My older sister calls him a pervert.. but is he really too old for me?
Q. i know age is just a number but i have a quick question is 16 which ill be 17 in a week and hes 20 is that big of a differnce? because my older sister keeps calling him a prevert but her husban is 29 and she is 23 so is she just trien to get him to ...
A. 3 August 2007: unless they have good reason which they should say to you then ide ignore it because their isnt an age gap thats big now if you were 16 and he was 30 then theirs an age gap lol ask them why they think hes too old and bring up that point that you ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared i'll get pregnant.
Q. heLLoo im 14 i really wanna have sex i have these funny feelings in my body when i think about it and i wanna have it but im so scared to get pregnant so can someone please tell me a way that i can guarte not to get pregnant please thank you who evr ...
A. 30 July 2007: hey their sweety everyone wants to have sex when their younger but youre only 14 and sex should be something shared with the right person after the age of 16 dont waste youre virginty, if you have urges then masturbate till youre ready when youre ... (read in full...)
Am i pregnant and a virgin still?
Q. We are both graduating students in college. He is my first boyfriend and i never engaged with sex ever since. One night i sleep in my boyfriend pad and something happened, we kiss naked but with out intercourse but he ejaculate near into my vagina, ...
A. 30 July 2007: yes youre a virgin still only intercourse can change that, though their is a possibilitie that youre pregnant get checked out atleast a week after this incidents..hope this helps xxxxx... (read in full...)
What food effects the taste of my cum?
Q. My boyfriend says that when he goes down on me and he tastes my cum he says sometimes it is sweet sometimes it is bitter and sometime it is nothing. What food do I eat to make that happen cause I dont understand it. He likes when it is sweet so does ...
A. 30 July 2007: stay away from acidic foods and drinks..try drinking plenty of water and avoid massive amounts of alcohol and try plrnty fruit and veg that usually helps keep a natural balance if not try keep a note of what you take and if ure bitter then try avoid ... (read in full...)
Should i have a relationship?
Q. ok i started to like this girl about a month or so ago, i know im young and should be concentrating on having fun and other stuff besides a relationship that much. but i really like this girl, and im pretty sure that she likes me back, only thing is ...
A. 29 July 2007: yeah you are young and should be having fun but having a relationship wont change doing that..as long as you dont go too far into a relationship at youre age..having a girlfriend is someone to love talk to go out with and having fun..yes their work ... (read in full...)
12 and been having sex with a married man. What should I do?
Q. hi i am 12 years old ands I live in wisconsin. I've been having sex with this guy (i baby sit for) he does not use condums when we doit he says hes alergic to them. I dont know what to do but i think i am pregnant. for the last 3 months he has not ...
A. 29 July 2007: oh hunnie you have to tell youre parents what that man has been doing is very very wrong i know you dont want him to get into trouble but he did a very bad thing..even if men pull out they can still get you pregnant, the pill or condoms are the ... (read in full...)
My older sister calls him a pervert.. but is he really too old for me?
Q. i know age is just a number but i have a quick question is 16 which ill be 17 in a week and hes 20 is that big of a differnce? because my older sister keeps calling him a prevert but her husban is 29 and she is 23 so is she just trien to get him to ...
A. 29 July 2007: in my opinion she is not much of a sister if she tries to sleep with youre boyfriend..just because youre 16 and he is 20 does not mean hes a pervert..i was 16 and dated a 21 year old. she could be jealous or just tryin to look out for you in a bad ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boobs grow?
Q. It is almost August 2007 and I have had my period since Febuary, i was lucky i just got it in grade 10. But it has been almost 7 months after i got my 1st period and my boobs are still the same size??? when will I grow!!!What can i do to help them ...
A. 27 July 2007: majority of it is if they will grow they will and if they dont they dont.. you have two options wait till youre older if they still havent grown then accept it, and wait till youre older and if they still havent grown then surgery. their is a chance ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!
Q. Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, ha...
