Should I feel ashamed about being curious about sex?
Q. ok alot of people i kno that is my age are having sex. Nobody pressures me into it cuz they already kno rite off the back i would curse them out lol. But im starting to ask myself wat does it feel like when you have sex because i'm so curious. ...
A. 28 June 2008: no you shouldnt feel bad that you are curious, but i dont think kids your age should be having sex. your bodies are not matured enough yet neither fully developed. curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back-- that doesnt mean you ... (read in full...)
My friends being bullied in another school and I don't know how to help her tackle her depression!
Q. Hey, Although this doesn't directly involve me, one of my closest friends has got bullying problems. As in, the girls in her class - with her going to a private school - are really uptight and everyone seems to have to gang up on someone. Unfo...
A. 24 June 2008: you just need to be their to support her through this hard time..i found it hard in school to and their was nothing better than seeing my bestfriend cheering me up it really helped alot. knowing that their are some good people out their willing to ... (read in full...)
Did she lose her virginity or not?
Q. okay i have this best friend and she dosen't know if she really lost her virginity or not because she said they were in the bathroom she was sitting on the bathroom counter top and he asked her if she wan't to feel what it would be like when she ...
A. 21 June 2008: i would say not as their wasnt full penetration. but intercourse is something you shouldnt be attempting at your age as you are young and your bodies are not fully developed yet. you should learn more about your own bodies before even contemplating ... (read in full...)
Does any other girl have the same symptom?
Q. Does any girl have the same symptom when you get your period?Every time I wake up in the morning,my vulva is burning on the outside.It's not that uncomfortable, but it does hurt and it usually only last for about 10 minutes.The pain's not sever...
A. 18 June 2008: hrm i agree go see your gp about this it may be something simple that can be dealt with than having to deal with it all the time. aphex :)... (read in full...)
Used a condom, period still late, almost no signs of pregnancy. Am I pregnant?!
Q. Hello.. first off, some background: I usually get my period a few days after my mom gets hers. So I'm about 4-8 days late, now. I had sex maybe a little less than a week ago (We used a condom-Lifestyles) I haven't taken the pregnancy test...
A. 16 June 2008: ok stress can add to your periods being late. so try and relax dont worry yet. wait for the two weeks then do the test. but it could be just that your over worrying and its causing your period to be late..other than that yu could be pregnant. so ... (read in full...)
My periods started about a month ago. Should I tell my mother?
Q. about a month ago or something like that i started my peroids and i was a little confused as the colours changed and i wasnt sure wether it was my period or not, but i later found out that it was - i never told my mum because i just couldnt bring ...
A. 15 June 2008: dont worry about being embarressed we all go through but if you tell your mum she will be able to help you through it..im so glad i told my mum she was great. so dont worry ask to speak to your mum in private and tell her that your feeling ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a normal length?
Q. I am a 15 year old male and my penis is 2 inches when i'm not "excited" and 3 inches when i am "excited". Is this normal?...
A. 14 June 2008: your still young so it may still grow. although studys have proven that the average is 6.6" . so give it time some men grow into their early 20s though could be 18..give it some time.. hope that helps aphex... (read in full...)
My husband intentionally got another woman pregnant... please help!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have two children and have been together for 11 years. When we met he told me about a woman that he really loved and how breaking up with her hurt him. They broke up because she would not leave the ...
A. 14 June 2008: maybe he wants the best of both worlds and not just one. if you want to repair your marriage then you both need to communicate and sort this out..your home life can affect the kids and this is something they and you dont need to be dealing with. i ... (read in full...)
My husband intentionally got another woman pregnant... please help!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have two children and have been together for 11 years. When we met he told me about a woman that he really loved and how breaking up with her hurt him. They broke up because she would not leave the ...
A. 14 June 2008: im so sorry that you are in this position and its his fault! you need to do what is right for you and the kids. you cant make him stay or even love you, he can and will be able to get a divorce if he so chooses to get lawyers involved.. but your ... (read in full...)
I dated this guy's half brother about 3 years ago, is it okay if we start dating?
Q. okay i need some advice..... a few years ago i was in a relationship with a guy i thought i was going to spend the rest of my life with.i ended up growing real close to his half brother. we became best friends. i have been broken up with the guy for ...
