Where do I go to find a wingman?
Q. Hi, i am 20 and would like to ask you your advice on something if that is ok? I am a bit worried about getting a girlfriend because i have never had one before and pretty worried i won’t get one if i do not take action. I don’t really know how to go ...
A. 27 February 2010: well you can always look for new friends and find new hobbys to do, going out in night clubs you may find girls who are looking for that someone whilst some maybe looking just for something else. although you dont like the idea of internet dating ... (read in full...)
The "pull out" method!
Q. My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned ...
A. 24 February 2010: yes you could be pregnant the pull out method can be succesful but its not just that easy.. you could be pregnant as it is less safe than using contreception.... (read in full...)
I'm not gay, but I like to watch gay porn. Help me!
Q. Okay, so I am between 18 and 21 and i've never had sex (with a male nor female). At age 15 and 16 I started watching regular porn, and masturbated. After a year or two I began getting interested in the guys in the clip. In regular porn the girl has ...
A. 23 February 2010: i think you may have an addiction to porn! you shouldnt rely on something to get you off..secondly if you dont like men and dont want to make love to one then you are not gay you are just watching something daring something different. every person ... (read in full...)
Need opinions on what happened to me..thank you for reading!
Q. I am writing this as my "burn letter", to free me from the pain I am going through and to try to get over this and ask people what did I do wrong so please bear with me and read this, thanks! I went about 4 times with a girl in nov. 2008 (we were...
A. 16 February 2010: forget about her date me lmao.. seriously though i think that her high roller life style has stuck and she is still behaving that way. i think it is her with the issues/ a relationship should be 50/50 but i se more 20/80.. i think your better off ... (read in full...)
I feel like I cant be bothered anymore, has anyone else ever felt like this?
Q. i have just had enough with the struggle that is life. i've had enough of the constant frustrations and disappointments in life. i can't be bothered anymore. has anyone felt like this? how did you deal with it? how did you move on and start ...
A. 16 February 2010: trust me their isnt really a single person who has had this thought some have lead to death the sad reality. no one can make you happy but you know one can make the right descion in life but you life is full of lessons to learn and you wont be the ... (read in full...)
My wife wont let me go down on her and it is a real turn on for me. Any advice?
Q. My wife is wonderful and we have a good sex life, but she won't let me go down on her. Or at least it hasn't happened in many years. She says she just doesn't like it, but its a real turn-on for me. Any advice? ...
A. 16 February 2010: it really is a case some women just dont like it! you can telll her how it turns you on and that youde like to do it but other than that their isnt anything you can do other than live with the fact she doesnt like it! perhaps find something else ... (read in full...)
Did I look crazy for getting angry? Did I look like a wuss for apologizing?
Q. I was exchanging some emails with a female friend of mine who I like. We'd been teasing each other about some things and she made light of something that had happened earlier between she and I and some other friends of mine in which people's ...
A. 15 February 2010: well unless you say what happened its hard to guess whether you were right or wrong too/ but at the end of the day its your desicion on how you felt at the time.. who doesnt like being wrong. too many people email and dont actually talk and that ... (read in full...)
Is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed after it died?
Q. My boyfriend has been depressed for about a month now ever since his dog died, is he a little too attached to his dog for him to be this depressed?...
A. 15 February 2010: some people love animals and when they have a pet of their own it becomes like a child and trust me im one of those people and it hurts like hell when something happens to your animal for us it becomes part of the family/ so yes he will be ... (read in full...)
Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone:) I need help. IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum. Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance...
A. 13 February 2010: chance of you being pregnant is nil but if your really worried wait over two weeks take a pregnancy test. just remember to wash hand as their is precum could get sticky lol. since your so young i would suggest you becareful and dont do sex before ... (read in full...)
We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?
Q. Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I ...
A. 5 February 2010: glad to hear it has gone well hope that this works for you all the best aphex xx... (read in full...)
We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?
Q. Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I ...
A. 31 January 2010: lol/ go for it hunnie if you dont you seem like you might regret it just becareful that is all people are asking you to bear in mind/ take it easy and see how it goes and if it goes great then move it up a level but dont jump from 1 - 10 :) aphex ... (read in full...)
