Is it possible to contract HIV by getting a tattoo?
Q. my boy friend wants to get a tattoo. is it possible for him to get infected with HIV? ...
A. 8 March 2008: Yes. Make sure the tattooist has an autoclave and ask him to talk about his sterilizing procedures on his equipment. If he refuses to, no sale!... (read in full...)
I feel like he’s disrespected me and I don’t know how to deal with it. Any thoughts?
Q. I dated a guy for 2 months before he left to work at a ski resort in Colorado for the winter (he made these plans months before we met, because 1) he’s in debt and the US pays more and 2) his ex broke his heart so he wanted to leave). Three weeks ...
A. 8 March 2008: I highly doubt that he'll be coming back in May....he sounds like he is all lies. ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad? I gave him a blowjob!!!!
Q. I am feeling a bit down coz I did something I don't think I should have but I don't regret it! I went out with my boyfriend (16 + I am 16 too) a day ago and we decided to drink.. I am a lightweight, I don't even have to drink much to get pissed!! ...
A. 8 March 2008: Don't beat yourself up over this-lots of women give their guys blow-jobs. See, the problem with women is this- the things that men do and are okay with, women do these things and hide them and talk about how gross those things are to their friends. ... (read in full...)
How can we make losing our virginities REALLY special?
Q. hey, I've being with my boyfriend now for 11 months, it's our year aniversery in 3 weeks and we are planning on losing our virginities to each other on the date we got together. He is 16 and I am 15, 16 in april, and i think looosing our ...
A. 8 March 2008: Of course he acts like it's something big for you. He probably isn't a virgin himself. I think that he is lying to you. Who came up with this "losing virginities" idea? You or him? I know how to make it really special-wait until marriage!!!... (read in full...)
It's my first relationship, how do I know if he's the one?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We are 22 and it is my first relationship. For the last two months I have been continuously questioning whether or not he is "the one for me." It often leads me to believe that he is not. Then I ...
A. 8 March 2008: Take a week of space from him. Call him every other day, maybe?
Or maybe both of you could agree to an open relationship, or to dating other people for a short period of time, but agreeing to keep in touch. ... (read in full...)
I worry so much about having sex, even after 5 years of being in a relationship. Please help?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are in a very loving relationship. I really am very happy but there is just one problem; sex. For almost 4 years of our relationship I had constant kidney and urine infections which meant sex ...
A. 8 March 2008: Idk about this. If he is being frustrated from not being able to have sex with you now he shouldn't have had sex with you all those times when you had your health problems and then he wouldn't have conditioned you to be this way. Question is though, ... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?
Q. I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to...
A. 1 March 2008: I still think you should leave the a**hole. He is trying to make you feel less than he is. ... (read in full...)
Something has changed between us.
Q. Hi, can somebody pls help? My girlfriend and I are going through a rough patch, just arguing about nothing really. I feel she is pulling away as the loving texts\mails she used to send have stopped. However, we are stil in regular contact but less...
A. 1 March 2008: love tactics sound like another word for games.... (read in full...)
My friend's bf is a liar and a cheater, he flirts with me and other girls when she is not around! What can I do?
Q. My friend's boyfriend is a liar and a cheater! She cares about him and is always helping him, even if he says he doesn't need help. Her bf claims to love her, even though he flirts with me and other girls when she's not around. Also, my friend has ...
A. 1 March 2008: You should tell her. And so she doesn't get immature about it (idk what type of person she is, but some females get this way)bring one or two of her other friends with her who will vouch for you. ... (read in full...)
What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend?
Q. What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend? Will I continue this commitment? please help me......
A. 29 February 2008: Ask him why he is not with her then.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to kiss him over his body but I'm not sure what to do or where I really need advice.
Q. My boyfriend wants me to kiss him over his body but I'm not sure what to do or where I really need advice, he's my first every boyfriend and he's had loads of experience, he's always kissing me and touching me but I don't do anything back, and I ...