A. 14 June 2008: well theirs no law against it. but i agree with peter you would have to speak to your ex about this see how he feels as it might have an effect on your ex. if he doesnt know and finds out! so no their is nothing wrong with having a relationship with ... (read in full...)
When will my penis grow bigger? My voice is changing but still no armpit hair!
Q. I 12 going on 13 in September and my Penis is 3 1/2 inches when erect and 2 inches when soft. When will my Penis grow bigger? Are there any other ways tomake it bigger? My voiceis already changing but still no arpit hair....
A. 14 June 2008: ok their was a post on here earlier about the same thing..you keep growing till your 16 or even till your 21 so be patient give it time you proberly have the better part of puberty to go through so dont worry just yet hope this helps aphex x... (read in full...)
She might be pregnant what shall I do?
Q. There is a rumor going around school about my gf dumping me no one knows why but we think shes pregnant (we being me and my gf) I really love her and was gonna propose I already got the ring it was $1,487 which was all I could afford. I was ...
A. 14 June 2008: thats great i hope it all goes well for the both of you . aphex x... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my vagina odour!
Q. am 14 and have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex but i keep saying no because my vagina smells and am embarassed...
A. 13 June 2008: ok not going to moan and what not but your young to be having sex! and if even though your not 16 and going against the law least be an adult and use protection that all i ask.. second ok well to your problem try cranberry juice it helps the system ... (read in full...)
When will my penis grow?
Q. I'm 12 turning 13 in September and My Penis when erect is 2 1/2 inches. Thats way to small for me.Butwhen its soft its 1 1/2 inches and thats very small. My question is when will it grow? ...
A. 13 June 2008: some stop growing at 16/17 nothing saying it might still grow till your 20 but most average people stop growing then. hope that helps and uncle phil lol. good luck... (read in full...)
She might be pregnant what shall I do?
Q. There is a rumor going around school about my gf dumping me no one knows why but we think shes pregnant (we being me and my gf) I really love her and was gonna propose I already got the ring it was $1,487 which was all I could afford. I was ...
A. 13 June 2008: you need to talk to your gf and not listen to rumours at all..talk to her about how she feels and try and get everything out in the open as she is the only one with the answers to your questions.. hope that helps aphex gd luck x... (read in full...)
I was unfaithful - should I tell?
Q. been dating my boyfriend for a long while now. i love him very much and a loves me too.a believe hes been faithful these past years and he means the world to me. problem is i havent been so faithful. he thinks im a saint but ive had a few flings and ...
A. 11 June 2008: you have a point q1605 but then again would you really be happy knowing that perhaps your partner may not be trustful and living a lie ? if it were me i would want to know because i wouldnt want to be with a person who has cheated and lies. just so ... (read in full...)
Symptoms of pregnancy? Can anyone advise me?
Q. I need Advice!! After my period last month, i got bleeding again which lasted 2days and then went away. It was light and not painful. I was 12 days late for my next period. I normally get my period on the 29th of every month, i currently have my ...
A. 11 June 2008: i would advise going to your gp and getting a test done their as it is more effective and if it comes back negative they maybe able to shine more light on the situation. if you are worried about getting pregnant then maybe the pill or a implannon ... (read in full...)
Risks while being on the contraceptive pills?
Q. my question is, is there any type of risks you can have while being on a pill that is supposed to keep you from getting pregnant? please let me know of all the risks you know of....
A. 11 June 2008: not really.. The Pill is not for everyone. Although most side effects of oral contraceptives are not serious, and occur infrequently, there are some side effects which can be life threatening. The most serious risks associated with pill use include ... (read in full...)
So much guy drama... I need help!
Q. hey, im a girl who needs some answers asap!! (okay 3 guys named zach, sean, and justin all ex's) k justin who was my last bf broke up cuz he cheated on me but i still love him so im gettin over that but my other ex zach wants 2 go back out and says...
A. 11 June 2008: i agree with tremor, you have to let him down gently because you dont want to be with him and at the moment he still has hope so do it in a nice way and if he takes it wrong then its not your fault he need to be a man..and for the other guy i ... (read in full...)
Met this guy at a hotel, and now I'm in love with him
Q. Hey! Okay, i met this guy at a hotel last week and i really like him! his friends told me he liked me and then he told he he was gay. when i asked him to dance the first day he wouldn't. the next day he wouldn't stop staring at me, and he was always ...
