Why did my boyfriend and my friend betray me? I caught them together!
Q. Me and my friend get in a fight. We said something shouldn't have. Later that day I went a party with my boyfriend. My boyfriend said needed to make a "phone call" . In 30 minutes my boyfriend disappeared. I got worried and looking for him. I ...
A. 14 August 2008: you will have to be strict with him and tell him he has had his chance so leave you alone and if he doesnt then tell your mum good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...
A. 29 July 2008: no problem glad to of been some help xx aphex... (read in full...)
I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!
Q. My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...
A. 28 July 2008: np just wondered, then maybe he is addicted to porn then or maybe your weight is a serious issue for him.. its his problem not you..but if you want to solve this then maybe see about getting active go to gym see if that helps or straight out ask him ... (read in full...)
What are some ways I can really thrill my boyfriend?
Q. So I told my boyfriend that next time we get togehter I'll make it amazing for him because I made him wait because of my period. What are some things I can do that he'll love?...
A. 28 July 2008: hrm their are lots of things you could do. something romantic. role play. so forth heres a website you could look at for some ideas on foreplay and sex positions http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml .. or get chocolate and lick it off or ... (read in full...)
He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?
Q. I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would ...
A. 28 July 2008: well put it this way i was a smoker and my soon to be bf knew that i was all fine.. then four months in he tells me to stop its bad for my health blah blah blah so i did but i only did it on weekends when i was drinking but oh no that wasnt enough ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for her to call? And can I believe anything she says?
Q. If a girl I've been dating for over a week is having a sexual identity crisis and isn't forthcoming about it, what should I do? She had been postponing/cancelling dates, lying, promising to call but not calling, and stringing me along. The last tim...
A. 28 July 2008: seems this situation is causing you problems that you dont need.. if she is having this crisis then she is in no fit state to be in a relationship till she sorts herself out and their is no time limit on when that will be..shes not being respectful ... (read in full...)
Our relationship feels different after a pregnancy scare.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months. We recently had a pregnancy scare and now our relationship feels different. Now I don't know if we should break-up or see if we can get back to where we were. Any advice?...
A. 28 July 2008: maybe its hit home to him that oh yeah he was almost a father phew close shave..do you use contraception ? that might be a factor..maybe he dont want anymore close shaves and is being distant as to not be in that situation again..what do you mean by ... (read in full...)
He thinks we should only see each other every other night. Is he trying to break up with me?
Q. Ok i know this sounds perfetic but i was ment to see my bf 2nite weve been out 7 months and only spent 3 nites apart,anyway weve been shouting a lot recently and now 2nite he said we need to spend a few nites apart to see if we moan at each other ...
A. 28 July 2008: well you got to ask yourself why are you arguing so much? to much to soon maybe ? your both adults so why are you both moaning alot? maybe your not ready to live in each other pockets. if he is sick of arguements and thinks if your not their for say ... (read in full...)
My friend told a co-worker he had feelings for me, but he never told me he was getting married
Q. Pretty strange question but here goes. I've recently heard some shocking news, and i'm confused as to why it has been treated like a secret, i hope that maybe i could get a general consensus or verdict from someone who doesnt know me, or the ...
A. 28 July 2008: well the fact he wasnt honest about his fiance isnt a good sign the fact hes flirting with you when he is with someone else that dont look good either..ide let it slip into convo one day ask how the fiance is see what his reaction is to this news. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love... please help!!
Q. Hi everyone and anyone in particular anyone who could pleeeease give me some advice. I'm a 30 something male who i believe is desparatly in love,i mean the real deal! Let me explain..about 2 years ago,i met a girl at work and from the moment w...
A. 28 July 2008: Well either your really great mates who love spending time with each other and because you like her you could be taking it out of context.on the other hand she may really like you after spending more time getting to know you their is no real answer ... (read in full...)
I've been bleeding, hungry, tired, and throwing up since having sex. What could be wrong?
Q. So i had sex with my boyfriend about 11 days ago and i have been bleeding ever since. Then today, i threw up twice and my appetite has increased as well. And in addition, i am constantly tired even though ive had plenty of sleep. I told my boyfriend ...
A. 28 July 2008: i would go see your gp hun and tell them whats going on they will be able to give you a beter diagnoses than we ever could.. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...
A. 28 July 2008: it seems you and your partner needs a talk..no communication going on can leave us bewildered to think all sorts but the only way to hit the nail on the head is with a hammer..so in other words go speak to your partner see whats going on in side his ... (read in full...)
Sexy texts on my girl's phone have me heartbroken. What should I do?
Q. i found some sexy texts from a guy in m girlfriends phone, she also replied to it, they even called each other...and i confronted her and she assured me that it was only txts and calls and nothing else and how text dont mean a thing...now i put on a ...
