What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 29 May 2008: ok glad to of helped :) x... (read in full...)
What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 28 May 2008: every women is different thus trying different techs as is men. so try it out if you think you mite like it and ask her opinion if she wants to try it and if she likes then keep doing it lol.. hope that helps aphexy... (read in full...)
What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 28 May 2008: you would be correct daniel its called the butterfly but different places can have different names but its mostly associated with the butterfly .. aphex... (read in full...)
Condom came off during sex, I'm on the pill too, should I see the doctor or wait for my period?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles; I have a problem which could be very serious and life changing. My boyfriend and I decided to have sex, [Im on the pill and we used a condom] The condom came off and we didnt realise until afterwards. I know the...
A. 28 May 2008: well if your on the pill sweetie it should be fine. but if you are worried wait till your period and if its late go to your gp or buy a pregnancie test but since your on the pill you should be fine..and you were being responsible nice to see :) ... ... (read in full...)
Friends have too many problems and rely on me too much!
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for reading this! Basically i have two friends who always have things going on, whether it's getting dumped or attacked or someone dying, over the past 5-6 years i feel like i can't breathe between problems. i'm there for the...
A. 28 May 2008: i know how you feel hun i have my own problems and i try and help everyone else around me, and it does get tiring and stressful and you just wish they would wise up and be happy and not do stupid things..but we all learn from our mistakes..i just ... (read in full...)
3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?
Q. i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...
A. 28 May 2008: do you have any of the following symptoms ?
Abnormal discharge
Normal discharge doesn't smell, and does not cause any irritation or itching. A discharge is likely to be abnormal if:
it smells fishy
it's thick and white, like cottage cheese ... (read in full...)
I met this guy on the internet...should I see him again and can I trust him?
Q. I am 15 year old female. I recently met up with this guy i had been talking to on the internet. I know it sounds stupid and that I shouldn't trust someone off the internet, but I really like this guy and I was wondering whether I should see him ...
A. 28 May 2008: be careful sweetie the internet can be good and bad. some people can find their happy ending whilst others meet a less fun end. ok i have met a few people off the internet but never promised them nothing but a friendship, which that way you can ... (read in full...)
It started as friendship, then casual sex. Now it's more to me and I don't know how to tell her.
Q. Hi. I am a 17 year old male. lately, me and this girl who I am pretty much best friends with have been sleeping together quite frequently. At first it was just casual sex, but i eventually developed a lot of other feelings for her from being around ...
A. 27 May 2008: ok theirs a few things here really. she maybe stopped the intercourse due to she was maybe progressing feelings for you and ddnt want to get in too deep encase you didnt. or maybe she thinks its unfair to herelf and you it could be a mixture on her ... (read in full...)
Do I mean more to him than a friend? I'm starting to like him...
Q. this guy i like, eally notices the small things about me or about the things im wearing...we are really close friends. but culd it mean more to him...i like him and i actaully am starting to fall inlove with him. he notices things about what i wear ...
A. 27 May 2008: try and give a bit more of a discription on other things he does.. yes it is odd he makes lots of comments but at the same time maybe he is just observitive..does he flirt or does he make lots of eye contact does he always stand or sit close to you ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins and ready for sex...but don't know how to initiate it...any advice?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. Were both virgins and we are both ready for sex but I dont no how to start. I dont really no what ive got to do. Help. I want my first time to be special aswell but i just dont no what to do. ...
A. 27 May 2008: im pretty sure you have had thoughts on what you would like to happen just not sure if those are things to be intiated.. some people want to go to a hotel others a romantic place. some want rose petals or candles..since its your first time then you ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of dogs, and this is causing a problem with my sister and me!
Q. My sister is a dog lover. I am terrified of dogs. She adopts large dogs and has several at a time. She recently moved from across the country to a few miles away from me and my family. She has become pregnant for the first time. I can't stand ...
A. 27 May 2008: ok well i am a shepherd and ive always been around dogs all my life, and my sister has a labrador x and an alsation, the alsation was an adopted dog and we were not sure of its behaviour but as we got to know her she was a bundle of love we were ... (read in full...)
I really want to stop masturbating!! Any advice?
Q. i really want to stop mastubating someone please give some advise...
A. 27 May 2008: yeah not much to go on. ie why do you want to stop? is it affecting your life ? have you over done it and its aching ? please give a bit more detail and dont be embaressed. aphexy... (read in full...)
