He has made my life misery....but does he like me or not?
Q. Below is the site of my pervious situation http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-shows-all-these-signs-he-likes-me.html My situation continues, so Jack (the man I like) he invited me to a meal, so I went. He invited all his mates and my mates w...
A. 23 July 2008: hrm wonder what he has to tell you..if you like him and you think he likes you then go for it, btw the presents he left you makes a statement that he likes you alot im pretty sure he doesnt do that for all his friends(wish my bf did oO)..if you both ... (read in full...)
We're having a baby and there's no problem... except telling my dad will be a problem
Q. Me and my GF are having a baby, I've got all money saved up so everything is fine to that perspective, I've look after my mates baby for a week and have a good idea of what's needed, I need to tell my dad but want to tell him nearer time as I'm not ...
A. 23 July 2008: your dad may not be happy due to your age that you still have the better part of 20years to have children..having a home of your own and being married would proberly help with the reaction of your father.glad you have money saved up..can i ask how ... (read in full...)
It hurts when I pee. Could I have cystitis?
Q. It hurts when I Pee. It only happens in the mornings and I wake up and go to the loo but keeping needing to go and it hurts quite a bit when I do go. I dont pass alot of urine. I had sex quite a lot over the past week (6 times) but with a condom. Do ...
A. 23 July 2008: yep go see your doc and till you get an appointment drink some fresh cranberry juice that helped my sister when she had cysits..hope that helps aphex x... (read in full...)
Wanted to share this joke with everyone, does anyone find it as funny as I do?
Q. A duck walks into a bar and says to the barman, "Got any bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No, we have no bread." Duck says: "Got any bread" Barman says: "No, ...
A. 22 July 2008: OMG you know whats funnier people who dont get this joke sorry but i find that more amusing must be my sick sense of humour :P... (read in full...)
I want to be with this boy, but my religion doesn't allow it. What should I do?
Q. Im 20, the boy i like is also 20. he likes me. i like him. he has hinted he would like to be in a relationship with me by saying things like 'see if you were my gf you'd have something to do' or 'if we were a couple...' he's also tried to...
A. 22 July 2008: ok one what is your relgion? two are you ment to die alone ? and three it sound like your mother is very controlling.. my mum ddnt mind if i dated boys providing i was sensible about it, ie cinema ice skating maybe a kiss or a hug but nothing ... (read in full...)
Do guys want a girl who already knows what she's doing?
Q. Ok maybe someone can help me out... I haven't had sex with very many people at all and have yet 2 have sex with my current bf...I told him that I wasn't very experienced and I don't want 2 disappoint him..he said that it was fine and he was willi...
A. 22 July 2008: well in my honesty were all beginers when it comes to new partners we all like things different. so it will be a new experience for him to to learn what you like and dislike just be honest with each other what you like and dislike and sex and what ... (read in full...)
Why do I bleed during "doggie style"?
Q. Every time me and my boyfriend have "doggie" style ... I bleed quite a bit. No other position does that to me. I love doggie style and I just dont understand why is this happenening . thanks ...
A. 22 July 2008: because more than likely doggie style is a deep penetration position so their for he is reaching deeper so you can prob still do it tell him to be more gentle and not venture too deep..if thats the problem then you should stop bleeding thats my ... (read in full...)
Drunken Texting has got me into trouble. How can I fix it?
Q. I need advice. I found out this guy I thought liked me has been using me by talking to another girl at work and so at a party, she got really drunk and we took a friends phone and she texted him a message in which she called him a 'pig' after fi...
A. 21 July 2008: i have to agree with emily..hes being defensive instead of looking at himself going oh yea i am a pig how to fix it hed rather blame you and say its your fault passing the buck so to say. plus you should be happy that he knows he cant take you for a ... (read in full...)
How can I get my long distance boyfriend excited?
Q. Hey, i was jut wondering how i would give my long distance boyfriend a boner, ive done it once be for but im not sure how and would love to do it again. Anyway he was so cute about it and didnt know how to tell me, at first he was silent couldnt ...
A. 20 July 2008: well when you phone him or txt him and you feel in the mood tell him what your wearing and then explain what you would be doing to yourself or what you would like him to do to you..easiest way have an orgasm whilst he listens that should raise his ... (read in full...)
How do I build confidence in the bedroom?
Q. Hi everyone, just wanted to know do the majority of guys like gettin blowjobs?? Ive been with my boyfriend 10months and we have sex and everthing else but i have never given him a blowjob although he has given me oral, hes never said anythin about ...
A. 20 July 2008: ok i know excatly how you feel im a size 14 and omg going ontop holy hell..but i do it because he loves me and he enjoys it and i try to put it far from my mind and enjoy it because i know it would make him happy..heres a fellatio web site some ... (read in full...)