A. 28 July 2008: well it could all well be a joke, but what you doing looking through her phone for? huh? is that because you already ddnt trust her? i did that once with an ex he left his phone in the bathroom and something told me to look at his phone and thats ... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but erection problems and lower sex drive are hurting our marriage.
Q. i'm having a serious crisis ,in my mariage,and I don't know where to go from here. I really need some suggestion, as I never been so stuck in my whole life,, I'm in my mid 40 es, and around 3 years ago I developed an erection problem. slowly my sex ...
A. 27 July 2008: best and quick advice hun one word VIAGRA.. get your gp to prescribe you some get your wife ready and prepared for when you get home heheheheh.. its more than likely stress and maybe you not having much of a libdo doesnt make a good mix..have you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for someone new. How can I let my current boyfriend down gently?
Q. been with my bf for nearli year and i really love him but ive got off with other lads behind his back and the latest lad ive met ive realli fallen for and we wanna be together,im going to tell my boyfriend bout us but hes just taken me on holiday ...
A. 27 July 2008: i would of thought after the first whoops i cheated on you you would of been heart broken and let him spread his wings but the fact you have done it repeatedly makes it much worse your taking him for a ride, so of course he should feel devistated ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about giving oral sex. Are there guys who just don't like it, or haven't I got it quite right?
Q. Confused...for the last 10months ive been contemplating whether to give my boyfriend a blowjob or not...i was so unsure just because i was scared i would do it wrong...or incase he didnt like them cuz the subject never came up...and we are doing ...
A. 27 July 2008: no no hun he maybe felt close to releasing and maybe didnt want to give you a mouthful as alot of guys dont taste so nce battery acid always comes to mind :O lol.. ask him if he liked it when you were doing more than just using your hands im sure he ... (read in full...)
I'll wake up and find out he's secretly looking at porn and masturbating, when earlier he refused to have sex with me, claiming he was tired!!!
Q. My boyfriend would rather jack off than have sex with me. We very rarely have sex! seriously it sucks. I will ask him to have sex and he will say hes too "tired", or ill even get on top of him and try to get things going and it wont work! then ill ...
A. 27 July 2008: he maybe having a hard time getting an erection and is able to do it with porn because he likes it or pretends your in it and hes doing it to you..their is obviously a problem and if you cant talk it out of him then i dont know if you will be able ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my on line date that he should come to my city first?
Q. Theres this guy who I have been chatting with online for a while now. I really do like him alot and he likes me alot too. He found me on a dating website, and contacted me first, despite the fact that I live in another city to him. I replied anyw...
A. 27 July 2008: just say that you would like to meet in your city as it is were you feel comfortable and you dont know his city at all and it scares you a bit new place new person..you do want to meet him just in a comfortable zone and that you know many things you ... (read in full...)
My long distance girl says she's losing feeling, what's going on?
Q. Well I met my girlfriend online, and im only 17 but i already have gone to see her in South Carolina I live in New York and as you can tell I love her alot because only after 3 months of talking and writing to eachother i went down to see her. I ...
A. 27 July 2008: i felt the same to be honest my last partner i spent close to home with and it was amazing seng him maybe 70% of not 100%. i started a long distance relationship and i will be lucky if i see him 40 days of the year, thats not alot and it is ... (read in full...)
He says I forced him to cheat because I'm so negative! Is that true?
Q. Little confused, I've been with my boyfriend for about 3yrs we we're livin together but I got my own place because of personal reasons..I don't trust him, cheated 2x with the same girl, we got to an argument and he blurted out that he met a girl ...
A. 27 July 2008: i agree with smiles. all the while you may be pushing him away but in the end its his choice whether he can keep it in his pants or not, since hes making a point of it hes is trying to turn it on you and not himself..you have to do whats best for ... (read in full...)
He is very weird, some days he caring, but others he just ignores me, I was expecting him to ask me out sometime...
Q. I really need help I am desperate, i have a "thing" going on with one of my male friends for over 1 month and a half. Everything was going perfect, he was very happy, i was very happy, he was amazing. Funny, smart, loving. Until i got frustrat...
A. 26 July 2008: ok i know we all think guys should ask us out but it is the new world were everything is now even.. so why havent you asked him out ? i had to ask my bf if he liked me and he did it was just he was way too shy and ddnt want to get hurt if i said ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to go out with my underage girlfriend?
Q. ok I have a question concerning me and my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 14. was a big surprise for me when i found out she was 14 when she looks and acts around 16. and I was wondering is it extremely wrong for me to date her? I like her a ...
A. 26 July 2008: good on you for having respect wish their was more men out their like that to be honest..well it can depend on the state you live in i guess which you havent mentioned but in theory it should be ok for you to date he aslong as their is no ... (read in full...)
We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?