Did I scare him off by being so blunt?
Q. I have a guy friend/aquaintance who I have always really liked and had a crush on. I go to college away from home so I dont see him that much but when im home we hang out. Then he called me just to talk and that is kind of unusual for him. One night ...
A. 27 May 2008: i think because as he said a thing or sexual tension with you that he was using it to his advantage.so when things fell in place with him and his new gf. ide say he was stringing you along till he got what he wanted. so in all sense your better off ... (read in full...)
I don't orgasm. It's my husband's fault. What can I do about it?
Q. I am 28 years old and married 6 years before. I have a 5 year old daughter. My problem is that all these married life not even once I had orgasam. I am frustrated these days. We do lot of foreplay but of no use and I think he ejaculates very fast. ...
A. 27 May 2008: i think you need to please yourself before blaming your husband on the matter to rule out all angles..see if you can bring yourself to climax. and as emivia says what you did in your past may in your mind be wrong and be putting you off from being ... (read in full...)
Is it better to ignore his calls till he gets the picture or talk to him and tell him it is over?
Q. Hoping someone can help me here. I would appreciate it very much. My ex and I split a couple of years ago. After the split, which was painful for us both, he moved to another city, met someone else and was with her till last October. We have been ...
A. 27 May 2008: if anything you will be hurtin him more if you leave it for him to figure out..just let him down gently that your friends only and you value that now and dont want to persue anything further and that hes an excellent guy but you just dont want a ... (read in full...)
I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?
Q. i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very ...
A. 27 May 2008: i used to have a really heavy flow when i was younger and got cramps alot to felt like i was dying. but then i took the pill and that helped lighten the flow problem and the cramps were not so bad..so it doesnt sound like their is anything wrong, ... (read in full...)
I met this guy on the internet...should I see him again and can I trust him?
Q. I am 15 year old female. I recently met up with this guy i had been talking to on the internet. I know it sounds stupid and that I shouldn't trust someone off the internet, but I really like this guy and I was wondering whether I should see him ...
A. 27 May 2008: how old is this male ? aphex
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Is it possible to be pregnant if the second line is very very faint?
Q. is it possible to be pregnant if the second line is very very faint? i took a home pregnancy test and at first i thought it was negative but there is a VERY lightly colored blue line in the results window.i even thought maybe i was seeing things or ...
A. 27 May 2008: ok usually if it was me say for instance ide wait atleast 3 - 4 weeks before considering a test. and follow the instructions. now as for the faint line it could be a faulty one, or have you considered you ddnt pee enough to give a full test? if i ... (read in full...)
3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?
Q. i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...
A. 27 May 2008: ok bleeding after sex is normal for the first time and you will be sore for a few days although if it persists more than a week talk to your gp. next ok not using a condom can result in pregnancies !!!! hope you realise this and also you can catch ... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: you need to talk to him on the phone when he calls you and ask if you can meet up and get it sorted out because if its not going to work then your best going your seperate ways, or trying to fix whatever the problem is aphex... (read in full...)
Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a relationship?
Q. Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?...
A. 27 May 2008: no its not really their are bigger, age is just a number, but ide wait till your 16 before having sex..hope this helps aphexy... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: you can wait a day or two but in the end your only preventing knowing the truth for yourself...so ide doo it sooner than later aphex... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 27 May 2008: call him and talk about it, see what he has to explain about the situation, and take it from their u need to talk about this. aphex... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance with my online dater and really meet for the first time?
Q. i have met this kind and loving man over the internet he gave me his phone number and we have been talking on the phone for several weeks. I love him but i am not all that sure becuz its only been a couple of WEEKS.He is the sweetest guy i have ever ...
A. 26 May 2008: ok some people have become happily married over the internet and some not so happy, its like anything else. but meet in a public place let someone know what the score is. and i think the biggest thing with online dating is you can feel so very close ... (read in full...)
I'm 3 days late, am I pregnant?
Q. i can't take this any more i'm afraid. i just can't be pregnant!!!!!i have my whole life in front of me and my family and friends will be so dissappointed in me. me and my bf had sex two weeks ago. he took his penis out before he "cum". but he's ...
A. 26 May 2008: ok i know this is going to be hard but, ok it doesnt matter how quick he pulls out before he cums you can and most proberly will be pregnant. condoms or the pill is the only best way to prevent pregnancies. so if u are able to get a test done one ... (read in full...)
Why this intense pain after we have dry sex??
