Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, ...
A. 25 October 2008: rofl shetland pony what does it matter it has four legs and a tail an a mane so for the sake of it well call it a horse/ and mod for asking that have you seen it?.. on to the real problem..he doesnt have to be gay to like anal some guys like it ... (read in full...)
Is what I'm doing illegal?
Q. My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?...
A. 25 October 2008: no hun it is not illegal.. good luck aphex ... (read in full...)
Which cousin should I have sex with?
Q. i was dating two guys who are often cousins, they are both very cute, and looks alike, they speaks the same way and has similar characters, the problem is i love both both the very same way and i do not want to let go of any of them. but then ...
A. 22 October 2008: i dont think you should do anything till you get your head sorted out..sex is something special that shouldnt be with just anyone..in our country it is illegal to have a relationship with your cousin, so check your laws before doing anything else ... (read in full...)
(I'm in love with this older professor, but I'm married to someone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, Please don't judge, but I am in love with my professor. I don't know what kind of love it is, if it is how a daughter loves her dad, or how a woman loves a man, but I have been in love with him for over a year now. I am 21, and he is 58...
A. 22 October 2008: you say please dont judge but yet that means you know its wrong yet your still in a dilema, but put that a side.. it seems you dont know what you want as the men say they put the pussy on the pedistal instead youve put your professor on the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence.
Q. My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence. I feel like neither of us are getting what we want out of our sex life. Is this something that will get better or is sexual incompatibility enough to end a ...
A. 20 October 2008: hi their,
talk to your partner how you feel about sex and try to come to an arrangment that suits both of you.. but i would agree with smiles their isnt enough info to give a good piece of advice. but i think the most problems with rela... (read in full...)
I'm very worried that. if it comes out only by holding it, then how do I have sex?
Q. Halo, Hope i'll get my answer here, I'm 22, and i never had any girl friends before aged 21, but my problem is, she's only just held my penis 2 times, first time it was just for 15 to 30 sec and second time, close to 1 min. just she holds it and ...
A. 17 October 2008: when we all get excited we release fluid in your case i would say its pre cum unless your having an orgasm if your penis is still hard after this cum happens then it is more than likely just pre cum so then continue to have foreplay and then ... (read in full...)
My best friend cheats on his girlfriend all the time, but she is a really nice girl
Q. my best mate regular cheats on his girlfriend everytime we go out,he sleeps with these women and get us to lie for him. his partner is a really nice girl and he treats her like shit at home and everywhere else.but the thing is shes really obsessed ...
A. 12 October 2008: you have two choices shut up and dont lie for him. or tell her the truth which one can you live with? what would the outcome be if you choose either..have a long hard think and way the pros and cons..i know what i would do i been in the situation ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?
Q. If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?...
A. 9 October 2008: ide be like hey wtf ? you cant fall asleep you beep beep beep. then roll over and not let him have any for a while teach the boy a lesson heheheh.. good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)
He lies about smoking weed now, I don't want to push him away - how should I handle this?
Q. yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact ...
A. 8 October 2008: ok what he does with his life is his choice you either live with it or dont.. you cannot give him an altimatum my bofriend did and in the end i resented him for it and we split a 1 year after it although ours was smoking and not weed..reason he ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?
Q. I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i ...
A. 8 October 2008: hrm condoms arnt 100% effect although their is no reason why you should be althought stress/worry can delay your period. i would say take a pregnancie test follow their instructions that way you can be sure and not have to worry.. next i would say ... (read in full...)
Am I too small and how can I last longer?
Q. Ok,hey well im 16 and my penis is a quite bit bigger than 7inches am I too small? Also im worried because I only last like 10 minutes is there anything I can do so I can last more? Please help...
A. 1 October 2008: no you are not small you are indeed larger than most average men so be quite happy with what you have..well whilst masturbating why not when you get close to peek stop then restart again try and control yourself not to let the urge get the better of ... (read in full...)
Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?