Q. hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...
A. 26 July 2008: no problem glad it all worked out. i think were all glad we dont have one but worried why when we dont get one ironic lol xx... (read in full...)
Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?
Q. I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing ...
A. 26 July 2008: mark25 has hit the nail with a hammer dont have casual sex i know some people like it but i feel crap for having and ex bf -_- like it was a bump in the road that i ddnt need but then again we all learn from things...ide try some of marks advice put ... (read in full...)
I want people to tell me about the implant...
Q. Ok, last question for tonight. How many woman out there are using an implamon for contraceptive method (or know anything about it?) and what side affects have occured?...
A. 25 July 2008: ok i have got the implannon and this is my second one..for me its like heaven i have aperiod like once every 6 months its bliss...with the implannon it works differently for everyone..they give you a annastetic then they tell you to look away put it ... (read in full...)
I'm only 5'7", will I ever have a growth spurt?
Q. Hi. Ive never had a growth spurt, and im 17 and 5 foot 7. Will i get a growth spurt/grow more? My mom is 5'2, and dad is 6'0. Also my brother is 15, yet he is 5'9, is this normal? I know this might seem silly, but its depressing me. Thanks for all ...
A. 25 July 2008: ok you may have a growth spurt you maybe the size your gonna be.. be be thankful that your not 4'10 or less..5'7 is a gd height so you shouldnt feel sad about it you should feel happy hell im only 5'4 and it bugs me to no end but being depressed ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want kinky sex?
Q. I have been dating this guy for bout 3 years and we have really good sex. Always great sex but the thing is i want be be more kinky like being tied up and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell him cuz we have awsome sex and i dont want him to ...
A. 25 July 2008: your most welcome glad things turned out well for you! good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
She loves another guy now, but she keeps complimenting me. I don't understand her behaviour.
Q. This is the second time I turn to this website for advice. The short story is that I had a girlfriend for 10 years. She cheated on me, I forgave her but she dumped me. The long story is detailed here: http://www.dearc...
A. 25 July 2008: hrm at the mo my sister going through something similar..her bf was going to cheat on her and now she cant trust him..he now wants her back and she wants to go back but she knows it wont work and she crys alot about it too. it sounds likes shes ... (read in full...)
I feel woman aren't attracted to me, what can I do?
Q. Why do females look at me as if I am very ugly? I am a twenty one year old guy who has never had a girlfriend because of how I look. Every time I look at a female with a pleasant face, she would look at me with an 'as if' attitude or give me a dir...
A. 25 July 2008: ok well i myself or even one of my male friends we both thought how you did..were unnatractive no one will want to date me...but the thing is if you keep thinking that you will push people away..you sound like your shy too so am i but the thing is ... (read in full...)
We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?
Q. hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...
A. 25 July 2008: well i once had a period that lasted one day then once i had one that lasted 14 days thats due to me being on the implannon, but periods can vary all the time their mostly predictable but can be uncertain but since your odds where high it was likely ... (read in full...)
I have strange bites all over me after having sex outside with my boyfriend. What is it?
Q. Ok this question aint really got a relevensy to this whole site, but some in a way! Lol well, tuesday night me and my boyfriend were in a field, chillin out and all that, and ended up having sex there lol but yesterday (wednesday) i seemed to have ...
A. 24 July 2008: im glad its all worked out..it could of been something simple that was bitting you but rather be safe than sorry..i hope with the creams it all disapears aphex x
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I think I'm in love... please help!!
Q. Hi everyone and anyone in particular anyone who could pleeeease give me some advice. I'm a 30 something male who i believe is desparatly in love,i mean the real deal! Let me explain..about 2 years ago,i met a girl at work and from the moment w...
A. 24 July 2008: you can ask her out right whats going on but if you want to keep a relationship then be on tip toes.. shes maybe just jealous your attention is diverted else where..either way you have choices to make.. she said she ddnt want anything what makes you ... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend and my friend betray me? I caught them together!
Q. Me and my friend get in a fight. We said something shouldn't have. Later that day I went a party with my boyfriend. My boyfriend said needed to make a "phone call" . In 30 minutes my boyfriend disappeared. I got worried and looking for him. I ...
A. 24 July 2008: something like that happened to me although my best friend slept with my sisters bf whilst i was sleepin in the same room oO...they could of given a hundred different reasons as to why they did it but in the end their just cheaters and horrible ... (read in full...)
I've had sex several times and still no pleasant sensations, why?
Q. what is wrong with me? i've had sex about 7 times and i still haven't felt anything good. my boyfriend is on top and i just lay there. we also tried me on top and him behind me but it hurt for some reason. my cherry is popped so that can't have ...