A. 27 July 2007: i hate to tell you that youre 14 and youre pregnant whats gone wrong with youth..its illegal to have sex under the age of 16 for more than one reason why wont kids learn..kids cannot face up to large responsibilities whilst some can but doesnt mean ... (read in full...)
Is there any way that I could still get pregnant?
Q. Hello all, I went on the pill three days after my period started and was told that this would make it work straight away. I was also told to use condoms for at least 7 days, just in case. I waited 8 days after going on the pill and me and my bo...
A. 27 July 2007: i thought i would mention to a few people that even if youre period comes you can still be pregnant as a few friends of mine had found out xx... (read in full...)
What is the best and safest way to start dating?
Q. i have a dating dilemma i 26 years old and i have decided to start dating . should i try on line dating or go to a matchmaking service in my city ? which is safer and are they good ?...
A. 27 July 2007: youre best bet is to try and meet people by doing hobbies or classes or even at work or through friends, now adays dating their isnt really a safe place in a sense you have to know a person to feel safe in anything, but online can be slightly less ... (read in full...)
Is there any way that I could still get pregnant?
Q. Hello all, I went on the pill three days after my period started and was told that this would make it work straight away. I was also told to use condoms for at least 7 days, just in case. I waited 8 days after going on the pill and me and my bo...
A. 27 July 2007: depends on which pill youre on.. i was told that ure ment to start the pill on the first day of youre period not the third and yes wait atleast a week if not two and use condoms till then..if youre worried go see youre gp and ask him/her about it ... (read in full...)
Till Death Do We Part - A True Story
Q. Doesn't anybody stay together anymore? In this day and time, it is so easy to get a divorce or even better...just live together to "see if it works out" first. Don't get me wrong, I personally believe there are good reasons to divorce, and I know I ...
A. 1 July 2007: i agree not enough people realise to this day of all the goodness their parents give them, im only 21 but my family was a little old fashioned in the sense of you want it go buy it with your own money so that ment go get a job and thats what we all ... (read in full...)
What do I do to gain back her trust?
Q. ugh i feel horrible when we started going out, i promised my girlfriend that i would quit smoking which i did and did not smoke afterward at all, and i have kept all my other promises... yesterday my friend wanted me to smoke his last ciga...
A. 3 June 2007: i can see how you wanted to help youre friend be happier but ure promise is the bigger one that you should have stuck to, u need to apologise to her an tell her that you should of thought better about what you did that you wanted to help a friend ... (read in full...)
Should I listen to my friend, and take precautions with this guy I like?
Q. Ok... Im twelve... my friend's brother... is 14. Me and him have actually liked each other for years but just recently our secrets came out accidently in a seven minutes in heaven game. And now that we both know we want to take it farther. Ive asked ...
A. 15 April 2007: i think she just doesnt want you getting in over youre head with this guy she wants you to take it easy and slow, since youre 12yrs and things shouldnt get heavy at that age at all. so why not spend sometime getting to know him, maybe take walks ... (read in full...)
I want to try anal sex-what's a good lube to use?
Q. I don't how to put this so I'll be frank. I've wanted to try anal really badly for ages. He isn't very enthusiastic but has agreed to try it. What lube should I used etc? And his penis is quite large (10") could this be a problem?...
A. 15 April 2007: best lubercant would be ky jelly , cult , glide all differrent types of lubes, for him being large you want to take it slower and more precaution as you do not want to tear youre passage, use plenty of luberacant and take it easy.. hope this helps A ... (read in full...)
I have never had any female friends, please help!
Q. Wow.. something is wrong with me.. i think..I'm 17 and I've never had any .."authentic" female friends, other than talking to them during class... Im afraid that I'm getting to the point where I'm desperate to have almost any girl like me, because ...
A. 5 March 2007: hey hun, just be ureself and relax..not everyone finds it easy to socialise some easier than others to be honest..if you know some females say hi how ya doing build up a rapour with the females if you dont wanna be upfront with build it up each day ... (read in full...)