Is it really possible to have an anal orgasm?
Q. recently I have been exploring my butt and and had been liking it. I was wondering of anyone had any good ways to get max pleasure, and is it really possibleto have an anal orgasim....
A. 20 July 2008: i agree with d john follow his advice cant go far wrong..just remember to use lubricant as it can be quite tight and that will help stop friction.. aphex... (read in full...)
Lately it's taking me an hour and a half to orgasm. How can I cope?
Q. I feel sexually trapped.... masterbation doesnt work anymore... lately its taken me about an hour and a half to orgasm which is extremely long for me. i dont have a gf and im left feeling in the dark alone. my world just isnt bright without meeting ...
A. 20 July 2008: i agree..you should feel relaxed happy and excited. use your thoughts imagine what you could be doing, do it when you wake up in a morning it shouldnt take you that long..so whats going on that make you last so long? what are you thinking about. as ... (read in full...)
She wanted a long distance relationship, I didn't, now how can I comfort her without sending the wrong message?
Q. Hi, There's a girl I know from Liverpool. Some months back we used to chat online. After a short time she began hinting that she was looking for a long distance relationship. Having already been in one myself, I was dead against it. She kept try...
A. 20 July 2008: you cant help how you feel about long distance relationships, and if you dont want it then dont do it to make her happy you will proberly resent her for it in the future. you can ask how she is and if everything is ok say your a friend who has an ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm getting a yellowish/brownish discharge!
Q. hi I've read loads in mags and stuff about getting discharge a year before you start your periods, is this true? If it is I have been getting discharge for more than a yr! It is a yellowish brownish color and has a slight smell. I hat...
A. 19 July 2008: it sounds like it could be an infection slash you coming onto your periods but the best advice i could give is go see your gp about this he / she will be able to advise you better than we could as we are only guessing.. hope that helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
Please help me with my problems of love, blame, forgiveness, grudges, responsibility and craziness. Thank you.
Q. well, this might be a little bit of a long story leading up to my question. but i feel it's neccasary to tell it before i ask the question. so if you don't have time to read the story before the question don't even bother answering it. :...
A. 19 July 2008: i agree with delphine to a degree.. dont go out with joe again he cant be trusted and obviously doesnt love you enough to only be with you..can you get in touch with skip? if you feel so much for skip what would stop you from having him..to a degree ... (read in full...)
Any tips on reducing my sexual activity, in order to focus on what is important for my age?
Q. im always havin sex with guys and i want to stop because i no when i get older i dont want that lifestyle any tips on reducing my sexual activity and what i can do instead of havin sex all the time...
A. 19 July 2008: i agree with YOS, i do hope your older than 12 -_-..go see a doctor and see if he can refer you to a therapist.as this behaviour can alter your future its dangerous please get help hun x... (read in full...)
I had a "fling" with my cousin (he's adopted.) Now, seeing him after a year I want to advance, but how?
Q. Well, I had a "fling" with my cousin and I think he loves me and I might love him..we aren't blood related, he's adopted. We did things but we didn't have sexual intercourse. I didn't see him for a year(trying to let him go.) but then I seen him and ...
A. 19 July 2008: take him out for coffee or to a quiet place tell him how you feel.if you dont ask you dont get..and your not blood related so its not so bad, so i doubt your family would have a problem but then you should know. just tell him that you like him a lot ... (read in full...)
I am another one who met a man on holiday!!
Q. I am another one who met a man on holiday!! Just friends and we have e mailed a few times but he has been honest and says he isnt looking for a relationship although he was very angry becasue I had not slept with him on holiday. he doesnt feel...
A. 19 July 2008: ok hes angry with you for not sleeping with him? --are you sure thats not all he was after ? i would cut your loses because in reality you have won by not giving yourself up for a person who wouldnt want to have a relationship with you..i would send ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with the way my boyfriend treats me. I don't know why I can't walk away.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two months and im fed up of the way he treats me. He doesnt ever take me out or do anything with me. The thing is when we spend time together he makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. I feel so...
A. 19 July 2008: maybe because your in love with him the side that makes you feel on top of the world, except when hes not their you come crashing back..i know you dont want to hear this but dont you think you should just walk away and find someone better someone ... (read in full...)
Ladies, could I have your opinion? Is she interested in me or is it something else?
Q. I have been out of the dating game for quite a bit of time now and recently decided to jump back in. As a guy I seem to find it fairly difficult to read the signs of a female. I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we started to talk on and o...
A. 18 July 2008: ask her out to coffee and if i were you i would ask her if she likes you, and if she says no then just say you thought you saw a sign and leave it at that if not then continue tell her you like her too and you would like to take her on a date then ... (read in full...)
Small spots on my penis for a few months - but now there's a HUGE one!
