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writes:I need urgent help on this question....There is this lad and he has a girlfriend how is also a friend of mine, but lately he has been flirting with me loads and some of my friends have commented and said oh I think he fancies you and im like how can he, coz he had a girlfriend...and i think i am startin to like him a tiny bit, but i dont want to get involved in a love triangle !!! help!
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (24 May 2008):
 You have a few options. You can ignore it, you can tell him to stop or you can talk to your friend. If it goes to far it won't just be your friend who will be hurt.
Your friend might and probs will be hurt if you tell her but you can say that your friendship ment that much to you and you didn't want her to get hurt.
Remember no boy is worth losing your friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): I was the person who sent that question in and I will explain it in a little more detail, his girlfriend dosnt really talk to him or hardlys looks at him so I think he is beginning to stray away, he was a good mate of mine and i just went along with the flirting act but recetently i found out he had a girlfriend and am not really her best mate or anything im just in one or two of her classes but she is really nice and i would hate to upset her. but i cant help what i feel and maybe he cant neither. but even if he does leave her and then asks me out, i wouldnt know what to say, because i would like to but i wouldnt want to be backstabbing my friend (his girlfriend) ??????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Don't do anything. Imagine how hurt you'd be if you found out your boyfriend was flirting with other girls? Your friend may not forgive you if you made a move on this guy while they were together. It could be that you're developing feelings for this guy just because he's giving you attention. At your age, boys are never worth sacrificing friends for. Is it worth throwing away a friendship for a guy who obviously doesn't care about his girlfriends as he's willing to flirt with other girls?
You can decide whether or not to tell your friend how her boyfriend has been acting. She will be hurt if you tell her but she will end up being hurt by this guy at some point along the way anyway. Just make sure she doesn't lose a boyfriend and a friend at the same time.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (24 May 2008):
 ok well you could have a few options . ignore it. or tell him that your friends and that sometimes you feel hes acting towards u a little unappropiate. or talk to him that your friends have mentioned this and you were wondering if it was true and if it is then squander it before it goes to far. as i see this is not what you want to be involved in..or dont be in contact with him.. thats the only opinion i have on the matter sorry it couldnt be more helpful aphex
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