A. 10 June 2008: by the sounds of it he likes you but you both need to clear the air so just tell him you like him what do you have to loose ? and dont believe all you hear just be careful and take it easy dont make any rash decisions and you will be fine :) thats ... (read in full...)
Why do I get scared when I have the chance to have sex?
Q. Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?...
A. 10 June 2008: because your body is not fully developed yet and you are not ready that why their is an age limit *16* when you are more mature and more likely to be able to handle it.. not only that if you do go for it be safe and not sorry get the pill or use ... (read in full...)
I've been getting really weird prank calls....
Q. Ever since the beginning of 8th grade, ive been getting these weird prank calls on my cell phone. A few weeks ago, i recieved these messages from ppl who knew my name but i didnt know who they were cuz they blocked the number. They started talkin ...
A. 10 June 2008: i agree with her on this, their unhappy with themselves so they are picking on you..stand tall and try not let her words hurt you i was in a similar situation and i stood up to one of my bullys and that was the end of it..so try some of the things ... (read in full...)
I have a major crush on my teacher and he shows me extra attention, what do I do?
Q. I'm currently doing my A levels at my school, and are being taught by a teacher whom i've had for 3-4 years now. I have THE biggest crush on him, but to be honest, i'm not going to make a move or anything because i think everyone knows what will hap...
A. 10 June 2008: i would cover yourself up more as not to give him any ideas. and try and do your course work and give him no reason to keep you after school..and do you have long left ? aphex :)... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant?
Q. does anyone know about pregnancy? i been feeling light headed and nauseas, boobs are getting big and they hurt. and i been having cramps for a few days now like im going to get my period but i dont. by the way i dont get my period monthly so i dont ...
A. 10 June 2008: whether he comes in you or not their is still a gd likely hood of pregnancy so as i said get a test and dont have sex untill you use protection of some sort, unless you want to get pregnant. aphex :) good luck... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant?
Q. does anyone know about pregnancy? i been feeling light headed and nauseas, boobs are getting big and they hurt. and i been having cramps for a few days now like im going to get my period but i dont. by the way i dont get my period monthly so i dont ...
A. 10 June 2008: ok you need to use protection ie condom or the pill unless you want to get pregnant. if you are still concerend then see another gp and make sure that you get all your questions answered dont let them push you out the door..aphex... (read in full...)
Any tips on disguising or ignoring the taste of cum?
Q. hi i just need some general advice.. well me and my bf have just started doing sexual stuff and when i gave him a bj i found out i really do not like the taste of cum! can anyone give me any tips on what to do to disguise the taste or not be ...
A. 9 June 2008: ok the taste of *cum* is mostly down to his diet.
Here then are 10 simple do’s and dont’s to improve the taste of your sperm and make your semen taste better and sweeter:
1. Cut out alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine their a... (read in full...)
I'm scared of some of my family members!! Why am I acting like this?
Q. I am afraid of some of my family members. I don't know why. When I hear the doorbell ring or know that some of my family members is coming to my house I go straight to my room. I can't even greet them, because i'm scared. Next Tuesday my parents ...
A. 9 June 2008: i agree with smiles, theirs obviously a reason for this. so try and think back to what may have happened to cause this effect ! because in theory you should be fine with them.. aphex :)... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?
Q. Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?...
A. 9 June 2008: right put it this way you put a floppy hard piece of wood under a womans weight what would happen ? so if you are going to do it take it easy and not bump and grind to hard encase anything severe happens trust me it happened to a friend he was black ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?
Q. Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?...
A. 8 June 2008: yeah but you would have to be careful you dont erm hurt it as its more possible with being semi you could crush it..if you are having problems then see your gp, or try a cock ring. with posts its better to give more details to get a better ... (read in full...)
She is not sexually attracted but loves me?
Q. i have been dating a girl for two years now and just the other day we were having a fight and she told me she wasn't sexually attracted to me at all. What should I do? She says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me....
A. 8 June 2008: maybe she was just trying to score a low blow or maybe she ment it you would have to discuss this with her as she is the one with answers to your question. as for if she isnt sexually attracted to you do you think you could live with that whether or ... (read in full...)
Crush on Teacher and now I'm moving to new school!
Q. I have this problem. I like my social studies teacher, but now it is summer vacation and I am moving on to high school , and I'll probably never see him again! In class I would always get nervous when Ia was around him, my hands would get sweaty...