Q. I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?...
A. 15 September 2008: just to add you seem very worried why it is broken this doesnt mean your not a virgin anymore only intercourse determines that your a virgin by majority standards but their is a good chance your hymen is broken, although using tampons or horse ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend to bits and feel very guilty for having kissed another under the influence of alcohol. What do I do?
Q. hey, i'm only 14 :( i have a boyfriend of one year, i was at a party and got encredibly drunk, im not using tha as an excuse, it was my fault..im k not even supposed to be drinking.. there was a guy there, he told me he was 18, i knew i had a bf and ...
A. 15 September 2008: well you have two options.. come clean tell him that you kissed a guy but you were heavily drunk and now you realise how wrong you did and it ment nothing now you feel sick about it and wish you could turn back time.. or dont tell him and be more ... (read in full...)
I was masturbating and urine was mixed with cum....should I be worried??
Q. When i was masterbating earlier today, i reached orgasm and started cumming. This was normal however i also started urinating at the same time so it was both cum and urine. I thought that this was not meant to happen becasue your urine thing is cut ...
A. 14 September 2008: yeah i would say go see your gp i know its embaressing but if their is a problem they will be able to help you out..dont be afraid about it they prob have seen or heard much worse..it could be an infection or something small so the sooner you get it ... (read in full...)
My fears were put to rest once but now I really worried!
Q. i wrote on here on 1st september called is my perfect boyfriend gay? The thing is you all put my mind at rest as i understood that just because he enjoys sucking a dildo and everything he is just experimenting and having fun. the thing is last night ...
A. 13 September 2008: it could be possible that he is bi he wouldnt be with you if he didnt want to be with you..or maybe it is just that a fantasy..or maybe he is just exploring sexual endevours..talk to him about it ask him be really sensitive and supportive ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my old boyfriend, even though he might want sex?
Q. ok there is this dude "j" i liked alot last year in school bur we never hooked up we were alway sfuck buddys even though i wanted it to be more than that well this school year he asked me out and we were dattinq everythinq was goin well intill...
A. 13 September 2008: are you really 13 ? if so its scary that you have a fuck buddy i hope your taking protection if not be prepared to be a parent and live with being an adult as it seem you have decided you are.. your young so things are different... do you love ... (read in full...)
Carried away in the moment... am I at risk for pregnancy?
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex straight after you finish your period. Me and the other half got carried away in the moment. I wiped the cum away from my vagina but still think he came in me...
A. 13 September 2008: their is a thing called pre cum which is the effective sperm so it doesnt really matter when you pull out..their is a chance if you are not using the pill or condoms also stds too..ide say buy a pregnancy test read the instruction as to when to use ... (read in full...)
Late period, took the morning after pill though and was on my period at the time!
Q. Sorry if this is long guys i just need some reassuring (: ! My boyfriend of seven months, threw me a 16th birthday party, and yes there was alcohol there. ( my parents new about the party and went out, they didnt no about the alcohol being th...
A. 13 September 2008: now your 16 you can go to the gps or the family planning clinic and go on the pill or the implannon their all free by the way and means that if something like this were to happen again you would have something to fall back on..my periods used to be ... (read in full...)
I have below average boobs....what can I do?
Q. i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...
A. 11 September 2008: your 14 years old ? if thats the case you still grow till your 18 sometimes 21 hell mine are still growing wish they ddnt now their a DD48 :O hard to get bras i wish mine were small :(.. glad to have helped aphexy xx... (read in full...)
How can I tell him about how I feel when I know he will either laugh or shout at me?
Q. My boyfriend asked me for a threesome about 2 months ago, he said I could choose the girl etc. I had always wanted a 3sum but had never said, so I agreed. We went on a website to look but he immediately started looking at all the skinny girls and ...
A. 11 September 2008: to me if he loves you like you love him he wouldnt degrade you and humiliate you or make not likeyourself..tell him that you dont want a threesome and if he does this again you will not put up with this behaviour..you are worth more than to take ... (read in full...)
I have below average boobs....what can I do?
