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Should I reveal the truth to him?!

Q.   i have a friend, who i've known for about 7 or 8 months now. i've always thought he was really good looking and always fancied him, but when we became friends i decided to ignore it and keep quite about it. recently though, i've realised i have fee...

A.   16 May 2010: You should stay quiet for now as your friends say, if you did say anything it could likely damage or totally ruin your friendship which of course is not what you want, all you can do is be there for him, if his relationship is wrong and they don't ... (read in full...)

Fellas: what can a girl do to make you like her?

Q.   Ok hear goes nothing. I have a boyfriend, an awesome guy who I really love. "Lila" one of my best friends, has a boyfriend, "Kel", another best friend, had a boyfriend, emphasis on the had, but she's ok. "Jay", my best friend of eight years, has not ...

A.   16 May 2010: hi, there is nothing that you do to "make" anybody like anybody, those kinds of feelings are felt for somebody or not. The most that anybody can do is to take pride in the way they look, be as comfortable with yourself as you can and thats about ... (read in full...)

He pulled out but is there still a chance of pregnancy?

Q.   My partner and i had intercourse last week. We both know that we had to be careful but something happened and freaked me out. My partner managed to "pull it out" but has ejaculated by accident after he removed it. Some of it was on my skin, just ...

A.   16 May 2010: Yes there is a chance of that happening, lower of course the best thing that you can do is to take a test to be sure if that option is available to you, best wishes hope that everything is ok for you... (read in full...)

Ideas for a birthday without his friends

Q.   help! I've been with my bf a year now and I'm totally bored with it. I know we both feel strongly inlove with eachother. Our physical life is good however I find our whole relationship boring. No matter what I do for him and how good I make him feel ...

A.   11 May 2010: hi, its quite sad that you don't feel special in your relationship, have you told him straight that you feel this way and want some affection? either way he is in the wrong if he doesn't want to spend time with you alone and doing normal things that ... (read in full...)

I just want someone to cuddle up to and spend time with without it just being about sex.

Q.   hey i really just want to settle down i know im still young but im fed up of getin hurt. all the boys i go for have what they want and then dont bother with me untill they want it again. iv tryed not givin it to them but then i just get up set and ...

A.   10 May 2010: You should't feel bad about wanting that from sombody, yes a lot of guys are only interested in sex first but not all of us, not that sex isnt a good thing and very enjoyable, but personally i would often much prefer a cuddle and time with sombody i ... (read in full...)

I lashed out my fiance and now I regret it!

Q.   I know this sounds stupid, selfish and I shouldn’t feel like this. But today I’ve lashed out on my fiancé for no reason to be honest. Today he has been at his brothers wedding all day, which I was invited to but last minute a couple of weeks ...

A.   20 December 2009: if he is your fiance im sure he loves you very much so i am sure that this is not going to ruin your relationship. You were really looking forward to the day and it gets changed on you almost last minute, so feeling upset is perfectly normall and ... (read in full...)

He wants to give up his dream for me

Q.   My fiancee and I have been together for four years. I love him very much, and I would never want to be the reason he turned down a dream. However, I've spent the past few years training in a field that is highly specialized to where we live no...

A.   17 December 2009: your fiancee must love you more that anybody could ever put into words and if he happy to give up on a childhood dream to make sure that you are happy it shows what he feels for you. Depending on what you want him todo, ie follow his dream then i ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her or let it go?

Q.   i am in this situation, a girl i had the biggest crush ever on for 6 months i asked her out we when on a date couple days later when i asked her out again she said she didnt feel for me in that kind of way but she loved our friendship and really ...

A.   15 December 2009: thanks for the advice, its more the time since all this happened that i guess bugs me the most 2 years is quite a lot time to still feel in this kind of way guess im just a bit overly soft for a guy but i guess as the saying goes its better to of ... (read in full...)

I love myself but this girl makes me feel ugly...

Q.   i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh ...

A.   14 December 2009: hi there, from your question it seems like this girl is a unplesent person who proberly does not love herself and can see that you do and wants you to feel bad about yourself, if you love yourself thats better than most of us can manage so enjoy it ... (read in full...)

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