We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?
Q. Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I ...
A. 30 January 2010: just remember to take time after a relationship that this isnt a rebound. rebound relationships are not good and leave you feeling worse later.. so take your time dont rush into anything be friends get to know each other go to the park for walks or ... (read in full...)
Am I A Monster?
Q. I am not a perfect person and i dont believe anyone is. But i do think i should be better than this. Im only just starting to see how much of a nasty selfish person i am. What i want to know is am i as bad as i think i am. Is there no hope for me to ...
A. 2 January 2010: its human nature to make mistakes but how you fix them defines you as a person. you need to stop sleeping around and sort your life out/ you dont seem stable with yourself which you need to be to have a relationship work. also you didnt mention too ... (read in full...)
What EXACTLY is clitoral stimulation?
Q. Hello everyone, Can anyone explain to me how to masturbate as a female? I've asked this before and people always respond by saying something like 'try clitoral stimulation', which doesn't really help me. I know what and where the clitoris is, but ...
A. 24 November 2009: this is smething i found to be useful for those who dont understand and want more information http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml hope this helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
Can you become pregnant just from foreplay?
Q. My boyfriend touched my private parts for 5 minutes without touching his. Are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of this?...
A. 24 November 2009: not atall i would suggest since you have the internet to learn more about sex and foreplay as you do not seem to know enough information about what you are doing. http://www.health24.com/sex/1253.asp hope this helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
My friend has an old friend she likes...she doesn't want to ruin the relationship.
Q. I got this female friend, in her mid 20s. She and this guy are old friends and now she likes him, except she doesn't know how to start a relationship without risking their friendship. She always said she wanted a guy to be stronger/more do...
A. 16 November 2009: take a chance on love or regret it. she can test the water out and meet up with him regular as his opinion on things see how he acts around her such like things but unless she asks anythign shes just gonna be wondering what if. what ifs are nasty. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps going soft!
Q. hey guys, ok so me and my bf had sex a few weeks ago, it felt really good, but he really struggled to get it in me we tried and tried but it just wouldn't and he kept getting soft again because it was taking so long. Then we decided to go and by s...
A. 16 November 2009: well you know the law so wont tell you that. though your both underage that will be putting preassure on it too as well as will we get caught. hope your using the pill or/ both condoms if not hope you know you will get pregnant - child!!! lubricant ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant?
Q. Hi, Can anyone tell me how long after the Contraception Implant has been removed can a woman get pregnant? I've heard the affects can last 2-3 years after removal???...
A. 31 October 2009: you can get pregnant straight away or months to year just depends. the best way is not to worry about it let nature take its course. it will happen eventually. it has been known that those who have regular periods can get pregnant quicker than those ... (read in full...)
I cried in front of her and I don't think she trust me anymore
Q. Hi everyone, so yer i met this girl about a month, 2 months ago, we get on great and really enjoy hanging out with each other. Anyway we was out last night, having a good time but for the last few years i've had a few family problems and i'm...
A. 24 October 2009: im going threw the same thing right now except im in your girls shoes. we are very persceptive and we know when something isnt right. and we worry whats going on and we want to help make them feel better and to support them. but if you shut us out ... (read in full...)
I need some advice on my life and how to improve it?
Q. Hello I need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a ...
A. 18 October 2009: at some point in peoples lives they have done that or something similar so dont feel so bad. perhaps you were just in the wrong circle of friends. true friends can take a life time to find sometimes they fall in your lap. you need to either find a ... (read in full...)
One minute we're fine, the next we hardly talk. What's going on in this friendship?
Q. Hey...erm if you read this your a saint! And if u even attempt to try and think about it and reply to me....well your offically the best! You see, im very confused about one of my friends...hes male, we went to college together but we have now ...
A. 15 October 2009: i dont think you know each other as well as you think. to have any sort of relationship their need to be good comunication. and that seems to be your problem. their has been a few occasions when that has happened to me. and most of the time its ... (read in full...)
Girls Only: Advice on taking birth control!
