Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 12 July 2009: perhaps. we all are given a choice of paths to walk and he chose to turn his back on you. and you have a choice to do the same or make it work. in the end all we can do is choose and hope its the right path that we have taken. im sorry it hasnt gone ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 11 July 2009: no problem just be strong and do things that make you happy in life and focus on making a better life for yourself and everything else should fall into place. goodl uck hun aphex xx... (read in full...)
Relationship worries! Am I insecure?
Q. Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like ...
A. 2 July 2009: glad things are better for you thanks for the update. at a young age we have alot of dramatic omg im gonna die if you leave me so forth but with time and age we learn from our experiences and move forward and try not to make the same mistakes so ... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 1 June 2009: Not all teens are dumb im 13 i use condoms.I have sex cos its fun and i love it.Im not one of those kids who copys others i do what i want to do cos im me so dont blame others its the kids who are stupid for trying to be "cool" -- its illegal and if ... (read in full...)
Self conscious during sex
Q. Hi me again. I'm going to have sex with my friend but i'm just worried that my self consciousness will ruin my first time. I'm not fat by any means. I just think i look too skinny and awkward. what if he doesn't like how i look. he's seen me in my ...
A. 1 June 2009: look first of all your under age and shouldnt be having sex your bodys not finished developing either not to mention your friend could go to jail. also do you know anything about sex and how you could get pregnant or std? also your insecure about ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how long it might be before I can expect a period again?
Q. Hey everyone Not sure if anyone can help but... I've been taking the pill (microgynon) continually for about 8 weeks - you're meant to have breaks but the whole reason I went on the pill was to not have any periods whilst I was doing my fi...
A. 31 May 2009: ok the pill is for 3 weeks then you have a 1 week period and it repeats ok its not natural to stop your period for months on end i know some do it because they cant be bothered or they dont need the stress but you should always follow the advice ... (read in full...)
Liquid or powder foundation?
Q. hi, i was just wondering, erm which is the best foundation to use, liquid or powder? I want to get that 'airburshed' look, i have never tried liquid before and powder has a reputation just to go orange. But is liquid foundation bad for your skin or ...
A. 31 May 2009: look no one wants the airbrushed look because we all know its fake and if you want to be a fake person then go ahead but in honesty my best policy is less make up the better. men dont want girls dressed to the nines looking like a dolly. i use a ... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 31 May 2009: thanks for all your replys mostly older sister their are alot of factors i agree with you on. but i feel the more shameful thing is if a kids asked whose the father they go i dont know well i slept with 7 guys this month sooooooooo. they dont even ... (read in full...)
Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.
Q. I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...
A. 30 May 2009: you are fine the way you are but since its you with the problem then you need to changes the problem ie either your out look or i think you mentioned your plump how about trying to loose a little weight im not saying go get consmetics done far from ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance that I am pregnant?
Q. My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...
A. 30 May 2009: you cannot use the same condom its once only. not to mention your under age and its illegal. if you want to know for sure then go to your gp and get tested. aphex... (read in full...)
Why does he keep going back and forth and not just choose one of us?
Q. [Moderator's note: Please concentrate all the details in one question next time. It is harder to give accurate opinions on pieces of a fragmented question.] Help my mother is making me insecure. My mom doesn't like my boyfriend and she always says ...
A. 30 May 2009: i think he has figured out that no matter what goes on in his life your their to pick the pieces up. at the moment he cant be with you so may as well be with my old girlfriend. he seems like a person who would use people and only others would see ... (read in full...)
Periods and sexual activity....
Q. Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x...
A. 29 May 2009: will say this as a note please do not go any further than foreplay do not have sex also its illegal. since your asking for advice on that you really need to know your stuff before having sex. yes you can still do foreplay just as normal just periods ... (read in full...)
Could we all try to have a little empathy, for those who ask questions on this site?
Q. This is not a question this is my personal opinion for some things said to others onthus site... I have read and commented on a lot of different forums on here and there is always someone who gets on and criticizes the ones asking for advice. For ...
A. 29 May 2009: not everyone is able to be open minded about things think things should be a certain way and if its not as you say call them sick or they need serious help. but their are others on here who are open minded and try to help. but generally i agree ... (read in full...)