A. 24 July 2008: i agree with saltwater on this, your body is fully developed and wont be till your atleast 16.. and for some people having sex underage can give them problems in the future..so if i were you i would wait till your 16.. and i hope your using ... (read in full...)
Will I grow any more? Can I do anything about it?
Q. I'm 17 is it too late to grow? I'm 5.9 and really wanna be a bit taller I've started the gym and go every week atleast. DO you think i will get any taller? My dads about 6.2 and my mum is about 5.1 ish :S Is there anything i can do b...
A. 24 July 2008: sorry sweetie if their was do you think your mum would still be 5"1 ? your only 17 i still kept growing till i was 21 most people do although you could be as tall as you could be only time will tell..their is nothing wrong with your current height ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want kinky sex?
Q. I have been dating this guy for bout 3 years and we have really good sex. Always great sex but the thing is i want be be more kinky like being tied up and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell him cuz we have awsome sex and i dont want him to ...
A. 24 July 2008: well what you could do is bring it up as a subject like you was watching a show the other day and it was saying how not all people like being tied up its all about perspective. and go i was wondering what yours was.. if he says yes suprise him in ... (read in full...)
I have strange bites all over me after having sex outside with my boyfriend. What is it?
Q. Ok this question aint really got a relevensy to this whole site, but some in a way! Lol well, tuesday night me and my boyfriend were in a field, chillin out and all that, and ended up having sex there lol but yesterday (wednesday) i seemed to have ...
A. 24 July 2008: well round red itchy field to me i instantly think ring worm -_-. although i doubt thats it..i would go to your doc tomorrow and get checked out just to be on the safe side it could be anything.. hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love... please help!!
Q. Hi everyone and anyone in particular anyone who could pleeeease give me some advice. I'm a 30 something male who i believe is desparatly in love,i mean the real deal! Let me explain..about 2 years ago,i met a girl at work and from the moment w...
A. 24 July 2008: you can ask her again if she likes you more than a friend but i dunno it seems it may or may not jeopardise your friendship.. she told you to take space meaning she wasnt interested and liked you as a friend she may feel now that you are her best ... (read in full...)
We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?
Q. hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...
A. 24 July 2008: ok their probely is like 1% you could be pregnant, so take the test and you might be nicely suprised to see you are not pregnant.. were all scared we think ooo oh no i hope im not pregnant take a test says no then u kick yourself for worrying even ... (read in full...)
She has more experience than me, and I feel as though I missed out. Help!
Q. I have been with my Gf for 1year and 6months. We both gave our virginity to each other. However, when we first began to go out she told me about her past she hadnt dun much. All she did was kiss and have dry sex. But incomparison to me that was ...
A. 23 July 2008: hrm the first part we will miss but the rest of what phil says is right, we all have pasts some are honest others hide it, but she has told you everything in the hope that their is no secrets and that the past is the past and she is now with you for ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got pregnant while on their period?
Q. can i ask if anyone has gotten pregnant whilst on their period? me and my boyfriend had sex and he had cum on his finger and then fingered me it was all in the moment and then the day after we had sex and he came in me. only alil bit though do...
A. 23 July 2008: ok yes people can be pregnant and have their periods.. ok no protection ie condoms or the pill will result in pregnancies or atleast the risk will be higher..whether he come alot or a little it doesnt matter and the pull out method dont work ... (read in full...)
She says she's not gay but she holds me and kisses me. Is she scared to come out?
Q. ok im a lesbian and i've been for three years. so i know like how things go and what not. but i have a bestfriend who like claims she's not gay. but when it comes to me and her being together just chillin'. she holds me and kisses me and what not. ...
A. 23 July 2008: i agree with purple on this..it could be possible she is gay or bi..i had a friend and he was gay it took him almost 2 years to tell me and i was one of his bestfriends! you need to talk with her as this seems to be a problem..she maybe scared into ... (read in full...)
I want to "go down" on my girl. Please advise me. Do we kiss afterwards?!!
Q. hey. help from all. i want to go down on my girl. how do i go about doing that. tell me what to do from the start to the end please. do we kiss afterwards? how do i get her to go down on me? actually dont want her too although it would be nive or so ...
A. 23 July 2008: ok here is a website that can tell you alot about cunnilingus(giving oral to a women) http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml.. and as for kissing after wards she will either want to or not each women is different to what they like and ... (read in full...)
He has made my life misery....but does he like me or not?
Q. Below is the site of my pervious situation http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-shows-all-these-signs-he-likes-me.html My situation continues, so Jack (the man I like) he invited me to a meal, so I went. He invited all his mates and my mates w...
A. 23 July 2008: hrm wonder what he has to tell you..if you like him and you think he likes you then go for it, btw the presents he left you makes a statement that he likes you alot im pretty sure he doesnt do that for all his friends(wish my bf did oO)..if you both ... (read in full...)
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