My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.
Q. My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The ...
A. 2 December 2007: Consider post-traumatic stress disorder. Maybe something terrible happened in her past, and she is afraid of it happening again, so she is running away from you, even though you had nothing to do with it.... (read in full...)
I'm 21, she's 17... Is this too much of a difference?
Q. im 21 and thinking of asking a girl out thats 17. is that too young? opinions please....
A. 30 November 2007: Wait for her to turn eighteen. Don't go to jail. LOL I don't know what the rules are governing where you live, I'm in America, but I'd still wait till she was eighteen. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him if he is still contacting me? Does he want reconciliation or is just feeling comfortable in talking as purely friends?
Q. I broke up with my ex about two months ago and we hadn't talked for about 3 weeks because I told him to leave me alone on several occasions. Then, he texted me last night saying he wishes me well. Then, I texted him back to say I was sorry for the ...
A. 30 November 2007: I agree with the first person, ask him his intentions, but if he wants to keep playing games, like making it look like you're the one who is still hung up, then I wouldn't bother. ... (read in full...)
She said no but I cant stop thinking about her.
Q. I am 13 and I asked out a girl i have known for 3 years and when I asked her she said no but that day i felt so bad i went to the office 3 times and i felt like i wanted to die but now I cant stop thinking abbout her what should i do?...
A. 30 November 2007: Find someone else. I'm sure you can find someone good. ... (read in full...)
My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.
Q. My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The ...
A. 30 November 2007: Both. Tell her you are there for her, but that it is up to her to come to you, so that she doesn't feel bothered. In short, tell her you are there for her, but then leave her alone until she contacts you.... (read in full...)
I thought this guy was different...but the ex txts and he goes running and he lives with another ex.
Q. So i have been dating this guy for one month but problem one: he has his ex girlfriend still living with him. problem two: he used to date a lass thats still after him and keeps texting him and wont leave him alone the other day he was with me ...
A. 29 November 2007: Let him go before it's REALLY hard to break up with him.... (read in full...)
I cant figure her out...when I'm gone she misses me but when I'm around she doesn't want to hang out with me.
Q. I have been going out with the same girl on and off for the past few years. I can't seem to figure her out. When I'm gone, she yearns for me and wants me badly. But as soon as I come around, she'll make any excuse not to hang out with me. What ...
A. 29 November 2007: She's playing mind games with you. Tell her to stop it. ... (read in full...)
I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.
Q. I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...
A. 29 November 2007: I don't know why yall split up, but what your husband has been doing sounds very romantic. Maybe you should go back to him.
As I've said before, I don't know why you split up, only you know that answer, if it was because of something major I ... (read in full...)
He isn't ever open about his feelings...should I tell him how I feel or keep quiet??
Q. I like this boy and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I can't ask him because he isn't ever open about his feelings. He goes around kissing girls on the cheeks and stuff but I'm the only one he kisses on the lips. I don't want to lose him as ...
A. 29 November 2007: Tell him how you feel. If he runs off he wasn't a good friend to begin with. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??
Q. Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ...
A. 28 November 2007: If you and your ex are still really good friends ask her how she would feel about it. Also keep in mind that females talk. Do you really want your new gf venting about certain things she hates that you do to your ex, and then just talking and ... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with a boy but my parents wont let me go to his house.
Q. I'm 14 years old, and im madly in love with a boy thats 17 and will be 18 in January and his paretns let him do what ever he wants.. Mine won't even let me go to his house. What do I do?...
A. 28 November 2007: I feel for you. This one guy liked me when I was younger, but I was older than him, like by two grades, and my grandpa wouldn't let me go to his house. These are your options as I see them:
1) Sneak out.
2) Lie and say that you are going over t... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so over protective and start to trust my bf??
Q. I think i'm a bit weird...you know, a bit to over protective with my bfs. When i have bf's i can get very protective. For instance i don't like him looking at other girls. Sometimes my mates flirt with my bf and i kind of pull him away from them ...
