Opinions on drug use?
Q. I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...
A. 6 July 2010: heeh np ;)... (read in full...)
Opinions on drug use?
Q. I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...
A. 5 July 2010: lol yes not many are responsible.. you should try scotland we are more fun heeeh... (read in full...)
Opinions on drug use?
Q. I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...
A. 4 July 2010: not many people like tobbacco or drink but thats because their both bad for you and were all ment to live forever. or prevent horrible death or teeth decay. so in uk their not banned but their trying to stop people binge drinking and smoking for ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex only talk about himself?
Q. I asked him why he wants to be friends if all he does is talk about himself. And he replied that he doesnt have anything to talk to me about but he really does want to be friends and even be the best friends we were. But he wont even ask me how I am ...
A. 3 July 2010: ive found with my ex all he did was the same he wouldnt shut up about his feelings or what was going on in his life and i think that when it comes to ex your best just cutting all ties because things genreally never go back to the way they were ... (read in full...)
Both my friend and I want him!
Q. Ok my friend had a house party there the other night and there was a really sweet nice guy there. The problem is we both fancy him. He lives on the other side of the country and just came bacck for the weekend. He lives with one of my friends and ...
A. 3 July 2010: look its not a case of which girl gets the guy. its a case of which girl the guy likes if your not attracted to someone then thats that he will either show whether he like one of you or neither of you. just be yourself dont flonce yourself in his ... (read in full...)
I want children but my b/f has a fear of them
Q. I'm a college freshman and my boyfriend is a college sophomore. We've been dating for 2 years and a few months now, and we're super happy with our relationship. We've talked pretty thoroughly about engagement and marriage and plan to be engaged ...
A. 3 July 2010: omg slow down woman! you got two years or so before you get engaged right thats as far as you should be looking people change alot and sometimes we dont realise. dont push this subject because its something thats far in the distance people think 5 ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty for kissing my friends boyfriend, espeically now they are having a baby together!
Q. i have a friend i use to go to school with and we were like best mates, we still are good mates (say hello everytime we see each other). she is 4 months pregnant with her first child, and she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, she loves him to ...
A. 30 June 2010: you like being a tart omg why dont you stick it to your forehead and see how many people would actually like you not drunk! not to mention the diseases you could catch and the damage to your liver its so disgusting to hear people wanting to be the ... (read in full...)
How can I fall in love with a man I've never met?
Q. I have fallen in love with a boy that I met online in Mid March. Never once have we chatted on msn...For the first 3 months of knowing one another was through emails, pages and pages worth of emails... Then we moved onto phone conversations. ...
A. 20 June 2010: no one is saying your foolish you just fell into something that f elt so real and i know i was their too! you feel so many emotions but you will get over this and realise that you are worth more and he will be in your heart but you can do better ... (read in full...)
How can I fall in love with a man I've never met?
Q. I have fallen in love with a boy that I met online in Mid March. Never once have we chatted on msn...For the first 3 months of knowing one another was through emails, pages and pages worth of emails... Then we moved onto phone conversations. ...
A. 20 June 2010: i did something similar though i knew what he looked like and we chatted longer before we met..i dont know whether its were comfort for the time being or the flavour of the month but i suspect its something thats not long lasting! i say that because ... (read in full...)
Are all cheaters the same?
Q. hi just after a few opinions pls 1.how do you tell the difference between a man who is in a relationship genuinely unhappy but confused and cheats. and a man who is using you because he can and cares nothing for you. because i dont believe all chea...
A. 18 June 2010: i think if you stray then you are deffo not happy in your relationship or perhap think the grass is greener on the other side. i think its really up to you when it comes to cheating because you can have faith and hope that they wont cheat again and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18 and we want to "explore"
Q. Heei, im sophie and im 15 i have a bf thats 18 weve been going out for a year now, we are very much in love. But we have a problem he really wants to explore with me, but we are both very worried about the age difference, could someone please give ...
A. 13 June 2010: when i was younger i was in a similar situation, we did have fun and explore and we let it go to far and i wish i hadnt now. your best to wait till your 16 its not long away and if he love syou he will wait. then maybe have a little fun but sex wait ... (read in full...)
Does he want her or me?
Q. "OPs own title" I need help! I've been involved with this guy for a few years now. We've hooked up randomly throughout the years, but we've both been in relationships. Now I am single and he's very interested in me. He texts me constantly and we ...
