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writes:Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she dates that really burn me up. Like for example a guy she was dating for a bit bought her some chocolates and she threw them out in front of him cos they were cheap as she says and she doesnt like chocolates. Another time, a guy was buying her a drink on the street from a busker and didn't have the right change so he went back into his car to get some. She was so mad she said, that she went upstairs and locked him out of the building for a bit. With me, it shows too even as mates. We went to the beach, drove all the way there, and then after 2 hours of her tanning she demanded we leave and go home cos she had work to do she says. Beach is a good ways away so it burned me up that we traveled all this way to stay such a short time but she got really uptight so to make her happy I went home with her. Things like this. Now we havent been gettin on coss this is really startin to get to me. But maybe its understandable cos shes so gorgeous and its gone to her head. Maybe I should cut her some slack? Are all beautiful people like this in one way or another?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (2 August 2011):
 nah, she may be beautiful on the outside but she sounds ugly on the inside. you are getting nothing out of being friends with a spoilt princess like her. being gorgeous is not what has made her like this, it is people like yourself who enable this behaviour that is giving her the green light for brat-behaviour. you fancied her, probably still do and she is using this to her advantage (and to YOUR disadvantage!) when you said you decided to just be friends, does that mean that SHE decided to just be friends??
move on and get someone who actually LIKES you, they won't treat you like this. she's got no respect coz she thinks she's better than you
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 No, I have gorgeous friends, who are beautiful inside and out. I tend to drop the toxic friends; not worth my time and energy. You're just mates with someone who's shallow, selfish and self-absorbed. Why are you friends with her again? Oh, right, you thought she was beautiful. Wait, why are you spending time with her? If her behavior bothers you, don't stick around for it. Unless you're just stuck on the external beauty. Remember that "shallow" isn't concentrated exclusively in the physically beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): No. It's not okay for someone to be like that, "beautiful" or not.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 July 2011):
 This woman is a prime example of women who like to be treated like shit. She's very insecure, lacks confidence, and most of all, she seems damn immature. She may as well just be a blow up doll. Be smart. Dont chase... and always, lift some weights in the process.
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reader, hopeFUL_romantic_13  +, writes (30 July 2011):
You're stereotyping. Not all beautiful people are "narcissistic, rude, and conceited." No, you should not cut her any slack either. No one should act this way. You seem decent, and you don't deserve to put up with her smug attitude. Take her by the hand, maneuver her to the window, and say" you see that big fiery ball in the sky... THAT's what the world revolves around." Big-headed people anger me to no end. She has no right to think so highly of herself for there is nothing really special about her. You seem like a good friend, but she clearly doesn't appreciate it.
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (30 July 2011):
 No, not all "beautiful" people act this way. Believe it or not, there are some very attractive people who are humble and honestly don't think they are attractive. They are kind, and loving, beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. Unfortunately, your friend is one of those who knows she is beautiful and expects everyone to cater to her every little whim. As one of the aunts said, she is a true "princess". She's been spoiled and has come to expect everyone to jump when she says jump. Why do you want to be friends with her? What do you benefit out of it seriously? I couldn't tolerate being around someone like her. And yes, as long as you and everyone else continue to give into her every demand, she'll remain selfish, rude and conceited as well as being a pain in the ass. Is her company really worth being annoyed all the time? Think it over.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 July 2011):
 It's not OK for ANYONE to act this way. She's just a spoiled princess who thought she could take advantage of you because you thought she was gorgeous.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (30 July 2011):
 Urgh!! Dont put up with her crap, she sounds incredibly manipulative and arrogant.
I would never want to be associated with a woman like this..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): She sounds like a typical princess who's been told too many times that she's attractive and thinks she can get whatever she wants. Try bringing her down a couple of notches, not in a very harsh way though if you want to stay friends, but just to let her know that she's not the centre of the universe.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (30 July 2011):
 omg i hate females like her! She acts this way because shes spoiled. shes never gonna change till people stop catering to her
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