Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 19 May 2009: your out of line mate im sorry theirs telling a friend and theirs telling everyone you know hes down trodding her because of a mistake she made now she could of kept it secret and could of done it again but she is one of few who makes the mistake ... (read in full...)
Can I have an abortion without my parents knowing?
Q. Ok heres my question - At the age of 13 if you got pregnant can you go have an aboursion with out your parents coming with you or even knowing i would really like to know it would really help a situation i am in Thanks x...
A. 18 May 2009: thanks for understanding fatherly advice and i agree with you on what you said they will be hurt but they would rather be going through it will you than knowing your suffering on your own. i hope this turn out well for you aphex... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 18 May 2009: he had every right to tell his friends to ask for their advice but as for telling all of them yes that is a bit imature just remember what goes around comes around. if you can work through this then fine but if he forgives you and wants to work on ... (read in full...)
Can I have an abortion without my parents knowing?
Q. Ok heres my question - At the age of 13 if you got pregnant can you go have an aboursion with out your parents coming with you or even knowing i would really like to know it would really help a situation i am in Thanks x...
A. 17 May 2009: well you should of thought about that before having sex. no offense but their are reasons why having underage sex is a illegal. of course its going to kill them but as i said before you seem to think your an adult so you will have to step up to the ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, think I might be gay
Q. Hi, im a 15 year old male, and i am confused about my sexuality, i have always been aroused and have always fancied girls and i prefer to masturbate to women but the thing is i cant climax very well when i think about women or watch lesbian porn. ...
A. 16 May 2009: hey their hun just relax dont get stressed over this try and think about it calmly. and no matter the outcome of your situation it isnt wrong to be gay bi sexual or straight. well you could be bi sexual that is a possibility. but think about it ... (read in full...)
My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.
Q. 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!...
A. 15 May 2009: basically your a cow who no one would want to be with in other words your fat and useless. which is a rather mean comment to say to anyone even if you hate them. their must of been something that set him off or something perhaps you said or perhaps ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.
Q. Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...
A. 15 May 2009: no problem hun you take care !!! aphex x... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 15 May 2009: is that what you did in your relationships kelly ? Don't tell him! Just think of it as in the past and he doesn't really need to know. Just as long as you don't do it again I'm sure its fine to let it go this time. Xx clear your conscience, and move ... (read in full...)
I am in an open relationship, should I lay my cards on the table with this other woman or not?
Q. Hi. There's this woman at work who loves e-mailing and instant messaging me for long periods at a time about all sorts of subjects. She is single and on the look out for a man. I have a partner but she knows I am disgruntled and have shown a desire ...
A. 15 May 2009: i think the reason she isnt playing in the daylight is that she doesnt want to be seen as a women breaking a relationship and having an office affair. ask her out for drinks but away from work and ask her all the things that bug you ie why she ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 15 May 2009: its a 50/50 to be honest tell him the truth and not feel guilty or lie and it eats away at you. i think you have a real compasion for this guy just it ddnt go to plan as it has turned out. if it were be i wouldnt think about my self and tell him i ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.
Q. Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...
A. 15 May 2009: i know how you feel your feel like your in a deep hole with no way out and now and again you feel like people kick dirt in for the fun of it.. things will change for the better but you have to help too. it wont happen over night but it will happen. ... (read in full...)
He betrayed my trust and lied to me about something so stupid it doesn't make sense!!!
Q. okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different ...
A. 15 May 2009: i think you two need to work on your relationship before even thinking about marriage spend a year or to to really get to know each other before tying the knot. it seems like an honest mistake on his behalf he thought he could trust his friend and ... (read in full...)
Can I have an abortion without my parents knowing?
Q. Ok heres my question - At the age of 13 if you got pregnant can you go have an aboursion with out your parents coming with you or even knowing i would really like to know it would really help a situation i am in Thanks x...
A. 15 May 2009: just gonna say this your 13 why are you having sex its illegal you should have to tell your parents so you can take the consequences of your actions since your such an adult. with that aside their are time limits on abortion up to 24 weeks not to ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have been archived like a business card..
Q. I met this guy, Australian, a couple of months ago, we had a great talk, exchanged business cards, and mailed each other on a friendly way a couple of times in the next days. It was before a long holiday where we were both had plans to leave the ...
A. 14 May 2009: perhaps he has some unseen circumstances that has fallen on his lap and he has become busy. but i would of thought he would of said or done something. just wait another week and if no response then obviously their is something afar wrong. he is ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I put his mind at ease?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three months now, but lately we've been having problems. Back when we first kissed, I was officially seeing someone else, so in effect I cheated on my last bf. I broke up with him straight away though, and have ...
A. 11 May 2009: perhaps this is a cry for attention. perhaps you should try and make time for your bf and show him that you value him more than your friend. i can see the whole idea and yes it may give him doubts reassure him and spend every spare moment with him ... (read in full...)
How do people keep their LDR going?