Q. ok, it may not be to much worry but im not sure. for about 6-7month now i have been having between 1 and 2 spot like things on my penis. they went away after a couple week - month but now i have one again only this one is huge it is on t...
A. 17 July 2008: it could be alot of things but dont take risks go see your gp about this now and im sure you wont have to suffer longer.. aphex... (read in full...)
He's having an arranged marriage - I felt so hurt and betrayed. Then someone told his bride-to-be and I feel like I've ruined their marriage...
Q. My boyfriend that I am in love with told me he is going to spend a couple of months in his country. He has been dropping subtle hints to me that he might get an arranged marriage but he NEVER told me directly. He has to respect his family and go ...
A. 16 July 2008: well you had your right to express how you felt..and the bride did deserve to know what she was getting into i bet it wouldnt of been long before she found out anyway but i think that if he returns you should chuck him and never speak to him again ... (read in full...)
Spotting before period - a precursor to pregnancy?
Q. Now, some of you may have seen my answers to many questions before, but I'm more of a relationship-advice type person, I know nothing about anatomy, nor the biology of a human being. My girlfriend and I had sex [she was lightly spotting, which ...
A. 16 July 2008: well good for you for doing that glad your being safe. ok then its unlikely she is pregnant i would get her to go to the gp to check herself out not to worry you but spotting could be a few things causing it so get her checked out better safe than ... (read in full...)
Did he get angry because he didn't have sex with her and felt he had wasted his time?
Q. My daughter has just asked me advice but living in a different age cant help her really - so can you please? She has just returned from a holiday with a friend of hers. She met a young man who wanted sex but she held back which is very admirabl...
A. 16 July 2008: oh hun she did right she didnt let out..it seems he was after one thing and no matter who he is he disrespected her in front of people and if he even cared he wouldnt of so she is better off without this guy..their are men out their who are willing ... (read in full...)
We have been in a long distance relationship for a year, we love each other, told her I want to marry her, found out from a friend, she had another boyfriend, for six months of the year we were together, she broke up with him, I now have serious trus
Q. I have been in a distant relationhsip with a woman 4 yrs older than I am and the age difference was never a factor. Because we are 230 mils away, we made it a point to see each other every weekend for 1 year without a miss. We love each other very ...
A. 16 July 2008: well she was hoping to keep it a secret forever ? that dont sound gd that you have secrets or the fact she was with another. it is disrespectful..and now that you are still not living together your really wondering is their more men you dont know ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to break up with him when he cries?
Q. I want to break up with my boyfriend but I'm not sure how. He's controlling and quite smothering, and I don't want to break up in person. I have tried before and he cries uncontrollably and begs me to give him more chances etc, and I find it ve...
A. 16 July 2008: i know how you feel my first bf was like that..i told him face to face and didnt look at him the whole time because i knew if i did he would reel me back in and i would be stuck in a relationship i hated and i would end up hating him..so if you cant ... (read in full...)
I am having serious problems pleasing my girlfriend, when we have sex, I don't like it anymore, and I am getting depressed over it, please help??
Q. Alright Im a 19 year old guy that used to be in this huge relationship with my ex. Her and I used to have sex ALL the time and she used to love it. It was so much love and then we broke up, i never thought i could be with someone else till another ...
A. 16 July 2008: i agree..your gf needs to check herself out that was so mean..all she had to say was what you were doing was on the mark but close that you need to try a few things to make it more intensified..it doesnt matter if your big or small you can still get ... (read in full...)
My mum and dad have been arguing, and my mum said she hates me. I don't know what to do and I need advice.
Q. I am an 8 year old boy from Cupar in Fife in Scotland. My mum and dad have been not really been getting on well and they have had some bad arguments. One day my mum got very annoyed with my big brother for putting a towel in with the dirty clothes. ...
A. 16 July 2008: oh sweetheart im sorry youre having to go through all of this..im pretty sure your mum loves you with all of her heart..just she is going through a hard time right now. and shes taking it out on your brother and sister when they do wrong kind of ... (read in full...)
Spotting before period - a precursor to pregnancy?
Q. Now, some of you may have seen my answers to many questions before, but I'm more of a relationship-advice type person, I know nothing about anatomy, nor the biology of a human being. My girlfriend and I had sex [she was lightly spotting, which ...
A. 15 July 2008: i would go to the gp because it may or may no be a simple shes pregnant or not. if you are not using contraception then its more than likely she is pregnant but you cant go on spotting as a tell tale sign..spotting could be caused by a number of ... (read in full...)
I shaved my back and now it's all horrible...I don't want my boyfriend to notice it, what can I do??
Q. I have a strange question and I hope it's appropriate for here! Well, I have semi-thick curly/wavy hair. I also have more body hair than most women...though I'm sure my own perception exaggerates it. I get really bad shaving bumps on the bac...
