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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 An eye for an eye.
What goes around ,comes around.
He deserved to be paid back with interest! LOL!
He needs to be taught a lesson.
He reaped what he sowed.
I won't judge you.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Well, I think it may be rather empowering for you. You're putting yourself in the driver's seat and making it clear that YOU are calling the shots. Playing with the mouse before you kill it sounds like fun.
But don't make a habit of this kind of thing. You could become a real manipulative bitch if you get used to fooling around with mens' emotions. Try not to play games: it can be very destructive of relationships.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 End it now. Don't stoop as low as him. Always keep your standards. H.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTa. It does seem wrong but it does feel right when I'm doing it. I suppose I've always done the right thing in the past but honestly sometimes I wish I would have done the wrong thing occasionally. Being a goody goody feels like being a fool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Just end it with him, if this is what you're planning to do. Yes, revenge can feel good when you've felt so used, but you're only making yourself as bad as he is. Why sink to his level? It's childish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): What benefit is there apart from revenge. Be the better person and you will feel good again.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Yes, you are wrong in doing this. Since you have determined he is stringing you along, the best course of action is simply to end it. Doing that is always wrong. Another wrong does not make a wrong right.
Take care.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Game playing is never a good idea. The best revenge is living well. So end it, be a good person, take the high road and get on with your life.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (19 May 2008):
 well honestly in my opinion i know hes hurt and upset you but you dont need to go to his pathetic level your much better than he is and can do so much better..you dont want to make yourself feel lower by going to his standards so ide say break off with him and be happy knowing that youre way much better than hell ever be. in other words do unto others that you dont want done to yourself hope it helps aphex xx
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reader, Tremor +, writes (19 May 2008):
 I would suggest you just break it off. Don't sink to his level.
Revenge may be sweet, but there's no dignity in it, and by stringing him along you are just as bad as he.
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