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Hi im 25yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK .

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What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   31 August 2008: i would end things with him and have a relationship with this person whom you seem to like, cheating is not a good thing so stop one of the relationships either way i would say your online bf get rid of him your better off without him.. good luck ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   27 August 2008: np take care aphex... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   26 August 2008: whether someone has a mic or a camera you shouldnt give them all your trust even when you meet them because their are some nice people out their you just have to be really careful..when i said horse riding i ment can your parents take you to a ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   25 August 2008: try online games or do you have any friends or horse riding try something your interested and new good luck aphex... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   23 August 2008: np hun just relax and take care hugs aphexy xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   23 August 2008: just because their is a girl on my space doesnt mean something is going on it could be a good female friend which he has no feelings for only asking would give you the answers but snooping on him wont go well i dont think.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

How do I make our first night together perfect?

Q.   I will be spending a first night sleep over with my boyfriend, the thing is i'm looking for some romantic idea's on how to make it a perfect night ever please.and dont get me wrong i'm not a virgin i just want it to be perfectcause i love him so ...

A.   21 August 2008: we always want that first time perfect and not just on a whim.. why not try something like candles or rose petals how about a nice meal together..or a massage or how about a picnic under the stars with some wine or champagne. or some body ... (read in full...)

I have these problems after being sexually assaulted by a family member. Please help.

Q.   i was sexually assaulted by my a family member earlier this year and it can really screw me up at times. its not as bad as whatsome people go thru but that doesnt mean it doesnt affect me. i had to explain to my friend today, which im totally fine ...

A.   21 August 2008: you need to see your local gp about this, this problem is affecting you and you need to sort it out in able to get over it..this isnt something that will just go away if you do not sort it out, your gp will be able to help you with these problems ... (read in full...)

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

Q.   Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or...

A.   21 August 2008: you had courage to post that so their is no stopping you from going out their and flirting with any girl or asking a girl for her number or a drink.. you can do this you just have to choose to go out their and do it. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Could you give me help with my harsh problems?

Q.   ok here goes, i have been with my girlfriend over 8 months now, at the start of the relationship i slept with someone else and also kissed another girl, ii told her about this and we broke up then decided we still wanted to try, then she kissed ...

A.   21 August 2008: LOL it doesnt matter your still underage arnt you..what you need to do is sit your girlfriend down and talk to her about it.. communication is what is missing yo need to talk about this..your cheating is not a good thing and neither is what she is ... (read in full...)

A friend of ours asked about our marriage problems, should I be concerned about his motives?

Q.   I am married, but recently have realized that I am not happy with our marriage. I have talked to my husband about it and we are trying to work it out. My question is actually re: a friend. He must have noticed that things were different b/t my...

A.   21 August 2008: maybe he thought your partner wouldnt divulge in him men are very quiet about things so he thought he would ask you.. but you nnever no just be careful good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

A friend of ours asked about our marriage problems, should I be concerned about his motives?

Q.   I am married, but recently have realized that I am not happy with our marriage. I have talked to my husband about it and we are trying to work it out. My question is actually re: a friend. He must have noticed that things were different b/t my...

A.   20 August 2008: i agree with cupid guy it could fall a few ways but by WHAT you have said seems he was concerned for you and his buddy and just wants to be a shoulder but just be careful about what you say and do if you dont want to give off the wrong impression.. ... (read in full...)

How long will it take until he trusts me again and is there anything I can do to help the situation?

Q.   I cheated on my bf and then told him about it a week later. We're still together and trying to work things through and for the most part we're better than ever. However he has to be with me everywhere I go, and if he's not there I have to ring him ...

A.   20 August 2008: he may or may not trust you ever againg but as you said you know you have brought this on yourself! you have to comfort him and tell him it wont happen again and you have learnt your mistake and that you will do whatever it takes to please him, but ... (read in full...)

I am getting very paranoid about my height, I used to shrug off comments, now they are getting to me!

Q.   I'm being very paranoid about my height i'm 5ft soo very small and alot of people i know call me "umpalumpa" or they make jokes using lord of the rings calling me a "hobbit" i never used to take offence to this but now i am and i feel that whenever ...

A.   20 August 2008: dont worry my mum and one of my friends are under the 5'ft barrier.. and my mum has been happily married for 30 odd years and my friend has just been married and has a baby..great things come in small packages!!!i know its hard to let cruel names ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to have sex? My bf really wants to and I do too.

Q.   Okayy so we both really wanna have sex but we dont know if we should cause were both scared it'll hurt me and we dont kno if were to young. Please help... What should we do?:( ...

