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Hi im 25yrs old yes i know im young, tho i have alot of maturity for my age. i am very logical. I have seen an heard alot of things so i feel i am able to help others in similiar situations and would like to generally help others. I live in the UK .

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We fight every single day!

Q.   My boyf and i has been together for 1year and 4 months now.. We've been quarrelling everyday since then.. I don't know what had happen to him.. He's staying at my house now bcus he has some family problems.. As he has some bad habits which is ...

A.   8 August 2010: he has to grow up sometime. i wish the best for you aphex... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: omg make me jealous much lol good luck with that hope it goes well for you :)... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: you just said it perfectly dirtball :)... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: sheeple lol sorry i laughed at that/ was wondering if it was a hibred of sheep and cattle lol...well your right to have your rights and if its something you cannot live with then he has subjected himself too it as i said in my first post i dont ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend opened up to me and I don't like what he told me

Q.   My boyfriend just opened up to me about his past relationships some of them really made me mad because while we were dating girls were asking him out and telling him i would never found out about it since were in a long distance relationship i know ...

A.   6 August 2010: really young and i know your like meh im old enough but seriously every 5 years we change from our taste buds to our hair styles what we like dislike. most marriages at a young age end in divorce i know many friends who are divorced on principle ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: i have to agree it really isnt your business what he does in his spare time who are you to dictate his freedom! you seem to be projecting this image that you are a dictator. does he go to the bathroom on his own accord using what ever brand of ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: omg i want your guy lol he sounds really lovely. i think sometimes when things go great we worry if theirs something wrong and if its a little wrong we can overact or atleast i know i do i know nothing perfect but when you feel on top of the w orld ... (read in full...)

Cheating with a married man but I feel jealous of his family

Q.   i have affair with a married man we love each other alot from 2 yr we are in love. he cant leave his wife wat sud i do, We are in sexual relationship I am 24 and he is 31. he is married for 7 years and have 2 childrens . I love him very much. He ...

A.   6 August 2010: i think your completely wrong ashley we all understand very well some may have been cheated on and some havent but at the end of the day we are trying to give her a wake up call because she wants something THAT IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN! and as for ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't watch porn. How can I know if he's lying?

Q.   [OP original title] At the very start of our relationship we casually discussed porn. Something along the lines of, so what about porn? Well let's make it easy and just neither of us watches. OK sounds good. As the relationship progressed I made it a...

A.   6 August 2010: ok who says its the norm to lie all men dont have the same label sweety! i really have to agree with dirtball on this i seriously dont think he is watching porn! and if he did watch that one clip which i dont think he did maybe his mates put it on ... (read in full...)

He'll go to Canada to meet a girl, but not to see me!

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for over a month now. He is sweet and all that. He seems to be the perfect kind of boyfriend. As for our relationship, I have no clear idea about it. First he said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now ...

A.   6 August 2010: ok he doesnt like comittment and it s only a fling! what part of that says to you he wants anything else ? hes obviously just after sex or what ever. i have to agree with timmd on this. you have to cut all ties and find a guy who does want to comitt ... (read in full...)

We fight every single day!

Q.   My boyf and i has been together for 1year and 4 months now.. We've been quarrelling everyday since then.. I don't know what had happen to him.. He's staying at my house now bcus he has some family problems.. As he has some bad habits which is ...

A.   6 August 2010: get rid of him, simple if he does not respect you then he does not deserve you call your phone company and ban the dream call line from your home if you do not wish to get rid of him and throw his porn out! if he cannot respect you then show him ... (read in full...)

Cheating with a married man but I feel jealous of his family

Q.   i have affair with a married man we love each other alot from 2 yr we are in love. he cant leave his wife wat sud i do, We are in sexual relationship I am 24 and he is 31. he is married for 7 years and have 2 childrens . I love him very much. He ...

A.   6 August 2010: i love how every person who is cheating with someone behind someone back goes he loves me very much but hes still with his family! oh yes he loves you that much he would rather live with them and not you! come on seriously! seriously walk in the ... (read in full...)

Cheating Consequences

Q.   Is being honest about the fact that you've cheated on someone, and facing the full consequences, the only way to make sure that one is never tempted to cheat again? I've heard some people say that the "guilt" is enough to make someone more loyal and ...