Q. (GIRLS ONLY) I just started that process where you take birth control pills so that you only have your period 4 times a year. I was wondering if anybody else has or is doing that, because I wanted to know if then when you DO get your period if i...
A. 15 October 2009: here is a page that should answer alot of questions for you. not having a period regularly can cause problems for some people but you have to try different ones to find the one that fits you.. some like the coil or some like the implant others like ... (read in full...)
Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...
A. 8 September 2009: you need to confront him and get rid cause if he aint gonna be the man you need then he should go no excuse can make cheating look good. you will unfortunatly have to t alk about him moving out as their can be legal issues with renting if your the ... (read in full...)
Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...
A. 8 September 2009: very unlikely excuses if you ask me ! if their is no trust then their is no relationship. otherwise your gonna kick yourself about this and its not worth it. if he wants to play around let him! go off and find someone who truly deserves your love ... (read in full...)
We want to make the most of the years we have left, but I'm worried I'm too old for her!
Q. I have a very difficult situation: I am dating a woman 18 years younger than myself she is 43 and I am 61 although I am very fit go to the gym every day and look a lot younger! We are both married although both of our partners are badly brain ...
A. 26 August 2009: age is just a number some can see past it others cant. ive seen bigger age gapes than that. if she loves you and you love her then i think you owe a chance to try to make each other happy. your both consoling each other which many dont get a chance ... (read in full...)
Should I spend the money on the "morning after" pill?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago using a condom, but it broke. I started my period on the 21st and we had sex on the 24th while I was still menstruating. I'm worried about pregnancy. I feel like the chances are very low I would be pregnant ...
A. 26 August 2009: well as far as im aware the morning after pill is only succesful during the first 24 hours though can work up to 48 hrs but gets less succesful! if you dont want to be pregnant then go see your gp or a family planning clinic and get a pregnancy test ... (read in full...)
Are my periods just irregular or could I be pregnant?
Q. Right, i need help. And before anyone judges me, i know i shouldn't have done this, but i'm on her for help not to be patronised. I went to the doctors for the birth control pill and i got told i was to start it on the first day of my next perio...
A. 25 August 2009: everyone says that but the truth is their not judging you their telling you how it is we wont lie to you and say its all ok well say what needs to be said and not to be cruel! ok their is such a thing as precum and that can get you pregnant! best ... (read in full...)
Should I be this anxious going away from my g/f?
Q. Hi looking for a bit of advice as to how to deal with a situation. I am going away shortly for 5 days to a festival with my friends. I made the decision to go which wasn’t easy cause I have trust issues with my Gf. Its not her fault cause a...
A. 20 August 2009: i can understand well about your situation we all some point in our life have those feelings or that type of situation. you both started a relationship from a fire which has caused you both to be a little burnt. your both insecure of what you done ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 19 August 2009: seems he is very mixed up and very unsure of himself. think he wants things to be his way and you were like is toy its hard to guess on something like this the only answers you would get are from him and why hes acting so stupid. sorry it hasnt ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and pregnant! please help me!
Q. Hi. I am Samantha and im in a terrible situation.... I think I'm pregnant. I'm only 13. I have missed my period for about 2 months, and i am really scared. There are 2 possible fathers to this baby... I have not told either of them... What should I ...
A. 19 August 2009: I don't want to be bad any more! --- then stop doing things that are illegal. for a start your gonna have to tell your parents their is no real way around it but to be sure your pregnant go to the doctors or a local family planning clinic and take a ... (read in full...)
Could a UTI be harmful to my baby?
Q. i have had three uti's since july. the first time i got medicine for it, the second time it went away on it's own, now i have it for the third time, i am also 6 weeks pregnant, so i was wondering if this is harmful to the baby? and what i can do to ...
A. 17 August 2009: you should go see your gp he will help you . also for youre age have you told your parents your pregnant i guess not since your asking for help on here. aphex... (read in full...)
Doesn't it sound lik eI'm pregnant?
Q. Me and my partner have being trying to concieve a baby, in the last 2 weeks i have being having dizzy spells, headaches, stomach cramps, fatigue, and nausea. i had diarreah for 3 days (sorry for t.m.i) i had what i think was meant to be my period a ...