Q. i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...
A. 11 September 2008: well what is your bra size? my friend has a A cup and they annoy her to no end she wishes she was bigger but its not boobs that what counts its the person and when your with someone you take them for who they are and not what..its like when your a ... (read in full...)
Twisted Love: he's cheated on me over 20 times!
Q. I have been in a relationship with the same guy for five years. We have had some amazing times and some terrible times. He has cheated on me over 20 times (4 of them having sex with other girls) I cheated on him twice (having sex with two other ...
A. 11 September 2008: i agree with lazy guy you both dont seem ready for a relationship because if you were the cheating wouldnt of went past one and not 20. i think you both need to go on a break and see were life takes you..because you are clearly not working out.. and ... (read in full...)
My LD boyfriend yelled at me and cursed me when I said I would delete the pictures of his ex'es from his camera. We haven't talked since. Is it over?
Q. My boyfriend and I have not talked for two nights so far and we are in a long distance relationship that's been going on for a year and two months. I am so confused and lost I do not know what I did wrong or where I stand with him anymore.I been down...
A. 11 September 2008: i can see why he isnt talking to you..what gives you the right to delete other peoples property? he may want to keep them as a reminder of how happy he was and what lessons hes learned or its all just history either way it has nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
Very, very awkward situation with my teacher! Any advice?
Q. hi! I'm a 13 year old girl in desperate help!! It all started in 7th grade I had 3 teachers, as my home room teaches.. Anyways one of them is like a realy nice lady she helps me get throw anything beacause I tell her everything! And one of the other ...
A. 11 September 2008: i hate to say that your comment to him wasnt something you should be telling him, the reason they wanted to sort it out was prob to see what went on to evaluate him..if teachers as much take interest in children they could get in really big trouble ... (read in full...)
I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?
Q. Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him....
A. 11 September 2008: not to respond to his immature words to be honest he has nothing to do with you now so hes wasting his own breathe. just think your the happier person because you dont need words to hurt others and that your not as pathetic as he is..if you wont to ... (read in full...)
I'm having boyfriend issues.
Q. Yesterday me and my boyfriend was chatting in general like we always do then he started talking about how he used to pull girls without even trying and that one of his mates would be desperate and come over to chat her up to but would reject him and ...
A. 11 September 2008: by the looks of it the communication is gone people go through relationships and in the begining were very forward on communication but as time goes on it dwindles out..you need to talk to him in a calm manner about the problems you are having and ... (read in full...)
We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!
Q. I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her ...
A. 11 September 2008: well ive never been that drunk thank god, you shouldnt get that drunk it can badly affect your health and your actions..their is no telling what happened unless your mind opens up. get her to do a pregnancie test to see if she is pregnant and if so ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my periods less heavy and painful?
Q. hello everyone i have a menstrual problem, im on the rod thing and the pill as well, i had my period for the first time in about a year or so bout 3 weeks ago, ive got them again and alot more heavier and alot more painful, what do you suggest? ...
A. 11 September 2008: erm as far as i am aware you should be on the rod or the pill and not both as they are the same thing/ seems strange a doctor would give you both...it could be the rod it doesnt work well for all peope some it can be heavy periods others none at ... (read in full...)
How do you stand when you offer fellatio?
Q. where do i give a handjob to my boyfriend? sit or lie down or what? ...
A. 10 September 2008: depends on the situation. but you can do it sitting or standing or laying down..to be honest its what is comfortable for both partys involved. here is a website that give more detail in what you can do with fellatio... ... (read in full...)
Why did she bleed?
Q. i tried to hav sex wit my gf but could nt do it as it was our first time and it was hurting her.my penis didnt even go half way inside.we wer nt using a condom.the next day she had heavy bleeding also.wld she become pergnant???what could be the ...
A. 10 September 2008: ok when a woman has intercourse for the first time the hymen breaks which is a skin covering this can cause small or heavy bleeding.. ok she could be pregnant but you wont know for atleast two weeks buy a pregnancie test or go to doctors and get ... (read in full...)
Does this sound like something that's beyond hormonal problems?
