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Hi im 25yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK .

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If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?

Q.   I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...

A.   7 September 2008: best bet is not to do it, if you want to do it then go on the pill safety is best first when it comes to this unless you want to be pregnant..why not try dry humping or foreplay.. hope this helps aphexy xx... (read in full...)

How can we have sex?

Q.   I have always been a big man however recently my wife has gained a lot of weight making us both big people and we just can't seem to have sex because our bellys get in the way....

A.   6 September 2008: i can post a website you can look at for positions that may suit you better and will make your love life just as good.. good luck aphexy xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?

Q.   I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted ...

A.   6 September 2008: ok not having a go but are you really 13?? if so your body is not fully developed for intercourse thats why their is a age restriction..second of all if you are going to do it no matter what people say go on the pill and use condoms..next you would ... (read in full...)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

Q.   I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

A.   6 September 2008: thanks so much aphex xx... (read in full...)

Will the condom stop working if he stays inside you after sex?

Q.   i was just reading on one of the other questions 'Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time' that it said: "Many couples like to stay coupled as the guy grows soft inside the girl. (You should NOT do this if you are rely...

A.   5 September 2008: i agree with phil. some couples have their intercourse then like to go soft afterwards still penetrating but the penis starts to shrink which means the condom is free to slip off or semen can leak inside which means their is a higher risk of ... (read in full...)

What is the contraceptive coil like?

Q.   I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...

A.   5 September 2008: ive never much liked the coil i would rather go on the pill or the implannon like i have now i cannot fault the implannon at all it lasts for 3 years it sits under the skin in your arm and protects you 24/7 without having to do anything, in the end ... (read in full...)

How soon after unprotected sex can I tell if I'm pregnant?

Q.   my period started Aug. 17, and had an unprotected sex after 6 days and again on the 14th day? will i get pregnant? how early will i know if i'm pregnant? ...

A.   5 September 2008: no problem all the best aphex xx... (read in full...)

How soon after unprotected sex can I tell if I'm pregnant?

Q.   my period started Aug. 17, and had an unprotected sex after 6 days and again on the 14th day? will i get pregnant? how early will i know if i'm pregnant? ...

A.   5 September 2008: i would get a pregnancie tester from a shop or your gp, their are now ones you can take up to two weeks after the suspected date but buy a pregnancie test and read the instructions they usually tell you the best time to use them as they can be ... (read in full...)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

Q.   I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

A.   5 September 2008: no problem hun glad it all worked out for you best wishes with your future xx aphexy... (read in full...)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

Q.   I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

A.   5 September 2008: good im glad. well funny she bled for 7 days same time as her period so whether she was bleeding or having a normal period she had a kid on time aphex... (read in full...)

What is the age when guys start making sperm?

Q.   at what age does the sperm generally come out ...

A.   4 September 2008: we all hit puberty differently some can hit it at the age of 8 but thats not common ide say 10 - 12. aphex... (read in full...)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

Q.   I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

A.   4 September 2008: well my friend had a completely normal period no sickness and she was pregnant get tested and next time wrap your tool before being a fool ok.. good luck aphex... (read in full...)

Are these the symptoms of premature ejaculation?

Q.   Dear Cupid, i have an embaressing issue with my sex life, im a 24 year old male an i think i have premature ejaculation. During fore play im constantly trying to not ejaculate, intercoure (if i make it) is even worse. Im with my third long ...

A.   4 September 2008: Here's where it gets interesting, as everyone has a different opinion on the subject ranging from anxiety, nutrition, stress, deficiencies, illness, to psychological in nature. these are all things that can contribute to PE* premature ... (read in full...)

Is a four year age gap acceptable in a relationship?

Q.   Is 17 and 21 an ok age difference? My cuson is nearly 17 and she likes a guy whos 21, is 4 years an ok age differnce? we live in the UK so its legal...

A.   4 September 2008: age is just a number hunnie and as long as you are happy and your partner whats the problem :). their are lots of other people with bigger age gaps and are living happy so i wouldnt worry about it if i were you.. good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

Q.   I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

A.   4 September 2008: erm hate to say their is a reason for the pill their is a reason for condoms ok not having a go stating a fact, dont have unsafe sex if you dont want to be a parent..yes their is a good chance she could be pregnant tell her to go get tested, whether ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!

Q.   I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous ...

A.   2 September 2008: im my opinion what happens in the past stays the past because nothing either of you can do to change it. so why bring it up and have arguements and what not over nothing something they had nothing to do with also their is nothing wrong with giving ... (read in full...)