I think she still loves me and am a wreck!!
Q. My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago from a distance relationship (she lived about 1.5 hours away) because of an incident at the theater we where at.....I wasn't....forward enough you could say i was a little standoffish and she got ...
A. 5 March 2007: hey hunnie, i know how you are feeling you care and love her, and i know the emotions youre going through.. to be honest you have 2 options try and fix it or move on..im trying to fix mine but having no avail so far.. all i can say is do what makes ... (read in full...)
I'm looking for more advice to my post I posted earlier (see link below) Any more advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
Q. I posted on here a little while ago and was just after some more advice on my current situation found on here http://www.dearcupid.org/question/broken-up-but-she-still-loves-me.html About my split up with my girlfreind. Thanks...
A. 28 February 2007: i know how you feel, my friend loves her fella but their having some problems too its sad to see when two people love each other and want each other but destiny has placed a wall inbetween the two of you..sometimes things happen for a reason ... (read in full...)
How can I get over him? He won't return my emails or texts, it as if he's died!
Q. Hi, Im having a very hard time getting over a married friend of mine with whom I had an emotional affair. After knowing him for 3 years we started becoming closer and ended up going from an odd email to chatting and texting pretty much every day ...
A. 17 February 2007: oh hunnie, i know how you feel on that one.. it seems youve just got to try and move on..hes had his reasons to stop talking to you, but he should of let you know the score at least..youre not a fool, try being around friends and family it helps me ... (read in full...)
I love someone else and I want to be free of my husband! What can I do?
Q. After my high school graduation I and my whole family left Philippines and migrated here in Canada.I left my boyfriend and planned to get over him. I never dreamed ending up w/ him.He's a total jerk.He was not studying nor working. He smokes, ...
A. 30 January 2007: its not a case of us telling what to do.. were merely suggesting things we would do in the situation or giving u help on the problem..if it were me i wouldnt put up with anything life is to short to live it unhappy..and by the sounds of it youre ... (read in full...)
She dumped me and I want her back so bad. What should I do?
Q. Hi i have a seroius problem i been seeing this girl from october last year and now in fact fri she says she doint want to know me any more but the problem is iam still really in love with her sooooo much still and that now that she left me the pain ...
A. 23 January 2007: if it was me ide try to tell him/her that i was talking to friends and that was it and nothing more..and that i love him so much and that i wish he was still in my life as i miss and love you alot..the only thing you can do is try..but if it fails ... (read in full...)
One of my best friends has such mood swings! I'm sick of it!
Q. Me and my two best friends have been that way for ages. We do everything together, and have the best time. However, recently, one of them, lets call her Tina, has been annoying both me and my other friend, she has a fiery personality, and you can ...
A. 23 January 2007: to be honest if it was me i would tell my friend, but i wouldnt blatently put it across.. ide tell her softly that i dont like hows shes acting at the moment and that its getting to me and that it putting across a negative effect on me towards her ... (read in full...)
Met this girl - scared to ask her out!
Q. right my final question! just briefly: i've met this girl i like once before. since than she's asked for my msn and just now mobile number. i want to get to know her more and go somewhere as friends, dont wanna scare her off but accordin to her i'm ...
A. 23 January 2007: plenty of places you can go, find out the places she likes to go to and things she likes to do, and ask her at some point would you like to do this with me..dont be pushy be calm and relaxed take youre time..other than that special events thats ... (read in full...)
I can't cope through this breakup!
Q. I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ...
A. 23 January 2007: i know its hard you feel like youre hearts breaking and all you wish is for everything to be good again..he doesnt want to hurt you because he still cares and has a heart..nothing no one can say and do to make it better youre right their, but time ... (read in full...)
Perfect bf but slept with someone else and I fancy his mate! Have fun or stick with him?
Q. I am 18 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months now. He is my first love. Everything has been perfect but recently i am getting other feelings. I wasn't a virgin when i met him but i am finding it difficut to ...
