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Au Pair work???

Q.   I still feel very upset when i think about when i worked as an Au Pair last year in Spain. I hadnt had any previous experience in child care, but the family hired me any way . I think some families are relaxed about that as the main job was to teach ...

A.   8 July 2010: hmm next time find out at least if the family knows enough English to communicate better. I've been to Spain, Portugal and now live in Italy. I'll say that if you like Spanish culture try Portugal, it's a smaller country but I find that the peop... (read in full...)

What reasons whould my ex-girlfriend have for unblocking me on facebook?

Q.   Well me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago after dating for 7 months. When we broke up it was really more of a "break" if you will, and we were just being friends during the break. She didn't act like herself at all during this time, ...

A.   8 July 2010: Send her another message, but don't push it's her turn to say something to you. If she doesn't forget about her and move on. "Don't worry de happy!"... (read in full...)

What do you find is the best way to make sex really romantic, passionate and emotional?

Q.   I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most ...

A.   6 July 2010: First I think I've had a couple of really good connections. First of course I was in the mood. I wasn't that spontaneous crazy sex. It's like after a romantic dinner you have all the time in the world and we both know it, drinking a glass of some... (read in full...)

What reasons whould my ex-girlfriend have for unblocking me on facebook?

Q.   Well me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago after dating for 7 months. When we broke up it was really more of a "break" if you will, and we were just being friends during the break. She didn't act like herself at all during this time, ...

A.   6 July 2010: Ah facebook! The devil's work (I have one too lol) First she blocked you for sure because she was mad and psychologically when blocking you on facebook helped her move on. I'm guessing she's moved on and now has probably realize she might have ove... (read in full...)

Opinions on drug use?

Q.   I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...

A.   5 July 2010: ups sorry! next time i'll look at the flag more closely ;) ... (read in full...)

Depressed after finding a used condom, can I regain my trust in her and continue this relationship??

Q.   Somebody please help me sort out this mess! I apologise for it being so long but there really is no other way to tell this. It involves a beautiful relationship put under intense strain by being forced into being long-distance for 6 months, and then ...

A.   5 July 2010: To me it's like you gave up your dream job for a girl?! I'm a little bit cold and objective and so I think a career should come first in our 20's. I think that even if you stay with her in some years you will find yourself naturally in a r... (read in full...)

Recent feelings for my best friend, could she feel the same way?

Q.   [OP's Original Title] So for a while now I've been questioning my sexuality. I always sort of assumed I was straight, and I've had two boyfriends, but lately I've been attracted to my best friend. We've been friends for a year now but we are very...

A.   4 July 2010: So she said she thinks that it's natural for two women to be together sexually. I'm guessing she's a very secure person and is very liberal. I think you should try to bring up casual conversations about bisexuality see how it goes and let her know... (read in full...)

Opinions on drug use?

Q.   I would like to know your opinions about drugs (including alcohol and tobacco the legal ones). It is a kind of relationship factor people have strong opinions about people that use. I'm interested because there are so many different cultur...

A.   4 July 2010: It's all about being responsible, and knowing when to stop. Problem many people don't know when to stop so laws come in... ps.: I've been to England a couple of times and you guys are nuts ;) I had a great time there! ... (read in full...)

How did he let go so easily?

Q.   *OP's Original Title* How did this happen? My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months. We'd known each other and been really in love for almost 2 years. I gave him absolutely all of me. We really were great together and always had fun and ...

A.   4 July 2010: I feel like I'm in your bf position... I'm going to break up with my boyfriend. A month ago I said to him I was feeling a bit different about us and he got a bit depressed that week, I saw that he didn't study much that week and his grades were ... (read in full...)

Help! Sex with my bf is a chore!

Q.   I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend any more and it's really getting me down. When I'm alone and I think about sex it turns me on, I even have erotic dreams but when I put him in the situations its like all feelings of passion and want fade. ...

A.   4 July 2010: I feel like that to with my bf, It used to be so good... I have no idea what you can do, I'm going to break up with my boyfriend so I'm giving up on him. I feel shitty because I fancy myself with other men. Maybe i'm a b**** I'll live with that... (read in full...)

This other guy guy has qualities my b/f doesn't have do I break up with my b/f?

Q.   Hi, well 2 things. First I'm 21. I'm in a relationship right now for about a year and a half. Everything has been great till now. I've been thinking on breaking up with him for some months now, but now I'm sure: he doesn't make me laugh, we don...

A.   4 July 2010: I like my boyfriend so much that I've ignored my feelings these past months so his grades won't suffer (we broke up once and he got very depressed so I can't do that now that we've been in tests and exams since May). I'm so down because of that... (read in full...)

Possible heroin addicted boyfriend

Q.   my boyfriend used to be addicted to heroin before I met/started dating him. I believed that he had quit since he went through rehab and such, but he has rather large abscesses on his arm that he's going to get lanced. there are no cuts or...

A.   4 July 2010: Be careful, heroin is a heavy drug and hard to quit. I think if you are asking this it's because you think he is using, if you think he is using it's almost sure he is. You as any other woman have instincts, use them. Be strong find someone... (read in full...)

I want to tell my cousin about the feelings I have for him!

Q.   My cousin and I are both 16 and we always have a lot of fun together. But, 2 years ago i started getting sexual feelings for him. I would like to tell him but i am not sure how he would react. We dont see eatch other much (mabey about once a year) ...

A.   3 July 2010: Sorry to say, but you should try to ignore those feelings. It's very probable that if you say or do anything, since he is family you will drive him away, and at least you have a friend. I may say I've had crushes on 2 of my cousins, both are very... (read in full...)

He calls me beautiful and then oggles other girls!

Q.   i have am very young but i have roblems getting over how my boyfriend used too look at girls, we stopped talking to them we promised to eachother that we would talk to none of the opposite sex.. but i am always hearing he talks to my friends and ...

A.   3 July 2010: sorry it's funny, no offence! Guys will look at other girls even if they are dating the sexiest woman on the planet. An woman also look at other guys. It's human and natural. You are young, let me give you a great tip to be the best girlfriend i... (read in full...)

Any advice on what to do in the bedroom on our wedding night? I'm still a virgin and have no idea what to do!

Q.   Hey guys, I'm 18, a second year student... and getting married in a week! But lately I've been stressing over something... I'm still a virgin, and I mean text book definition "virgin", and I have no clue what to do when it comes time to head to ...

A.   3 July 2010: It comes naturally. Is he a virgin? My first time was with an experienced guy, we had wine, talked for several hours till I was comfortable, things went slow and it was all about me. Your case if he isn't a virgin it will all be about you, he ... (read in full...)

I hate performing oral sex, but I like receiving it. Am I selfish?

Q.   I have tried oral sex numerous time, but I still hate it. I don't understand how anyone can enjoy performing oral sex on a man. I feel sick, I get a sore throat, my jaws hurt, the taste is awful and the sight of semen make me want to vomit. My b...

A.   3 July 2010: Not selfish at all. I understand the jaws hurting the taste etc... It doesn't make me want to vomit it just gives me pleasure giving him pleasure. I like to turn him on. Now have you thought of using a flavored condom because of the taste an... (read in full...)

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