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My girfriend is travelling away from me and keeps telling me about men hitting on her; what's her purpose with that?

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Question - (4 August 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend is out of my state for 6 weeks and will be traveling heavily for a year or more. Only one week into this new job and she is going to bars most nights and telling me about all of the men hiting on her. What is she trying to accomplish?

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A male reader, gizmo United States +, writes (20 August 2007):

Even though making you jelous might be the reason DO NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS. Me and my girlfriend are in a ldr and I'd rather have her talk to me about guys hitting on her than keep it from me. I would side with Dr Pete or rebeccaT.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

She's letting you know that there are other guys out there and that she wants you to know that she's special and recognize that she's there. She probably misses you and wants you to say that you do. She's finding ways for you to tell her that you love her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

From Question Poster" Aditionally, she tells me that she feels "compromised" by me (my prior actions) kissing another girl in front of her months ago

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007):

I don't think she is obviously trying to make you jealous, she could be doing it for other reasons.

Maybe she feels that if she didn't tell you then she is keeping things from you? Best thing is to ask her why she is telling you as you know her best and her reply will give you a sense of what she is trying to accomplish.

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntShe is obviously trying to make you jealous. Maybe she doesn't feel you give her enough attention anymore and she wants to let you know other men do find her attractive, or maybe she just wants to make you jealous to hurt you. Only you know this girl, you tell us. Is she doing this to hurt you? Or could you be doing a bit more to make her feel like the princess she is to you?

Good luck

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A female reader, RebeccaT  United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

Maybe she wants you to treat her if shes entherzizing that shes maybe good loooking and rememding you thats no matter how many guys hit on her your relationship is strong enough to keep up with it.

Over all i think i may just be a sighn that shes missing you and trying to prove to you that no matter how many guys chat her up shell always love you. However she might meeen it in a horny way!.

Dont worry about it though.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2007):

aphexinfinite agony auntmake you jealous or interested maybe she doesnt feel good enough about herself and she is trying to make you interested xxx

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