A. 28 May 2010: you can wait till the end of time for someone to do the not neccesary *right thing* but sometimes it just doesnt happen and sometimes it does. but how long are you prepared to wait ? what if its a scam to have both women. i think you are more than ... (read in full...)
Did God mean for us to be together despite his current relationship?
Q. I am curious if those of faith believe that God can make a mistake in bringing two people together? I have been getting to know a man for the past 10 weeks and we are becoming very close. We are both incredibly devout Christians and are sensing that ...
A. 23 May 2010: perhaps its like adam and eve perhaps god is giving you the apple tree and your to decide whether you should tempt fate ! if he is cheatin on his wife to be with you what will say he will do the same to you faith is funny people follow it but bend ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my fear of my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I suffer from severe anxiety and depression and I can't stop thinking my bf is going to cheat on me. He's 27, I'm 26 and I know in my heart he wouldn't. He's very against cheating, but I can't get rid of the sick feeling in my stomach when he goes ...
A. 10 May 2010: least you know you have to change that is the first step. i know how you feel i felt the same on more than one occasion but if you dont stop this you will either ruin a good thing or make him go off and cheat. men dont like to be nagged and weighed ... (read in full...)
Friend likes my ex, but now I'm interested in him again too. Do I tell her?
Q. I've just started to fall for my ex again. I never did really love my ex, it was mroe fo a lust. It only lasted a couple of weeks anyway. But i see him every now and then, but i met him agein the other night. One of my best friends has just gone ...
A. 5 May 2010: look you see how he depresses her do you honestly think hes gonna change that for you come on if being with a cheater is mroe than friendship then their is certainly something wrong come on girls get it togther a cheater will only break your heart ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be pregnant after my boyfriend pressured me into sex
Q. Hi, my name is chey and im 17 years old my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and we just had sex last night that is saturday the 1st i was nervous about and and didnt really even want to have sex.. He peer pressured me into it ...
A. 2 May 2010: go imediatly to your doctor and get the day after pill this will stop any possibilty of getting pregnant but it only 100% works within 48hrs can work up to longer but less effective that is your best thing to do see your local doctor. good luck ... (read in full...)
Should I have him choose... pool playing or me?
Q. I'm hoping that someone can provide some words of wisdom... It's been one year since I got out of a terrible relationship where the person was a constant liar. I'm in a new relationship but it's long distance and so we only see each other on the ...
A. 27 April 2010: i think you need to get your issues in order. a relationship doesnt go far without trust! and that is something you are lacking in and it isnt a wonder with a compulsive liar. you have to either accept it or move on.im not saying its easy i know ... (read in full...)
B/f of 9 years cheated, broke up & now wants to be friends. Could it work?
Q. i have been in a relationship for 9 years and he told me he had an affair last month,i forgave him but he wants a trial seperation as he no longer loves me,than he wants to see me as a friend and take it from there,could that work,could he ever love ...
A. 26 April 2010: some people can stay friends with their exes but i believe that both can heal better with no contact and that it can be hard for some to move on if they are still seeing each other as friends. like their holding on to hope if you have broken up and ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my step dad bullying me?
Q. My step dad always says nasty and spiteful things to me. He belittles me and tells me that I'm going to fail school because I'm too stupid and he also tells me that I'm never gonna get a girlfriend because no woman would want me, my mom hears him ...
A. 25 April 2010: its not pathetic at all sweety. their have been many cases like yourself and sometimes its because your step dad doesnt like the attention you recieve from your mother. you and her will always be close and sometimes men like to be the alpha male and ... (read in full...)
How does the pill work exactly?
Q. How does the pill work exactly? i mean, i know it helps prevent pregnancy,, but to what extent?like, can the pill take a guy fully cumming inside you without a condom? or does it just work with the pre ejaculate?...
A. 24 April 2010: rose petals accurancy is a little wrong i think its 98% and thats taken correctly. with all contraception their is no guarantee i found the rod/ implant is the most accurate 100%. with the pill their can be missed tablets and if you take other ... (read in full...)
How does the pill work exactly?
Q. How does the pill work exactly? i mean, i know it helps prevent pregnancy,, but to what extent?like, can the pill take a guy fully cumming inside you without a condom? or does it just work with the pre ejaculate?...
A. 24 April 2010: rose petals accurancy is a little wrong i think its 98% and thats taken correctly. with all contraception their is no guarantee i found the rod/ implant is the most accurate 100%. with the pill their can be missed tablets and if you take other ... (read in full...)
How will I find a girlfriend when I get out of university?