A.   20 August 2008: yes i would say your too young both your bodies have not fully developed yet.. but instead of having sex maybe dry hump or try pleasuring each other ie fellatio or cullinligus or masturbate together explore each others bodies without penetration if ... (read in full...)

Is it a smart decision to move to another country to get over a heartbreak?

Q.   is it a smart move to leave the country to move on from heartbreak and just start life with another country? and is it okay to still make friends to him afterall the lies he had caused me?please advice me...

A.   20 August 2008: moving country wont change how you will feel just different place.. it seems you need to deal with your problems and not run from them because they will catch up with you..but if you want to move do it but beaware of the consequences..you can still ... (read in full...)

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

Q.   Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or...

A.   20 August 2008: i know how you feel it is frustrating, but the thing is just to be confident in yourself tell yourself all of your amazing qualities, and their are people out their who want to be in a relationship with you.. your not pathetic or a looser just ... (read in full...)

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

Q.   Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or...

A.   20 August 2008: i know how you feel it is frustrating, but the thing is just to be confident in yourself tell yourself all of your amazing qualities, and their are people out their who want to be in a relationship with you.. your not pathetic or a looser just ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend betray me by masturbating? I want to end it!

Q.   Dear Cupid , I just caught my boyfriend masterbating I feel like if he has betrayed me. I ask him if he doesnt like our sex but he answers that he does. So why does he do it. It makes me feel like i dont mean nothing to him. do you think that its...

A.   19 August 2008: youre being a bit shelfish here..im not being mean..but what do you think he did before he met you!!! masturbating is a healthy thing for men and women do..so just calm yourself and get these foolish ideas out of your head.. maybe you should try ... (read in full...)

Can we make this work around our busy schedules? How do I reassure her?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 months and were in love however were both going to be busy and it scares her (we live about 30 mins away and different colleges) also with our new schedules we meybe can spend one day a week? more ...

A.   19 August 2008: hrm im in a long distance relationship and we only get to see each other every 2 1/2 months!! i wish it was once a week ide be so lucky..when things change it takes some getting used to but if you are both abe to put a day aside each then that ... (read in full...)

Is my long distance boyfriend just giving me excuses?

Q.   My boyfriend has gone off to college and he is only an hour and a half away. my mom will not let me drive down there by myself at all. and there would be no point anyways because football is taking up everyday of the week. He has been there for a ...

A.   19 August 2008: you both need to communicate with each other..with him starting college it is all new and interesting and if you say oh your not spending enough time with me he maybe feeling guilty and being angry instead to show that he just wants to explore ... (read in full...)

I need a sex position that works for me (and doesn't involve me being bent over facing the floor!!)

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 4 months now ( been together for 7) and as we got closer i explained that i only orgasm when my clitorios is rubbed etc.. so now my boyfriend has become obssesed with having sex doggy style as this ...

A.   19 August 2008: hi their here is a web site that gives excellent explanation of positions also response from people who have tried them so they can tell you what they think.. hope that helps aphex. http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   19 August 2008: good luck with your choice :) aphex xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   18 August 2008: i know it is hard hun been through things similar but give it time dont try and contact him it will only hurt you more go out with friends try doing hobbies you enjoy or listening to music playing games but nothing to do with him and within time ... (read in full...)

He is pushing me away and I need help! thank you.

Q.   my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and hope to move in together in the next year or so (we did at university and it worked great). He used to be so sensitive, sweet almost too good to be true and we got on so well. Being in a ...

A.   17 August 2008: you need to communicat tell him how you are feeling and dont be shy about it or it will get worse and you will feel better if you talk.. communication isthe key to a good relationship not just love and effort.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Can some one give me a clear description of what the "first time" pain is like?

Q.   hi i'm 19, and frickin scared of my first time. Could someone please try to explain the pain, relate it to something? and this is for the people that it really did hurt for?...

A.   17 August 2008: for some it can hurt a little or alot.. although it feels like a big nip then it only hurts a little after that and possible bleeding..but go slow and use some lubricant ie durex that should help but its not horrendously painful bit like a injection ... (read in full...)

I can't give myself an orgasm...Help?

Q.   I am 16 years old, and I have tried masturbating before, but i have never orgasmed from it I had sex not to long ago, and I still didn't orgasm. Could u help me like tell me how to masturbate?...

A.   17 August 2008: here is a website that helps to try and navigate you about stimulating yourself.. good luck aphex xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml... (read in full...)

My nearly-ex husband is taking money I put into the joint account to pay the bills. What can I do?