A. 28 November 2007: I don't like it when my bf looks at other girls either. He's done that only once, though I think. And my bf def. doesn't go out with girls at night or something like that. He knows that that is a no-no. lol... (read in full...)
He is an absolute angel to me...but he wont take me seriously.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months nearly 11 this friday. Hes the best ever but the thing is hes always saying i like other boys and it gets to me sometimes he says that he is joking but it hurts me deep down. Can you really fall ...
A. 28 November 2007: Either he isn't mature, or he's treating you like your some kind of little kid. Or both. ... (read in full...)
If he loves me...shouldn't he care how I feel??
Q. My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals all the time. He says he loves me but i dont know if he means it. He always goes running off to some other girl besides me. Ok one day another girl was crying because she wanted to go out with someone ...
A. 28 November 2007: I agree, let go of this guy. You should do what my friend did in a situation similar to this one. Tell him that if he wants to treat her special, and not you, that he can have her, and break up with him. See what he does. I bet he comes crawling ... (read in full...)
He is constantly on the internet or looking at hot girls on tv and masturbating. How do I talk about this without putting him in defence mode?
Q. I see my husband looking at other women all the time. We have sex the night before and the next morning his is on the internet or looking at some hot girl on tv and masterbateing. I am so confussed and it makes me not want to be touch by him. W...
A. 28 November 2007: He's probably always going to be on defence mode about this since he keeps telling you that it's not a big deal. It seems like you've been trying to tell him that what he does is hurting you, but he's just been blowing off what you say. He is a sex ... (read in full...)
She is unsure if she can trust me and continue with me because I confessed I cheated. Is there hope for us?
Q. My wife left me a year and a half ago. We decided about 2 months ago to get back together. But before we got back together I told her that I cheated on her when we were married....she did not know this when she left. Now she is faced with the issue ...
A. 28 November 2007: I respect your honesty. Be very open, showing her that you have nothing to hide. In short, do all of the things that you didn't do when you were cheating. Call her to tell her when you are going to be late, and the real reason why. Maybe give her ... (read in full...)
If I do not give him enough attention he has panick attacks or cries, being over-sensitive. How to deal with this?
Q. Hey. I don't know what to do anymore!I'm a mess. I am only 15 but i'm with this guy, he's prone to panic attacks and I've caused him to have three. I didn't let myself in for this! Whatever I do he cries or has a panic attack. A propper one as well. ...
A. 28 November 2007: I used to go out with a guy like this as well. He was the same controlling one who wanted to control what I wore, and didn't want me to wear makeup. I left him. He got over it and started looking for someone else to control. Let him go. You don't ... (read in full...)
Scared of losing my virginity.
Q. hiya, I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say a...
A. 28 November 2007: I'm scared of losing mine and I'm 21. Take your time. A guy will love you for you, not your vagina. ... (read in full...)
Why did he let me stay the night? Does he like me?
Q. hi,need some advice really,i really like this guy ill name '?' and i hope he likes me, well yesterday i was talking to one of his mates '?' was not there and i offered to take him somewhere to get something then back to his house,then his mate rang ...
A. 28 November 2007: He wants sex. ... (read in full...)
I'm dumping him, but I'm scared of being single... what should I do?
Q. I am dumping someone soon as he is controlling and tells me what to do. I am scared about being single again as i have had a tough life i though yes finally i have something good but it being snatched away. he has a daughter wit someone else ...
A. 28 November 2007: Been there, done that with the controlling thing. I had an ex who told me what to wear, not to wear makeup, etc. etc. He didn't even want me to wear chapstick. I had to argue with him for that. Anyways....how did you become overweight? My mom has a ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but she's lying about how she feels!
Q. hello. i have been going out with my gf whos 17 and im 17 for 23 months today,and i love her and i know some people say that im too young to know what love is.But i know that i love her lots.and a few months ago i split up with her bacause the ...
A. 28 November 2007: I know you don't want to lose her, but sometimes if someone's lying to you, and you know for certain that they are lying to you, it may be for the best to just let them go. My question to you is, how do you know she is lying about how she feels? And ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this?
