We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 15 August 2008: because some people dont have morals or a thing called guilt good luck
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Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?
Q. hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...
A. 13 August 2008: i said with some people it can make it worse i have knowen two people with acne and they cut their milk and chocolate intake and their acne cleared up aphex x... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love
Q. Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see ...
A. 13 August 2008: i know its strange when we have them in a row. but you need to stop thinking of her and what the dream may mean it wont happen over night..but if you feel you have something on your mind about her then talk to a close friend to get her out of your ... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love
Q. Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see ...
A. 13 August 2008: i had that not so long ago im with my new partner and things are great. all of a sudden i had a dream about my ex which is now a year ago..and it confused me to hell why i dreamt of me hugging him. but the thing is not to think about it concetrate ... (read in full...)
I want to convince her that the distance is something easily overcome, but I don't know what to tell her other than what I already have said!
Q. So i met this girl over the summer at a camp, and we hit it off right from the start, and we've just been talking non-stop for the past month and a half, and she does have a boyfriend, but she says she sees a longer lasting and more fulfilling ...
A. 13 August 2008: you cant make her change her mind you can only tell her how you feel and what options are available and if she doesnt take them or squanders on them then she just wants her cake and too eat it. distance is a very hard thing i should know im doing ... (read in full...)
Because I was molested as a child do you think this is the reason why I can't hold a relationship?
Q. I was molested when I was around 10-11 years old by an older cousin. I've never really talked to anyone about it but now that I am older I am reading alot about molestation and rape. By the way I grew up in a third world country and didn't know ...
A. 13 August 2008: it is a possibility as uncle phil said try out the link and see were it takes you . but i think councilling would be a good choice to help you move forward problem burried deep can pop its head up.. so good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Am I desperate to like someone? Is this why I have turned to this guy?
Q. hey i'm sorry as this is my second question this month but i would really appreciate some advice. it's another long question (or equation lol spirit _of_iona!) but here goes. i have this guy friend who i've known for all my life as our fathers' ...
A. 12 August 2008: just relax be yourself and enjoy his company dont rush things let it unfold and then if things dont happen as you say drop a friendly email :) good luck keep us updated aphex hug xx... (read in full...)
Are there exercises or food to improve the hardness of my bits?
Q. Hi well i have a problem so here goes: I have a over average sizd penis at around 8inches but i read that this makes it harder to get up... and well it does, i do allright but it could be better on few occasions when its been rock hard its reached...
A. 12 August 2008: vitamin e. bananas. L-Arginine from a health food store it helps to increase the blood flow. Take zinc, saw-palmetto, pumpkin seed, ginkgo. or try the blue pills you get in ann summers.. hope some of those help.. plus wow dont worry about just ... (read in full...)
We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...
Q. A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...
A. 12 August 2008: it sounds a bit odd if you ask me if u want it persue it, if not just ask to be friends and see were that leads good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?
Q. hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...
A. 12 August 2008: have you tried something like e45.. also watch your chocolate and milk intake that sometimes can make it worse. also do not wash your face with soap that will clogg the pores and make it worse. hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
What is normal with manual sex?
Q. is it normal to hurt when a girl gets fingerd?? ...
A. 11 August 2008: here is a web page on masturbation to give you a guide good luck aphex xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml... (read in full...)
He dates younger girls--is that okay?
Q. Is it bad for a 24/25 yr old male to be dating an 18 yr old female? i was on bebo and saw a comment on a guy i likes page and it said "ahaha you only date girls who were born in the 1990's"? so is it bad? does it make the "24" yr old seem desperate ...
A. 11 August 2008: why are you upset and sensitive? it doesnt matter your age as long as it is legal. hell their are people with 30yrs difference.. and no it doesnt make them desperate its just how it lands you cant help who you fall for only how hard you land.. good ... (read in full...)
She puts on porn when I'm around--what is she saying?
Q. when i hangout with this girl she always puts on porn or naked pics. and i just laugh about it. is she trying to tell me something?...
A. 11 August 2008: i agree with daniel need more information on this one.. maaybe she is comfortable with you and watching porn and naked pics or maybe she wants to have mad passionate love.. need more info for better answer aphex xx... (read in full...)
I'm meeting an online contact for a first date--any ideas?
Q. Okay so I asked this girl out and we've never actually spoken words to eachother. I asked her out and she said yes. On Friday we're going into town...I was thinking coffee and a movie but I need some advice! ...