A. 29 February 2008: pffttt. Don't explore him cos you're afraid he's going to break up with you. Explore him because YOU want to. ... (read in full...)
Something has changed between us.
Q. Hi, can somebody pls help? My girlfriend and I are going through a rough patch, just arguing about nothing really. I feel she is pulling away as the loving texts\mails she used to send have stopped. However, we are stil in regular contact but less...
A. 29 February 2008: Ask her where you stand. Ask her if she's mad. If she says yes, ask her why is she mad at you, and just listen. Think before you speak, and try to find something to make both of you happy. Repeat stuff she says in the form of a question to her to ... (read in full...)
She's due out of jail soon and is claiming to have "found the Lord". She wants to come home... should I take her back?
Q. Briefly as I can: situation I am 58, ex is 42. She is in jail {6 months} and will be getting out soon. I was married 20 years 1 [15 year old daughter] left. This woman has stole credit cards, bank checks over the 20 years amounting to $100,000 ...
A. 29 February 2008: Give her a chance. If she does something indicative that she never changed, something major, then let her go.... (read in full...)
Will brushing out your hair while wet give you split ends??
Q. One night i was in the bathroom getting ready to brush out my hair after i got out of the shower and my sister comes in and says i wouldn't do that if i were you.. and i was like do what? She said brush out my hair when it is wet. I asked why and ...
A. 29 February 2008: The internet says so, but Idk. I do it all the time.... (read in full...)
Will her male friends stop calling when they hear we are dating??
Q. Hello, I really like this girl Jessica, we have liked each other for about 4years now. But the reason why i didnt date her before was because she was really flirty to everyone and it made me jealous and i didnt see myself trusting her, so i gave u...
A. 29 February 2008: Past behavior is an indication of future behavior.
-Dr. Phil
But on a side note, you should learn to trust her if she really means that much to you. ... (read in full...)
I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?
Q. I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he ...
A. 29 February 2008: Trust your gut. Space yourself from him, and hopefully he might space himself from you. If that fails, I agree, talk to another adult about it. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and not sure who the father is!
Q. My boyfriend and I were seperated for a couple months and I started a short relationship with someone else. I ended up getting back together with my boyfriend because we have a kid together. I ended up pregnant and he thinks the baby is not his and ...
A. 28 February 2008: And if you weren't sleeping with both of them at the same time, then your bf is just a loser. He has no legal ground to take anything from you and he can run his mouth all he wants. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and not sure who the father is!
Q. My boyfriend and I were seperated for a couple months and I started a short relationship with someone else. I ended up getting back together with my boyfriend because we have a kid together. I ended up pregnant and he thinks the baby is not his and ...
A. 28 February 2008: The doctor can tell you the date that you conceived on, and then you can remember who you were with during that time. ... (read in full...)
She is always getting male calls....is she cheating??
Q. I met a girl of about 19 yrs of age, whenever am with her she receives a lot of male calls telling her to come over their place. Sometimes she will tell them that it is late that she will come the next day. After that she will tell me that the guy ...
A. 28 February 2008: Sounds like he is a high maintenance and if that is the case, then you need to go somewhere else instead of complaining about it. ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to ask her out when so may guys are doing the same and stressing her out??
Q. I really like this girl, and she knows i do. But i have never really asked her out. She is single right now and has 7 guys other then me who like her and she likes one of them and likes a couple others. She keeps talking about all this around me and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Ask her out. ... (read in full...)
He accuses me of flaunting myself...what can I do??
Q. I have a boyfriend. He loves me and i love him. Sometimes :O). Most of the time he is nice and easy to get along with, but, there are two things in our life that upset him deeply to the point where he shuts me out and doesn't speak to me for days on ...
A. 27 February 2008: I wonder if this guy you are speaking of, your bf, is a perve himself.
Or I wonder if he just has OCD.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is never interested in sex!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6months but he never seems that interested in sex. he says he's gone past that stage (hes only 30) and says it doesnt make people happy. i feel rejected in a way, that maybe i dont look good enough for him ...