A. 23 January 2007: to me to be honest you cant get everything you want, be honest with youreself and him, if you care so deeply for him then youll want whats best for you both..if he is such a great guy then why are you holding onto him, when it seem you dont care for ... (read in full...)
Scared to get noisy, wild and dirty in bed! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have just sleeping together and when we spoke about it he said that i dont make any noise, I want to but i feel so stupid. I know i could be quite wild in bed but im scared to let myself go as i am shy of my body...
A. 21 January 2007: dont be shy of youre body he loves you for who you are, im shy of mine but he wouldnt be with me if he didnt love me completely.. if i were you ide gradually loosen up, take it a step at a time atleast then it will help you become more comfortable.. ... (read in full...)
Scared to get noisy, wild and dirty in bed! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have just sleeping together and when we spoke about it he said that i dont make any noise, I want to but i feel so stupid. I know i could be quite wild in bed but im scared to let myself go as i am shy of my body...
A. 21 January 2007: dont be shy of youre body he loves you for who you are, im shy of mine but he wouldnt be with me if he didnt love me completely.. if i were you ide gradually loosen up, take it a step at a time atleast then it will help you become more comfortable.. ... (read in full...)
We're now known as the "6-sluts-of-scool" even though only one was really slutty!
Q. omg help please i was at my friends sleep over (im 13) and her parents left to go to the store which was 60 mins away. aways we were watch this funnny movie and doing nails and hair. when this really popular girl who happens to be my neighbor says ...
A. 20 January 2007: yes you did good saying no to this just because other girls are having sex does not mean its right its illegal, one youre too young (which you do know that) and 2 if you feel the need to go to another school beccause their is to much preasure then ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to apologise?
Q. I'm wondering what you think is the best way to apologize to your significant other???...
A. 20 January 2007: depends whats its over ie sorry hunnie i forgot it was ure birthday oh no its our aniversary :O :O lol.. ide always say im sorry hunnie take out for a meal or tell them you would like to make it up to them that is their anything you would like to ... (read in full...)
I planned to meet an online guy friend. Then he cancelled b/c I'm married! What happened?
Q. Having trouble getting over someone I never met!HELP? Yes, I am married! I met someone online 6 months ago. We talked about everything under the sun. WE became great friends. We looked forward to chatting w/each other daily. Even though I was marr...
A. 18 January 2007: I think he maybe cares more for you than just friends and hes trying to unattach himself, i thik he wishes more would happen thats why he doesnt want to meet you whilst being married (its only a theory). as time passes things change yes he said he ... (read in full...)
My gf kissed another guy right infront of me! I don't know what to think or do!
Q. I am 17 and my girlfriend is 16, the other nite we went to my m8s party. It was all goin gud until i sat down and saw my girlfriend kiss another guy right in front of me!! even though im not the type to start fights, i went over and started one. ...
A. 18 January 2007: it seems to me that she was making excuses, when people drink it only impares them by indulging in things they wouldnt do when sober, ie doing silly things (impulses), does this mean she may do it again when drunk?..i believe sometimes a second ... (read in full...)
Scared to have sex because it has hurt in the past!
Q. My problem is to do with SEX. I lost my virginity when I was 18 with a long-term boyfriend (who was also a virgin). It was painful, more so than I expected, but I didn't bleed. The second time was also just as painful, and I did bleed. We stayed ...
A. 18 January 2007: youre relationship shouldnt falter because of no sexual preference (tho depending on the guy). my best advice may be to go see youre doctor about it, seems their may be a technical problem that isnt something to worry about that may need dealing ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex even though he has moved on. I need some advice.
Q. I really still love my ex. He has moved on! i want to but i just cant! He treated me like dirt! he took away my virginity and then dumped me a week later! i thought it was true love. I really miss him and would do anything to get him back but i know ...