A.   6 August 2010: i think cheating is a disgusting behaviour. ok many can argue its in the blood to spread the seed but we are ment to live in advanced world so why shouldnt basic things be advanced to be faithful! i know many people who are older and have never ... (read in full...)

Was she really a virgin?

Q.   Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...

A.   4 August 2010: omg i dont see how using and not using a condom is relevant to her being a virgin what is this so many people on about virgins but then its ok for them not to be one what is the difference or am i missing something ? perhaps she ddnt want to get ... (read in full...)

I ache for my own baby.

Q.   Hey guys, thanks for reading. Sorry for the long question too. My mother just gave birth to her fifth child, and i'm her eldest at 17. I went to see the baby today and it made me realize how much i want a child. When i was holding the baby and ...

A.   4 August 2010: well put it this way why should tax payers roll the carpet out and pay for you and your child when you know you can wait! seriously your only 17 you havent lived a little or atleast finish school and get a job and a home. too many people go its ok ... (read in full...)

Can this relationship work? We are about to meet for the first time and I need advice!

Q.   hi, i just started to fall in love with a girl over the phone. it started when she buzzed my number..i ignored it..she then phoned me ...couldnt answer...*missed call* however..i contacted her..we talked for an hour...she sounds calm and loving on ...

A.   4 August 2010: i agree you have to meet before you can remotely tell how you feel also you need to spend quality time before you can tell if your compatible. i would say meet or leave it be she is still young and might go to university across the country what then ... (read in full...)

I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife

Q.   Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...

A.   4 August 2010: yeah was gonna throw a few things at you but since you want me to be nice ill try! look your gf has lied to you so your already thinking about things and picking the worst things to think about.if you cannot get over the fact she lied then this ... (read in full...)

What's so good about big penises?

Q.   Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...

A.   4 August 2010: as i said before look up position that are better for more penetration and make sure you know how to use clitoral stimulation to give more of a buzz just because your penis is smaller doesnt mean its any more useless than someone with a penis size ... (read in full...)

Should the man have to do everything when lovemaking?

Q.   hello to anyone reading this and anyone willing to post some help lately my girlfriend and i have wanted to have sex also she's a virgin. but theres always been a problem. either she's on her period, i dont have a condom or she's just not mentall...

A.   1 August 2010: i think the realist is spot on. she sounds very selfish and i think she needs to rethink her relationship status if she thinks like that you need someone who is on the same level knows about sharing and giving not just take take take. also your very ... (read in full...)

What's so good about big penises?

Q.   Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...

A.   30 July 2010: you sound like your in the average bracket of penis size. but no big penises arnt everything its how you use it women do talk about bigger ones which sometimes their is less work to be done but altogther i say my opnion is know how to use it is ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?

Q.   Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I ...

A.   30 July 2010: i cant see how its driving you apart but ok¬ next thing your not too big thats for sure 12" thats too big lmao.. dont force her to do something she doesnt also perhaps its the way you both do it you maybe try and thrust too much or force her to ... (read in full...)

Is it love?

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can shed some light on my current issue. A friend of mine (we'll call him person A) met this person over the internet. They fell in love, and I (person B) was supportive of my friend as I was told of this person he ...

A.   29 July 2010: well i kinda knew what my answer was gonna be before reading half of it. you lost a perfectly good friend for what! or was he not a good enough friend that you went past the white line ? really shes playing you both and im quite amazed neither of ... (read in full...)

Sites or good books that will help me with sex?

Q.   I've just gotten into a relationship with a woman (I'm 26 she's 24) and I've only had one girlfriend before that. A couple of nights ago when me and my girlfriend were having a close conversation and I found out she has slept with 7 men (4 were one...

A.   29 July 2010: this is a website that i have seen that gives peoples answers on them doing it and perhaps giving tips. but if you really want to please her ask her what she likes. alot of men dont like to ask and then end up going i dont know what to do and its ... (read in full...)

How do I introduce someone to the kinkier side of sex???

Q.   I have been in an intensely sexual relationship for 4 years... unfortunately things didn't work out and we parted. I have a new (lovely) man... seems slightly inexperienced in the bedroom, and certainly never practised any kinky stuff like I have ...