Q.   Me and my husband are in the middle of seperating .He is still in the house at the moment ,but i have seperated my wage and his wage into our own accounts on the understanding that we both put money in to our joint accout to pay the bills.But he is ...

A.   17 August 2008: i agree with yos. hes going to run you dry..stop putting money into this account..and pay your half of the bills direct and not through the account..and if he does not pay his then demand him to leave or start finding accomodation yourself.. good ... (read in full...)

Should I get out of my marriage now or does it stand a chance?

Q.   my husband and i have been married 16 years. He has 3 children 2 boys and 1 girl. I have 1 child a girl. His daughter has been the worst experience of my life. everyday is a constant battle, the kids are all grown now but she continues to cause ...

A.   17 August 2008: you just need to have some authority here obvious this is going down hill more and more as she does things to upset people for the attention and the drama..i bet deep down she just wants someone to be their and to lover her.. in the end you need to ... (read in full...)

The pain! How can I get over what she did?

Q.   Dear Sir/Madam, I bring to your attention with regards to my problem of my girlfriend. We have a long distance love affair and met her only in YM. We are now one year relationship and continue our communication through ch...

A.   17 August 2008: well in honesty i always think time with a relationship before marriage live together enjoy life and after a while if you feel the same get married, sometime on a computer we get along better but does not always mean in person we will.. now onto the ... (read in full...)

Is this doctor "slumming"?

Q.   Help not sure if he is slumming!!. I met a man that I like very much.One problem , he is a doctor who is very busy with work. I am a single mom of 3 .He lives in a gorgeous huge house!!..I live in a 2 family .We have a great time when we are toge...

A.   17 August 2008: doesnt matter where you are from what you do or your age its how you feel.. yes i know its not always straight forward but the logistics says it does not matter..take it slowly and have fun and see were it leads.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Does a blow job involve blowing? I'm confused....

Q.   This may sound stupid but what's a blowjob and how do i do it? I have sucked my man and had him cum in my mouth,is a blow job different? Does it involve blowing? Im so confused! X...

A.   17 August 2008: lol dont worry lots of people get confused but here is a website that will give you alot of help of understanding fellatio ie blowjob good luck aphex xx http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml... (read in full...)

Is it safe to use baby oil as lube?

Q.   Hi, this is quite embarrasing but i need to know the answer so any info would be great. Me and my boyfriend love to massage each other as a build up to sex, we use baby oil and as you can imagine the oil kind of gets used as lube, but i dont kno...

A.   16 August 2008: why not try durex lubricant works well with condoms and has a few good kick to it as well their is a vary range on is cherry flavour so you can lick whilst you massage.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

My ass crack gets raw and bleeds since I started my period...what's wrong?!

Q.   okay look this is very embarrising but i really dont care at this point but uhm sence i started my period my ass crack has gotten really raw and bumpy and it hurts ive never really noticed it like this b4 cuz it was just around where the blood came ...

A.   16 August 2008: hun i would go see your gp their could be something going on more than meets the eye dont worry im sure they have had worse things to deal with so relax and just explain like you did with us good luck .. aphex xx... (read in full...)

What's happening with my online boyfriend?

Q.   What should i do about my online boyf? He hasnt said "I love you" for a week! This didnt stop since he asked me to moan for him, i didnt do it.... Everytime i would try to talk to him, he wont say anything back to me, i've said 'i love you', 'hi', ...

A.   16 August 2008: sounds like he has blocked you.. and also is avoiding you because you didnt give him what he wanted and now does not care.. best thing is to ignore him and get on with your life you are better off without this jerk and are worth more than he ... (read in full...)

I really would like to go a little further now, but I don't want to push her and possibly lose her!

Q.   Hey People! Okay well here's the thing. I've been dating my girlfriend now for almost 2 months, we've been good friends now for about a year or more. We kiss every chance we get and she allows me to grab her butt when we're making out but the thing ...

A.   16 August 2008: i agree you both seem very mature which is rare on its own so well done.. now for your question is just say to her how do you feel about foreplay? and is it something she would like to do intimatly with you, if not no preassure just a question.. ... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant?

Q.   I am two weeks late. i should have gotten my period on the first of Aug. and now its the 16. i have been having dull cramping and i keep thinking that my period is coming but it hasnt. i dont have any other symptoms of pregnancy though.....

A.   16 August 2008: have you been having unprotected sex since you stopped the pill? and after stopping the pill it can affect your periods till it sorts itself..if in doubt go to your gp and get a free test.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Should I get out of my marriage now or does it stand a chance?