Together since we were teenagers, our relationship has deteriorated with time!
Q. Ok so I will be as breif as possible. I am 24 and my Special other is 28. We have been together since I was 16 and lived together since I was 17. We were a great couple up until about 3 years ago. Something just changed. Neither of us are interested ...
A. 29 May 2009: then its time you parted, after so long we ourselfs change our ideas on life to the simplest things and we dont nessecary change the same way as our partners. you both cant communicate well as you said it leads to arguements. so it seems perhaps ... (read in full...)
One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period
Q. So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am ...
A. 29 May 2009: well your suposed to not have unprotected sex for atleast a week before relying on the pill so yes their is a chance you could be pregnant. i would go see your doctor and get checked out he will be able to give you the answer more than we could. ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to talk to my son about his choice of a partner
Q. My 16-year-old son is gay, he came out to me about a month ago. He's about to finish school in a month anyway and is doing well in his studies. I'm not shocked - it's an alternative lifestyle choice and if it suits him I'm happy with it. My husb...
A. 29 May 2009: it wont work this married man will promise your son the world and get what he needs and your son will only see heart ache. perhaps this is his lesson in life to learn. all you can do is tell him how you feel but tell him its his choice and youll ... (read in full...)
If you were in love with someone once can you fall for them again?
Q. if you were in a serious relationship and in love with someone once can you fall for them again? after years of being long distance friends? ...
A. 29 May 2009: its not impossible at all anything is possible just some things are inprobable. but 9/10 things change alot and you just see them as someone from your past rather than your future but as is said their could be hundreds of people who have fallen ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 29 May 2009: well you seem to farely have a good game plan going i guess now you just have to let fate and time decide whats going to happen. your a strong person you will get through this but at the moment try and focus on yourself as their isnt much said about ... (read in full...)
I was treated unfairly by the police!
Q. Hey this isnt a relationship question sorry. Right i went to a huge birthday party on the eighth of may and there was sixty odd people there, most of them either 16 or 17 and one 18 year old. (my mum bought my alcohol as im not eighteen for a...
A. 28 May 2009: well if you put in a complaint they may charge you you may want to correct them if they take this matter further and if people knew then tell them who saw what was their. if they drop the matter i would leave well alone as YOU were UNDERAGE and YOU ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 28 May 2009: Omg you have had such a hard ride with life and it seems its taking another turn. i think you should go over and talk to his mum and him. you have come so far and as you said *I REALY love this man and there is nothing he could have that would make ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 28 May 2009: Omg you have had such a hard ride with life and it seems its taking another turn. i think you should go over and talk to his mum and him. you have come so far and as you said *I REALY love this man and there is nothing he could have that would make ... (read in full...)
Is he messing me around?
Q. He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on ...
A. 28 May 2009: if your interested to see what may happen go. you know him better than us we are only going by what you says and as the for ANON could be right perhaps he wants friends with benefits. just becareful he has made his stance on the matter and i doubt ... (read in full...)
What do you do if you can't get over someone?
Q. what do you do if you can't get over someone? I'm 14 (almost 15)and there's a boy i like who i kind of made hints that i liked him and i'm like 95% sure that he KNOWS I like him. I've waited for some kind of reply but nothing ever happened...
A. 28 May 2009: its not an infatuation its your first crush we all have that were we meet boy A and boy A is soooo amazing and we would do anything to be with boy A but 9/10 it never happens. its something with time you will get over but dont force yourself the ... (read in full...)
Is he messing me around?
Q. He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on ...
A. 28 May 2009: when posting its best to give as much info as possible since their is very little. he wants to be friends dont friends meet for drinks ? perhaps he wants to wish you a fare well he know where you stand on this so if he wants something he will tell ... (read in full...)
Teenage gossip politics all directed at me
Q. about two months ago, one of my friends had given me one of her friends (*Paula*) facebook password- i wasnt sure why, but i never checked her facebook because i was never that interested in what she did on it. however, having said that- i wen...
A. 28 May 2009: focus more on your good friend and your bf. she is just jealous of you and wants what you have do not lower yourself to her level this will only make you just like her and people will perhaps see this and not want to be friends with you so let her ... (read in full...)
Girls, would you be attracted to an average looking guy with a nice body?