A. 14 July 2008: the bigger reason shaving your back has upset you is its softer skin than your legs. dont be ashamed alot of women with darker hair tend to see it in more places. so in future if you want rid of it ide suggest waxing as that will keep it at bay and ... (read in full...)
The top of my penis hurts when I touch it. Am I normal?
Q. Im 14 years old. And worried if masturbating every day is a problem, aslo whilest my foreskin is back the top of my penis hurts when i touch it. is this normal?? ...
A. 10 July 2008: i agree with uncle sneaker, but if you are seriously worried go see your gp thats what their their for and dont be embaressed they prob seen alot worse lol.. A xx... (read in full...)
Why does my gf think she can do things but if I do it....she get's mad at me!!
Q. Why does it seem like my GF thinks she can do things but if i do the same thing its wrong or its ok for her to get mad about it? But if she does it its ok or if i get mad she turns it on me and gets mad.......
A. 8 July 2008: i think you both need to reapproach this relationship because you are young and both seeming to be having problems, im not saying couples dont have problems but not ones that should aggravate the other thats like fighting fire with fire and it can ... (read in full...)
Why does my gf think she can do things but if I do it....she get's mad at me!!
Q. Why does it seem like my GF thinks she can do things but if i do the same thing its wrong or its ok for her to get mad about it? But if she does it its ok or if i get mad she turns it on me and gets mad.......
A. 8 July 2008: i agree more info needed can you give an example or something would help to give better advice x... (read in full...)
Really, really like this nurse, have a lot in common, much older than she, still want to date her, any suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. On...
A. 8 July 2008: aww sounds sweet i know how that feels but you have to take a chance for romance otherwise friendship is all your gonna have. so take small steps and see how it goes invite her out for coffee coffee goes well invite her out again and take it from ... (read in full...)
Are there other ways of getting an STD, besides intercourse?
Q. This will seem like stupid question but, can you get an STD just by giving your bf a handjob???...
A. 6 July 2008: just like to add that their is a possible chance of getting an std through toilet seats.. and no you cant from handjobs xx A... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me for hugs, and staring at me, without saying anything, does he like me or what?
Q. Right okay, im not sure if this guy like's me or not, we like hang around alot yeah, and i often catch him looking at me all the time, and i ask him what he's lookin at but he just smiles and shakes his head, And he alwyas says to me come here and ...
A. 6 July 2008: i would say it seems he does like you..ask him out right if he likes you or not..that is the best way to get an answer although be gentle about it will help him if he is shy about it.. hope that helps aphex x... (read in full...)
Really, really like this nurse, have a lot in common, much older than she, still want to date her, any suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. On...
A. 6 July 2008: just ask her out for coffee sometime as you enjoy talking with her/ then get to know her better learn more as their is always uncharted territory.. she will either say yes or no. and age is just a number though all people dont feel the same so u ... (read in full...)
I'm prescribed to take antibiotics but, I'm on birth control..
Q. Okay, just to found out I had gum disease I was prescribed to take Amoxycillin. I haven't just yet because, from this 8 months of taking the pill I wasn't prescribed any medicines or antibiotics because, I was in good health now I'm in the edge. ...
A. 1 July 2008: dont worry i think a fair percent of the women population feel the same about worrying heavily about getting pregnant..usually antibiotics lower the chance rate of it being successful and their fore condoms should be used as a back up plan. but as ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking of what this woman said, what do I do?!
Q. A mysterious woman saw me on the road a week ago and told me that i will be married to an already married man. to my culture, its ok but to me, i hate to share. i was so scared that i went praying heavily. i started working at a company not long ago ...
A. 30 June 2008: i believe we make our own destinys, we choose the path that we walk along and fate only does so much..unless you can be forced to marry then i say you dont have much of a problem. if you dont want to be in that sort of situation then dont delve ... (read in full...)
I had a comtraceptive implant in March and now I'm torn between being safe and dirty or unsafe and clean
Q. First a little background info. I had the contraceptive implant back in March and the doctor did say that it would take about three months for my periods to sort themselves out. In the first couple of weeks my period was constant then stopped but ...
A. 28 June 2008: if its making you so unhappy get it removed and use another contraceptive instead..ive got the implant and im lucky if i ever have a period!!it works differently for all people..some may have light periods or heavy or none at all but it took the ... (read in full...)
Should I feel ashamed about being curious about sex?
Q. ok alot of people i kno that is my age are having sex. Nobody pressures me into it cuz they already kno rite off the back i would curse them out lol. But im starting to ask myself wat does it feel like when you have sex because i'm so curious. ...
A. 28 June 2008: no you shouldnt feel bad that you are curious, but i dont think kids your age should be having sex. your bodies are not matured enough yet neither fully developed. curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back-- that doesnt mean you ... (read in full...)
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