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Is it normal being turned on by incest?

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Question - (23 May 2008) 22 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2013)
A female United States age 18-21, *iva girl writes:

i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?

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A male reader, ritesh1 India +, writes (23 April 2013):

I will suggest everybody to keep themselves out of mind to these cheap thoughts. ya, i know its diffulcult task. but its very deteriorating. i have lost my so valuable time where i could do some great by thinking so. and the worst thing is that once if u r trapped its very very difficult ti come out. so better is that be sweared for even not searching it on net and not thinking it anymore. i have been a victim. its my strong recommendation that just keep urself away to these thoughts.

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A male reader, Chad Kaplan United States +, writes (16 March 2010):

Well My mom aways had a nice body but I never looked at her in that way. When I was 11 she use to ask me to put Sunblock on her body... after some time I started to feel really weird about it and I had many fantasies about it making me realize how hot and attractive she was. I think I need some help.

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A male reader, hannibalbrown United States +, writes (28 May 2009):

hannibalbrown agony auntPsychologically it is normal, humans go through the oedipus and electra complex causing a person to be attracted physically or mentally to their mother or father. I find incest erotic but would I do it personally, no.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

Its normal to be turned on by incest. I was turned on by my mother. I was in my teens. She was my best subject for masturbation. But that was all. After i got married one day me and my wife were seeing a incest movie about mom-son. I was absolutely turned on by this. When my wife enquired i told her about my fantasy. She asked me if we did anytyhing. She said that mom was actually very sexy. She then advised that we act as mom son for the night.We did so. That was the greatest sex of my life. We still do so once a week. This has helped me live out my fantacy but hurt no one.

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A male reader, i_bored_2 United States +, writes (24 September 2008):

no its not weird i am 20 and im turned on by my mom, i would never actually tell her though

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A female reader, KUMKUM19 India +, writes (2 August 2008):

very common,rather true for a majority.dont you feel that there is only one relationship made by God--MAN and Woman.Rest are made by us.so very natural for incest attraction.the actual sex is not frequent just because of restrictions put by society and religion,otherwise i am sure it would have done in every home. Ladies be honest and say whether not you caught/noticed since adolesent age your blood relative men peeping you in bathroom or dressing room,touching or trying to touch your body particlarly your boobs masterbating on clothes. only few men have guts to accet this but most of the men have tried with their mothers and sister and fantasized sex with them even only for one time. i am 48 and my hubby 50.we were loosing interest in sex. then one day when we were wathing an incest B.F. showing sex between yonger brother and elder sister,i noticed he was enjoying it more than any other film. on my enquiry he revealed that since he was 14 he was very fasinated by the body of his 18 old sister kamini. he used to see her naked when changing clothes in dressing room by a hole in door and masterbate with her undr garments.he confessed he wnted to do real sex with her but never tried a he knew this was wrong.that day he requested me to act like his sister when we enjoyed sex. he was calling me didi and i was calling him brother.that was the greatest experience we both had till that day. this has not changed his relations with his elder sister as he always behave with her with respect and she does not know about his fantasy but we use to enjoy this fantasy once in a week.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008):

The Times of London published an article written by a woman with a headline that said she had sex with her brother, and doesn't feel guilty about it. The article appeared July 15. The woman described a loving, sexual relationship with her older brother, who she said she absolutely adored. The link is below:

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article4332635.ece

Bottom line is that incest occurs more often than people think. Read the article for yourself and see.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

It's normal to be turned on by something as forbidden as incest. Just don't be like some of the other girls on this site who have had sex with their brothers, dads or uncles, or other male relatives. That probably would be a bad idea. Fantasizing about it would be ok, as long as you don't act on those fantasies and start developing an incestuous sexual relationship with one of your close relatives, because that could really, really complicate your life, and theirs as well.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

Thanks DivaGirl for the update. You've put my mind at ease. As I said, your thoughts are your own, as long as your not practising incest, or watching it in real life, there should be no problem with your "hobby".