A. 16 August 2009: you should perhaps go to the doctor and do a proper test also get all those symptoms checked out atleast then he can also give you good advice on to help concieving i know its not nice but atleast you will get your mind put at rest.. aphex... (read in full...)
Was it too soon to have sex?
Q. I am worried that I have made a big mistake. I met a guy a few weeks ago, and we are both in our 40s. We really hit it off and have had a great time just being together. He acted very interested in me--lots of heavy kissing, etc. Well, Friday ...
A. 16 August 2009: i think you need to talk about this. but seriously if he wasnt interested then why would he invite you over. and as for the sex thing perhaps he was embarresed to talk about it so he didnt mention it. he could be a good guy or a bad one but if you ... (read in full...)
She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?
Q. Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she ...
A. 16 August 2009: some people meet at 15 / 16 and have been together all their life. just these days partner hoping happens all the time because we have so much choice nothing is hardly frowned upon. and good for you waiting for the legal age but that has nothing to ... (read in full...)
Can relationships work if one smokes weed and the other doesn't?
Q. So my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. As far as I know, he only does it with his roommates and doesn't pay his own money for the weed. I've smoked a few times when I was younger, and had bad expierences with it, so I generally say no when they ...
A. 16 August 2009: i have known people who one does and the other doesnt but because its an activity you dont share then he should be doing it when your not their but since you havent told him that you rather not be in that atmosphere your puttin up with it so you ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 16 August 2009: i think its time to treat him like a distant friend than anything else because he is not being honest and his feelings are causing you to get hurt and if he cared for you he wouldnt treat you this way. i say dont concern yourself with him and if he ... (read in full...)
Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!
Q. I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...
A. 14 August 2009: no worrys glad i can help sometimes we forget big or littles things and they can make the world of a difference i just hope you can get things sorted out and live a happy life ! good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!
Q. I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't kn...
A. 13 August 2009: the first thing that runs through my head reading this is maybe your afraid of commitment. that this guy wont commit like you want him to and that something bad in your life has happened were someone hasnt committed a parent maybe or a first love ? ... (read in full...)
Does kissing someone equal a relationship?
Q. I was just reading someone else's question where the girl had kissed him and he thought that meant they should be in a relationship afterwards...is that how many other people think also? Because I've been seeing a guy over the last few months, we've ...
A. 13 August 2009: you have to have that talk because otherwise you could be dating 10 people at once lol.. their needs to be communication to have a relationship thats what its mostly about. take your time getting to know you better before expecting someone else to. ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined our friendship because of our one night stand and my drunken behaviour?
Q. I have known this guy for 25 odd years. I was best friends with his sister and our mums were good friends. A few years ago we got back in touch as he started working at the same place as me! Which was the second place of work that he has followed me ...
A. 12 August 2009: well for a start i would cut back ondrinking if you cannot control yourself as this will only land you in trouble. second of all your laughing all this off but i see this means something to you so you need to get to meet him and talk about this and ... (read in full...)
What do you think of our situation? I'm cheating with a girl who can't leave her relationship
Q. im dating a girl but she has a boyfriend. she told me the first time we met so she never lied to me. we talk everyday and we like each other a lot.. she tells me that she likes me more but shes been with him for 5 years now and she cant just ...
A. 12 August 2009: i feel sorry for her bf who hasnt a clue that shes cheating on him he deserves better than someone who doesnt value people more than herself.. i never believe in cheatin or lying they are two things that is wrong with this world and only seems more ... (read in full...)
He calls me his "younger brother" but I get the feeling he might be gay!
Q. hi im an adult of age 23 , I am a straight and i happen to meet a guy elder than me of around 25 years . he is from the same place where I come from and we got introduced through a common friend of mine. as days passed on we got close to each other ...
A. 12 August 2009: i think he is unsure of himself and his life and he sees you as a brother but perhaps he likes you more than that but doesnt want to make a fool of himself.. let him get on with his life and if he wants to talk then let him start it.. just leave it ... (read in full...)
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