A. 24 February 2008: One of my relatives had the same problem. Her husband had sex with her like once a month, and she felt unattractive to him. Everyone is different. Just accept him for who he is. Communicate your insecurities to him if you need reassurance.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him or forget about it and can I confide in my best friend??
Q. I've got a problem. I'm in love with a very good friend of mine. I hang out a lot with 3 friends of mine but I'm only going to mention 2 of them: Vicky and Colin The more time I spend with them, well Colin, the deeper I fall in love with him. He ...
A. 18 February 2008: Okay this is what will probably happen if you tell your best friend. She will probably tell him, which is what you need to do anyways.... (read in full...)
14 and worried my vagina is too tight to have sex...
Q. im worried my vagina is to tight to have sex, im only 14 but boys tell me its tight, it takes me so long to masterbate, even if i feel in the mood, is anything wrong with me?...
A. 17 February 2008: Then don't have sex.... (read in full...)
My bf is sweet when we are alone but makes nasty comments when his friends are near. I find it very hurtful. What to do?
Q. my boyfriend acts different around his friends. like he'll be really sweet around me, and say all the right things, and then when he's with his friends he'll be a total retarded jerk. But i dont say anything because i try to understand him, that he ...
A. 17 February 2008: I disagree. I don't think this behavior is understandable at all. Tell him how you feel. If he refuses to change his behavior, start saying mean stuff back to him in front of his friends, and then break up with him right there. His friends will ... (read in full...)
Can't tell my bloke I love him because of past hearbreak, help?
Q. i am in love with a guy. but i dont know how i am going to tell him because of my past relationships because they where really pain full especially my last relationships. it was very heart breaking...
A. 12 February 2008: This sounds like a defense mechanism. Admitting your true feelings would make you vulnerable emotionally, and you are afraid of getting hurt again. You can hold off as long as you want to, but eventually if this guy is a good guy, your heart will ... (read in full...)
If we argue my boyfriend will often call me by his ex wife's name, why is he doing this/
Q. I have a question about my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He is divorced (it was just in the final stages when I met him) and he is bitter about the fact that he had to split the proceeds from the sale of his house etc .. Anyhow, I have noticed that whenever ...
A. 11 February 2008: Maybe he calls you her name accidently or maybe something about you reminds him of her. Maybe they argued so much that when you and him start arguing he inadvertently calls you her.... (read in full...)
How can a marriage survive without sex or affection??
Q. My husband is struggling with impotence, with no medical causes,or known reasons. It suppose to be psychological,but we don't know how to go about that. He seem to feel very bad about this, but We just stuck,we have no other idea what could be ...
A. 11 February 2008: A marriage cannot survive without affection, but I believe that it can survive without sex. Both of you are experiencing natural feelings. You should both be reassurances to each other. He needs to reassure you over and over that he will not cheat, ... (read in full...)
What shall I do if it gets to the point where he wants sex??
Q. Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and here it comes.. hes 18.. im 14 . yes i know thats a big age gap but i really love him .. Everything has been great so far but lately we have been talking about sex alot (i have a extremely perverte...
A. 11 February 2008: That's what he has his hand for. ... (read in full...)
It makes me so jealous when my bf talks about celebraties being fit...what shall I do??
Q. My boyfriend talks about models and celebrities being buff and good looking and it makes me sooooo jealous. I try laughing it off or talking bout celebrites being buff myself but that makes it worse!! I really dont like it. What shall i do?...
A. 11 February 2008: I can be just as insecure. Just keep reminding yourself that it is you that he is with. My bf doesn't do that anymore after I told him it made me jealous. ... (read in full...)
Are my friends lying to me that he said I am ugly?
Q. I like this boy, but I heard he said I was ugly, although I have been told I am one of the prettiest girls in the year. Are my freinds lying to me??? His past girlfreinds are average looking and so is this girl from his training. So why have ...