Q.   my husband and i have been married 16 years. He has 3 children 2 boys and 1 girl. I have 1 child a girl. His daughter has been the worst experience of my life. everyday is a constant battle, the kids are all grown now but she continues to cause ...

A.   16 August 2008: i strongly agree with diovan need more info on how she has so much power ? surely if your husband knows then tell him their are ground rules you cannot take this much longer and things need to change he wants to see his daughter fine but on your ... (read in full...)

My GF hits me constantly, she told me I'm the only one that makes her mad and her ex's were better!...

Q.   Ok.. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months,i love her to death she knows it,BUT She thinks all i want is sex and she tells all her friends... she always hits me approximately she has hit me 7-9 times in the face (closed fist) a...

A.   16 August 2008: i agree with trisha an idea on your country would help for more info.. but she has a problem and its not something you can fix unless she wants to and the fact she brags about it is not good.. you need to take yourself out of this relationship for ... (read in full...)

What's the best wax to use for 'down there'.

Q.   What's the best wax to use for your vaginal area and armpits? like store-bought. I have a bad reaction to shaving....

A.   15 August 2008: ok maybe go to the store some will say for certain areas so be careful but try something with alo vera that should help.. also when shaving did you use soap ? did you soak the area prior to shaving ? sensitive area so need to be careful good luck ... (read in full...)

Is sex with a comdon safe if I'm not on the pill as well?

Q.   My boyfriend and i slept together last night, we used a condom but i am not on the pill, can i feel ok about not being pregnant?...

A.   15 August 2008: well with anything their is always a possibilitie.. condoms are less safe then the pill or implannon.. if i were you i would see about getting one of the two and if your worried take a test .. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...

Q.   A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...

A.   15 August 2008: because some people dont have morals or a thing called guilt good luck ... (read in full...)

Why did my boyfriend and my friend betray me? I caught them together!

Q.   Me and my friend get in a fight. We said something shouldn't have. Later that day I went a party with my boyfriend. My boyfriend said needed to make a "phone call" . In 30 minutes my boyfriend disappeared. I got worried and looking for him. I ...

A.   14 August 2008: you will have to be strict with him and tell him he has had his chance so leave you alone and if he doesnt then tell your mum good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?

Q.   hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...

A.   13 August 2008: i said with some people it can make it worse i have knowen two people with acne and they cut their milk and chocolate intake and their acne cleared up aphex x... (read in full...)

I left my girlfriend. When I kissed a girl 2 days later I felt really bad about doing it.

Q.   i recentley left my girlfriend and two days later i kissed another girl passionatley, i feel bad about this, but im wondering should i be feeling as bad as i am about this ?...

A.   13 August 2008: your feeling bad because sometimes we jump the wagon impulsively, before thinking and then think bad of it.. you and your gf is no longer theirfore you did nothing wrong..but i always think its best to give yourself time before jumping the wagon ... (read in full...)

I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love

Q.   Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see ...

A.   13 August 2008: i know its strange when we have them in a row. but you need to stop thinking of her and what the dream may mean it wont happen over night..but if you feel you have something on your mind about her then talk to a close friend to get her out of your ... (read in full...)

I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love

Q.   Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see ...

A.   13 August 2008: i had that not so long ago im with my new partner and things are great. all of a sudden i had a dream about my ex which is now a year ago..and it confused me to hell why i dreamt of me hugging him. but the thing is not to think about it concetrate ... (read in full...)

We met online and she said she would meet me if I vote for her (she's a model)...

Q.   A couple of months ago I started chatting to a lovely girl (well, she seemed lovely!) on a general chat site, and she gave me her email address. We started chatting on Yahoo! Chat, for a while, and then she said she wanted to meet. I agreed, ...

A.   12 August 2008: it sounds a bit odd if you ask me if u want it persue it, if not just ask to be friends and see were that leads good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)

Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?

Q.   hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...

A.   12 August 2008: have you tried something like e45.. also watch your chocolate and milk intake that sometimes can make it worse. also do not wash your face with soap that will clogg the pores and make it worse. hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)

Why did my boyfriend and my friend betray me? I caught them together!

Q.   Me and my friend get in a fight. We said something shouldn't have. Later that day I went a party with my boyfriend. My boyfriend said needed to make a "phone call" . In 30 minutes my boyfriend disappeared. I got worried and looking for him. I ...

A.   24 July 2008: something like that happened to me although my best friend slept with my sisters bf whilst i was sleepin in the same room oO...they could of given a hundred different reasons as to why they did it but in the end their just cheaters and horrible ... (read in full...)

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