A. 8 June 2008: their is no way anything would happen between you. your 14 hes in his twentys may i add it would be a crime if anything did happen and he would go to jail! you need to move on and let him go out of your mind because its only going to cause you ... (read in full...)
What are the first sypmptoms of pregnancy?
Q. What is the first sign if you're pregnant? What are the symptoms?...
A. 8 June 2008: Pregnancy symptoms differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms is a delayed or missed menstrual cycle. Understanding the signs and symptoms of pregnancy is important because each ... (read in full...)
Hot for teacher!
Q. i know this question is gonna sound PSYHCOTIC(however you spell it....lol)but here goes..i have feelings for my teacher and he recently "found" out....my question is should i confront him about it one day afterschool (since this will be my last week ...
A. 8 June 2008: i agree with them both sorry. if you take this matter further you could ruin his career and if you cared for him then you wouldnt want that to happen..and majority of the time what your feeling is just towards a authority figure instead of a ... (read in full...)
Late period after stopping contraceptive pills?
Q. I have been on birth control for approximately 10 years. I did not take any pills last month..right now from the date that I started my last period, it has been 32 days. My question is, by not taking my pills, would that make my period this late? ...
A. 8 June 2008: with taking the pill it can alter your body as can stopping them so your body may just need time to readjust..so if you are worried then see your gp they will be able to give you more advice on the matter.. hope that helps aphexy... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin after fingering?
Q. I have one question. If your boyfriend fingers you through your jeans, does that still make you a virgin?...
A. 8 June 2008: your still a virgin till you have intercourse were the hymen is broken..so please dont rush your still young and have your whole life ahead of you.. hope this helps aphex :)... (read in full...)
I have some spots 'down below', what could this be?
Q. I don't really know how to put this nicely but ive got spots 'down below' and i donn't have a clue what it could be - maybe something to do with the heat ???...
A. 7 June 2008: need more info sweetie ie have you had sex? have you shaved? are you itchy? although we cannot diagnose you but maybe have advice on what you should do. go to your doctor if you are worried.. hope that helps aphex :)... (read in full...)
I feel useless, can reach orgasm through masturbating, but not during sex - any ideas?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about 4 months now and i haven't orgasmed. i do masturbate and do orgasum but by clitural stimulation.i have only come close once during sex but my boyfriend stopped before i could. anyone got any idea...
A. 7 June 2008: ok your young but cant say anything other than dont do it but well your choice..please tell me you are using contraception ie condom or pill as if you dont good chance you will get pregnant..you have to tell him what you like and dislike.. if you ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation good to help you last longer?
Q. Is masturbation good to help you last longer? If so what kinda technique while masturbating would help me last longer which my girlfriend?...
A. 7 June 2008: yeah its all about self control wen you feel your close stop. keep doing this and it will hopefully resist you too train yourself from letting go to early. aphex... (read in full...)
Are these signs of pregnancy by any chance?
Q. My last period was on 15 may and lasted for 5 days. I had unprotected sex on 27 May. Yesterday I noticed spotting of blood in my knickers, and slight spotting today as well. My left breast is very sore. I am not due on for another 9 days, but could ...
A. 7 June 2008: to be honest best bet is to go to your gp and get a pregnancy test..are you on the pill? also you can get stds via not using condoms and pregnancy so use condoms and the pill to be safe.. thats my opinion aphexy... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend how to give me an orgasm?
Q. hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex.... i ...
A. 6 June 2008: just tell him what you like and dont like, also trying different position helps. but you need to guide him or he wont know.. aphex... (read in full...)
Spotting, but I'm not due for another 10 days. What's wrong?
Q. Today on the loo, I noticed blood in my knickers or 'spottin' which was a browninsh colour. I am not due on my period for another 10 days. I last had sex 1 week ago and noticed I bled a little afterwards. This was unprotected sex. My last period was ...
A. 6 June 2008: ok unprotected sex no pill = can equal tada baby..go see your gp get a pregnancy test if that comes back clear then i suggest it may be something else so talk to your gp it may be embarressing but needs be must it could or could not be serious but ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend how to give me an orgasm?
Q. hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex.... i ...
A. 5 June 2008: hrm ide suggest buying a proper toy as its more safer and use wipes to make it cleaner so you dont get any nasty infections.. and on the whole bf thing you need to tell him what you like and dont like or their is no point..so im pretty sure you know ... (read in full...)
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