How do I tell my boyfriend how to give me an orgasm?
Q. hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex.... i ...
A. 6 June 2008: just tell him what you like and dont like, also trying different position helps. but you need to guide him or he wont know.. aphex... (read in full...)
Spotting, but I'm not due for another 10 days. What's wrong?
Q. Today on the loo, I noticed blood in my knickers or 'spottin' which was a browninsh colour. I am not due on my period for another 10 days. I last had sex 1 week ago and noticed I bled a little afterwards. This was unprotected sex. My last period was ...
A. 6 June 2008: ok unprotected sex no pill = can equal tada baby..go see your gp get a pregnancy test if that comes back clear then i suggest it may be something else so talk to your gp it may be embarressing but needs be must it could or could not be serious but ... (read in full...)
Been together for 4 months..is it too soon for a baby?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby. Is it to soon? Am I too young? I've known my partner for 4 years because he used to work at the stables I used to go to. I love babies so much i've always have ever since i can ...
A. 6 June 2008: well theirs plenty time to have children. but you and your partner would need to live together and see how well you work as a team as a happy home is the best place to start for a child, second is alot of hard work, third now with prices of things ... (read in full...)
My husband is making me have too many children!
Q. I need some advice. I am 8 months pregnant with my 5th child. my other children are 7, 5, 4 and 18 months old. My husband works extremely long hours and spends every second week working in another state. I was done having children after our t...
A. 6 June 2008: i kinda agree with collaroy, i know its not a nice idea you would be proposing but just because he wants a large family doesnt mean you have to do it remember its you carrying the children and being home with them so its your choice..just make sure ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend how to give me an orgasm?
Q. hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex.... i ...
A. 5 June 2008: hrm ide suggest buying a proper toy as its more safer and use wipes to make it cleaner so you dont get any nasty infections.. and on the whole bf thing you need to tell him what you like and dont like or their is no point..so im pretty sure you know ... (read in full...)
We had a fight and now he has gone-what now?
Q. hi everyone so this sucks me and my boyfriend have been dating for alomsot a year and this has been the worst fight weve ever had bc he wanted a blow job and i wanted sex so i threw a fit abt how it wouldnt b fair tht he got off and i didnt so he ...
A. 5 June 2008: ok when your having arguements and almost thinking of calling it quits a baby should be the last thing you should be thinking of right now because not only do you and your partner need a stable enviroment so does a baby and its alot of hard ... (read in full...)
Sexual position and pains.
Q. HI..When my boyfriend and I have sex in most positions its great..however when he enters me from behind i always get a really sharp pain and have to switch positions..any ideas as to why this happens? Thanks! ...
A. 5 June 2008: because you get a deeper penitration and he is most likely hitting your cervix so tell him to be a little more gentle and it should be fine :) aphexy... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have a MFM threesome, but I do not want to...
Q. my wife of 10 months wants to have mfm threesome but i dont think i want to. what should i do?...
A. 5 June 2008: if your not comfortable with the idea you just have to explain to her why you dont want to and she should understands if she loves you.. aphexy... (read in full...)
We have been together for only about a month and he already wants to touch me intimately, what to do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month and he is already wanting to touch me in private places, he is also wanting to have sex. have deep feelings for him, but im not to sure how to react to this, what should i do?...
A. 5 June 2008: mst welcome glad we have helped :) aphex x... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about pregnancy even though he used a condom?
Q. I foolishly had sex with my boyfriend at 15, should I be worried about my period? It's been 34 days since the start day of my last period, and 17 days since I lost my virginity. I have not had sex since. Is this a normal reaction of my body, an...
A. 4 June 2008: pharmacys sell them for about £5 and upwards their may be cheaper ones, or you could go to your gp as it is free..it could just be a fluctuation in your periods but if your worried then take a test..your cramps and tender breasts can be either ... (read in full...)
We have been together for only about a month and he already wants to touch me intimately, what to do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month and he is already wanting to touch me in private places, he is also wanting to have sex. have deep feelings for him, but im not to sure how to react to this, what should i do?...