However, one point to remember. Often in life, we wish to act on our fantasies. This would not be a good thing. If you find yourself embarrased or humilated by this whole issue, I would suggest you find other things to turn your attention and desires to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

Because incest is forbidden in most societies, it has a "taboo" factor, and that is what turns you on. It is normal to be turned on by something that is forbidden. So I wouldn't worry about it UNLESS you also want to act upon these forbidden thoughts. Just out of curiosity though, what type of incest you refer to?

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (24 May 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntYOu're Welcome anytime... !!

I'd be pleased if you decide not to Surf Incest on the Internet.. It ruins your whole life and can be very Hard to handle..

G'day Diva.. :-)

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A female reader, diva girl United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

diva girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you "a decent 1" for understanding!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

Hi Diviagirl,

I wish you'd get in touch. As you can see we don't care if you get turned on by incest. That's your personal business, the things you think in your head. It's your secret and there's nothing wrong with it.

It's just the looking and watching thing that's got us worried. Please update. We won't be angry, we want to help. Don't worry we don't know who you are, we can't find you, we can't do anything about it. We can't tell anybody. It'll still be your secret. Get in touch soon, OK!

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntAs Waz says, many of us have had weird and even perverted thoughts at some point, particularly in our teens.

You need to keep in mind that although there may be some debate on just what constitutes incest, incest is considered illegal and immoral by almost all societies in almost all countries - and always has been. There are very few people who would say that incest isn't fundamentally wrong.

So, care is required if you are finding that the fantasy of incest is a turn-on for you. Perhaps, rather than try to push it out of your head completely or feeling guilty about it, you should try to work out what exactly it is about incest that you find a turn-on? It's far easier to deal with something (or to discover that in fact there's nothing that really needs dealing with) if you understand the reasons behind it.

There's no doubt that incest has fascinated people for centuries - right from ancient Greece with the story of Oedipus and his mother, and probably even before that. Such stories are regarded as "tragedies", and nearly always end in disaster of one kind or another. And yet readers and audiences have been fascinated by the subject. You aren't alone in having an interest - just avoid it becoming a reality, because that really would be a tragedy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

Collaroy is spot on. I am worried, can you let us know a bit more about this, i think you are a victim hunny and i want to help.

take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

At your age, your hormones are all over and this is another way of your body experimenting honey. But please remember that this is not a normal thing to be involved in (incest) so NEVER take your fantasies any further, as it can cause so many problems. So be mature about this, and don't land yourself in trouble.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntits not good hunnie in most countrys its bad..watching it and doing it is just as bad as each other i would contact youre gp about this and talk to him about how you feel about this no one is judging you they just want to help.. aphex

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (23 May 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntTo everyone :- I think shez watching it on the internet, not in her Personal life... !! Plz throw light.. !!

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A female reader, kittikat United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

kittikat agony auntAgain, who watches incest take place? If you're watching it at your age, then you're pretty much a victim. I mean, it's not something that is just out in the open everywhere you look. It is concerning. When does one encounter "incest" in a setting where they're "watching" it? I'm confused. Do you mean that you fantasize about incest? You and a family member? Thinking about it is pretty normal from what I've learned and read. Or are you actually, physically watching family members have sex inappropriately? Hard to give advice on this one. Fantasies are one thing, but, are you really watching an incestual relationship? At 13-15, I sincerely hope that you're not in an environment where you're exposed to any kind of sexual act. I'm not a prude, but damn girl, you don't need to see shit like that. Please expand so that we can provide better answers.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (23 May 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntIncest is NOT what anyone would ever appreciate.. !!

If you were to take my advice, stop searching for it on the Internet or reading incest stories... At your age, you might be tempted to try it.. Trust me, it won't be as good as it seems right now... !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

I agree with you 100% Collaroy.

Just where are you seeing these kinds of things? People get turned on by all kinds of thoughts and there's nothting wrong with that.

But thinking is one thing, seeing is something all together different. You should get in touch and tell us more.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (23 May 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

this is most worrisome. I pray that you don't actually witness incest in your household .

I'm hoping big time that this is just a fantasy you want to explore, but I fear that at your age you are actually witnessing this.

Please tell us as it is important for us to know if someone is being abused in your house.

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