Q. I have this friend that's a guy he was my best friend for 3 year then we decided to go outbecause we were becoming more and more closer and more and more jealous of like when he goes on a date with a girl or when I go on a date wit a gu,you know. ...
A. 27 November 2007: Time. Writing. You say that you have no one to talk to, what about friends? ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should ask him who this other woman is?
Q. Hi, So I'm a paranoid wreck at the moment. My boyfriend was working in England for the last 3 weeks. I missed him very much and I think he felt the same. He arrived back on Sunday and everything is fine. The thing is, this morning when I was getting ...
A. 27 November 2007: Just ask. Things should be open. My bf doesn't care if I look on his phone, and he is always willing to tell me who a certain female is. In fact, it reassures him that I still care for him if I'm concerned about which females he talks to. No, I ... (read in full...)
I know he has moved on, so why can't I?
Q. Well all these feelings started last night when I went to a concert, and saw at least 20 people who resembled my ex boyfriend, once of which, my friend was getting close with. It sort of hit home that I'm not over him yet, and I really miss how it w...
A. 27 November 2007: Funny how it's easy to love someone even after they've screwed you over/used you. Been there, done that. I'm sure someone better will come your way, and even if you are still not over him by then, just wait, love takes time, and when you fall in ... (read in full...)
My husband posts dirty ads to get off... Will this pattern repeat?
Q. I met my 2nd husband a year ago and we have been married for 4 months now. 5 months into our relationship i found a recent an email on his laptop to a female colleague where he was prompting her for an answer if he would want sex with her again as ...
A. 27 November 2007: Oh the old "I was a abused as a child" crap. Seriously!!!!! I hate when people use that excuse so often it infuriates me. Just because you were the victim of child sexual abuse doesn't give you an excuse to do stupid crap. I would leave him, because ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent
Q. My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married fou...
A. 27 November 2007: I don't think you are being selfish at all, but let me ask you this, would you do the same to her? ... (read in full...)
Me and my ex are still in love, but she has a boyfriend and "doesn't know" about getting back with me!
Q. Hey, I've split up with my gf after being with her for 3 months...I felt the relationship was not going anywhere and we now remain friends, my ex I was with nearly 2 years, me and her have been chatting and ive been going round there and talk...
A. 27 November 2007: Don't fall into this trap. Don't be the person who keeps waiting and waiting for the other person to break up with so and so, and then gets emotionally and sexually involved with them and ends up getting their heart broken.... (read in full...)
I feel a connection...should I ask her out??
Q. OK, this might sound really stupid, but I would like you to advise me on what to do at school. I'll try and be as brief as possible but here is the situation: There's this girl I like in my class, who I think might like me. I'm not sure but I have a...
A. 27 November 2007: Go for it. That's how my relationship with my bf started. He sent me a message online after we met telling me he felt a connection, and we were friends for about two weeks before we started going out.
As for things you do with a gf, you watch tv... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, and he beat me, how do I move forward?
Q. in june i made a very bad choice in my life..having been with the same man for 25 years.. a man i love so very very much ..mostly good years, not always happy years.. bickering, fighting and alot of silence .. now i see it was my life before and ...
A. 27 November 2007: There is no sense to this. What I see is a man who wasn't emotionally there for you, so you went to someone else. I'm not saying this excuses you cheating on him, but he still shouldn't have beaten you. And I think you look at what happened to you ... (read in full...)
Is there something else I can use instead of a condom?
Q. Is there something else i can use instead of a condom?...
A. 26 November 2007: No glove no love. ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 weeks pregant and really scared.
Q. This is a bit long, sorry but i need some help!! Okay, im 16 years old and in 2 months will be 17. My boyfriend is also 16 and in 1 and a half months will be 17. We've been together since we were 12 but only became sexually active a few mo...
A. 26 November 2007: What position were they caught in?... (read in full...)
He said he hates cheaters, yet I think he is one, how can I confront him?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now and he has always made a point that he hates cheating etc. I was recently looking thorugh his text messages ad found some flirty and rude texts exchanged between him and a girl who lives quite ...
