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Sex tips please for a first timer.

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Question - (21 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please.

We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too.

Thanks

xxx

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A female reader, askhayley222 United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

askhayley222 agony aunterm... try combining a hand job and a blow job.

and for the first time thing, all you need is confidence :)

just watch a couple of chick flicks, you'll get the idea ;)

hope this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

Just use both ur hands and mouth. they will love anything

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A female reader, Jeanine1234 United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2008):

Jeanine1234 agony auntAny bj is a good one, to be honest i think you should go for it when your both relaxed and in the mood.

Aslong as you dont bite his penis he'l love it

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntok heres a girls view :P ..ok first you both have to be in the mood for it, and why not try some sensual kissing wrist, neck and just a little below the ear are usually good spots to find, why not try some ice cubes or whipped cream..you need to relax and enjoy this as much as possible.since it be your first time i would say have some lubricant close to hand just encase..ask him what he likes and what you like thats one of the best ways to enjoy it even more..try different positions. as for bjs not much to say as all men are different though use mouth and hand at same time for maximum effect..spicen it up why not try the hot and cold method wen giving him a bj have ice cubes and warm liquid may i add both items are to be placed in ure mouth hot one minute cold the next works for some but not all..and please be on birth control and use condoms.. aphex

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntActually, I found that a bj is never as good as you think it's going to be, no matter who is giving it. And there were quite a few before my present partner!

General advice: I suppose "wait until you get married" is out of the question? I thought so. All right.

Don't rush it. Don't let him rush it. Don't get hung up on one act (e.g. the bj), because what you need is variety, not skill at just one thing. Be sensual rather than sexual. Take time and trouble over how you dress - and how you undress! Be visual, not just tactile. Tease, tempt and tantalize. Use your whole body, and use all of his.

Oh, and BE CAREFUL.

Enjoy.

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A male reader, Mr Tips United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

just do what you do you will find out what each other like as time goes by, you cant get tips to be a great lover you just are or not. one other thing a bj is a good bj there are no bad ones.

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