How long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?

Q.   I was just curious?? how long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?? ...

A.   2 September 2008: hrm som pills are different some can be a month others two weeks, depends on the pill your gf is taking.. need to know a brand to be more precise but just use condoms too to help with lowering the risks of pregnancie but also catching disease..the ... (read in full...)

I like this guy from msn, but he lives 7 hours away and I am not sure that could work

Q.   hi theres this guy i like but im not sure if it'll work and im scared of getting hurt. i recently met this guy ive been spking to for the last 2 years on msn the weekend was amazing and it went really well and we're still spking as mates but the ...

A.   1 September 2008: well me and my bf we live over 10hrs away it is hard and we only get to see each other once every 2 months or so.. if you really want it and you have to work hard for it..just ask yourself can you wait two months before seeing him? what about in the ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   31 August 2008: i would end things with him and have a relationship with this person whom you seem to like, cheating is not a good thing so stop one of the relationships either way i would say your online bf get rid of him your better off without him.. good luck ... (read in full...)

I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!

Q.   okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...

A.   29 August 2008: no nothing is wrong with her she is just exploring her bodie and how it feels.. all people go through it just at different ages..dont worry its fine and natural as long as she is doing it in her own privacy, maybe try and knock in future though.. so ... (read in full...)

What sex positions are there were the girl does the work?

Q.   Hello! I was wondering if there are any other postitions (other than girl on top) that requires the girl to do work, or even variations of girl on top other than reverse cowgirl, something new? I do like missionary and doggy style and whatnot but ...

A.   29 August 2008: hi their here is a website i think you mite find useful it tells you about positions and how to carry them out and what others think of them too.. hope it helps aphexy xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml... (read in full...)

Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!

Q.   Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...

A.   27 August 2008: champagne, rug, strawberrys and watching the night sky looking at the stars cuddling..candles bath bubbles and rose petals of course champagne heheh (sorry love champagne)..a weekend whisked away to holland or somewhere.. thats my three hope it ... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

Q.   I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...

A.   27 August 2008: good luck hun keep positive it will work out in the end better for you and he is not worth the wonderful energy that you have keep smiling good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   27 August 2008: np take care aphex... (read in full...)

I'm trying to be as realistic as possible by forgiving her, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

Q.   Ive been in a LDR for 3 years. We met when she was 17 and spent a year together in the same country. We loved each other to pieces and would do anything to stay together. She has to go to South America for school. 18 months into the relationship, ...

A.   26 August 2008: she is lonely and needs attention and your not their to give her what she needs and thats neither fault that is how it is.. but what if you dont meet each other for a few months or years do you think she can keep to herself?.. all i will say is you ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   26 August 2008: whether someone has a mic or a camera you shouldnt give them all your trust even when you meet them because their are some nice people out their you just have to be really careful..when i said horse riding i ment can your parents take you to a ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   25 August 2008: try online games or do you have any friends or horse riding try something your interested and new good luck aphex... (read in full...)

How so females masterbate. I don't know how.

Q.   i want to know how to masterbate...

A.   24 August 2008: ok generally do what feels good whether it by hand or with a sex toy but remember to use lubricant with a sex toy to make it more enjoyable but always clean your toy to stop infections.. also here is a web site with more in depth detail for you.. ... (read in full...)

Does getting a brazilian wax hurt as much as it looks and does it last longer than shaving?

Q.   Hi - I usually shave all my pubic hair off but it's got to the point that after I've shaved it off, it starts to grow back within a couple of days. I was thinking of maybe getting a brazilian next time and was wanting some information. Do they ...

A.   24 August 2008: ok..when it comes to waxing all people hurt differently ie someone might find the legs more painful than an eye wax so forth.. but i know a few people who have found it REALLY sore but if in doubt give it a try i would say it wouldnt hurt but it ... (read in full...)

What are some things to consider when thinking about this?

Q.   I will give some background. I am a single parent and my son has just finished college. From my son attending college I have gotten to know his roommate. He is also from a single parent family. Over the four years his roommate and I have become ...

A.   24 August 2008: erm well from the view im looking at is that it could ruin the relationship you have now and you may not be able to have the same as it would only be a gift and not something full time. plus im not sure if your son would be happy or not it is ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to have sex with my clerk?!

Q.   i am a married man 35yrs and am attracted to my female office clerk aged 22 yrs who is married for the last one year.we both are together in office for 8 hrs. is it okk to have sex with her regularly and how to attract towards me. pls advice....

