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Is he gay and why would he lead me on for three years?

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Question - (23 October 2023) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been talking online long distance to man for over 3 years now (was supposed to see him this past summer but my plans changed) and thought we had chemistry and all but.........

I've just learned that while he was in Spain recently he was picked up by a woman who suggested they go back to her house and he agreed only to claim that he was tricked and violated by her/him

He admits to getting a hand job and a blow job from her and claims "she" had anal sex with him which he admits turned him on but does not want to repeat again bc he said it hurt

MY ISSUES ARE..

A transexual woman is usually an ex gay man who wants to be a woman (and pay the woman role in bed too) not a gay man who just wants boobs (he claims she had implants) and likes to look like a chick right?

For it to be non consensual my friend should have said NO or STOP or DON'T....right?

I find it to be a red flag that he would go to bed so easily with any random person without knowing them a bit better (at least to be certain of the sex of the person)

I'm super confused and don't know how to feel about all this:(

Why would he talk to me for so long and also introduce sexting if he isn't hetero?

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