A. 11 August 2008: is the age correct ? yes go for a nice drink have a chat in a public place and then when your ready ask what she would like to do suggest maybe the movies or ice skating..but relax and take it easy and be yourself.. hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
My friend wants to marry her long-distance love--should I say something?
Q. My friend is 15 and has been with her 17 year old boyfriend for around eight months or something. They met online and have only really met up five times in the time they've been together (We live down south and he lives up north), yet I've found out ...
A. 11 August 2008: well they are waiting till 18 so that means their is time for change and error though one of the reasons ldr fail is because people dont live with each other gradually and its a big leap also the fact one is not willing to move for the other, but ... (read in full...)
My partner and I enjoyed having sex using the missionary position, now she cannot be as accomodating physically, has anyone else experienced this problem?
Q. I've been with my partner for 13 years. When we went missionary she could spread her legs really wide and it was nice for me. Now she can't any more and we use other positions. I miss that. Has anyone experienced the same thing?...
A. 11 August 2008: here is a web site that will show you a few position were you can achieve deep penetration without having to be to agill.. aw we get older things get old too so try different positions and use your mind as well as you body good luck aphex xx ... (read in full...)
What would you think of this?
Q. If you found a message to your husband saying "Last time you came over in the middle of sex you said..." and "if you can make the 4th that would be great. Better not come back to mine, we shouldn't have sex again. The pain wasn't worth the...
A. 11 August 2008: from any womans perspective it wouldnt look good. and i bet trust is falshing in your head going omg has he cheated on me and you dont want to believe it but you dont want to ignore it either.. i see you have two choices. believe what he says that ... (read in full...)
Am I desperate to like someone? Is this why I have turned to this guy?
Q. hey i'm sorry as this is my second question this month but i would really appreciate some advice. it's another long question (or equation lol spirit _of_iona!) but here goes. i have this guy friend who i've known for all my life as our fathers' ...
A. 11 August 2008: ok yeah its not that their forbidden just a crush that would never amount to anything we all have them thinking oh yeah hes nice but hes like 30 and im 13 hrm. i dunno maybe your just seeking a relationship and you and A are best friends maybe your ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to see where my hymen is?
Q. I have a question about where my hymen is. I have looked at so many pictures (which were so nasty) and spent 30 to 40min "down there" and i just don't see it. I am a virgin and I do not have any reson not to have one, or atleast i don't think. So my ...
A. 11 August 2008: certain hobbie such as horse riding and what not can break the hymen also using tampons but just because your hymen may or may not be broken does not determine that your still a virgin or not having intercourse classes you as no longer being a ... (read in full...)
He didn't break my hymen. Am I still a virgin?
Q. juss wanted 2 kno if im still a virgin cuz i let my boyfriend enter me but he didnt break my hymen or pop my cherry ? ...
A. 10 August 2008: i agree with the sandman if you are indeed that young i hope you were well educated on sex and that without protection you can become pregnant.. no you are not a virgin now your hymen may have been broken before or when you had sex. good luck aphex ... (read in full...)
I'm scared about my future...I saw my other friends having so much fun
Q. i left school this year n have kept in touch with only 3 friends. going on the other friends myspaces n readin how they all have had so much fun this summer angered me. im never guna see them again but i just felt so angry that im not part of that...
A. 10 August 2008: i left school with no friends we drifted since i went to college and when i was at college i met more friends and i still barely keep in touch with two of them..sometimes we go different directions but its just life and where it takes us but if you ... (read in full...)
Is there an alternative?
Q. I am suffering from premature ejaculation and because of this ,I cannot satisfy my wife. So she wants to go out and have sex with someone else to get satisfied. Is that an alternative?...
A. 9 August 2008: her going to another guy will only make things a hundred times worse. you need to go see your gp see if their is something causing the problem. try some techniques try masturbating then when your close just stop. wait a few minutes then go again ... (read in full...)
Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...
A. 9 August 2008: some guys like porn in their routine some can get addicted but just because he has you doesnt mean to say your not enough just he has an interest in that sort of thing. the sleeping pills could be having an effect on his system making it harder for ... (read in full...)
When I am without him I am sick over him and when I am with him I hate him - why can't I LEAVE him?
Q. I am 23 years old and have gone out with this guy since I was 18. Like most relationships we started out really happy and so in love. But as time went on I discovered he is bipolar and has a drug problem. He's been in rehabs and stuff and sees a ...
A. 8 August 2008: ok with that first part if he is so crap walk away!!! their is no such thing as cant deary you wont. you feel bad for him and want him to hurt you so you can walk away. well he wont. you need to be strong to walk out yourself and not make him do ... (read in full...)