A.   24 August 2008: what !! your both married it would be cheating on your partners i feel sorry for them that your thinking of having an affair!! no its not ok but maybe where you are from its ok but i doubt it!! talk things out with your wife because their is ... (read in full...)

My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?

Q.   Hey Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i wa...

A.   24 August 2008: good for you so glad things have worked out for the best maybe not the way we plan but atleast you can walk away with your head high.. good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)

What should an 11 year old say when his girl says she loves him?

Q.   My girlfriend just told me the other day that she loves me. I had no f***ing idea what to say. We have a date on monday, what should I do if she says it again...

A.   24 August 2008: well first i would stop swearing its rude and second only say what you feel dont say i love you if you dont it would hurt her if you lied..but if you have strong feelings for her then say that..but your still young puppy love so enjoy and relax good ... (read in full...)

My friend saw me kissing my boyfriend at the bus stop last night ... but I was at my sister's house all night. Could he be cheating?

Q.   Hey Well..!! basicly! im mega mega pissed off with my so called boyfriend and really dont know what to do! right so last night i was stayin at my sisters and my boyfriend phoned me askin if i wanted to go n meet him so i said i couldnt cos i wa...

A.   24 August 2008: well he admitted it was him and said it was you but obviously you know it wasnt so their for he must be cheating before he is kissing someone that is not you..you have a few choices be with him although he is a cheater work on the issues or what ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   23 August 2008: np hun just relax and take care hugs aphexy xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   23 August 2008: just because their is a girl on my space doesnt mean something is going on it could be a good female friend which he has no feelings for only asking would give you the answers but snooping on him wont go well i dont think.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

I forgot taking my pills, could I be pregnant?

Q.   Im a bit worried. I am on Marvelon contraceptive pill and i started my new packet on Saturday. Had unprotected sex on Saturday night (because im on the pill, and im seeing this guy), and forgot to take any more pills until this morning. They were ...

A.   22 August 2008: ok thanks..well you could be lucky but get tested from the gp or the family planning clinic good luck hun best wishes aphexy xx... (read in full...)

I forgot taking my pills, could I be pregnant?

Q.   Im a bit worried. I am on Marvelon contraceptive pill and i started my new packet on Saturday. Had unprotected sex on Saturday night (because im on the pill, and im seeing this guy), and forgot to take any more pills until this morning. They were ...

A.   22 August 2008: well generally you have to keep taking them regular in order to work and my guess is you didnt get the emergencie pill either so their is a possibility although you could be lucky..go see your gp when after your next period is due and they will do a ... (read in full...)

I want to have a baby to my boyfriend but I'm scared of how my dad will react

Q.   Hi im 18 and i really want a baby. The problem is i live in my dads house. My boyfriend of 5 years who is turning 21 in oct wants a baby to me too but is afraid my dad will shoot him and im afraid my dad will hate me. I have even been thinkin of ...

A.   21 August 2008: well the first thing would be to get a home and some money before having a baby atleast then you can show your dad you are being resposible and not irresponsible..also having a child can be a wonderful expierence but it is also very hard and ... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex. I still love him, but I don't know why he is denying his feelings.

Q.   I did something very wrong on tuesday night. Slept with my ex! He asked me to come around as friends and see him. then he asked for a cuddle. feelings between us were strong and one thing let to another. It was fantastic though. Felt just the sa...

A.   21 August 2008: hrm its a very odd situation but it seems he is not saying what is on his mind.. but by the seems of it you should keep a distance and get on with your life because he doesnt seem to be willing to make a difference he seems he has issues he needs ... (read in full...)

How do I make our first night together perfect?

Q.   I will be spending a first night sleep over with my boyfriend, the thing is i'm looking for some romantic idea's on how to make it a perfect night ever please.and dont get me wrong i'm not a virgin i just want it to be perfectcause i love him so ...

A.   21 August 2008: we always want that first time perfect and not just on a whim.. why not try something like candles or rose petals how about a nice meal together..or a massage or how about a picnic under the stars with some wine or champagne. or some body ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   19 August 2008: good luck with your choice :) aphex xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   18 August 2008: i know it is hard hun been through things similar but give it time dont try and contact him it will only hurt you more go out with friends try doing hobbies you enjoy or listening to music playing games but nothing to do with him and within time ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   16 August 2008: sounds like he has blocked you.. and also is avoiding you because you didnt give him what he wanted and now does not care.. best thing is to ignore him and get on with your life you are better off without this jerk and are worth more than he ... (read in full...)

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