Q. I am just writing in to ask a question for the girls who are still virgins. My boyfriend and I make it a habit of having "dry sex", or dry humping...we do this as an alternative to having intercourse. when doing this, we both wear our und...
A. 26 May 2008: ok i would say to the fact that your wearing clothes ie pants can dry the area ie good example, when u rub ure skin against the carpet you get carpet burn. so i would get lubricant and give your body sometime as it could be aggrivated to being so ... (read in full...)
I have thought of asking my BF to shower with me and get him to masturbate me with the shower jet. Guys, do you find this odd?
Q. This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate... I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it,...
A. 26 May 2008: ok from what your saying is your not trying to insert the actual thing which can be dangerous. but the water pressure wont do enough damage to your genitals so your more than ok to use it to help you masturbate. i myself havent done that in a ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I have been faking my orgasms?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. We started to have sex within the first year and it was great. But about into our third year... i couldnt have an orgasm at all. I have been faking it ever since. I dont know what i should do? Should i ...
A. 26 May 2008: ok if and when you tell him i dont think he will be happy that you have been faking orgasms. but at the same time you cant go on faking for the rest of your life so it needs sorting out. I would try experimenting on yourself whether its your fingers ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, my teacher is 27. I have a crush...
Q. Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This ...
A. 26 May 2008: no i wouldnt say it would be a bad idea to keep a friendship with him, but you have to make sure you dont let your feelings get in the way of your friendship. because if you cant then it would be best not to have a friendship. i had a female teacher ... (read in full...)
She said she's not in the mood for me, does this usually happen in a relationship? I'm considering leaving her.
Q. Hi guys please help me decide what to do,today my gf simply told me thats she's not in the mood of talking to me and when I called her to ask why she simply said thats buzy she cant talk,I've done nothing wrong to upset her we having a long distance ...
A. 26 May 2008: it sounds like shes got some issues and maybe just needs some space give her some time and see how that works and if she still feels the same then maybe you have to look at your options. give her some space and then if you dont feel like shes not ... (read in full...)
Is he secretly Bi?
Q. i'm bi and my friends know that. i lik 1 of them but he's straight and when i flirt with him like nudge him for example he nudges back. Then when i do it again he does it again. Is he secretly for guys aswell as girls or does he not know it yet? t...
A. 26 May 2008: i agree with peter on this, i have many female friends and we nudge each other and stuff like that but i wouldnt go on the asumption that they were bi, try to look out for more signs ie, does he hold eye contact, does he always stand close to you, ... (read in full...)
Who should I choose, Boy 1 or Boy 2?!
Q. I’ve got myself in a big muddle and I need some advice! OK, so boy no.1 is my bf at the moment. We've been together for two years and its been great, but he just feels more like a best friend to me now. I don’t love him in a "romantic" way anymore. ...
A. 25 May 2008: well obviously before your thinking about another person whilst your with your bf says something i think which you need to ask yourself questions because thinking about wanting a relationship with someone else and being with your bf sounds like you ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, my teacher is 27. I have a crush...
Q. Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He's 27 years old, and its his second year teaching. I had him when it was his first year teaching, and it all started then...He's a really great teacher, I learned a lot from him. This ...
A. 25 May 2008: i hate to say i agree with princess on the matter..a teacher and student should only have a teaching relationship not personal ones, he has put faith and trust in you as a friend , not a promising relationship and these sort of things can be mixed ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get rid of facial hair?
Q. Hi, I have an unsightly problem because I have a female moustache. I bleach the hairs so they are less visible. But if i didn't bleach they'd be a dark colour. What can I do to get rid of the hairs? Laser hair removal has its dangers, and it sounds ...
A. 25 May 2008: ok well a friend of mine had the same problem and she got hers waxed and that seemed to help her confidence she has been doing it for about 2 years and she thinks they have gotten slightly less but they still come back, i guess its the same with leg ... (read in full...)
I'm too tight. Help!
Q. How do i make my vagina larger? I am 47 and even after using lubricant i still get very tight. I have purchased dilators but it is embarrassing using them just before intercourse. My vagina becomes very tight and i cannot have spontaneous sex. I...
A. 25 May 2008: ide say go see your doctor about this i know its embaressing but atleast they wil be able to shed some light on the subject, or maybe you just need more foreplay and relax as you could be really tense. thats my opinion aphex... (read in full...)