I'd feel uncomfortable if the school found out my boyfriend is bi...
Q. My current boyfriend is bi-sexual,i don't really care because i know he only loves me... Your going to think this is a stupid question but he has had rumors and the only one that's true it that he's bi. He's also 4 years older than me,and the peop...
A. 8 August 2008: sticks and stones may break my bones but names shall never hurt me !!! i know it hurts but their isnt much you can do other than support each other threw this crappy time things will get better things has a funny way of sorting themselves out. as ... (read in full...)
Since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate, I put it down to stress on both sides but I'm becoming insecure about my weight...
Q. Hi guys, My fiance and I have been together nearly 3 years, have just moved into a new house, got a puppy etc things couldn't seem to be more stable. However, since the move a week ago we are hardly intimate and I've put it down mainly to stress...
A. 8 August 2008: get rid of him he is a stupid pig if he wants a size ten or less then go get a barbie. obviously he is shallow and can not see beyond weight issues thats his problem you have lost weight so you can feel good and hes making you feel bad im sure ... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex give me another chance?
Q. I don't get it. I made some judgement errors with my boyfriend [well... ex-boyfriend] in what I said to him, but I swore I wouldn't do it again the second I realized how badly it had hurt him. He won't give me another chance, tells me I'm not a good ...
A. 8 August 2008: he obviously seems to be having some problems and he had them in the start so its safe to say hes a bit messed up. honestly walk away just learn the mistakes you made for the future. you can beg him but is that something you want to do ? maybe he ... (read in full...)
Can I turn my relationship with this married guy into platonic relationship?
Q. I met this guy at the conference our company held. At that time, I didn't have the idea that he is married. But when we get into conversation we are totally connected in everything, after a lot of unsuccessful relationship, i feel like he is the ...
A. 7 August 2008: you were cheated on an you didnt like it so why do it to someone else ? have you really lowered your standards to disgrace yourself and have no respect? you had a choice in the begining to walk away but you took this path. it seems he got what he ... (read in full...)
I realize I do miss my ex, but how can I trust him not to break my heart again?
Q. Ok, so I'm having a problem with whether to give my ex a second chance. We got into a relationship about a year ago around this time. We had a great 4 months, everything was going amazing. Then one day, out of no where, he breaks up with me, telling ...
A. 7 August 2008: its one of two things he doesnt want to be alone since hes been tossed so he goes to the next person. although he could be honest about *making a mistake* we all make them its how we learn from them that counts! i see you have two choices tell him ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you feel as though you're in a loveless marriage with a man who is a good provider but totally emotionally unavailable?
Q. What do you do when you feel as though youre in a loveless marriage to a man who says he provides me with shelter, health insurance, and pays the cell phone bill and car insurance. but is totally emotionally unavailable. he makes me feel like a wort...
A. 7 August 2008: i see your depression can sometimes cloud your feelings and the slightest thing can make you emotional although when i was depressed the biggest thing i wanted was a hug from my partner..you need to start loving yourself and your kids and forget ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to take responsibility for me or the baby!
Q. i fell in love with a guy wen i was married and divorced my 1st husband on his insistence. we are in a relationship for the last three and half years in which we had a live relationship. i got pregnant and he wanted me to abort the baby which i ...
A. 6 August 2008: i agree with gecko.. your ex bf is being mean and heartless you need to worry about you and the baby not that worthless piece of crap. and dont string along your husband i know he may still love you but if you ever loved him you would do whats right ... (read in full...)
Sex is great but I can't 'go' - Help?!
Q. Me and my partner sexual realationship is Active!I can't 'go' at all but tho it is great sex, what should i do? And could you still become pregnant in way its just him that 'goes'?...
A. 6 August 2008: erm you need to stop having sex and read up on it..no protection causes babies and most likely disease thats y condoms are made also a thing called birth control is to help keeping you from having babies. whether u go or not will result in u getting ... (read in full...)
He fingered me - Am I still a virgin?!
Q. ok...so i am 16...and i kinda went a lil 2 far 1 nite with my boyfriend. i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me...but thats all we did. it has been on my mind 4 a few weeks....am i still a virgin?...
A. 6 August 2008: to not be a virgin is to have intercourse other wise known as sex. so yor still a virgin hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
Why did the first pregnancy test came up positive and all the others - negative? We're still worried...
Q. i was sleeping with Girl A. than i cheated on her with girl B. girl B finds out about A and tells her that we had sex. Than girl B says that she was sleeping with me and she thinks shes pregnant. i talk to girl A and she tells me she took it just bc ...