Q. I recently signed up to my local gym, and im looking forward to working out and getting "ripped", i dont want huge muscles but i want to be defined and have a flat chest/stomach, and strong arms. My question is to all the girls and i want a com...
A. 28 May 2009: no your not wrong. but dont do it because others will like you better for it do it because you want to be come more toned. and people will like you for the choices you make for yourself and not because of an image. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Chance and choice, how scenarios happen
Q. I wonder how much our life effected by chance,and how much on our choices? Right now I think chance is more dominant ,than choice. Like a bad marriage I live in, can determine your life for years, and if you have children ,its not easy to get out,...
A. 28 May 2009: if you fancy think of it this way on one hand we have a choice and on the other we have chance fate gives us a choice and destiny gives us a chance but we choose what fate gives us and we can take a chance if destiny gives us one. but at the end of ... (read in full...)
Looking for anal sex tips
Q. Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been talking about trying anal sex, and im all for it but i want it to be good. Does it always hurt? or does it feel better after doing it a few times, and also kinda embarrasing but is there a way to get rid of fe...
A. 27 May 2009: well ill give you this site its got alot of tips. also another note always use alot of lubricant ie durex. also take it easy and slow for a start be gentle and soft. you could try a laxative a few days before to make sure you dont have a back log ... (read in full...)
She is breaking up with me and I don't know whether I should stop her or how to
Q. I've been with my gf nearly 7 months and i think we are on the brink of breaking up. The problem is that she thinks i am not commited enough. I am mid twenties and am in my first relationship so this is all new to me. We get on very well and can ...
A. 25 May 2009: she is going through some real hard times with going in and out of hospital and yes it be nice if you were with her when she is going threw these traumatic times but by your side of the story she is wanting to do all she can encase she isnt here for ... (read in full...)
What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?
Q. What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?...
A. 25 May 2009: then obviously thats all they want and nothing more serious. your still young so have fun doing the things you want and not what they want if they are willing to be with you then it wont matter about sex. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
I took the morning after pill 2 weeks after having sex. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant. I had unprotected sex 2 weeks on Saturday and on Monday I took the morning after pill. The lady who supplied it told me I was at a very high risk of already being pregnant as I had just finished my period. She ...
A. 25 May 2009: well if you had unprotected sex and ddnt take the morning after pill within 48 hrs then you are high at risk they say the best time for the morning after pill is within 24 hrs. go see your gp and get a free pregnancy test to put your mind at ease it ... (read in full...)
Relationship worries! Am I insecure?
Q. Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like ...
A. 25 May 2009: your syndrome wont be helping the situation. if you keep making her feel this way from your insecurities then she may leave you because you will push her too far you need to let her have her space. if she is going to cheat i hope you find out other ... (read in full...)
How do I gag without actually throwing up?
Q. ok....so my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years and we sometimes watch porn together to spice things up. he asked me if i was willing to gag like they do on porn films. i'm always up for trying new things and it was fine for a ...
A. 25 May 2009: what he wants you to do sounds like deep throat which is something that shouldnt been done lightly it can take years to master here is a website with some tips to help you spicen things up. http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatiosecrets.shtml hope ... (read in full...)
Need advice on giving a good hand-job...
Q. how can you give a -fast- hand job , fast as in the pace , cause my bf always asks me to do it faster but i find it hard, and he slips from my hand, the only way i can do it faster is by staying in the middle and like shaking the skin up and down ...
A. 24 May 2009: here is a website with alot of good positions and tips to help get your man more satisfied if your not sure what you are ment to be doing http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml hopes this helps good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Need suggestions on getting over a first love...
Q. How long did it take to get over your first love? I was with mine for 25 Months and 15 Months on from the Split i still think of him everyday is this normal?? We split up due to him wanting space, there is no one else with him and never has been, ...
A. 24 May 2009: female = i was with my first for 3 yrs and after we split up due to certain reasons i can not exploit. it took me a few months to get him out of my system but each week was hell. but as time grew it got much easier and i moved on. you will find love ... (read in full...)
I love my third cousin!
Q. I met my third cousin last April, she is from US and Im from our hometown here in Asia. At first, we respect each other and just hand around and keep each other company for she dont know someone from here so it is me, the only person who can get her ...