A. 26 November 2007: Confront him, even though he's going to deny it. ... (read in full...)
We've know each other for ages, and now finally hooked up, but he doesn't want sex, any ideas?
Q. I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for three years (I’m 26, he’s 27). The reason it’s been “on and off” for so long is pretty much due to horrible timing. I was just starting a new relationship when we first met, then he was in one…I travel often ...
A. 26 November 2007: Did he get a disease when he was deployed that he doesn't want you to know about? Or is he waiting for marriage? ... (read in full...)
When I have sex with a man will I not enjoy it?
Q. Loads of my mates talk about masturbation and I tried it but it is really painful and uncomfortable when I fingered myself, is this odd and does this mean that when I have sex (with a man!) will I not enjoy it?...
A. 26 November 2007: Just enjoy your childhood. It will be many years before you even have sex with a man.
Or if you are really set on this, ask your girl friends how they do it, since they obviously act like it's so awesome. Tell them that it hurts you, so they don... (read in full...)
What can I do, I really want her back...
Q. Hello, I dated a girl for a year and eight months, I really loved her, though we are in the same university. She complains that I don't want her to meet my family and that I regard her as a school girlfriend. We broke up this year (Febuary) and I ...
A. 26 November 2007: Tell her how you feel, and improve on all the things she complained about you if she gives you a second chance, ie, introduce her to your family. ... (read in full...)
I just met a guy at work who seems interested in me...
Q. I just met a guy at work who seems interested in me. He is married but separated from his wife of 5 years. They do have a child together. I really like this guy and we seem to have chemistry something that I haven't found in any guys in a very ...
A. 26 November 2007: Why is it taking him five years to divorce her? Is he hoping for something, or is it because of financial reasons?... (read in full...)
Am I overweight? If so how can I get slimmer?
Q. I am a 15 year old girl, 5ft 10, and weigh 150 pounds. My parents say I'm overweight and that I should exercise more although I lead a healthy lifestyle, I exercise daily, I eat healthy. If there is any advice, how could I decrease my measurements ...
A. 26 November 2007: http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
I typed in your height and weight to get your body mass index, and it said that you are right in the middle of normal weight. You are not overweight at all. Normal BMI is 18.5-24.9 and you are 21.5, which puts you abou... (read in full...)
He said he wished I was near him, when I suggested visiting he avoided the subject however. What is going on?
Q. Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, I never fall badly with guys as i have trust issues from previous stuff. But when i met him i fell completely in love with him. I can think of no one else, In fact i know no one else in this...
A. 26 November 2007: These are mixed signals. This is what I am getting the impression of:
1) He wanted a booty call at three and when you were going to visit during the day it was "eh whatever."
2) He is cheating. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't go down on me anymore... Should I stop giving him head?
Q. hi,im in a stable relationship and have been for 2yrs until recently my partner loved going down on me and i him.it has been something like 2 months since he last went down and it seems he has no intensions of ressuming it,yet i have continued to ...
A. 21 November 2007: Ask him why he doesn't anymore.... (read in full...)
My ex is confusing me. What do you think she's doing?
Q. I have been hanging out with my ex. And we keep hanging out more and more. She flirts with me and gets jealous when I am hanging out with other chicks. It seams like she wants to date me again, because she is really flirts and likes to put her ...
A. 21 November 2007: How do you know that if you get back together she is not going to go back to the other guy again? ... (read in full...)
Is my friend bi curious?
Q. Hi, i have a best friend for the last 5 years we get on really well., last year we kisses for a laugh to wind my mate up and never been mention since.. but been few weird small talks and flirting she is married and last week we were talkin on the ...
A. 21 November 2007: Ask her if she's joking or not.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask a senior to my prom?
Q. OK, I have a few questions... 1. I'm a junior. Is it OK to ask a senior to a prom? 2. What if the girl has already attended a prom last year, is it still OK if I ask her for this year? Thanks lots....
A. 21 November 2007: I see nothing wrong with it.... (read in full...)
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