A. 4 June 2008: ok majority of people regret loosing their virginity when their young so i would wait a while and see how you feel. we can only say its illegal but in the end its your own choice, my advice would be dont do it till your ready and dont let him push ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my cousin, we are both preteens! What can you advise us?
Q. I am 13 years old and my mother's sister's daughter is 11 and half years old. We are neighbours and from childhood we know each other. We used to show our p. parts and gradualy started fingering each other. Two days before we put it inside and did ...
A. 4 June 2008: ok sweetie you need to stop what you are doing because it is most likely illegal in your country and their could be serious consequences..and you are to young to be having sexual experiences..and i agree with uncle sneaker their is a chance via this ... (read in full...)
Should a 25 year old man take viagra?
Q. should a 25 year old man take viagra? im only asking this because latley ive felt very stressed and am finding it difficult to perform,the strange thing is i feel turned on but my penis wont become erect,what do you think the problem may be?...
A. 4 June 2008: well i agree with uncle sneaker, although being stressed doesnt help your performance because your think about too much whether you realise it or not so try and get into a relaxed comfortable zone and let go of all your worries and stress and just ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about pregnancy even though he used a condom?
Q. I foolishly had sex with my boyfriend at 15, should I be worried about my period? It's been 34 days since the start day of my last period, and 17 days since I lost my virginity. I have not had sex since. Is this a normal reaction of my body, an...
A. 3 June 2008: if in doubt buy a pregnancie test or go to your gp for one. it could still be your hormones..and ide advise if your going to keep having sex which at your age is young but go on the pill and use condoms for a a more secure rate of not getting ... (read in full...)
Took the emergency contraception, but I'm unfamiliar with it and my cycle! Advice please!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been making love but he has never cum inside me. well he did it just the other day but i took the EC on time so my worry was can i get pregnant since i dont know how my cycle goes and i dont use the regular birth control. ...
A. 3 June 2008: ok not using contraception ie condoms or pill can result in you getting pregnant whether or not he cums inside you as their is pre cum.. aphexy... (read in full...)
I think the guy I liked said no to going out because of a friend. Should I give up or hold on?
Q. I like this one guy and I asked him out but he said no.I think the reason he said no was because his freind likes me and he said something to him about it. Well sould I give up on this guy or sould I hold on? I think and all my freinds think that he ...
A. 3 June 2008: then your best bet would be to ask him why he said no? and if his response it to what you think then hes just trying to be a good friend but you cant help who you like.you will just have to talk to him about it. but if you dont want to push it then ... (read in full...)
A question about pleasure and pain in sex.
Q. this may be a weird one just to warn you :] when me and my boyfriend are together he likes me to slap him because it "turns him on" is this okay? I mean I don't want to hurt him if I do...I feel really bad about it. Is this like a pain fetish?? ...
A. 3 June 2008: OO your a bit young though arnt you ? im just hoping that if anything you are using contraceptive :| aphexy xx... (read in full...)
A question about pleasure and pain in sex.
Q. this may be a weird one just to warn you :] when me and my boyfriend are together he likes me to slap him because it "turns him on" is this okay? I mean I don't want to hurt him if I do...I feel really bad about it. Is this like a pain fetish?? ...
A. 3 June 2008: no i wouldnt say its a pain fetish unless he has more to tell you..everyone like a bit of a slap and tickle *hehe* so just enjoy be happy :) aphexy... (read in full...)
Can you please help me with a birth-control problem?
Q. Hi. I had the implanon put in a month about a month ago. My period during that time or the rod insertion was normal, now that it has become that time of month again I'm bleeding less daily but i'm bleeding longer. So it's lighter bleeding but ...
A. 3 June 2008: well i have the implannon too and i went through a phase like that too mine lasted near enough a two weeks but became normal again.. now im back to no period at all :) like one every 4 months lol..if you are worried go see your gp. although a month ... (read in full...)
Please help, I've got a new boyfriend, don't really like him and am still in love with the ex.