A. 11 February 2008: Have your friends ever lied to you before? ... (read in full...)
He is abusive, I want him to leave, he won't
Q. I'm in a verbal and sometimes physical abusive relationship and I want out. I don't know what to do we are not married but we have a little girl together and he says if I make him leave he will take her and I won't see her. I don't have the money to ...
A. 11 February 2008: Lock the door. Make the jerk angry. lmao... (read in full...)
Is marrying my bf the right thing to do??
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years... he's Turkish... I'm going to his country to marry him in March... am i doing the right thing?...
A. 9 February 2008: You know this reminds me of that one scam, where this man met this woman in another country to marry her, but she had someone kill him off and then they took his money. ... (read in full...)
Am I too uptight about talking about sex stuff??
Q. Well i keep having a few girls say this and im starting to wonder if there right. They think im to uptight about sex stuff while talking. Well the tend to like to talk about sex related stuff a lot. And sometimes tend to drift into odd stuff that is ...
A. 9 February 2008: Perfectly understandable. I think that you're normal. You don't have to talk about those kinds of things if you don't want to. ... (read in full...)
How do I move on after seeing my wife cheating??
Q. My wife cheated on me last April. I walked up on it they where in the back seat on her suv at a bar. Im having trouble getting over it. At first she said they where just talking and a month after that i found out it was more. She tells me it was j...
A. 9 February 2008: I've never been married. But I have had a situation where someone told me to move on, yet they wouldn't clarify things all the way. I agree with the first person-counseling. But if counseling is going to work she has to be honest. And it sounds like ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 9 February 2008: I understand the feeling of being treated badly by someone, and then later on down the road still loving them. It's weird. The person I loved made me feel really safe, and it was a feeling that I hadn't felt in a very long time. I know you are ... (read in full...)
We have been dating two months and he is just too much for me.
Q. Ok now I know most women want a man who pays attention to them and kisses them all the time.... well i thought that is what I wanted.. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months and I feel like I am about to lose it.. He is always texting ...
A. 9 February 2008: Ask him for some space, or tell him that you are not comfortable with PDA (public displays of affection in regard to the shoulder thing), but also let him know that this doesn't mean that you are ashamed of him. Tell him that you love him, but feel ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend who's also my flatmate!
Q. I'm crazy about my flatmate. I'd jus come out of a 2 year relationship before uni. In the first few months my flatmate and I were best friends..he was always there for me, and I felt i had a friend for life. Then in November, we got very drunk and ...
A. 1 February 2008: Ask him what he is wanting. Best friends with benefits, or something real. Because you need to figure out whether or not u are fine with just casual sex if that is all that it has been for him.... (read in full...)
We've been in a relationship for 5 years... I'm not sure I want to be anymore. Any advice?
Q. Hi Everyone. I'm currently in a relationship but I'm really not sure that I want to be anymore. We have been seeing each other about 5 years in total. We don't live together and have no kids between us. We both have kids from previous ...
A. 1 February 2008: Sounds like you are just trying to please him. Either you feel sorry for him, or want to make him happy, or you just like someone being fond of you when you are not that fond of them. It could be all three, Idk. Either way, if you are not happy you ... (read in full...)
Now that we're goin out, he just ignores me
Q. Ok I asked this guy out cuz he seemed nice and I've known him for a long time. He was never mean to me...and now that we're goin out, he just ignores me!I've been gettin really peeved at him...the only time he ever talks to me is to ask me if I'm ...
A. 1 February 2008: Sounds like he is trying to make you mad on purpose. Or maybe he thinks that now because that he knows that you like him he thinks he is "all that." I'd ask him what was going on, and if he ignored me, I'd snap my fingers or something in front of ... (read in full...)
Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?
Q. My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says ...
A. 31 January 2008: I think that you made the right decision.... (read in full...)
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