I had anal sex and I'm bleeding
Q. hi im 14 almost 15 ive been with this boy 1 year 5 months and i really love him but today i had anal sex with him unprotected for my first time it hurt a bit and he stopped but i noticed that there was like some bleeding and he cummed in me too and ...
A. 25 May 2008: ok i would go see your gp due to the fact you had bleeding..as you could of been to rough and maybe hurt your anal passage..dont be too worried rather be safe than sorry.. thats my opinion aphex... (read in full...)
If my girlfriend cared then why isn't she calling?
Q. Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me last nite but I love her so muvh but I to feel its better 2 call it quits because she has not been appreciating me I would give my all for her and she gave me nothing in return,I still feel like calling her but ...
A. 25 May 2008: well when i broke up with my bf i never called or txt him until over a month later, when you break up with someone its better to sever the tie between the two of you so you can both move on and focus on yourself. by the sounds of it it wasnt ment to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 2 and a half years-is he gay?
Q. my boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 2 and a half years, we've been together for 3. he had warts on his penis and i didn't want to have sex until he was rid of them, that was 2 years ago. in total, we have had sex 3 times. he tells me he ...
A. 25 May 2008: anything is possible but i doubt hes gay. genital warts can go away but sometimes they can reappear as it can be repetitive. you need to sit down and talk to your parnter tell him you feel like your distant from him and what has caused this problem. ... (read in full...)
He has me on a 7 pm curfew! And he blames me for what he does to me! Am I doing the right thing planning to leave him?
Q. I'm now 21 years old. I was barely 19 when I MOVED IN with my boyfriend. Things have gotten worse since I turned 21. He has me on a 7PM curfew! If I'm a few minutes late he doesn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Hes even locked me out for ...
A. 25 May 2008: yes of course your doing the right thing..hes being controlling and abusive to you how dare he do this..pack your bags and leave hun this relationship will only get volitile. its not your fault the way he is its his own, he seems very insecure hence ... (read in full...)
How to pleasure him without intercourse?
Q. I want to give my boyfriend some sexual pleasure without having intercourse. However, I'm not sure what he'd like. Any ideas?...
A. 25 May 2008: q1605 you seem to have alot of hostility, this is about helping people, you can say you dont like the subject but atleast give a decent answer.... (read in full...)
How do people feel about flirting with someone who already has a partner?
Q. How do people feel about flirting with someone who already has a partner? We are both in relationships but have not talked about our partners to each other before. I really like him a lot and can tell he likes me too. We only smile, stare, wink and ...
A. 25 May 2008: well by the sounds of it its a bit more than flirtin, your looking for each other which means theirs more to it than it should be, are you unhappy in your own relationship or are you just not resisting temptaion? usually before people flirt else ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and have an 8 inch penis!
Q. Hi, I have a problem, a really big huge problem. I am 17 next month and my penis is just over 8 inches long. I realise that this is unusally big for a lad of my age and I would not mind only a rumour has started at school that I am rather well ...
A. 24 May 2008: hun someone will love you for you no matter what size you are whether its 4 inch or 12 inch. but reserve your size to yourself and ignore these comments from these girls it will eventually die down. dont worry things will work out fine in the end ... (read in full...)
How to pleasure him without intercourse?
Q. I want to give my boyfriend some sexual pleasure without having intercourse. However, I'm not sure what he'd like. Any ideas?...
A. 24 May 2008: q1605 hate to tell you but in some countrys sex is allowed over the age of 16. and to answer your question best bet is to ask him as he is really the only one who knows what he likes, other than that mouth and hand combination gives a bit more than ... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: i only hope it helps your situation as i know how a situation like that can be like aphex *hug*... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: i can see your confusion its a odd predicament your in..maybe hes not coping well with you not being in the house, hes maybe jealous that u moved out for other reason other than you want to do it properly, maybe hes become insecure..you have to ask ... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 23 May 2008: you need to put a bit more detail into your replys as its a little hard to understand what it means bit more indepth please or maybes its just me and im confused..aphex... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 21 May 2008: talk to him get him to tell you whats going on because hes giving mixed signals and that u feel hes treating u differently and that you feel like you have been left in the lurch so to speak A xx... (read in full...)
He's acting different, what is going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...
A. 21 May 2008: i think you should be asking him whats going on and that your confused about it all,, that you feel like things have changed and dont know where things are heading? and you feel you have gotten mixed signals from him and want to know whats the next ... (read in full...)
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