Q. I am 22 and single, I've had 2 short term girlfriends but nothing much at the moment. I am studying to become a civil engineering and at the moment I just want to concentrate on my studies and being with friends. My main worry however about be...
A. 23 April 2010: yes you will find someone. just your focusing on your career. dont rush things fate will soon bring you things to deal with. yes your first years working may be long and hard but like everyone else they manage to make time and im sure when you want ... (read in full...)
How does the pill work exactly?
Q. How does the pill work exactly? i mean, i know it helps prevent pregnancy,, but to what extent?like, can the pill take a guy fully cumming inside you without a condom? or does it just work with the pre ejaculate?...
A. 20 April 2010: pill is a succesful contraception that stops you getting pregnant when having sex but it is not 100% guaranteed.. their are many methods but i would avoid not using condoms as they can protect you against sexually transmitted disease. go to your gp ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get close to women!
Q. Is there something wrong with me if I'm a virgin? I must be inept with women? I'm 22 and everyone around me at uni seems to be getting into a relationships, or having tonnes of one night stands and talking about their exploits whilst all I have to ...
A. 19 April 2010: i think caring guy is right really spend time to know girls and find potential before jumping the gun.. i cant really say too much more than their is someone out their for you but its all about attitude and the right approach.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Was I just her comfort blanket?
Q. I hope I can get a few answers or reasoning from people who read this as it's come to the point where its on my mind too many points during the day. I have exams in a month and I just want to not think about it anymore. Not sure how to start this ...
A. 19 April 2010: i think perhaps she wasnt fully over her last relationship and oposed to letting this drag on she ended perhaps she ddnt want to but needed to. i think you need to find someone who is right for you and respects you as much as you respect them with ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend watches cartoon porn, is this normal?
Q. Ok I'm in a weird situation. Both me and my girlfriend are 14 and we both love eachother. We've been going at it for nearly 6 months now. 2 weeks ago she admits to me that she looks at porn. This itself seemed very odd since I don't often hear...
A. 18 April 2010: just because she looks at porn doesnt mean to say shes and addict and some womens sex drive isnt that high and feel they need some mind stimulant to arouse them more.. anime porn some prefer it to real each to their own really! i think you need to ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me or does he have another woman back in his country?
Q. hello! i have a boyfriend i meet him in internet he visited me twice last year(2009),when he get back back from canada he left me his loptop and i found out he was chatted a lot of girls from febuary(when he get back from his first vacation...
A. 10 April 2010: i think because you didnt tell the truth about your situation your scared he will do the same this is all about you and not him.. its not cheap to go from canada to the philly and he sends you money chats to you all the time. hes putting in big ... (read in full...)
Any good ideas on how to propose marriage?
Q. Hello Aunties and Uncles, I intend to propose to my girlfriend in a couple of months. We have discussed this in the past and more recently and truly feel the time is now right for both of us to do this. Neither of us have ever been married in ...
A. 24 March 2010: you could take her to a quiet spot near a waterfall with a bunch of flowers. take her out for dinner in a top restaurant take her to paris for a weekend go to geneva go bareback horse riding. theirs so many things you could do! but it depends on ... (read in full...)
The pros and cons of having a smear test.
Q. It has been suggested that now i am of age (doh) I should go for a smear test however i have my concerns regarding being violated by metal objects and clamped open - sounds ouch and very invasive. However much someone says you should get it done it ...
A. 13 March 2010: its not actually that sore and the thought is worse that what is it their done by women so you dont feel out of sorts. i was the same mind as you but my family insisted on it as they ddnt want me to die from cancer and such things. so i did it quick ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I get over my girlfriend's past?
Q. Hi there, just here really needing some help. I'm 25 my girlfriend is 22 and we've been going out for a few months now and ever since my gf brought up our pasts, I can't get over hers. The whole virginity thing was a big deal for me. Even in u...
A. 10 March 2010: look, your upset that its not gonna be the same both ways but she ddnt know you and well their arnt that many people who wait these days and fall down a path they think is right. this is your issue not hers. she cant rewrite her life to suit you. i ... (read in full...)
I'm 20, he's 18. Is it weird?
Q. Okay, so I'm twenty and there's this guy I'm starting to feel attracted to. The only thing is he's about eighteen years old. I was just wondering if that's a little weird because it's usually the girl who is younger. I know it's not a big deal for ...
A. 10 March 2010: not at all in the olden age the gaps used to be large normally man older but things are different now so as long as its legal and no one is getting hurt then i cant see why it matters. even though it doesnt matter doesnt mean to say our mind will ... (read in full...)