A. 6 August 2008: i agree with gecko take her to the gp and get it done their as it will be more acurate although it may just be her system out of whack, but be safe than sorry go to the gp good luck and try not cheat in the future :P... (read in full...)
We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...
A. 6 August 2008: you need to sit her down and talk about things. maybe their is a reason she is not telling you or maybe you havent taken the next step and she is scared..be gentle and talk communication is the key in any relationship.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
I would still like some advice as to how I can reduce my urges to a minimum.
Q. I'm 18 years old and i'm very much in love with my girlfriend, she means the world to me.. But i feel like my sexual urges are getting in the way and i don't want her to start thinking i'm something that i'm not. My urges aren't all that bad real...
A. 6 August 2008: so if you have an open sexual relationship why is your urge to hump her a bath thing ? i think i seem to be missing something/ go public places do fun things that takes your mind off it / also release tension before seeing her that should take the ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 30 and still I don't feel ready for sex. What's going on?
Q. I need to gauge some opinions here please aunties. I'm nearly 30, single, and still a virgin; but this isn't what bothers me, it's the fact that I don't feel ready for sex yet. I have no drive for sex. I see people posting questions on here...
A. 6 August 2008: hey i forgot to add go buy a film called 40 yr old virgin you might learn a few things from that dude good luck aphex... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 30 and still I don't feel ready for sex. What's going on?
Q. I need to gauge some opinions here please aunties. I'm nearly 30, single, and still a virgin; but this isn't what bothers me, it's the fact that I don't feel ready for sex yet. I have no drive for sex. I see people posting questions on here...
A. 5 August 2008: just a quick question how do you know if your ready to ride a horse unless you try and see? aphex... (read in full...)
I have not taken the pill for two weeks, for the necessary break, is it safe to use the pull out method to avoid pregnancy?
Q. hello, im 20 years old and have been on the pill for 4 years, i had my 7 week break and then i had to go on anti biotics, so i decided that i wouldnt go back on the pill until i had finished the course of anti biotics. i have been with my boyfri...
A. 4 August 2008: pull out method flashes to mind what people call parents..you want to be safe use condoms or wait till your on the pill. some people say that it can work although if you asked 90% of people who used the pull out method will tell you that your are to ... (read in full...)
I feel weird to know that someone I dated turned out to be bisexual... any ideas?
Q. I recently found out that my ex-boyfriend is bi. I'm not saying this is a bad thing at all. I couldn't care less what sexual preference people have. I have three lesbian friends and it doesn't bother me. It's just that when I met my ex, he wasn't ...
A. 4 August 2008: i didnt know my best friend was gay till he told me about 5 months after knowing each other and boy was i shocked i fancied the hell out of him lol..but i know what you mean its a weird feeling kind of like you cant believe you didnt know..dont ... (read in full...)
She's a virgin and we can't have sex because it hurts her too much. Any tips?
Q. Alright, so me and my girlfriend are getting hot and bothered and ready to have sex, catch is, she's a virgin. So I try to be gentle and all, because I hear it's sometimes really painful. I try, she says "OW!" really loud and I stop because I don't ...
A. 4 August 2008: it hurts all girls and bleed too. try some lubricant take it easy and slow and that should help it be less painful but some it hurts alot or just a little in all honesty she needs to suck it up lol but yeah try those things with her oh and try ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with a married man who is my best friend?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts Hello everyone my situation is rather difficult but yet could be reduced down quite simply so I am going to try and keep this as short as possiable. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I know what I am doing is...
A. 3 August 2008: in the end you should not be trying to get pregnant you should not be sleeping with a married man..when your child is born what are you going to say to them that infidelity is the way to go, that they should have no respect for partners, because ... (read in full...)
We've only been together 2 days but he's pressuring me for sex
Q. I recently start i new relationship 2 days ago.i like this guy but when we 2gether he always talk about sex.which im not ready 4.he says im indecisive when we talk about it.he says that can be a downfall in our relationship.i dont know what 2 do pls ...
A. 2 August 2008: hes trying to pressure you to have sex with him and your not ready dont let him make you change your mind..he should have more respect for you and obviously he doesnt. and you are not being the downfall in the relationship he is being a pig trying ... (read in full...)
Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when ...
A. 2 August 2008: gecko got a point although i say talk to him about it maybe their is a reason, dont be harsh about it be sensitive about it say that you enjoy it but it hurts your feelings that he doesnt do it with you than give you what you want and not himself ... (read in full...)
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