A. 18 January 2007: try to put it behind you hun i know its hard but as they say time heals all wounds..go out with youre friends be in a more possitive enviroment.. and when youre alone if you need to cry cry, but then stop and tell youre self that he isnt worth the ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know that I'm aware that he's a cross dresser! Do I tell him I know?
Q. I have been married for some time and never really had a great sex life with my husband. I think I did not really fancy him enough from the start and probably should not have married. We went without sex for most of our marriage (due to me)and are ...
A. 18 January 2007: this poor guy might or might not be, ide be honest and tell him about it, though i wouldnt mention that a lot of people know about it it may upset him and make him feel ailienated (because he hasnt said anything about it himself to other people).if ... (read in full...)
We're tired of the same old sex positions! How do we spice things up a bit?
Q. hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for some while now but we have jus been using the same sex positions over and over again and frankly we are getting bored of them, the positions are, doggy, 69, missionary and spoons, please help us to ...
A. 16 January 2007: try doing plenty of foreplay use ice cubes, whipped cream, chocolate exploring each other finding good spots, thats always fun :D. their are quite a few different postions than the ones you have said try the starfish both lie on the same sideyou ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins and he couldn't get it in!
Q. I am 17 and my boyfriend is 19, we're both virgins, and we've been waiting to do it for about 6 months, we tried to the other day, but he told me he couldnt get it in. Is this a major problem? What can i do to fix it?...
A. 14 January 2007: the most thing i bet is that youre being to tense you want to do it but you want to do it right try to empty youre mind..have lots of foreplay try and relax..try to reasure him too.. both explore each others bodies try and do fun things... ... (read in full...)
Since getting back together he seems to have lost enthusasm for the wedding we talked about...
Q. Okay, my fiance' Kevin and I have been together for over 4 years. We did break up in 2005 for six months but got back together in Feb. 2006. Ever since we have gotten back together, things have been wonderful. We have grown so much stronger and have ...
A. 14 January 2007: maybe he still isnt ready for the BIG MOMENT if you know what i mean doesnt mean he doesnt love you or doesnt want commitment maybe he just isnt ready for that just yet..youre age gap may have that small difference maybe he isnt at the same stage as ... (read in full...)
Should I trust her again?
Q. Hi friends..i have been involved in a relationship for 9 months now with a certain girl..the problem with me is she was always saying she loves me a lot..but soon i came to realise that she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend,she confess and ...
A. 14 January 2007: my friend bf cheated on her and she still is hurt by this, they had split up for 2 weeks but he asked her back and because she loved him so much she took him back.. tho she stated i cannot promise to trust you because you broke that, you have to ... (read in full...)
Age Of Innocence
Q. I am of quite a young age, and the thing is i avoid getting fingered. I have been fingered before, and i am willing to give them the favour (hand job/blow job) But for some reason, i avoid getting fingered. All of my friends, are the complete opp...
A. 14 January 2007: not all people like it, and second of all dont bow down to peer presure because others are doing it you dont have to follow suit..i think youll get over it when you want it to be done i think in youre minds eye you dont want it done, but u dont mind ... (read in full...)
18 and single ...help!
Q. i need some help ppl..i feel so so down at the moment.im the only single 1 out of all my friends..Im 18, i know thats not very old.I have so much bad luck with men. They just dont seem 2 take me seriously. I want a bf so badly but nothing ever works ...
A. 14 January 2007: first of all dont settle.. second of all it seems ure insecure with men a little (ie cheating, yes some do it but not all so give some guys the chance)..third take relationships slow going to fast you may crash and burn take time build a friendship, ... (read in full...)
Mom Caught me with sisters hubby!
Q. my mom saw me with my sisters hubby this happened by surprising me 4 brunch. she saw me with a mouthful. she said she wouldn't tell but expects he and i to do the right thing. he wants 2 tell her but we only did it once and only head. so?...
A. 14 January 2007: so ... how could you do that to youre sister. OMG you should tell her be honest with her atleast since u did something with her man, whats to say other woman havent aswell..least since you did it the only good thing you could do is tell her ... (read in full...)
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