Q. Your all probably going 2 think im sad! But ive been with my boy a while now and we see each other evryday. Yesterday he went away to work for 2 weeks and i just feel like i can't cope! Im trying to fill my time and have made plans. I just cannot ...
A. 11 May 2009: woa calm hun. you should try being in a relationship were you only get to see each other for 4 weeks a year. all that has happened is a change to your life it is no bigger a deal than what you make it. you choose to worry and over react to this ... (read in full...)
Sister in abusive relationship and we can't seem to get help
Q. I'm 25 and my sister's 23, been with her girlfriend since November 2008. She moved in with her in February 2009 and things were good up until end of March - beginning of April, she said. Last week she told me she'd broken up with her because of d...
A. 9 May 2009: That cannot be right. seems something wrong their. many other people get done for it so why not this..perhaps their is a domestic abuse line that you could phone to tell you what it is you need to do in order to get this sorted out. also they will ... (read in full...)
Everywhere I go I see couples and it makes me feel jealous! How can I stop feeling this way?
Q. I'm struggling with single life. When I go out with friends, or when I hang around with my flat-mates I always see couples and it makes me feel jealous. Last night, I looked across the room and saw my flat-mate and his girlfriend playing together...
A. 1 May 2009: aww bless ya. we all go through the same thing from time to time so dont feel alone on this. sometimes after a relationship we need to focus on ourselfs or just mending our hearts. it seems your already good to go.just whats stopping you from puting ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my husband and feeling guilty about it
Q. I'm posting this from a friend's computer for the sake of anonymity. I'll try to do any followups from here, but I cannot make promises that I will be able to get back. I'm a black woman, and I've been cheating on my husband with a white coworker...
A. 27 March 2009: your child will pick up on things their very smart and when their older i dont think they would be happy with your choice or its quite possible they will pick up your habbits.. i see how that can still affect people not being able to marry because ... (read in full...)
The waiting game is driving me crazy!
Q. My husband and I are trying to get pregnant. We had sex when I was ovulating. Can you take a pregnancy test before you period is actually due? I'm not due until April 2, but the waiting game is driving me crazy....
A. 23 March 2009: their are some brands of pregnancy tests that can detect earlier than normal ide say go to your local chemist and have a look at the different brands their are some that have been advertised to detect more than a few days before your period. dont ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready, but how can I make sure that I will not regret it?
Q. I was completely ready for sex just a little while ago. My boyfriend of 6 months is 17. I'm turning 15, but I was completely ready to have sex with him a little while ago. We had a good talk and decided it was time, I love him, but I feel like ...
A. 5 March 2009: well i thought the same when i was your age as soon as i hit 16 to be legal i did it and i regret it now. i hate myself for it even though i was in a 3 year relationship.kids are always wanting to do the cool thing or what adults are doing but they ... (read in full...)
I can't stop arguing and crying!
Q. Please help me. I love my boyfriend, he treats me like a princess. Lately I seem to start arguments and I moan about everything! I am certainly not the fun loving person I was when we met! I cry nearly everytime I see him, I just get upset at lit...
A. 26 February 2009: i can relate on this at the moment as i am the same i think its due to stress worry and borderline depression. you need to sort your life out. got a dirty bedroom ? clean it out! simple things as a messy life style at home can be something that can ... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 22 February 2009: your heart will feel lonely and you will find it hard but the one thing is that if it is ment to be it will happen and if it doesnt then fate doesnt want it to happen we choose the paths we walk along but we dont get to choose the roads we take. ... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 22 February 2009: no problem hun thanks / i wish you good luck on this journey! keep strong and smilling ! aphex x... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 20 February 2009: not at all the more info the better seen longer ones and its good to give info then we can try and tell you what we think with a better opinion. yeah just hang in their fate will lead you onto the path that your destined for just keep strong youll ... (read in full...)
Is it worth my time waiting for my ex to return?
Q. Dear readership, I am/was in a 3 year long relationship that has had its ups and downs over the years. My partner and I have always recovered from the little fights we have that bring our relationship down; however, this last one might be the one...
A. 20 February 2009: i think you need to have a talk with her and ask her what is going on why she moved and if its definatly over you need answers and they will only come from her we can only give speculation to ityou need to be direct but understanding find out the ... (read in full...)
Do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever?
Q. I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less ...
A. 20 February 2009: ide say you were both single so you were free to do what you liked as prob has he. although no i wouldnt of slept with his brother. im normally up for confessing but if you do it prob would ruin it and it would prob be bad for him and his brother ... (read in full...)
My lover keeps waiting for her SO to realize things are over, and its just not happening
Q. Hello I am seeking some advice for myself and a friend. I have been involved with someone who is in a relationship for the last 18 months. We are not just talking about a purely sexual affair, it is a very much a relationship, seeing eac...
A. 10 January 2009: hi,
a friend of mine was in a marriage and it was great but then it went down hill no romance sort of the same as you although he was cheating on her with her bestfriend. she found out and he wouldnt leave her because she was suicidal and what not ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex at the end of her period. Could I have caught something from doing this?