A. 24 May 2009: well for a start im not sure about your culture but in the uk it is legal to be with a third or second cousin so their should be no legal boundrys their as for your famillies if you were closer related they might have concerns but because your not ... (read in full...)
Would you feel guilt if this happened to someone you had dated?
Q. I was with my ex for over 2 years. He dumped me out the blue for Space, which i gave him. But he Dumped me 2 days before i had some results from a MRI Scan i had. (he knew the results was coming, i had the Scan a week befiore the split ) I Didn’t ...
A. 24 May 2009: yes but if you dont love the person then their is no point giving them false hope perhaps he was hoping your tests would be ok and that you would be able to get on with your life. im sorry for what you have had to gone through at such a young age. ... (read in full...)
Are women just born to mistrust each other & be jealous?
Q. What causes women to become jealous over other women? I want to know if society has made women view each other as the enemy or are we born to distrust each other? ...
A. 24 May 2009: i think many things contribute to this. perhaps a partner has run off with another women so then you feel like the woman is to blame too so then your trust in them go down, perhaps you have an inferiority to other women so you dont trust any encase ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?
Q. Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted...
A. 23 May 2009: i would confront him and say whats going on. you need to know for your own piece of mind what hes been up to. and what your relationship status is ? you havent been doing anything wrong hes suposed to be with you yet still checking women out so i ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might ruin things
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months and things are as perfect as can be but i am scared that something bad might happen and i dont want that to happen. i often ask myself do i deserve him and i can never answer it because i am ...
A. 23 May 2009: i had that same thing a little while back i couldnt imagine anything different but a year later the love just disapeared and the relationship broke down. we dont control love nor do we control the people we meet. but we choose what we do. just live ... (read in full...)
Karma took its revenge on me so will it take its revenge on my cheating ex?
Q. i made a bad mistake in my previous relationship and im not afraid to admit it, than karma came back to me and i deserved it.she cheated on me and treated me like dirt bad, than she dumped me, now i want to know will karma go back to her for what ...
A. 22 May 2009: karma does work in mysterious ways so does fate, their are many things agasint us in this world but it comes down to one thing CHOICE. we all have it and we all make it. sometimes for the worse and sometimes for the better. we never know when we ... (read in full...)
Is he a controlling boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we've been together before but split up for about half a year before getting back together. Lately, I've noticed a lot of things in him that i see in my parents relationship. My mum is very ...
A. 21 May 2009: i agree with emily. i was in the same position as you once or twice and its not till i realise what their doing or how their doing it but no matter what you are your own person and no one will tell you what to do they do not own you, if you wanna go ... (read in full...)
I'm having second thoughts about moving in together
Q. i dated a girl for over two years, and recently we broke up on trust issues due to events in the past. For the first year of the relationship i took it as a free ride and cheated on her twice while away at uni. I admitted both of this two her and we ...
A. 20 May 2009: well you cheated once perhaps permittable twice then how is she ever to know you wont do a it a third time. so that will constantly be going on in her head. trust him or hate him for what hes done. you have prob broke her heart and nothing will ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 19 May 2009: your out of line mate im sorry theirs telling a friend and theirs telling everyone you know hes down trodding her because of a mistake she made now she could of kept it secret and could of done it again but she is one of few who makes the mistake ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 18 May 2009: he had every right to tell his friends to ask for their advice but as for telling all of them yes that is a bit imature just remember what goes around comes around. if you can work through this then fine but if he forgives you and wants to work on ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 15 May 2009: is that what you did in your relationships kelly ? Don't tell him! Just think of it as in the past and he doesn't really need to know. Just as long as you don't do it again I'm sure its fine to let it go this time. Xx clear your conscience, and move ... (read in full...)
Problems in our relationship and need your help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together exclusively for 6 months this week. We have been seeing each other for about 9 though. About a month and a half into our relationship, I had sex with an old friend of mine; I cheated on him. My boyfrien...
A. 15 May 2009: its a 50/50 to be honest tell him the truth and not feel guilty or lie and it eats away at you. i think you have a real compasion for this guy just it ddnt go to plan as it has turned out. if it were be i wouldnt think about my self and tell him i ... (read in full...)
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