Q. i went out with this guy and we finished i still talk to him loads but i have recently got a new boyfriend and dont really like him and still in love with the other lad but i dont no what to do please help?...
A. 2 June 2008: well in my opinion your being unfair to your bf by making him think you do care and love for him when you dont..so you should end this relationship as your only making it worse for him..do you thin their is at all a chance that you and your ex may ... (read in full...)
Why do people think we are stupid little girls if we fancy a teacher?
Q. i may sound VERY naive right know but i have to ask this question,why do so many of you call us stupid little girls for liking(loving) our teachers?? we cant chose who we love you know our heart does.what if we really do have feelings for them.and...
A. 1 June 2008: no of course you cant help who you fall in love with. but majority of the time they mistake love for something else, as a teacher is a role model ie can feel like a brother or sister love. or just a forbidden crush to go against the rules..a teacher ... (read in full...)
I just found out about my best friend indiscretion and I do not know if I should get angry at her or simply just ignore it...
Q. My best friend complains that i dont tell her things. She wonders why ! I have just found out that something that i did tell her , she went back and told another person what i said. and she wonders why i dont tell her things. I'm so annoyed . I dont ...
A. 30 May 2008: no if you tell someone a secret then they should be able to keep it its not a hard thing to ask and expect from a friend..my friends tell me all their secrets and i would take them with my to my grave, its no one elses buisness but hers if she ... (read in full...)
Can a boy really change for a girl? Stop smoking, drinking, doing drugs etc?
Q. Can a boy really change for a girl? not look wise, but habbit wise, such as stop smoking, drinking and doing drugs and start trying to get a good education? i met a boy who i have known for 3 weeks, we are both 15 and he has told me he loves me a...
A. 30 May 2008: i agree with waterloo.. but if he isnt going to change for you or himself then their is no point in having a relationship that isnt going to work because of these problems.. of course you cant tell him to change his friends but he should be able to ... (read in full...)
She was perfect for me...but I still couldn't give myself to her.
Q. Hello, my name is Daniel. I'm a 24 year old male from the Bronx, New York. A few years ago, I was 21 and dating a woman I knew from a college class. We dated for almost a year and connected in all sorts of ways: she was friendly, cared ...
A. 30 May 2008: i dont know but, i had someone like that that wanted me when it suited them by what you said it seems similar.. did you really want to have sex with someone who wants you 100% or someone who only wants you 50%..and you will find a woman who wants ... (read in full...)
Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.
Q. Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10...
A. 30 May 2008: i think your trying to put all your problems behind you as opose to solving them hence why your mind is all over the place..do you think even if this married woman had feeling for you would she risk loosing her family ? do both of you have ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any advice or stories about how long it took to become pregnant after stopping birth control?
Q. I was on birth control for 8 years and I have been trying to concieve for 10 months. Does anyone have any advice or stories about how long it took to become pregnant after stopping birth control?...
A. 30 May 2008: ive heard it can take a year or two for some people but it all varys so i agree with country woman relax dont stress about it, also visit your gp to get some more helpful advice on the matter.. hope that helps aphex... (read in full...)
I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.
Q. This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemakin...
A. 30 May 2008: most welcome :) hope it helps x... (read in full...)
What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 29 May 2008: ok glad to of helped :) x... (read in full...)
We're too different but he wants more than friends. drugs, smokes and drinks at 15.
Q. I am 15 and went on holiday a couple of weeks ago for 4 days, whilst away I met a boy who was also 15 and lives 10 minutes away from me. We both hit it off and spent the last night just cuddling etc. However I am a total good girl, never smok...
A. 29 May 2008: dont feel bad hunnie that he has told you a truth when it has been a lie until you can see he has changed can you actually trust him..dont feel guilty.. you cant help what you want and its not much..just hes got problems and he needs to sort them ... (read in full...)
Can a dildo damage or hurt your insides if used wrong?
Q. Can a dildo serious hurt/damage your inside if used wrong or to hard..? Please i really wanna know cuz iv used one alot and afta im really hurt and it stings 2 pee until the day afta i end up avin 2 get in the shower and put hot water on it 2 ag...