Q. Hi, something troubles me. Earlier this week me and the girl I recently started dating had sex. We'd used a condom the first few times we had sex, but we've been together for a month now, and so have recently started doing it without protecti...
A. 22 November 2008: well if you believe she is clean and doesnt have stds or what not then you should be fine people can have sex whilst a women is on their period allthough some find it dirty. so their be alot of views on that but as far as catching anything no but if ... (read in full...)
At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past?
Q. At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past? I'm 20 yrs. old and this is really my first attempt at a serious relationship. I was a troubled teen. I used drugs and alcohol. I became sexually active at 14 and had literally dozens of ...
A. 20 November 2008: well if i have learned anything is that dont reveal too much because doesnt matter what your past was as long as its not going to be your future. the only reason i would clear the air a little if something was bugging me or i thought someone would ... (read in full...)
My mom walked in and caught us making out...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...
A. 9 November 2008: as long as your both adult about it i shouldnt see why you can kiss and hug as long as you dont go over the limit/ i hope your parents can come to an agreement on this as it would be a shame though her mums prob worried you have sex she lands up ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship woes...
Q. I am in an awful dilemma. I am madly in love with a woman who I met while working at sea on a cruise ship together. I'm from the UK and she's from the US. I'm 39 and she's 44. I'm in the process of getting divorced and she's a divorcee with two ...
A. 9 November 2008: just take it easy it seems your both focusing so much on having a relationship that is going somewhere. how about focusing on right now! enjoy each others company live for the now and not tomorrow. if their is preasure she will feel the need to back ... (read in full...)
Any advice for a first timer on fingering?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend just over a couple of months now, and we've talked about doing oral sex. she wants me to finger her, but I haven't done anything with a girl apart from kiss. Has anyone got any advice on fingering a girl for the first ...
A. 9 November 2008: heres website already explained for you so it should be able to help you.. all i can say is take it easy and gently. good luck aphex http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilinguspositions.shtml... (read in full...)
My mom walked in and caught us making out...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...
A. 9 November 2008: i dont see the problem to be honest with you so you were kissing your 16! if you were having sex then thats a different matter. i personally dont see the problem so in future i just wouldnt let my folks aware your not going against their wish they ... (read in full...)
I lost my boyfriend to another guy!!!!
Q. Hi guys! I'm really really confusedd at the moment, my boyfriend and I were together for 18 months, he was my second boyfriend, he was quite experienced with girls, I lost my virginity to him although he wasn't a virgin, we were in love and I though...
A. 4 November 2008: hi hun, no its not your fault an no you ddnt turn him gay. i was once in the same situation and i kicked myself about it for a long time but dont make the same mistake i did dont wallow in it its something that he needed to figure out like we all ... (read in full...)
He has asked me for a BJ. I am afraid if I say no that he will think I don't like him anymore
Q. i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ?...
A. 30 October 2008: here is a website or two that can give you some tips on what to do if you want to give him one good luck aphexy xx http://sexuality.about.com/od/tipstechniques/ht/give_a_handjob.htm
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml... (read in full...)
My wife can't get over my past...
Q. Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...
A. 30 October 2008: sometimes we can spend our lives looking in the past than enjoying the present and looking to the future..your wife needs to get over this or it will be a divorce go to marriage councilling see if that helps with the situation..its always a good ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think about death and it really scares me.
Q. I have had a very good life and enjoyed all it had to offer. I still very much appreciate and enjoy everything that is around me and every day. I have a very good and happy life. However at my age, I am getting closer to end of my life. I don't need ...
A. 29 October 2008: from a young age i always felt like i ddnt belong in this world a strange feeling in my stomach pulling me..never figured it out..its like wanting to touch the forbidden tree but not knowing why..in the end we all die a fact of life many people ... (read in full...)
I'm not on birth control and we didn't use a condom... dumb I know!
Q. Umm.. heres my situation. My ex and I had sex last week... WE were really dumb and didn't use a condom. So I think he came in me... he even told me he might have.. plus I saw some on my underwear when I got home. I'm not on Birth control either. ...
A. 29 October 2008: ok not sure about your country an its clinics but ill give it a shot..yes its a high risk your pregnant, go to doctors more reliable than home testing..next ok you dont want an abortion im neither for or against but do you realise what having a kid ... (read in full...)
Sex questions
Q. hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go ...
A. 28 October 2008: oh dont worry hun im the same i dont like going on top but my partner love it as for blow jobs he loves that too lol.. its really a case of trial and error but here is a link to a web page that can give you advice on what to do. good luck hun hope ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, ...
A. 25 October 2008: rofl shetland pony what does it matter it has four legs and a tail an a mane so for the sake of it well call it a horse/ and mod for asking that have you seen it?.. on to the real problem..he doesnt have to be gay to like anal some guys like it ... (read in full...)
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