A.   26 July 2010: you can always ask him if he has seen something in a porn flick or heard about other things and ask what he thinks about that. at the end of the day he will either like it or hate it. best to do it one at a time and if hes not comfortable stop last ... (read in full...)

Do I have a good penis length?

Q.   Do you think 6.75 non bone pressed is decent penis size? I increased the length with stretches (used to be 6. Here's the thing, do you think that's long enough or should I make it even bigger. I ask women for this question....

A.   26 July 2010: the average is 5.1 - 5.9. anything from 5 inch can be good but its not about length for most women i can assure you its how to use the equipment you have! their are many websites that give you advice on positions and have written articles of what ... (read in full...)

Paranoid about losing my g/f and now she has broken things off!

Q.   Hi guys, my name is James, where do I start? ok, so I have this issue, I have no idea where it comes from, basically I am not sure if it is low self esteem, low confidence, insecure, but I need help and I need help now, I am hoping someone can ...

A.   26 July 2010: well hello old me sounds so familiar i think its one of those things you go through fear at its best! if you keep thinking these things they will drive you apart and most of the time not for the best i thought i got it early enough but we still ... (read in full...)

What does double penetration mean?

Q.   "OP Own Title" what does double penetration mean? Does it mean to have sex with 2 guys or to have anal and vaginal sex at the same time using your finger or a vibrator? I'm a bit confused....

A.   22 July 2010: its doesnt mean anal and vagina its could also mean the mouth!... (read in full...)

What does double penetration mean?

Q.   "OP Own Title" what does double penetration mean? Does it mean to have sex with 2 guys or to have anal and vaginal sex at the same time using your finger or a vibrator? I'm a bit confused....

A.   21 July 2010: If one person is penetrated by two objects, it is generically called double penetration ie penises or sex toys or fingers toes so forth aphex x... (read in full...)

How you you like your husband to approach this?

Q.   Tip for first experience please. I think it's nice and romantic to brush my wife's hair (on her head--for those with perverted mind!). I'm basically looking for something sweet and romantic that I can do daily when we wind down (I have the mass...

A.   20 July 2010: i had to laugh at the perverted mind bit i ddnt think that at all but now i do heeeh! anyhoo i think these two sound good. 2) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we watch TV 3) sit on the bed and slowly brush while we talk. let her dry her hair... (read in full...)

My LDR girlfriend has changed her tune

Q.   This might be long..Hi guys. I started dating my online girlfriend last year in November. We live quite far from each other so meeting has not been possible and we had agreed to do it when it's affordable for one of us. Our relationship was awesome ...

A.   19 July 2010: i like how people go into relationships before they meet its not even a real relationship sure you feel something and you both say things but does that mean anything..dont get me wrong once you meet and spend quality time i think then its a ... (read in full...)

I have to choose between my parents and my online boyfriend!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Well, the situation is really complicated. I met this guy online 7 months ago and we started talking. He was a nice guy and we fell for each other and start a relationship. He lives a world apart, but we keep in touch by phone calls a...

A.   17 July 2010: im sorry you have never met and never spent time together. just because someone can seem real and honest doesnt mean that their are things to them you cant see! ive done LDR and i know how they work on a rough basis. some can work so im not telling ... (read in full...)

He's now told me to "stop hassling him". Any suggestions?

Q.   Hi, I met this bloke 3 months ago on a training course and we hit it off straight away. He told me he was married, but they are separating and the house is up for sale (I know the house is for sale as my friend lives near him and the sign is ...

A.   16 July 2010: i have to admit i agree with quiet echo although some of the things he said was harsh lol.. you expected too much too soon. dating someone who is still living with their ex or to be ex is never a good situation you should of left it till he got his ... (read in full...)

Is sex between siblings bad?

Q.   i would like to know if sex between siblings, is bad or actually a taboo? and why? is it just because of society norms? is it because we have been born and educated with the thought that it is bad, even though we have experimented when we were kids? ...

A.   16 July 2010: i still think its wrong whether society says so. she is your sister you help each other in life but as far as being in a relationship i think it is wrong and many people think the same whether the law or whatever comes into play. if we were ment to ... (read in full...)

Set to be married next month, but things have been quite rocky. Needing advice.

Q.   Hey, sorry that this is going be to quite lengthy. I apologize for any ranting. Lately my fiancée has been acting completely different than she has in the past. I love her more than I can explain, but have been questioning whether this is the righ...