Should I confront my brother in law, or keep quiet?
Q. Well, this post is about “failure to leave and cleave”. Until six months ago I had no idea all the writing on this topic. The bible, a few books, and reading lots of internet posts later I kinda get it. Here is the situation. First of all ...
A. 9 March 2010: i think if you say or do something to her brother then you are going to cause something that wont favour you.. if she has a strong bond or strong manipulation over her then she will choose the more favourable.. i think you should go to counselling ... (read in full...)
I need some opinions with some confusing behavior from a ex girlfriend.
Q. I need some opinions with some confusing behavior from a ex girlfriend. We met nearly 12 months ago and there was an instant attraction for the both of us,we became friends quickly and entered into a relationship for 8 months and fell very muc...
A. 8 March 2010: no relationship works unless their is good communication i think you need to talk to her because you cannot be in limbo for years if their is no hope for you two.. perhaps things were moving to fast for her but unless you talk to her you wont get ... (read in full...)
Torn between the army and having a baby...
Q. i'm 20 years old and im about to join the army. I have never thought about having a baby before. I always said i didnt want one. But for the past few months everyone seems to be getting pregnant around me and its making me want one myself. My mom ...
A. 8 March 2010: i think you should focus on your career then perhaps finding the right man to have a child with.. your mom may want a child but she shouldnt make you have one more so when you dont have a boy friend that just seems pure selfish..all i can say is ... (read in full...)
Help me win my long distance girlfriend back
Q. Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...
A. 3 March 2010: good luck hun im always here if you need anything just message me aphex... (read in full...)
What is the limit of verbal abuse you can take from a boyfriend?
Q. Hi All! I'm looking for some brutally honest opinions/insights into tolerating bad behaviour from a partner. How many times would your limit be for verbal abuse or a partner who is on/off on/off always dumping you then coming back etc etc. I ...
A. 3 March 2010: ive had a few things thrown at me and sometimes you say im never gonna be one of those girls¬ the one who gets punched or the one who gets cheated on or the one to cheat or to verbally abuse someone or take it.. we all have our limits of what we ... (read in full...)
Can I be friends with a girl who is older than I am?
Q. He cupid, i want to ask some question here. i met a girl on the internet. we shares pictures to each other and also share mobile number. she have a good work and i have a good work too. she was born in 1985 and i was born in 1987. now we are ...
A. 3 March 2010: yes you can be with all ages as long as its legal ie over the age of 16. you have your beliefs that you cannot live with someone until you marry that is your choice and if you are happy with that then she should accept your wishes. if you like ... (read in full...)
Help me win my long distance girlfriend back
Q. Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...
A. 2 March 2010: aww no worrys.. you will know when to reply to her. just dont think about her think about your new goals and aims. and if its right then you will know what to do.. we all ask questions to problems even though we are more than capable of dealing ... (read in full...)
Help me win my long distance girlfriend back
Q. Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...
A. 1 March 2010: my friend went through what you did recently and they were also the best of friends a nd for him it was his first love. they broke up got back together broke up and started and unhealthy cycle. in the end they split up and their was nothign she ... (read in full...)
Help me win my long distance girlfriend back
Q. Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...
A. 28 February 2010: shes trying to say it but i guess she doesnt want to be hurtful about it.. you can put your life on hold but it will only make you feel worse towards her. i dont think she knows what she wants but obviously this isnt completely what she wants or she ... (read in full...)
Help me win my long distance girlfriend back
Q. Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...
A. 28 February 2010: im sorry for your heartbreak i really am. but from what you have said its over she has given you more than one choice of reasons why she doesnt want to be with you. if she really wanted it she would be trying to make it work. but she obviously wants ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug
Q. I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he love...
A. 28 February 2010: fair is fair he wants you you want him then be an item.. bust as far as i can see he wants the best of both worlds.. tell him that if he wants you then you are the only gf he will need otherwise you want to be friends only! you shouldnt give up your ... (read in full...)
Where do I go to find a wingman?
Q. Hi, i am 20 and would like to ask you your advice on something if that is ok? I am a bit worried about getting a girlfriend because i have never had one before and pretty worried i won’t get one if i do not take action. I don’t really know how to go ...
A. 27 February 2010: well you can always look for new friends and find new hobbys to do, going out in night clubs you may find girls who are looking for that someone whilst some maybe looking just for something else. although you dont like the idea of internet dating ... (read in full...)
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