A. 29 May 2008: ok emivia has a point but be careful how you clean it you could be alergic or having a bad reaction to the cleaning product ide opt for the ann summers wipes as they are neutral..yourself surely you know whats sore and whats not..but it sounds like ... (read in full...)
I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?
Q. Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...
A. 29 May 2008: well were not here to judge but geez keep it in your pants man!! its not a wonder your in the this mess and only yourself to blame..well you know it will haunt you for the rest of your life.. and your wife is gonna be mega pissed u slept with her ... (read in full...)
We're too different but he wants more than friends. drugs, smokes and drinks at 15.
Q. I am 15 and went on holiday a couple of weeks ago for 4 days, whilst away I met a boy who was also 15 and lives 10 minutes away from me. We both hit it off and spent the last night just cuddling etc. However I am a total good girl, never smok...
A. 29 May 2008: you have to stand by your morales on this one, rememeber you cant change people they have to do it on their own back..so ide keep clear until you know he has changed for himself, because this could only cause problems in the future. only you can ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.
Q. This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemakin...
A. 29 May 2008: crap i posted it twice omg i look so dense sorry lol... (read in full...)
I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.
Q. This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemakin...
A. 29 May 2008: oops forgot to add web site lol http://101-sex-positions.com/ x ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.
Q. This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemakin...
A. 29 May 2008: oops forgot to add web site lol http://101-sex-positions.com/ x ... (read in full...)
I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.
Q. This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemakin...
A. 29 May 2008: why not go to ann summers and see if anything tickles your fancy. why not try ice cubes whipped cream chocolate fruit. outfits handcuffs..vibrators, handcuffs, blindfolds...lol goes on and on..how about checking the web for different positions ie ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me? Are these the signs?
Q. I have known someone for a while and we are quite close. He always compliments me everytime I see him but never mentions my body or looks. He says I look well, am clever, ace, great etc. It's everytime I see him but when he says this he looks away ...
A. 29 May 2008: its sounds like its quite possible but with him being shy and such like he maybe doesnt have the nerve to say what he thinks..but you can either stay as you are and hope he will do something or you could take a chance and ask him to dance ;) ... (read in full...)
Is she rejecting me? She said our friendship was more valuable than a relationship!
Q. My dreams are finally coming true, I finally got the girl I like to talk to me! We are so close, to each other, but she said this "Our friendship is more valuable then a relationship, I like u but id rather be ur friend" is she rejecting me? What ...
A. 28 May 2008: maybe she rather have you a friend than none at all encase it didnt work out. i know how that feels. she is rejecting you but only to protect the special friendship you have and she doesnt want to loose that or you if a relationship went wrong, or ... (read in full...)
How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test?
Q. How long should you REALLY wait to take a pregnancy test? When I was taught, they said 4 - 6 weeks. But everyone on here seems to be saying "in a week" or "leave it 2 weeks"! Which surprises me. Does anyone have the actual medical knowledge to tel...
A. 28 May 2008: well it depends on the pregnancie test you buy they all have instructions on them telling you how long to wait and how to do it some may be once you have missed a period other two weeks from intercourse. i was always told to get a better idea wait ... (read in full...)
What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 28 May 2008: every women is different thus trying different techs as is men. so try it out if you think you mite like it and ask her opinion if she wants to try it and if she likes then keep doing it lol.. hope that helps aphexy... (read in full...)
How can he move on like that and just stop caring?
Q. I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We ...
A. 28 May 2008: i think hun it was fun whilst it lasted it was exciting and naughty. so maybe he got carried away and now their is a possibility that he may loose his family he has relooked at his situation and decided he wants his family..he may have cared for you ... (read in full...)
What's the name for this position?
Q. what's the name of the sexual posistion where you place the lady's legs on to a man's shoulders while he kneels down during intercourse?...
A. 28 May 2008: you would be correct daniel its called the butterfly but different places can have different names but its mostly associated with the butterfly .. aphex... (read in full...)
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