A.   13 July 2010: im not going to read the rest of it to be quite honest not to be rude but really.. i would call of this wedding and tell the little princess to get lost because you deserve better not her shes putting guilt trips on you and having a temper tantrum ... (read in full...)

Do other people know if someone has had sex the night before?

Q.   I don't want to disgust anyone with this question, but I want to know what goes on inside other people's heads. My question is...Do people wonder if they see someone walking down the street whether or not that person had sex the night before? ...

A.   13 July 2010: its highly unlikely that they could know whether you had sex or not seems like you have a little case of paranoia going on.. who cares what other people think if you are happy with your women what do they matter . some women do talk but the chances ... (read in full...)

Is sex between siblings bad?

Q.   i would like to know if sex between siblings, is bad or actually a taboo? and why? is it just because of society norms? is it because we have been born and educated with the thought that it is bad, even though we have experimented when we were kids? ...

A.   13 July 2010: erm no its not a good thing anyway you see it its incest which means that if you ever had a child together whether your were taking precautions or not would 90% come out with defaults or deformaties. their are rules put in places so these things ... (read in full...)

Ladies: how do you like your sex?

Q.   A poll for you ladies: How do you normally like your sex... hard and intense, soft and loving, deep, shallow, lots of positions, just favorite positions (tried and true), short in duration or as long as possible? I realize a combination is pro...

A.   12 July 2010: i think it really does come down to individual women no women likes the same things so is this a personal question for yourself or is it to please that someone i think if its to please a lady then you are better off asking what shes likes rather ... (read in full...)

Is this man I really liked a con, sex addict and fraudster?

Q.   hi i just got back from turkey i fell in love with a beautiful man working on beach and in bars. he wrote me a note to meet him that night, i was shocked as i had not really spoke to him i went and he told me a story about someone conning him for ...

A.   11 July 2010: hes just after you money hunnie dont fall for this guy he is playing you like a fool! as they say a man would never ask for money!... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend wants me to come live with him but my family wont allow it!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship for 7 months now with my boyfriend. He lives a world apart from me. I know how we've dealed lots of problems since we couldn't meet in person in regular basis. We first met online and we fell for ...

A.   11 July 2010: LDR are one of those things were people see it as black and white but their is a whole lot of grey areas. ok so you havent met and already delt with alot of problems well thats not good also your wanting to move never have meeting this guy bad idea. ... (read in full...)

Is this man I really liked a con, sex addict and fraudster?

Q.   hi i just got back from turkey i fell in love with a beautiful man working on beach and in bars. he wrote me a note to meet him that night, i was shocked as i had not really spoke to him i went and he told me a story about someone conning him for ...

A.   9 July 2010: never trust something thats very short lived for they are not permanent and not set in stone ok so he wooed you a few nights but you dont know him surely enough to get married their and then or move or you get my drift.. if i were you you had a ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to lose 10 lbs in 3 weeks?

Q.   This isnt a relationship question but im just curious. Is it possible to lose 10 pounds in 3 week..?...

A.   9 July 2010: anything is possible with the right sort of diet but you shouldnt be aiming to loose that in a time frame rather eat healthy and exercise and the weight will come off naturally scarmbled boiled or omellete eggs are a good weight loss tip just dont ... (read in full...)

Is 8 years too big of a difference?

Q.   Hello, all I want to know is if anyone thinks that 8 years is a big difference? I honestly don't think it is. But I'm 18 and I like a 26 year old who likes me back. I just wanna know if you think 8 years is too much....

A.   7 July 2010: no i dont think age is an issues unless your 20 and hes 50 if its within 20 years give or take i think its perfectly fine! good luck :) ... (read in full...)

Opinions on drug use?

Q.   I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...

A.   6 July 2010: heeh np ;)... (read in full...)

Opinions on drug use?

Q.   I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...

A.   5 July 2010: lol yes not many are responsible.. you should try scotland we are more fun heeeh... (read in full...)

Opinions on drug use?

Q.   I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...

A.   4 July 2010: not many people like tobbacco or drink but thats because their both bad for you and were all ment to live forever. or prevent horrible death or teeth decay. so in uk their not banned but their trying to stop people binge drinking and smoking for ... (read in full...)

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