you may have had resentful feelings towards it if 9 months were like that you may of died trying to keep it and left your other child motherless you seriously ... (read in full...)

Having sex on the implant

Q.   [OP original title] ive been on the implant since march and i was on my period for one month in april and then it stopped completely. never in my life have i had unprotected sex before last week. and i am really scared of getting pregnant now ive ...

A.   6 August 2010: i have the implant it doesnt all work for people in the way they hope ie some have regular periods others dont some have one in a blue moon others have constant so dont worry about your flow it can be all over the place but after about say 5 months ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: omg make me jealous much lol good luck with that hope it goes well for you :)... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: you just said it perfectly dirtball :)... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: sheeple lol sorry i laughed at that/ was wondering if it was a hibred of sheep and cattle lol...well your right to have your rights and if its something you cannot live with then he has subjected himself too it as i said in my first post i dont ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend opened up to me and I don't like what he told me

Q.   My boyfriend just opened up to me about his past relationships some of them really made me mad because while we were dating girls were asking him out and telling him i would never found out about it since were in a long distance relationship i know ...

A.   6 August 2010: really young and i know your like meh im old enough but seriously every 5 years we change from our taste buds to our hair styles what we like dislike. most marriages at a young age end in divorce i know many friends who are divorced on principle ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: i have to agree it really isnt your business what he does in his spare time who are you to dictate his freedom! you seem to be projecting this image that you are a dictator. does he go to the bathroom on his own accord using what ever brand of ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: omg i want your guy lol he sounds really lovely. i think sometimes when things go great we worry if theirs something wrong and if its a little wrong we can overact or atleast i know i do i know nothing perfect but when you feel on top of the w orld ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: ok who says its the norm to lie all men dont have the same label sweety! i really have to agree with dirtball on this i seriously dont think he is watching porn! and if he did watch that one clip which i dont think he did maybe his mates put it on ... (read in full...)

We fight every single day!

Q.   My boyf and i has been together for 1year and 4 months now.. We've been quarrelling everyday since then.. I don't know what had happen to him.. He's staying at my house now bcus he has some family problems.. As he has some bad habits which is ...

A.   6 August 2010: get rid of him, simple if he does not respect you then he does not deserve you call your phone company and ban the dream call line from your home if you do not wish to get rid of him and throw his porn out! if he cannot respect you then show him ... (read in full...)

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