Q. I'm on the birth control pill Desogen and have been taking it every month for 18 months now. For the first like 17 months I had virtually zero adverse symptoms, but this past month was a nightmare. I felt nauseous pretty much every single day, had ...
A. 10 September 2008: erm i would say go see your gp straight away that doesnt sound too good. it could be anything i guess, have you thought about pregnancie ? its maybe time you had a change of pill.. good luck aphexy xx... (read in full...)
Could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...
A. 9 September 2008: ok first question are you on the pill using condoms anything ? and if no then it is like 100% you could be pregnant due to you know sperm and eggs they make a baby..go buy a pregnancie test or see your gp make sure if you buy a pregnancie test read ... (read in full...)
Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?
Q. umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...
A. 9 September 2008: ok first unless you dont want to become pregnant i hope your on the pill before having sex..now thats the details out of the way lets deal with the problem..ok since it is your first time buy some lubricant durex is a good brand if you are using ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in ending it?
Q. hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex ...
A. 8 September 2008: if you really do love him then help him over his problems it will be hard i have them my self but my bf helps me alot telling me he loves me and that he is with me because he wants to and not for what he can get.. that is a route you can go down or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend knows I've cheated on him once - do I tell him about the other times?
Q. okay well i love my boyfriend with ALL my heart and would never want to lose him but i cheated on my boyfriend [of 5 years] 4 times (3 from plyin spin the phone) he only nos about 1 time he forgave me but i never gained that trust back. i feel ...
A. 8 September 2008: i hate to tell you but psycookie has it down to a tee..if you love someone you dont cheat, and yes you should feel guilty, and honestly if you keep cheating you should split with him because he deserves better, but if you can keep yourself from ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she cheated on me and I cant look at her the same anymore..advice?
Q. hi i am a 16 year boy old that needs a woman's view on how to deal with my relationship. my girlfriend told me that she cheated on me a month ago, twice. two days after she cried in my arms and told me she was going to have a baby. she even said ...
A. 8 September 2008: my friend was in something similar although no pregnancie, he was going to cheat on her and would of went all the way, they split and now together he was seen having lots of uninnocent messages on bebo and what not about people in his life split ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in ending it?
Q. hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex ...
A. 8 September 2008: trust is an essential part of a relationship and if it is not their it can lead to a unhealthy relationship..you can either talk to him about it and try and repair the fault but at the end of the day if their is no trust then their is no ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex. Could I still be pregnant?
Q. Hello. I'm a 17-year old female with a slightly odd problem (at least, i think it is..) Basically, I haven't menstruated since around July-ish (maybe... i can scarcely remember; but I did have two periods this summer). I'm about 110 lb, and I'm...
A. 8 September 2008: i agree with phil go see your gp get tested for pregnancie, but tell him about your symptoms and how you feel it could be something else that is wrong with you rather than pregnancie but get it all checked out and see what the results are good luck ... (read in full...)
I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?
Q. I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...
A. 7 September 2008: no having children or sex nothing will work unless he wants to be with you. you can ask him if he would like to be with you again but other than that i hate to say its pretty much over between the two of you and your just people who have sex it ... (read in full...)
Have been taking the pill on schedule but since last night I sleep a lot. Wake up wanting to eat and then I just don't feel good. Is it stress... or pregnancy?
Q. ok. Today is saturday. I went over my boyfriend house monday and wednesday of the week. He nutted in me both times but im on the pill. Ive been taking the pill everyday on schedule but ever since last night i havent been feeling like myself. After i ...
A. 7 September 2008: hi their,
i would say take a pregnancie test if you want to put your mind at rest, we all get a bit worried when were on the pill going oh could i be pregnant but your not after the 50th time of taking one just need to relax and keep an eye out ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?
Q. I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...
A. 7 September 2008: best bet is not to do it, if you want to do it then go on the pill safety is best first when it comes to this unless you want to be pregnant..why not try dry humping or foreplay.. hope this helps aphexy xx... (read in full...)
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